Roleplay Limits

[Deleted Member]

In the kink community, I'm curious about everyone's personal hard limits when it comes to roleplay. What is one or more scenarios, dynamic, or element that you absolutely will not engage in. Even in fantasy or consensual play, due to ethical, moral, personal trauma, or strong values based reasons?

Whether it's certain power exchanges, taboo family themes, age play, extreme ***, historical settings, non human elements, or anything else, feel free to share your boundaries here. Let's keep this respectful, judgment free, and focused on consent so we can all learn from each other's lines.

[to****]

Well being a bottom cross dresser I don't think I would wear my potential man's daughters sexy clothes that's just wrong I'd probably wear his wife's clothes if asked

[Deleted Member]

1 hour ago, torontodanielle said:

Well being a bottom cross dresser I don't think I would wear my potential man's daughters sexy clothes that's just wrong I'd probably wear his wife's clothes if asked

I'm curious why you'd refrain. I can understand holding back if they're a minor (why would a minor have sexy clothes anyway?), but if they're of age, what's the issue?

[to****]

Well it would kinda tell me he might have a thing for his daughter that's wrong on all accounts

[Deleted Member]

6 minutes ago, torontodanielle said:

Well it would kinda tell me he might have a thing for his daughter that's wrong on all accounts

Makes sense.

[to****]

Thank you my friend good luck and have a great night

[to****]

Hope you find a nice bottom girl

[ho****]

I'm a major bottom.

[ho****]

😂

[Li****]

My hard limits are extreme *** and bathroom stuff. Just doesn't do anything for me

[Deleted Member]

4 hours ago, Lilmeat6286 said:

My hard limits are extreme *** and bathroom stuff. Just doesn't do anything for me

Plus the clean up kills the mood.

[Deleted Member]

For me. It would be anything religious or ritualistic.

[Deleted Member]

8 hours ago, torontodanielle said:

Thank you my friend good luck and have a great night

You're welcome and thank you for your insight. Good luck to you as well, and hope you have an excellent 2026. 👍

[to****]

Thank you very much

[sardonicus87]

Role play is mostly a hard limit for me. I only do REAL. Anything contrived "scenario" stuff makes me want to barf, like being on the set of a cheap porn. If it's spanking, it's just a spanking, no teacher/student, etc anything, not even for punishment. Don't call me daddy, don't say you're a bad girl. No scenario, spanking just to spank, for the spank itself, not for some contrivance.

Hard limit, hard pass.

[Deleted Member]

8 minutes ago, sardonicus87 said:

Role play is mostly a hard limit for me. I only do REAL. Anything contrived "scenario" stuff makes me want to barf, like being on the set of a cheap porn. If it's spanking, it's just a spanking, no teacher/student, etc anything, not even for punishment. Don't call me daddy, don't say you're a bad girl. No scenario, spanking just to spank, for the spank itself, not for some contrivance.

Hard limit, hard pass.

Then this post was for roleplayers not opinionated people.

[ey****]

my role play limits.... slurs in general 

any form of "better than your wife"

and any form of "you'd never please a real woman" kinda thing

I guess also there's a few role play scenarios might feel off... I have no issue with age play, but it's not for me - although I can still do stuff like "teacher/student" it's just a scenario where the student is over 18. Maybe they got held back like 30 years 

[BlueGrace]

I have so many hard limits that are too many to list and for a variety of reasons. The only thing I actually RP is age play. We don’t RP our careers or anything close. Age play is my favorite RP and it’s heavily judged because of undereducated people that form biases without any form of research.

I won’t RP ***s, be degraded or humiliated, and I definitely won’t engage sexually with other females or be watched by them. This includes transsexuals as well.

[Interzone]

I won't go into a pipe for someone, and I will not explore a pipe in a scene. Exploring the pipe is by definition. Looking into. Down into. Walking into.