Picture etiquette

[Bi****]

Women have shared intimate pictures without me asking. First of all, let me be VERY clear. KEEP DOING THAT. But I believe that if a man does it, it is an egregious error.

I feel that until a woman specifically asks for it, no dick pics.

Only referring to here on Fet, an app that is made for freaky people, is that the right answer or once they send one, I can (should) too.

I would love answers from women since I feel they are better qualified to say what women actually like.

[ok****]

Why is anyone sending those pics without consent?

[ar****]

Anyone sending such pics without consent is a red flag. Regardless of gender.

[Bl****]

As long as it’s consensual to share….

[Mr****]

You wait for them to ask or if they sent you pictures first you could always ask if they are interested in exchanging pictures.

[Di****]

I like someone asking my consent for it. If I am given one without me saying I wanna see or given consent, I find it insulting that they did not have enough respect to ask.
As a sorce of respect I always ask first even asking about non lewds.

[im****]

Consent is SEXY!
Both genders should ask if it’s okay to exchange pictures. I think it’s good to bring up after you’ve already had some prior communication. Though talking with someone also looking for cyberfun may agree earlier on.

[Sl****]

I totally honor anyone’s truth regarding NSFW pics. To be blunt, being a visual man - I’d never get offended when women send me anything. Just opened a msg of someone who sent sexy pics/videos. My own truth? Women are the most beautiful living beings in the universe. And they should always be respected.

[We****]

I hate men who send me pics before asking especially before even saying hi.. but equally I’d never send a pic to someone without asking them first..

[gy****]

I prefer to be asked but if im interested and needed to know if ill be wasting my time, ill initiate the permission to exchange pics

[Deleted Member]

For me, sending pics without consent is definitely not OK.  I don't care if it is male or female. 

[LL****]

Respect is a big part of what you share with another person and I think it can be really telling how someone chooses to act/initiate contact where boundaries haven’t been discussed.
I have received random nudes to my inbox, but I also receive a lot of other things. I think my profile makes pretty clear what my thoughts on submission are but I still receive a message either demanding my submission to a complete stranger, or dictating what they’ll do to me. So clearly, regardless of what your views are, they don’t necessarily matter 🤣

[ar****]

10 hours ago, LLovesToPlease said:

Respect is a big part of what you share with another person and I think it can be really telling how someone chooses to act/initiate contact where boundaries haven’t been discussed.
I have received random nudes to my inbox, but I also receive a lot of other things. I think my profile makes pretty clear what my thoughts on submission are but I still receive a message either demanding my submission to a complete stranger, or dictating what they’ll do to me. So clearly, regardless of what your views are, they don’t necessarily matter 🤣

Your views matter. Other people overstepping your boundaries on account of not reading your bio are the ones that don't matter. And in an ideal world, they should be reported and banned. ✌️

[Sk****]

I would -always- ask before sending D pics, no matter what. sending without explicit consent is literally a crime in some countries, and if im not mistaken, against rules here. So, even if it seems like common sense that it should be okay if she sent xxx pics first and is talking dirty, ALWAYS get that consent first to CYA. Cover Your Ass. Relationships can and do go to hell in a handbasket in a matter of SECONDS when some people dont get their way.

The chances that someone is ok with receiving them, but then later pretends they werent and reports you are never zero.

Remember, asking consent doesnt have to sound like a legal meeting. You can easily use it to tease. just say you have them in a flirty way, if they're into you and want them, they'll respond by explicitly asking.

And yeah, waiting until they send xxx pics is a smart move. I'll sometimes just ask for 'more' pics, and dont specify xxx, they send those kind if they want to.

[LL****]

15 hours ago, arnhem961 said:

Your views matter. Other people overstepping your boundaries on account of not reading your bio are the ones that don't matter. And in an ideal world, they should be reported and banned. ✌️

YES! I mean, I tend to block or whatever but it’s still frustrating to deal with especially when you can see they’ve visited your profile seconds before 🤣 my favourite tonight was “well you’re clearly a catfish”. I don’t feel like repeating myself so 🤷‍♀️

[Babygirl85]

Im really new her but I feel consensual in all things is respectful.

[Da****]

The only time I have sent Ds when not specifically asked is if her profile says she wants to see them, I consider that blanket consent, otherwise wait until invited.