Orgasm deprivation

[PL****]

I have a question for the kinksters about orgasm deprivation. I have always had this kink of wanting to be edged and deprived of an orgasm to the point it's all i can think about and beg for. However, I often find male partners who feel I am extreme in my desires for this. Or they like to make a woman orgasm as much as possible and because of this I have difficulty finding partners who share in that desire to deprive me. Is orgasm deprivation that niche? Second question, if it's not then maybe it is because I prefer the deprivation and edging lasts sometimes for hrs. Love getting pushed to my limits. What do you all think? Anyone else who likes to be deprived struggle with finding partners who fit your kink?

[Ba****]

It is fun

[DomJavi]

I absolutely enjoy orgasms deprivation. As a Dom, it allows me to not only assert my dominance, but also test my discipline. Edging a woman is ( in my opinion) much better than making her, or allowing her to come multiple times.

[Cu****]

I have to admit I do making my partner orgasm as much as possible, big into multi organisms over here, so that make this idea difficult. It if this is what my partner wants? Done and done. I would tease and *** for hours

[Bigbrah77]

It is something I enjoy doing helping her build up to giant explosion that will make her sleep until morning

[Mr****]

Hmmm I don't think it's that niche. To be honest with you I think parts of society have ***ted men to be selfish lovers who don't know how to pleasure a woman and what you are finding is the pushback to that is giving women multiple orgasms. Now whether this is good or bad is a topic for a different post but I think in a situation where you are physically meeting up with someone they are more often than not going to want things to end with you being satisfied. It's an ego thing really.

With that being said though if you like longer edging or deprivation you may find it beneficial to start earlier. Like if you are meeting up on Friday then starting Tuesday or Wednesday you can have some spicy messages and edge over the phone so that by the time Friday comes around you are 4 days deep.

[MasterLogus]

I had a sub who would orgasm very easy, restraining her and making her beg was so hot. Its your kink, enjoy it. Yes I love to make a sub orgasm as often as I can but, it is also so fun watching a sub beg to be allowed to orgasm, to have her try to fuck the air was indeed fun

[Ta****]

The longest I edged for under instruction of my last Dom was for 3 days, both he & I got so much out of it & being finally given permission to cum for him was explosive, intense & it built what I thought was trust at the time until his true colours were shown but I digress.
The build up was insanely hot, the teasing was intense & the release justveverything & more.

[PL****]

1 minute ago, Tasty_Confession11 said:

The longest I edged for under instruction of my last Dom was for 3 days, both he & I got so much out of it & being finally given permission to cum for him was explosive, intense & it built what I thought was trust at the time until his true colours were shown but I digress.
The build up was insanely hot, the teasing was intense & the release justveverything & more.

Omg, yes you get me! Hahaha😆😂😆😂

[PL****]

13 minutes ago, MasterLogus said:

I had a sub who would orgasm very easy, restraining her and making her beg was so hot. Its your kink, enjoy it. Yes I love to make a sub orgasm as often as I can but, it is also so fun watching a sub beg to be allowed to orgasm, to have her try to fuck the air was indeed fun

That's my issue. I orgasm very easily and as such it's not super satisfying. However, being made to wait builds the intensity, intimacy, emotional connection, etc. So deprivation is far more pleasurable.

[PL****]

15 minutes ago, MrWrong00234 said:

Hmmm I don't think it's that niche. To be honest with you I think parts of society have ***ted men to be selfish lovers who don't know how to pleasure a woman and what you are finding is the pushback to that is giving women multiple orgasms. Now whether this is good or bad is a topic for a different post but I think in a situation where you are physically meeting up with someone they are more often than not going to want things to end with you being satisfied. It's an ego thing really.

With that being said though if you like longer edging or deprivation you may find it beneficial to start earlier. Like if you are meeting up on Friday then starting Tuesday or Wednesday you can have some spicy messages and edge over the phone so that by the time Friday comes around you are 4 days deep.

I appreciate the advice and I have tried but it's not the same as having a partner edge and deprive me. It's more about his taking that control and it's intoxicating when he does.

[Ma****]

Personally this is something I want to experience. I can deprive myself to an extent, but ultimately I have the control. I want to give that control up and experience it. It's not something I have approached someone specific about it, because I want it to be with someone I trust because I have no idea what my reaction will be afterwards.

[Mi****]

It can definitely be done. One of the biggest keys is you allowing yourself to listen to somebody. You probably just need to meet the right man.

[michael420666]

Maybe a little off subject (maybe a lot off subject lmao), but ma'am, if you weren't a thousand miles away.. I would wreck it. Lol I'm sorry to sound crass, but just being honest..

[PL****]

4 minutes ago, michael420666 said:

Maybe a little off subject (maybe a lot off subject lmao), but ma'am, if you weren't a thousand miles away.. I would wreck it. Lol I'm sorry to sound crass, but just being honest..

Such is my life 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Xo****]

I would love to play

[Dr****]

I do this to my wife, she loves it

[Br****]

Maybe they don’t feel confident in being able to do it? You have to know what you are doing and read the signs well.

[Mi****]

from what i’ve seen it can be something that is explored together. it really depended on trust etc..

[Ju****]

As a man i love it and sometimes when I want yo change it up i will edge her but it doesn't last long as I havent figured out the timing if I fo it too sooner doesnt work and I mess it up so I dont try to do it that often

[Ar****]

I love to edge a woman,however, in the spring of 2020 the woman I was with got really ***ed off when I told her she wasn't allowed to orgasm right before she did. Mostly because she would fall seizure out, and I mean a true seizure if you'd stop breathing and I ain't looking to kill someone with my dick. Lol

Edited May 21 by Archiee187

[le****]

Edging a woman for hours, taking her to the brink, holding her there (both physically and mentally), is enjoyable - but I have to admit that once I’m ready to tip her over the edge, I usually *** more orgasms than she probably expects/wants

[DeviantInside]

Many people do enjoy it. I have even used hypnosis to make it so my slave literally cannot orgasm no matter how hard they try without permission. That said there are occasions when edging can be problematic for some as can also cause seizures for someone that is prone.

[cl****]

The best as a receiver! Super fun as a giver too!

[DarkArts1066]

I don’t believe that your kink is supremely niche, no.
I know several women who enjoy being deprived of an orgasm, and some even who wish to be punished for having them.

I think that Men (or SOME of us anyway,) are inately programmed to ensure that our partners enjoy sexual experiences as much as we do.

I know that’s not always the case, but it seems to me that those are the men you are finding.

It’s almost a validation of our sexual prowess or ability perhaps.
I personally don’t see it as such, although I do generally enjoy giving more pleasure sexually than I receive as a point of fact….

But I have spoken to other Men - and Couples, who feel that validation.

So it follows that, for those men, depriving a woman consistently can feel alien… almost unbelievable that they should actually want that.

Perhaps these men are jusging by their own needs - and standards?

I can’t be sure, because that’s not how I see things.

But it might be a starting point for discussions ?