MY husband everyday watches slutwife and does sexchats with them

[wa****]

I understood that my hubby is into hotwife Stories. Many years about 7 years. I Thought that he is just enjoying the fantasies in porn while he is jO.
No. I cant handle he is also finding them on internete in porn platforms and texting them pervert things . He so Much wanna be bull who fucks wife around. What Should I do with it? Its štarted to be irritated.
He Said that he wanna try 3 Some with woman. I refused. I Watch porn also a Lot But husband is overreacting. He says he Loves me. How can I handle tjis? Should I join him or just Leave his ass?
We dont have open marriage. Pls guide me.

[No****]

Doesn’t sound like you have the same vision of your future together. He is cheating on you

[Su****]

If he chooses his kink over your boundaries, the relationship is already broken. Better you accept this

[IW****]

Damn guys.. yall are shit at giving advice.
If you arent comfortable with something he is doing, and everything isn't upfront and talked about .. then have that conversation with him.. find out what is on his mind.. his intentions.. and vocalize what you are okay with, and not okay with. If things don't get better.. or if there are still secrets.. I would consider making it known you arent going to stay if there isn't transparency

[TiedKitt3n]

It says 2.5 hours before this post, they are in an open relationship on their profile?
I agree though, if your partner doesn’t respect your boundaries and everything has already been discussed in a non-judgmental discussion… and you both want different things, there may be another topic of discussion at hand to have next, unfortunately.

[Ye****]

Leave

[Sp****]

Just say you wanna be open and find a nice bbc like you want

[at****]

I’d really suggest open communication here, not just being clear about boundaries but also being honest about how all of this is making you feel. Let him know what finding those comments and the recent threesome suggestion has brought up for you emotionally, because your feelings matter too.
It’s also worth checking in with him and asking how he feels, what’s behind what he’s doing, and why this has come up now. Understanding whether something is missing for him, whether it’s fantasy, curiosity, validation, or something else, can help you both understand the bigger picture rather than just reacting to the shock of it.
But I also really want to add that you should never feel like you have to just go along with something that feels too much for you. If a threesome or the way he interacts online crosses your comfort zone, that’s important to listen to. A caring partner should want honesty and consent, not for you to agree out of pressure, ***, or worry about losing them.
Hopefully a calm conversation can help you both understand where each of you stands and what feels safe and respectful moving forward good luck !!!

[ti****]

Every relationship comes down simply to trust, communication, and respect. If you feel like you’re losing one.. talk to him .. he had better listen because there are plenty of us ours here that would…

[Sh****]

I think talking to him and setting boundaries and expectations would be the best start. Let him know how you feel.. don’t hold it in until it becomes a problem.

[Deleted Member]

First of all are u truly in love with him and second do u like other women have u ever tryed anything risky to spice up ur love life for him

[Deleted Member]

This is a typical case of a porn addiction which consumes him. I am sorry to say, but i would seek help in his place.

[Cu****]

You need to sort out your relationship. Set boundaries. But don’t do something unless you really want to. You have to make a choice. If that makes you unhappy don’t do it.

[Am****]

Do you sexy date night and do everything in your power to try and satisfy him? If so then good but some woman just get upset and will tell him no or not give their man affection which just makes me look to over thing to be happy. Know I agree you should want an open relationship just cause he dosent. But dose that mean you rather him leave altogether?

[DD0001]

Lol ... so ...
1. What are YOU doing on here?
2. Your own profile states that YOU are looking for kinky dates AND swingers
3. Your profile and past posts says you are looking for cyber fun.

You are either full of it, trying to gain interactions, or you dont believe that what's good for the goose is good for the gander.
Absolutely no issues with open marriage, but the hypocrisy in your behaviour is just through the roof.

My suggestion? Take a mirror out and take a good look in it. Then the 2 of you should sit down and either open your marriage up, close it down altogether and BOTH of you stop BS'ing each other OR decide to end the farce that is your relationship.

[pl****]

You need to come and let me fuck you so good and record it so you can show him what you are going to do as much as possible if he doesn't stop

[Ll****]

If the situation was the other way around he wouldn't stay because of his pride if you don't feel comfortable leave with your pride intact because if he loved you enough he would want you be happy as well put he's giving you a hint that he rather have other women than you tell his ass goodbye avoid diseases he can bring to you

[Lo****]

Ask him what you will get out of his plan, then tell him that you want to get as much or more pleasure than he has been getting.

[Sp****]

Yeah just leave his ass... Keep the rest
Or maybe just do the same shit

[Th****]

Tell him you want an MMF and already have a person lined up . See how he feels about that . If he reacts sketchy you have all the answers you need right there

[Ma****]

This IS really tough.
Kinda wondering how you both got here?
Mayyyyybe doing something in front of others, exhibition, could be an alternative kink to mutually enjoy?
Its hard to say, because it sounds like you want to stay together. Maybe its time to ask him if he does, too? And go from there?

Is kink and porn something that tou do together?
If not, maybe its time to explore that?
Did you meet as kinky singles, way back when? Or was this a new development?

