Is the Vibe Changing? The rise of ghosting, ***-requests, and profile turnover (even for paid accounts)

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6 hours ago, SlightTech said:

I recently joined and it has honestly been an exhausting experience compared to using FetLife. Dealt with more scammers in the past few weeks than I have at any other point in my life. The only thing that gives me hope is that I have talked to a couple genuine people on here that I enjoy talking to.

Scammers gonna scam. The site can only know about them by our reports, so it's inevitable that you will be contacted by a scammer who hasn't yet come to the attention of the admins and been asked to verify. It can take longer for that than I would like - I reported someone several days ago and haven't even received an acknowledgement of the report. I *** they're just overloaded. I've asked for changes to the reporting system that would make it easier to point them to the source of a stolen photo rather than just telling them they should take a look at the photo, with no clue as to what the reporter found wrong with it.

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I found Fet 20 years ago. Was actice for a few years, left. Came back about 10 years ago, left.
I am back now with its app.
I absolutely hate the app and miss the web interface.
Each have their own problems.
But, as a female, I have seen dozens of the Deleted Account situation.
Rather that being ghosted, I deal more with those that pay no mind to my profile.
Even after establishing the profiles to not incorporate.
When I need to go back and add "looking for an Alpha Male" just to further rein*** that I am not here to meet submissive men, and yet that's what my inbox is filled with.

I have some very hard core kinks that most men want nothing to do with.
But, I completely understand exactly what you are saying. And it is for those reasons, until I see vast improvement, I will not pay for Fet again.
Hopefully the developers can get beyond the greed and provide an app that is more appealing, a safer space provided, and more concerned about its users, paid or otherwise.

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8 minutes ago, quakertown37623 said:

I found Fet 20 years ago. Was actice for a few years, left. Came back about 10 years ago, left.
I am back now with its app.
I absolutely hate the app and miss the web interface.
Each have their own problems.
But, as a female, I have seen dozens of the Deleted Account situation.
Rather that being ghosted, I deal more with those that pay no mind to my profile.
Even after establishing the profiles to not incorporate.
When I need to go back and add "looking for an Alpha Male" just to further rein*** that I am not here to meet submissive men, and yet that's what my inbox is filled with.
Now, on the flip side, I have been a FinDomme in the past, I have been "taken care of" for my Domme experience.
For me, the person behind the screen, in all her vulnerability, I am seeking exactly what my profile states. While in search of that, if someone comes to me requesting a certain service, I will entertain the idea. However, I have never sought kick back from the type of men I am seeking.
If someone has a FinDomme fetish, who am I to judge? I don't. I never will.
I have some very hard core kinks that most men want nothing to do with.
But, I completely understand exactly what you are saying. And it is for those reasons, until I see vast improvement, I will not pay for Fet again.
Hopefully the developers can get beyond the greed and provide an app that is more appealing, a safer space provided, and more concerned about its users, paid or otherwise.

You don't have to use the app, there is a website.  Fetish dot com. Same sign in details

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I’m back ❤️… on on topic. Can someone explain your expected ROI on your subscription?