br**** Posted 17 hours ago Why do so many men on here claim to be straight and have only chosen that theyre attracted to women on their profile when theyre not? I had over 10 men like that DM me already since yesterday and I even told one that Im confused cuz his profile says hes straight and he legit told me "Im not actually straight" I get why ppl might hide their sexuality in some areas but this is literally a safespace Whats up with that can someone explain?
ph**** Posted 9 hours ago It would be a boring world without opinions... And different mindsets... Like I said theology
po**** Posted 9 hours ago I am not attracted to men as much as women for sure. I do really enjoy a smooth male body vs a hairy one and I really enjoy the penis. Penises are fun.
br**** Posted 9 hours ago Author 8 minutes ago, phoenixslave said: It would be a boring world without opinions... And different mindsets... Like I said theology Hate is not an opinion and this post is just about men who are gay/bi but hide it on here for some reason, i couldnt care less about the "opinions" of hetero loser men who have nothing better to do than get into others peoples lifes
BT**** Posted 9 hours ago ***r pressure and personal insecurities. I’m straight, but I can also look at another man and say he’s attractive physically. I’ve known a couple trans women that were/are centerfold beautiful, absolutely gorgeous when they wanted to be. Even after finding out they were trans I could still say I thought they were attractive. Does me being able to say that about a man or trans person mean that I’m gay. I don’t think it does because I’ve never crossed that threshold. I’m secure enough in my own masculinity that I can say another man is attractive or looks good as a woman. A lot of men aren’t, and I think it’s sad that a voiced opinion can be looked down on so harshly.
mu**** Posted 9 hours ago It could be that people are unsure when setting up their profile, therefore put interested in women. But after some time they may find out for themselves that they are actually bi but never update their profile to suit.
br**** Posted 9 hours ago Author 10 minutes ago, BTwiztd said: ***r pressure and personal insecurities. I’m straight, but I can also look at another man and say he’s attractive physically. I’ve known a couple trans women that were/are centerfold beautiful, absolutely gorgeous when they wanted to be. Even after finding out they were trans I could still say I thought they were attractive. Does me being able to say that about a man or trans person mean that I’m gay. I don’t think it does because I’ve never crossed that threshold. I’m secure enough in my own masculinity that I can say another man is attractive or looks good as a woman. A lot of men aren’t, and I think it’s sad that a voiced opinion can be looked down on so harshly. Thats true but here i only mean gay/bi men who want something sexual with other men but still choose to claim to be straight on their profile even tho its a safespace, hetero men and what a lot of them see a masculinity is a whole different topic
br**** Posted 9 hours ago Author 4 minutes ago, mungo37547 said: It could be that people are unsure when setting up their profile, therefore put interested in women. But after some time they may find out for themselves that they are actually bi but never update their profile to suit. I suppose that could be true in some cases
Di**** Posted 9 hours ago I also feel like there is not enough sexuality choices for anyone. Cause I am pansexual but there is not pansexual option.
br**** Posted 9 hours ago Author 1 minute ago, Dionisus said: I also feel like there is not enough sexuality choices for anyone. Cause I am pansexual but there is not pansexual option. Thats true im pan myself too
Laycette Posted 7 hours ago Because homophobia is still rife. Why? Because for a very long time society has defined masculinity not be positive traits like protecting, competitiveness and strength, but based on *** about what others think. Men are afraid to show emotion, softness, anything deemed feminine or same sex attraction. So men can be more focused on projecting what they are not, instead of what they are. This is very unhealthy. *** leads to *** and hate. Negative breeds negative. And in that environment you will not hear much truth and honesty until people stand up and speak their own without *** of what others think.
br**** Posted 6 hours ago Author 10 minutes ago, Laycette said: Because homophobia is still rife. Why? Because for a very long time society has defined masculinity not be positive traits like protecting, competitiveness and strength, but based on *** about what others think. Men are afraid to show emotion, softness, anything deemed feminine or same sex attraction. So men can be more focused on projecting what they are not, instead of what they are. This is very unhealthy. *** leads to *** and hate. Negative breeds negative. And in that environment you will not hear much truth and honesty until people stand up and speak their own without *** of what others think. Thats true and im aware but i still wonder why people on here who arent straight pretend they are even tho its a safespace
Cracker-1246 Posted 5 hours ago 99% of men are Bi. Still this day the world considers anything different taboo
DO**** Posted 3 hours ago i have so many straight men coming to me on here. i'm a gay trans man. either they're not actually straight or they don't actually see me as a man. i don't get it
Or**** Posted 3 hours ago Same reason trans men and women think that they aren't gay. Embarrassed I'd say.
DO**** Posted 3 hours ago 5 minutes ago, Orallyfx8ed said: Same reason trans men and women think that they aren't gay. Embarrassed I'd say. not all trans people are gay though. a lot of them are straight
br**** Posted 3 hours ago Author 12 minutes ago, DOGDILLINGER said: i have so many straight men coming to me on here. i'm a gay trans man. either they're not actually straight or they don't actually see me as a man. i don't get it Transphobia is probably rampant here too i wouldnt be suprised, but a lot of them are also probably just simply not straight
br**** Posted 3 hours ago Author 14 minutes ago, Orallyfx8ed said: Same reason trans men and women think that they aren't gay. Embarrassed I'd say. But this is supposed to be a safe space, me myself before i came out irl, i was more embarrased abt my kinks than sexuality tbh, but i see what u mean
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