Popular Post Ma**** Posted June 7, 2022 Popular Post Posted June 7, 2022 Lately I’ve been posting my experiences as a beginner sub on Fetlife and it led to lots of random guys PMing me telling me that I’m being way too mindless about having sex. It might come across that way in my posts but for me, I do have standards of who I choose to have sex with. It’s a bit confusing for me how people seem to low-key shame young people who seem sexually promiscuous, especially since it’s within the kink community. Just a thought
Za**** Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 Your absolutely right about that I’ve noticed many subs on here especially recently being kink shamed in general or shamed into doing what random guys want, kink shaming is absolutely not acceptable in a kink community sure there might not be kinks you want too take part in however that doesn’t give anyone the right too kink shame. If it happens again do not hesitate to block or report.
An**** Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 The Genuine ones will know Respect comes first no matter your age! Along with Trust, their hardly going to gain that from you if they are low key shaming. Just my thoughts too!
Deleted Member Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 Do what makes you happy girl. No matter what you do haters gonna hate.
ca**** Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 Those kind of people have no place in the kink community or even as human beings. Anyone can have as much or as little sex with whomever they wish, however they want and for as often as they like without being judged or shamed. It's a sad story when idiots like that call themselves kinksters and fail at the first hurdle, respect and an open mind is a must
Ch**** Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 (edited) Well I say f*** the people that put you down. Just cuz we're young doesn't mean we don't know what we're doing. Plenty of us have had to grow up young. Edited June 8, 2022 by FETMOD-GP Made sfw
GeekySoftDom559 Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 Maybe they think that’s what your looking to hear? But there does seem to be a fair amount of cognitive dissonance there
St**** Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 Damn I'm sorry that happens to you, just report them and try to ignore them. Remember they're just pathetic strangers who don't matter
Deleted Member Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 (edited) Fetlife is just a pit of chaos, so pay it little mind. What it all comes down to is health safety and that you are taking steps to protect not just yourself but other sexual partners as well, other than that go crazy and f***** enjoy yourself! Edited June 8, 2022 by Deleted Member Made sfw
Se**** Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 I wouldn’t worry. Their next message will probably be an offer to teach you “the right way”. Have fun. Do your thing. They’re the ones who are home alone.
1C**** Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 Yeah, don't let people that are like that impact you. You do you, boo
Deleted Member Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 Hey Matilda, idiots talk s*** know matter what. Just do what you like. You will find the one you want. Good luck
DeviantInside Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 Without seeing what they said it’s hard to say. It could have been misguided attempts to promote being safe and sensible (which from what you say you are doing anyway), or it may have been the “true” Dom brigade that feel there is a correct way that throngs should only ever be done, or a way to try to get your attention. Or arrogantly assuming they know better than you. Or a million other possible thought process. Regardless it doesn’t really matter. Ultimately it’s no one else’s business but those involved.
Mn**** Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 Whoever is jumping ob you over your exploring and enjoying yourself on your journey through life is either jealous or wait no or they are jealous for whatever of the many many reasons they could have so you just keep doing you and as long as you don't ever feel ashamed about your actions or things you have done then you are good in my book and most of the others who actually live life nit peek in from the internet
Deleted Member Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 Kink your way. Everyone has an opinion - and are entitled to it - but pming it to you is overstepping. They can feel free to judge you all they want, silently and way over there. (Mum comment... The only person whose standards you have to meet are yours, just keep it SSC x)
Ma**** Posted June 8, 2022 Author Posted June 8, 2022 Aww thank you everyone for the kind words and support! I didn’t expect to get such a positive response and I’m glad to feel supported 💜 Stay safe and have fun! 🧸🤍
Deleted Member Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 Those men are not Dom's. They're creeps who just want the power trip they get from abusing someone online cos they can't actually manage to find someone that respects them in real life. I'm sorry that you've experienced that here, or anywhere.
Po**** Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 You really should ignore them - I know it’s hard. The same guys shaming you for being experienced are the same who will be overly too sexual, too soon with others….. pay them no mind, keep on living the life and do you (also we can be friends on there too, just DM me ☺️) Also you really don’t owe them s***. Either don’t answer or tell them off on your profile straight away
Deleted Member Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 Oh! I thought we were all sluts in here??? Kinky sex loving sluts no?? 😋 f*@k them. You do you and ignore people who seek to label before they seek understand
Deleted Member Posted June 8, 2022 Posted June 8, 2022 Listen, shaming in this community isn't tolerated. Unless you like it, then you've been a very bad girl. But FR there are a lot of fake people who troll, block them, move to find people who support not shame.
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