Deleted Member Posted January 31, 2022 Posted January 31, 2022 Being monosyllabic and unforthcoming does not put you in control, it makes talking to you frustrating. Being confusing and ambiguous does not increase your control, it makes talking to you confusing and destabilising. Being silent does not regain you control, it’s unkind and it causes anxiety.
Nicky898 Posted January 31, 2022 Posted January 31, 2022 I totally agree, makes me realise we aren’t compatible if it’s a consistent behaviour and spoken about it x
ol**** Posted January 31, 2022 Posted January 31, 2022 6 hours ago, Lockfairy said: Being monosyllabic and unforthcoming does not put you in control, it makes talking to you frustrating. Being confusing and ambiguous does not increase your control, it makes talking to you confusing and destabilising. Being silent does not regain you control, it’s unkind and it causes anxiety. Well said.
so**** Posted February 1, 2022 Posted February 1, 2022 Hell yes!!! Thank you! Many a person could benefit from hearing this 🤣
Deleted Member Posted February 1, 2022 Author Posted February 1, 2022 Makes you constantly wonder what they are thinking...frustrating!!
Deleted Member Posted February 1, 2022 Author Posted February 1, 2022 Quickest way to make me walk the other way. If someone can't or won't communicate, then I feel that there isn't much of a basis for anything else. I know some topics are difficult to talk about (I struggle sometimes) but communication is a necessary element of a successful relationship/dynamic.
Deleted Member Posted February 10, 2022 Author Posted February 10, 2022 Without communication it does not work. Silence in a sense speaks volumes. Red Flag alert!
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