Eternity Collars & Jewelry

[xm****]

I wear an eternity collar that is locked on 24/7. Since being collared, I do kind of miss wearing necklaces and feel like doing so now would look strange with how large my collar is.

How do other /s types navigate wearing jewelry?

[pu****]

I think layering jewelry can look really beautiful/fun but if you just want to add more shine to a look, pins and broaches are severely underrated. Some medium-large sized necklace pendants can probably be converted into lapel pins or broaches!

[Mo****]

I brought my sub a nickels at the shape of collar at the end of it ! So no one gonna notice unless it you are sub/ dom- and she wear it out side the house- when she back home- at the front door - she wear the daily collar and get naked and start be the good girl that used to be- that can be a way - otherwise ! If you are collared ' that you are ! No other way

[no****]

this isn’t related but I do have questions (as someone who would really love an eternity collar)— do you think people know what the collar symbolizes when you go out in public, and if anyone were to ask you about it, what would be your response? do you think it could ever get in the way of professionalism in the workplace? and do you ever have creepy people pressure you into talking about it/do you get cat called? 🥲

[Deleted Member]

Have you looked into collars that resemble jewelry? They make elegant types

[MsSwanger]

Do you & be proud.

[Bethy427]

I wear a “day collar.” It’s pretty. It’s his birth stone and there’s a small heart tag at the end of the chain with his name on it ❤️ I never take it off, it’s in my pics. I bought it (along with many others, and ankle bracelets) from Etsy - MistressB’s boutique ☺️ she does do the locking options as well, and different chain lengths

[Mo****]

14 minutes ago, noellex said:

this isn’t related but I do have questions (as someone who would really love an eternity collar)— do you think people know what the collar symbolizes when you go out in public, and if anyone were to ask you about it, what would be your response? do you think it could ever get in the way of professionalism in the workplace? and do you ever have creepy people pressure you into talking about it/do you get cat called? 🥲

It depends ! My ex sub used to ignore the response by saying I like it in the work- but after work she will point to me - saying I am his ! But it depends on the type of work- people you mix with !

[fe****]

Im going to guess the collar in question is the one you have on in your pic. Pick necklaces that are longer and thinner than your collar. Also depending on the thickness of your collar you could find pendant that could clip over your collar to change up the look.

[AmieJ]

Mine is jewelry like. But find I don't care to wear anything else as I don't want it getting lost in the mix and unnoticed

[Deleted Member]

Why don’t you just take it off ?

[Laycette]

4 minutes ago, kalima said:

Why don’t you just take it off ?

Kalima, you fail to understand what a collar is, and the fact it is locked.

[laura90]

The collar in your picture looks absolutely beautiful and you are very beautiful as well. A longer chain, perhaps one that hangs down past the chest, would go really well with that in silver; it shouldn't be too thin and could feature a pendant, like a butterfly or a star. The necklace you wear with the collar probably shouldn't be too thin, otherwise the contrast would be too stark.

[De****]

I have a multiple day collars. I’m always collared but I get to change out the look and vibe.

[de****]

Your collar is so gorgeous my angel. You could definitely stack it with other necklaces.

[Si****]

Incorporate a day collar(?) The common practice, being owned/locked, one is never without collar worn, so another collar is donned before the previous is doffed. That way one is never without a collar in place.

[Ke****]

I've seen a lot of people already say use a bigger necklace chain but you could have the concern that it could still clash with your collar so I think something you could do is wrap the chain around the collar or you could get custom-made charms for the color itself I've seen many people have interchangeable charms for their forever collars

[Sw****]

You could inquire if you are allowed different types to wear and if you live together he can change it out for you as needed … but I also agree with an above post👆🏻 longer slim chains of different materials are very flattering 🥰🥰

[Ph****]

I was a slave for 15 years.. we always had a monthly meeting about our Dynamic. I could talk about anything . So I talked freely about wearing jewelry . I would wear the collar, but if I wanted to wear something else.. I had to ask permission. And Sir would take the collar off, and he would put on the cuff collar on my wrist .. and it was a lock and key...

It made me feel better knowing I still had my collar, but I could still express myself with my jewelry ...

[Ph****]

Tuesday at 10:51 PM, Laycette said:

Kalima, you fail to understand what a collar is, and the fact it is locked.

I am sorry but you failed . could have just educated about the collar.. the person asked why .. that is not disrespectful. Not everyone understands.. be kind . And remember we all have been there..
I remember when I first started out in the lifestyle and I didn't understand...

We should be kind and understanding to the new people in the lifestyle.

[Ph****]

Tuesday at 10:47 PM, kalima said:

Why don’t you just take it off ?

A submissive may not take their collar off because it is a deeply meaningful symbol of commitment, trust, and ownership in a BDSM dynamic. Many couples treat a permanent or locking collar with the same gravity and emotional weight as a wedding ring, meaning removal is reserved only for specific relationship milestones or requires explicit permission from the Dominant partner.

[Deleted Member]

I am collard and my Master gave me a cuff which I love. I can wear the other jewelry he gets for me. My cuff never comes off.

[Be****]

I wear accessories as a bind to me physically, like a reminder to not be excessively neuro divergent

[Th****]

So I've looked into this in the past, you can get accessory attachments for collars to essentially make one look more, Vanilla I guess.

[Fa****]

So i wear a loose ***r and usually a longer necklace too. See how that would look maybe not metal against metal. I have a black cord one that long with a dream catcher on the end