What is the difference of feeling in real vs pegging

[le****]

A few days ago me and my friend were talking about the idea of “is there a difference in the feeling of being pegged vs the real thing, and how” and for reference, she is straight and I am gay and a bottom so we both have experience on on side of the spectrum, but not the other. So my question is,

is there a difference in the feeling of being pegged vs the real thing, and if so then what’s the difference?

[DeviantInside]

So… I don’t have experience of receiving either… so whatever I have to say should be taken with a heavy pinch of salt. But from what I have spoken to people about… there is a difference. In feel.. difference between a dildo and a cock. Difference in thrust… between a part of the body and something attached. Difference between the mental aspects and what it means. And that’s ignoring size (natural vs chosen), mutual sensation and enjoying the other’s enjoyment (most strap ons are relatively limited in transferring physical sensations from what I hear… but also might create more mental stimulation)…

So yes… different… neither better or worse. Just depends on what works for those involved.

[or****]

Interesting. I've been looking for a women that gets excited about Strap-on and pegging me. I love the feeling of being a submissive. Dont know the difference between the real thing. Never had real. Virgin ass sort of speak.

[Gr****]

There is some difference in how it feels. Personally i much rather have the real thing , anytime.. But description of how it feels different is impossible to make

[Ma****]

I ( female) like fisting a guy. If I peg ( dildo) to open him up then I use my hand to fist. My friend ( not gay)enjoys it but enjoys the real thing on occasion. He says they all feel good just differently. Dildo gets the job done, the hand gives him the warmth and feeling of desired and real gives the feel of extreme excitement due to it being taboo perse

[le****]

Pegging someone or being pegged myself is amazing and a feeling I just can’t explain.

I have a dude friend that loves me to fist him, and wow the feeling and the visual of seeing his hole open up to my fist and forearm is out of this world …. To be stretched, and pegged …. I want it A LOT!!! 😈🏳️‍🌈

[Yi****]

I also think it's mental. That's why I'm into role play. It makes everything feel 3 times better When i'm in character

[Deleted Member]

most toys don’t really match the “real” thing mainly due to temperature so i can’t say they feel the same but similar

[Em****]

I don't know I am not gay but I love my fat glass butt plugs. I love the feeling of being full

[Em****]

I have one in right now too

[le****]

Role play is hot, and it does enhance and intensify the whole thing

[Ol****]

I have done both, a dildo is rigid and unforgiving ,a cock flexes to fit you. A 6 inch dildo is less comfortable than an 8 inch cock and less tiring

[Fk****]

Hot, throbbing, feeling excitement /anticipation for their release vs. Not. In my opinion. It took some getting used to for me to even be able to get there without an actual human body there interacting with me. Definitely am an old pro now. 😅

[Ni****]

It's mostly psychological for me. Knowing that it's actually them inside me and knowing they're getting pleasure from being there. And if they ejaculate, knowing that they're leaving something alive inside me.

In terms of physical sensation, it probably depends mostly on the shape, size and texture of the strap-on being used and how closely it resembles those of a human penis. Also whether a condom is used.

The actual thrusting is going to be mostly the same. And in both cases, it's not just penetration, it's the weight of your partner's body repeatedly impacting on yours. A very different sensation to just using a toy.

It's true that, sometimes, you can feel the muscle contractions of your partner's orgasm, and a slight tickle from the fluid release, but this is far from always the case in my experience.