If new, you could explore roll play, and other kinks, like restraint, or sensory deprivation, that mayyyyy suplant the hotwife fantasy.
But that is a big maybe, and not anything id fully hang any hopes on.

Id start with finding out if he does he want to stay in a relationship, and figuring that out for yourself, for that mater. Then if you both do, need to figure out what is ultimately important to you both. If kink is apart of what IS important to you, then definitely include new kink explorations together. And of course do some research on finding a councilor/therapist that is sex-positive (wont shame you both for viewing porn or participating in any kinky activities).

All that is just a scratch at the surface. But keep reading. Look on "fet life dot com" and create a blank profile (free) and type in search terms to find others that may have experienced what youre going through, and/or something cloae enough. Shoot messages to those that have written anything, and see what they have done, if they had not written any sucess stories you can draw from. And also maybe you can get a referal to a good kinky couokes therapist in your area?

[ol****]

You’re a bit of a paradox and corundum aren’t you- you state all these different things, but your profile is directly in conflict with them.

Like you say you’re not in an open relationship, but your profile clearly states open relationship; you ask for nudes of other people on this app, and say you like BBC - but yet you’re pushing the idea that your husband is the only one at fault.

I don’t know why you thought people would be so ignorant and naive to not look at your profile - which if your lying about the stuff, why, another point someone made is; why on earth are you even on this app to begin with.

It’s a fetish dating app, you will be engaging with people on the regular, and it seems you wan that, so what’s even the difference between your husband doing it.

If you are not in an open relationship, and are instead getting payback for your husbands behaviour, fine, but you’ve not really got a leg to stand on.

I would suggest you don’t frame it as you are going to dump his ass, given your behaviour on here your just as at fault - instead keep your peace, end the marriage and use this app to find what you’re looking for.

His desire for threesome actually involves you, but your own words on this platform sound like he is completely unaware - two wrongs don’t make a right as they say.

The thing is, you’ve known this behaviour about him for a long time, although he definitely breached it - was there any conversation, if you are actually in an open relationship; his actions just reflect that.

Most people who have open relationship, don’t fully understand the weight of their actions. It requires a lot of trust, a lot of checking in, and also maybe some involvement in activities - instead it seems to have become a “pass* to ethically cheat ( if there even is such a thing)

If you’re getting back at him, that’s not good, if you’re being genuine, his actions breach the marriage, leave him - but if you’re doing the same, you have no right to take the moral high ground if your profile is correct.

To be honest guys, I think this is a bot, or a person trying to get engagement, on a more serious note, it could be someone who wants to get pics of nudes to actually blackmail - as their behaviour seems to want to have sympathy, and the guys who are like “mmm you’re husband is bad, my dik can solve all your issues” kind of people.

[Th****]

Leave him, he can do better

[Th****]

2 hours ago, oliver6996 said:

You’re a bit of a paradox and corundum aren’t you- you state all these different things, but your profile is directly in conflict with them.

Like you say you’re not in an open relationship, but your profile clearly states open relationship; you ask for nudes of other people on this app, and say you like BBC - but yet you’re pushing the idea that your husband is the only one at fault.

I don’t know why you thought people would be so ignorant and naive to not look at your profile - which if your lying about the stuff, why, another point someone made is; why on earth are you even on this app to begin with.

It’s a fetish dating app, you will be engaging with people on the regular, and it seems you wan that, so what’s even the difference between your husband doing it.

If you are not in an open relationship, and are instead getting payback for your husbands behaviour, fine, but you’ve not really got a leg to stand on.

I would suggest you don’t frame it as you are going to dump his ass, given your behaviour on here your just as at fault - instead keep your peace, end the marriage and use this app to find what you’re looking for.

His desire for threesome actually involves you, but your own words on this platform sound like he is completely unaware - two wrongs don’t make a right as they say.

The thing is, you’ve known this behaviour about him for a long time, although he definitely breached it - was there any conversation, if you are actually in an open relationship; his actions just reflect that.

Most people who have open relationship, don’t fully understand the weight of their actions. It requires a lot of trust, a lot of checking in, and also maybe some involvement in activities - instead it seems to have become a “pass* to ethically cheat ( if there even is such a thing)

If you’re getting back at him, that’s not good, if you’re being genuine, his actions breach the marriage, leave him - but if you’re doing the same, you have no right to take the moral high ground if your profile is correct.

To be honest guys, I think this is a bot, or a person trying to get engagement, on a more serious note, it could be someone who wants to get pics of nudes to actually blackmail - as their behaviour seems to want to have sympathy, and the guys who are like “mmm you’re husband is bad, my dik can solve all your issues” kind of people.

Oliver here is right

REPORT THIS ACCOUNT GUYS
Just taking a moment to actually look at this account shows someone is fucking about here, this person is insincere and inconsistent and likely looking for reactions

If I had to guess, I’d say it’s a catfish…BEWARE AND REPORT

[mr****]

This is a fake account someone just looking for attention and interaction imo