Exhibition vs anxiety

[tr****]

So this is a bit rambly but I’m a trans man with an exhibition kink. I love showing off, I love being watched and I love the idea that people can see me and do whatever they want with my image or pictures. I’ve shared nudes online cause it gets me off, mainly on Reddit. However I still have a lot of anxiety about people I know coming across it. The chance is extremely low, since I posted in r/ftmporn but I still have a feeling in the back of my mind that this might come back to haunt me. But I also love the feeling of people (mainly chasers) perving on me ;). Does anyone else know how to navigate this?

[ke****]

i wish i could help but i'm struggling with the same thing lol. i had a decently successful nsfw *** for a couple years and just a few weeks ago i got a dm from someone claiming to have figured out my identity and threatened to tell my family/friends/employer and my anxiety got SO bad that i deactivated my account, deleting years worth of content. i lost so many connections/friends without a second thought. i'm regretting it now realizing it was likely just a troll but yeah, i'd also love to know how to manage anxiety as someone who would like to be able to show off

[Mo****]

27 minutes ago, kellyb99 said:

i wish i could help but i'm struggling with the same thing lol. i had a decently successful nsfw *** for a couple years and just a few weeks ago i got a dm from someone claiming to have figured out my identity and threatened to tell my family/friends/employer and my anxiety got SO bad that i deactivated my account, deleting years worth of content. i lost so many connections/friends without a second thought. i'm regretting it now realizing it was likely just a troll but yeah, i'd also love to know how to manage anxiety as someone who would like to be able to show off

If you have been threatened any any ! And you don't wanna that! You may want to explain to him/ her that illegal and you can start legal process and that will get you a lot of ***! You are protected by law . One of subs used to have similar kinks - I advised her to keep her face off ! Or to exchange it for nudes in return ! ! Or at least build some trust ! Otherwise ! Enjoy sharing yourself ! They can't hurt you

[su****]

I've had a similar situation as a subway guy looking for a dominant woman. They like to take you off-site, have you do tasks and send them pictures and then when you don't pay up their "tribute", they threaten to expose you to your contacts and post everything. I lost a few accounts myself to instant nukes, I sympathize.😞

[Ke****]

Has anyone started a profile or OF tht is faceless .. and has it been successful?.. I thought of doing this as a niche , but had this same anxiety and didnt know if its worth it.. do people even like watching if everyone is faceless or has a mask on

[FT****]

YOLO! The likelihood of people you knowing coming across your content is pretty low and if they do happen to see it 😏😏😏 there’s always that risk when share things either publicly or privately. Do your thing.

[wi****]

Free anonymous broadcast on aff. Some luck with getting callers too

[Oa****]

I also have that anxiety, I love showing off. But like kellyb99 I have also been threatened, they even reached out to my mother. So I am to scared to show off unless I can guarantee the pictures/videos are safe

[al****]

Don’t include your face.

[al****]

Or wear a mask. Number one rule about posting nudes online.

[su****]

Facts

[Dr****]

I have a NSFW reddit where I post videos of myself. I just leave my face out. I would also suggest if you have tattoos to cover them as they are identifiable. Other than that you're probably okay to have your fun.

[Ni****]

Very relatable. I love showing off too. Trans woman here, and while I know giving a man an erection is hardly a superpower, it's a power nonetheless, and one I enjoy wielding.

I long since changed my mindset to care only about how people treat me rather than worrying what they think of me. I share my face in nudes and rudes. What's the worst that would happen if someone who knew me did find out? Most likely, they'd keep it to themselves. It's possible some have already seen and done exactly this.

Surely the taboos of sharing naughty pics got left behind in the 20th Century. Doubly so if you're under the LGBT+ umbrella. Sex to us isn't something that we give up to society and organised religion so that it can breed us like livestock. So why are we still ashamed whenever we do something that isn't giving sperm a chance to meet ovum in private with the one person we are allowed to?

I'm doing nothing illegal. I'm doing nothing immoral by my own moral compass. My sexuality is part of who I am, and if people can't respect me once they know the details then they never really respected me to begin with.

And maybe, on some level, the risk of being caught is part of the thrill. Imagine someone who knows you does find the pics. Now imagine they like what they see 😀

[Newmasterhere]

From a Dom perspective, obviously I have had girls and trans do things and take photos and videos, but from my perspective, they are sacred, never shared never threatened, if the relationship ends those pictures and videos are deleted, always, every time. Because trust should implicit in this sphere.

[Newmasterhere]

If your sharing online, you have to appreciate the size and scope of the internet, unless your using your specific name or nickname, the likelihood of anyone you know seeing it is billions to one