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[ur****]

Why is it always assumed women will be submissive. I feel like every message i get is from a guy expecting a submissivs when it clearly states otherwise on my profile like an if youre not a sub dont message me 🥱

[ji****]

People don’t listen, I’ve had women completely ignore what I’ve said in my profile, and I’m pretty sure most women don’t even bother to read profiles anyway. It comes with the app, just ignore or block them

[Gimpetta]

Because of patriarchal gender norms that view women as ‘weak, subservient and submissive’. And portrays men as the ‘strong, commanding, and dominant’

All of which is wrong and it sucks that so much of the scene ends up defined by these ideas as some people struggle to confront their own preconceptions even when proven wrong

[CopperKnob]

I don't know that it's assumed...
I think it's more that people really don't read profiles. I get messages from subs of both genders as well as couples despite my profile saying i'm straight and submissive
On the flip side, I don't have an issue with the right side of the slash messaging me. I guess it's more about what you want from the site

[Ki****]

In my experience, a lot of people just don't read profiles at all. You'll get submissive men asking submissive women to Domme them. This is evidenced by the number of profiles of sub women who have to write a disclaimer along the lines of "don't ask me to domme you".
It's so frustrating to have all the necessary information laid out in your profile that you put effort into, only for it to all be ignored

[MommyDomme84]

I get messages from Doms all the fucking time because apparently they can't read, or don't bother, or don't care. Which honestly is a huge red flag. The very first thing in my profile says if you are a Dom to *** off.... But the message anyway. This tells me they don't give a fuck about boundaries.

I asked one yesterday if he read it and he said "that's too much What do you want"

Well if I was looking for anything, it would be for someone to take the fucking time to glance at my profile before messaging me.

/Rant

[lo****]

They don’t read your profile, they just wont to shag you,

[Deleted Member]

As a male submissive I can relate! ❤️

[em****]

That’s cause most of us are inherently stupid😂

[Ne****]

Just try it with someone, if it feels good go with it, but we’re not compatible with everyone

[Deleted Member]

What’s hilarious is that as a male sub, I have the same problem. So many of the women I meet expect me to dom, with no exceptions. I understand traditional norms and where they come from, but come on. It’s 2022 and let’s treat individuals, ya know, *individually*

[Deleted Member]

Yeah guys don’t read when horny 😬

[Be****]

@chubbyprincess84 ***y loved that 🤣💗

[Ig****]

Im Switch. I’ve never experienced with a Domme properly cause they had been 0 patient with brats and since they were switch as well, ended up giving up and turning into sub Im that moment cause it was easier…
Im still looking for a Domme but is tricky since *** and *** is not an ok thing for me.

[Th****]

Oddly as a Dominant I can relate as well, I get a huge number of 'beg slave' messages 🤣 I figure a few things from this and others most people don't read and just look at the pictures.

Also it does provide a very useful idiot filter. 😉

[Ki****]

It's strange 🤔 I don't receive these kinds of messages despite them being common as across the board. Maybe it's because I'm a switch instead of just Dom. Maybe my profile pictures just aren't 'kinky enough' for them. Maybe I'm just not as attractive as I thought (which wasn't much to begin with), I have no idea. Another mystery of the randos

[Firefox_]

lol Yeah I'm a sub - but with a bratty side, but I get guys asking for me to dom them. XD

[ki****]

Like what you like.

[MommyDomme84]

3 hours ago, Newfiestallion said:

Just try it with someone, if it feels good go with it, but we’re not compatible with everyone

Pretty sure you missed the entire point.

[MommyDomme84]

1 hour ago, KinkyKy said:

It's strange 🤔 I don't receive these kinds of messages despite them being common as across the board. Maybe it's because I'm a switch instead of just Dom. Maybe my profile pictures just aren't 'kinky enough' for them. Maybe I'm just not as attractive as I thought (which wasn't much to begin with), I have no idea. Another mystery of the randos

99% sure it is because you are a dude.

[ki****]

Chubby princess thats sexist. Im a guy and I agree with her.

[ey****]

there's a common theme

I've also had guys not read my profile ha!  Never had that problem with women.

Unless, of course, if you count these running scams who follow scripts.    So basically scammers are in the same lane as guys who don't read profiles

[Mi****]

Too many thirsty people that don’t bother reading 🙄😂

[MommyDomme84]

39 minutes ago, kinkydaddy90 said:

Chubby princess thats sexist. Im a guy and I agree with her.

lmfao, ok cool. I am saying that men tend to deal with thirsty men less than women do. It isn't sexist, it is fact. I am not saying men don't deal with it. I am saying that women experience it more.

[Sh****]

It’s frustrating, but a lot of people don’t read profiles. They just sit there and swipe, see a face they like, and immediately message. Dudes do this way more I feel like. I find it’s really important to read profiles, so as to not waste my or other peoples time, but thirsty people don’t care. They just lazily cast their net as far and wide as they can, and hope for a bite. Sucks