'Domme' scammers and one-dimensional assumptions

[ey****]

I think there are probably male escorts who would do Domination - but of course it depends on what they've learnt.

Female Pro Dommes are often more visible - and while exceptions apply; most male sex workers have male clients.  This doesn't mean they wouldn't also see women - but that the client base is very male which I think is for multiple reasons 

I did see an advert the other day which included a few male Dominants I'd never heard of - but then, also, I'm not the target market.

[RosesHaveThorns75]

Most Domination mags contact mags are full of pro-dommes ive read them to be nosey but I've never seen any Masters in those....guess they'd be in gay mags which I have also But none had any fetish services in just sex/escorts which I don't want anywayz!!! ☹️ Needle-haystack situation 😬 ironic now I have the savings to potentially pay but I'm the wrong end of the fence.,.....Dosnt help that my android mobile Dosnt like any searches of an adult nature despite the adult block being off ages ago so it produces very limited search results!! I have Medical certification but I don't have one for being transgender!!! Lol 🎃 gender councillors are kinda an American thing) what have you been reading recently that had the ads?!? 

[ey****]

I've sent you a link

but, Adultwork is a good listings site. 

[RosesHaveThorns75]

Id get why majority of their clients would bE male but there are more gender spectrums who may require a master transexual transgender Bigender ftm transitions etc.....🤔 So even if you change someone who wants to be dominated from a Mistress to a Master there still lots of hurdles & hazards 🙏 i just keep hearing a "mind the gap" message like you get on the london tubes 

[Cimky]

WOW what a read..... I am by no means a male sub or a sub for that matter. I am a Domme and no not a Findom or a ProDomme and from my little corner I get the flip side of the coin for each of you that complains about being scammed most of us get even more idiots in our inboxes on a daily basis trying to do exactly the same to us from the "sugar daddy - its not sex just want to spoil you" to the kids that think we as Domme's are circus *** trainers because why the f**k should they try to read or educate themselves if someone else could train them like you would an show *** no brain and no imagination. I get daily messages with fools begging that they should belong to me that its their destiny and and and just to see them flip the switch when your NO finally sinks in they turn on you like a gremlin that got wet or fed after midnight then all of a sudden you get bombarded with messages of how you are just a bitch how you simply have not met them yet they will be the man to fuck you into submission and so on not to talk about the amount of unwanted dickpics in your inbox on sites that does allow them to send pictures in private conversations. Yes I am very aware of the amount of fake findom accounts 90% of them belongs to youngish girls that is looking for an easy life and they dont last long but there is always a few new ones to take the place of the one that drops off and so the cycle continues. They target men that show they are desperate and half these girls knows nothing about kink point blank might have read a few mommy porn books but thats it. You can spot their routine fast by spending a bit more time researching the matter for instance go on you tube and search "how to become a findom" and you will have days worth of instruction on how to do it from scammers that claims they have been doing it for years and that they life this massive large life due to this magical way of making ***. My take on it? We I see those that are successful in a way as the modern "kept woman" for generations it was "normal" and very acceptable in the more wealthy circles for a man to have a kept woman she lived in a place he paid for eat food he paid for wear only the clothing he paid for of she was lucky he would have paid for her to go to a college and further her education but one rule was clear she had to be available for his sexual fantasies when ever it suits him whatever suits him she knew she would never be seen in public with him and he will never leave his wife for her she cant go to authorities as she willing walked into the deal and 90% of the time he will buy her crazy expensive gifts everytime he push things to far or make her feel isolated and that the world would laugh at her for being so stupid that everything that happens is her own doing........ well now how would any of you like to be on the receiving end of that coin? Yes men get scammed I am fully aware but just as many woman go through the same shit and falls for the same scams. Education is key dont be desperate you ***t a target on your back when you do so and very importantly learn your limits know how far you want to go what you are willing to give and stand your ground. So many fools has on 1st glance told me kidnapping and blackmailing is their nr 1 fantasies and even when you dont think so you share personal details when you chat. To proof this point to a guy in a public chat group a few years back I had him simply interact with the group - it was a simple chat forum basic rules no play in the main chat and no DM's without public consent - over the course of a few days I simply chatted to him in the group and payed attention when he talked to others and within about a week I had his work address physical address his wife's details as well as his children I knew his exact route he drove ever day from home to work when I give him all of this info he very nearly lost his shit ( we did this as an educational experience to the group the guy in question was a Dom and have consented to me gathering this info only rule was I was not allowed to straight forward ask for it and since he was aware of what I was doing he was even more careful) with that in mind I still did get the info and proofed a point. We all to some extent believe sitting behind the screens gives us a false sense of security and we give away more then we think. So jumping in saying "I have a blackmailing fantasy " is like sending a smoke signal to all scammers. If you keep on running into the same shit over and over ask yourself what is the image you put out there how are you seen are you maybe unintentionally putting yourself in their target range and if so change that change how you approach the situation they depend on things staying predictable

[Cimky]

That said not all Findoms are fake its a very real very valid kink and cash pig's are just as real doing it right is what makes all the difference just as with any other kink.