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[Lu****]

Because even if its vanilla, the novelty of being able to say what you want openly is exciting

[Da****]

Lot of people are curious . Some have fantasies and want to experience some of it for real . Some are kinky but don’t know it . Sone think they are kinky but are vanilla.. Aren’t we supposed to be the non-judgemental community ?

[Longjohn-5206]

I had one on here chatting didn't even realise this was a kink site I soon put her right she thanked me and deleted her account

[metronome]

45 minutes ago, summerflingboy said:

Lmao it’s all good I already met the people I needed to meet on here

Aberation

[Ra****]

I always said everyone belongs whether, it’s a married couple, trying to spice it up, a person with self-esteem issues and this gives them a dynamic , or a trooooo Dom 🙄… the reason someone is here is for them alone. I do also feel kink is pretty fluid, I feel some people call it their preferences or their type but kink is not an identity, it’s an activity. It’s a very fun activity but it should not be claimed like a religion or we start persecuting 🤷‍♂️ which is an even bigger waste of time. 

[Laycette]

Simple. This is a dating site masquerading as a kink site.

That's why it is so heavily policed, real fetish and kink is cencored and silenced, and it is full of swingers and vanillas, hordes of sex seekers.

These are not bdsm people and why it is so hard for us to find each other on a site called fetish.com.

Where are all the events, groups, and ream bdsm content?

Not on here, friend.

[to****]

21 minutes ago, metronome said:

Aberation

Rude. No one asked for your approval anyhow.

[Lu****]

Dang...I mean I knew i wasnt -that- kinky but hearing the replies on here makes me feel more vanilla that vanilla ice.

[Ro****]

2 minutes ago, Lunbokz said:

Dang...I mean I knew i wasnt -that- kinky but hearing the replies on here makes me feel more vanilla that vanilla ice.

Ignore the snobs

[Zis]

13 minutes ago, Lunbokz said:

Dang...I mean I knew i wasnt -that- kinky but hearing the replies on here makes me feel more vanilla that vanilla ice.

Ok, ignore the angry people!😉
Kinky is a spectrum and you dont have to love all the kinks. Someone likes a little spank or dirty words and the other one wants to be human toilet. No shame here or deviding in groups like snobs.

[Lu****]

Thanks for the response. I put everything i knew i was into and some things im curious about in my profile and shit like had me wondering if I wasnt "hardcore" enough lmao. I thought what I was into was a little much but I guess not

[Ro****]

7 minutes ago, Lunbokz said:

Thanks for the response. I put everything i knew i was into and some things im curious about in my profile and shit like had me wondering if I wasnt "hardcore" enough lmao. I thought what I was into was a little much but I guess not

In the end this is just a dating site...Id go over to fetlife if you want to learn shit. Find events, blah, blah blah.

[th****]

24 minutes ago, Lunbokz said:

Dang...I mean I knew i wasnt -that- kinky but hearing the replies on here makes me feel more vanilla that vanilla ice.

Ignore the snobbery - unwarranted and unwanted

[Lu****]

21 minutes ago, RogueJedi said:

In the end this is just a dating site...Id go over to fetlife if you want to learn shit. Find events, blah, blah blah.

This is good intel. Im still trying to figure this whole single world out after being out of the game for 14 years. I feel like I got dropped In some foreign city that speaks a different language and acts nothing like I remember

[Ka****]

From what I’ve been told by several people that use this site for easy hookups. I met a guy that said dominant on his profile but when we started talking he said he wasn’t into any of that kinky sex , he just wanted to have fun and he found that “kinky” woman were more likely to just meet for sex. This was what I was told. So please dont think it’s me saying that.
But another thing, I am here. I am submissive and owned so I say Only friends and platonic at that. I always get asked why I am here if I’m not willing to hook up and play. My answer is that I like to read the forums, do the treasure hunts and talk to others that are like minded. I have a couple really good friends here that are okay with me not being sexual with them.

[Wo****]

A lot of them are scammers and are basically baiting people about 30% of the populace on here has no fucking clue about the lifestyle nor the responsibilities of such actions tread carefully is my best suggestion being on here sheds the light on fucked up people truly are clueless of their actions.

[Th****]

3 hours ago, tongue4u2use said:

Ah. Yeah, you’re pretty safe then. It’s the other 99% of women I worry about, the submissives.

Simp-iest comment in the history of simps.

We don't judge you when you tuck your dick. And good on the 5% of women here who enjoy that, are not bots, catfish or let's be frank, committing legally-defined cyberfraud to say nothing of operating way outside Fetish.com's community guidelines.

Most people don't want either side of that equation but whatevs. Do your kinky self. We support you.

Trying to stigmatize cis D/s relationships because it's not your kink? Go fuck yourself.

[ho****]

Separating sex from kinks/fetishes/BDSM/ect is like separating sex from ***. They'll always be linked no matter how you feel about them. Your always gonna have groups that are just looking for easy vanilla and honestly the pool in the BDSM community will always give them some extra room. Lots of grey/freysexuality in this community and it doesn't get much easier for someone looking for NSA than that. And honestly fetlife really isn't any better at least in our local scene. Basically you can't police the vanilla NSA seekers out of spaces like this. And there people with specific kinks and fetishes that make it easy for them to find what they want here.

[Bo****]

Scammers. They inundate all dating apps/sites.

[Sh****]

Scammers and then there are just squares that think this is tinder or something.

[so****]

Okay so I'm kind of one of them.

I'm not closed off from light exploration. I don't think I will ever be a person who's interested in giving ***, receiving it lightly is okay. Certain parts of my body. Maybe a little bit more.

And yes, for the most part I would consider myself to be pretty vanilla. However one reason it was not only suggested to me to join apps like this but in fact one of my friends set the account up initially. Is because I have an affinity towards considerably older women (60s^) and very large women. To me that's just my taste, but some people insist that those are kinks or fetishes.

Aside from that, anything I want to try, I would consider more curiosity than a kink or a fetish as well. Trying breast milk is one particular example of that.

[Th****]

Hate to break it to you Gingy. A guy who wants women 20 years his senior and breast milk ain't vanilla.

Your friends sent you to the correct place. Good for them. Enjoy.

[vv****]

5 minutes ago, TheEndless said:

Hate to break it to you Gingy. A guy who wants women 20 years his senior and breast milk ain't vanilla.

Your friends sent you to the correct place. Good for them. Enjoy.

☠️ 🤣🤣🤣

[so****]

Try 50 years my senior when I first got to explore that. I do get your point though, but I think your average person thinks of BDSM, d/s, maybe furries when they think of a kink or fetish. As far as breast feeding, I might hate it? Idk. Just something I want to try once.

[ab****]

Some of the comments in this thread are absolutely unhinged and devoid in relation to the question that was posed.
Usually I would just scroll on, but wow, there is a ton of rage-bait in here.