Orgasm deprivation

[Su****]

It is a very powerful method of control knowing the D type has complete control over your intimate pleasure. That control is mentally very powerful.
Like many kinks it isn’t for everybody but you like it, it is amazing as long as it is done consensually and safely

[Honigtropfen]

I love both sides. I love to edge for hours and I love if the woman is edging me. Both is great and feels special in its very own way. By the way, I would love to find a relationship FFM. We could play it a lot. ❤️

[fe****]

I do believe it is a somewhat niche fetish. It is probably more common that a woman denies a man orgasms but imho more as a another task that he has to endure for her. Not really to tease him and make him a mess. The same can be probably be said about female being denied. As it has been said, men feel powerful granting orgasms on a female. So that stops the fun of extreme tease and denial. I am game but I understand how you feel...not so easy to find.

[Us****]

I like orgasm control a lot, to dish out. But then again I'm also a person that has patience both for my partner or myself. An orgasm isn't a defining end of a playsession. Hence the buildup always had more interest then the result. I like how my partners are becoming more primal, in both physical and mental state. That state where one thrust, one flick or a lick would release the climax is a beautiful place to play and to end it early would tarnish that moment. I found out that reading bodylanguage the right way is a kink that empowers my Dom side and controlling ones orgasm (buildup and release) further enhances that. Haven't had problems finding a partner that enjoys it as much as I do, luckily.

[my****]

I am the kind of Dom you are speaking about. I don’t think you’re extreme I think dynamics have shifted. I see so many women into orgasm denial and I just look at it as why? I want to see rivers flowing, huge wet spots. I want to hear begging for me to stop. Yet so many women want to be denied I’m looking into it, to see if I’m missing out on it.

[Th****]

Edging is amazing, unfortunately, I can’t find anyone that wants to do it either.

[Si****]

5 hours ago, mythicalman said:

I am the kind of Dom you are speaking about. I don’t think you’re extreme I think dynamics have shifted. I see so many women into orgasm denial and I just look at it as why? I want to see rivers flowing, huge wet spots. I want to hear begging for me to stop. Yet so many women want to be denied I’m looking into it, to see if I’m missing out on it.

It's not denied forever. It's edging until the brink, usually the orgasms are way more intense and subspace is very likely if you get the right amount of ***.

[PL****]

16 minutes ago, Siren7272 said:

It's not denied forever. It's edging until the brink, usually the orgasms are way more intense and subspace is very likely if you get the right amount of ***.

I agree but for me it's even more than that...I find I become this pliable little thing that still creates puddles but sooo much more...I loose myself completely (if it's done right). I now need that orgasm and all the ones to follow more than I've ever needed anything. I do not think. I am his/hers I am whatever I am wished to be. It's this completion of satisfaction I get in no other way. For me it is idealic and complete euphoria.

[lo****]

I love being edged too, then relocked in chastity, I think a really fun dynamic would be 2 brats, both in chastity, holding the key for each other, with the goal to tease and edge each other to oblivion and then lock them in chastity with no orgasm in sight

[an****]

Answer 1 no, it is a common occurrence. Answer 2 yes, it is a one sided time commitment dilemma if the dom is not experiencing complimentary pleasure (I.e. is into it as much as you). It takes an enormous amount of time, effort, and energy to create an hours long scene, control the scene, perform the scene, and the return of investment can be the same as a minutes long scene so you run a deficit. Fine for a single play session, but stacked it can feel exhausting. If you are asking for hours of effort it begs to question what is given to compensate? Free tax preparation? Hours of leaf raking? If efforts become a tipping scale, relationships deteriorate rapidly. Many times the 'niceness' is just avoiding the effort talk and just denying the act or leaving the dynamic entirely. Hence the once and never again or saying it is too extreme. Nothing is too extreme if compensation is adequate. It's all value exchange. I do wish there was a legal route for time heavy kinks where time can just be compensated easily, but it doesn't exist. There needs to be honest conversations about how much time and effort this all takes and come to equal ground on value exchange, outside the dynamic.

[Ki****]

My control, denial, chastity and edging are my biggest kinks, and honestly they are very common in the scene. It’s a known thing that orgasm denial increases submissive feelings, and when edged people become even more desperate and pliable. I had my partner in chastity for about 6.5 hours while I worked, edging her on and off, followed by two hours straight of edging and denial. She went pretty insane with that.