Foreplay

[Deleted Member]

So one thing I tend to notice among most guys nowadays is a lack of foreplay. After asking a lot of my female friends they say they're lucky to get even five minutes of it.

Ladies how important is foreplay to you, and how long do you think it should last? Personally I can do forplay for at least an hour.

[Deleted Member]

All women are different. One of my subs needs about 5 to 10 minutes before she shuts down the foreplay. And one of my other subs needs at least an hour to properly cum. Each lady has their own set of traits

[Zela]

Foreplay is soooo important both to connect but also physically. Not good to drive a car without warming it up in the winter, right? Well same for women 🤷🏻‍♀️

No foreplay - no play or repeat invitation is my rule now.

[Deleted Member]

🤣the “humble” brag. Most women can get themselves off in 20minutes. Foreplay is to help with lubrication and arousal, so as long as that takes...

[Wh****]

I’m a huge fan of it and especially adding teasing in makes it much hotter when sex finally comes it’s a must have

[Seras_and_Sir]

I tend to bind and blindfold my wife then tease her with various types of toys. She gets soo wet but knows she isn't allowed to cum without my permission. :)

[ge****]

Personally I prefer foreplay to penetration and don't necessarily see penetration as an "aim" of sex, just a part of it that if it happens it happens, if not we still had fun anyway.

[ti****]

Foreplay is a must. It is very rare these days to fi d someone who doesn't just rush into sex.

[De****]

What this guy said! That’s crazy :)

[Deleted Member]

I think some foreplay is required at least for me because I have been with a Dom that would go into a scene and start paddling then go into f*****g. It actually hurt me because I was not aroused and it made it very uncomfortable. I would say I need at least a minute or two just to get aroused by kissing or touching. Just because you put a blindfold on me and make me get into a position does not get me ready to start to go into impact playing or f*****g. I feel very used if I am not aroused because I feel like I am just a vessel which is degrading and NOT something I want to appreciate. My Dom found me crying in the bathroom afterwards when I asked if I can clean up as aftercare because I felt like I did something wrong. Communication is key because I know some women who would like that and others who would not.

[Mi****]

I mean I think 15mins is fair for an upstart and anything passed that is just worshipping. It's much appreciated.

[so****]

Could porn possibly play a role? No pun intended lol every guy watches porn & those who say they don't are liars. It's extremely pervasive in the culture everywhere now & influences so, so much. Could it be possible that it's messing up foreplay too? Idk. It wouldn't be the first thing porn messed up & won't be the last lol unfortunately. Just a thought. There's gotta be a reason for this & the only logical answer would have to be something that expands across multiple cultures. Porn is the only thing that comes to my mind.

[Ak****]

I would bite your head off! I'm seriously not that patient. I'd rather have a little work up and get filled. Aftercare, kisses and caressing afterwards is so much better. 🤣😘🔥🔥🔥

[Deleted Member]

Foreplay is great! All the better if you can start it off some public and continue doing while no one looks. Building up the anticipation of what’s to come

[0u****]

Amen. Foreplay is necessary to give a woman.

[Ho****]

One of my subs described the process of being tied up as foreplay for her. Without it she couldn't cum. And Ive taken stuff like that to heart...and every Dom should too

[Mr-Brown]

It's important! Without foreplay what's the point 🤷🏽‍♂️. I make sure there's plenty before even entering 😌.

[Ti****]

Answering as a guy, both giving and receiving foreplay is often so much more rewarding than the time spent with traditional penetrative play.

The brain is the largest sex organ in our body. Without engaging it with stimuli from across our bodies, and building the chemistry and atmosphere, all play falls short. Not sure why so many folks, both male and female, want to skip over it and sprint to the finish line

[Iz****]

This is literally one of the reasons I've moved to toys and reading fanfics instead of irl. Foreplay is nearly non existence nowadays at least from my experience, so I vicariously get that same pleasure I guess

[Fa****]

The problem with “foreplay” is that it suggests that it is before the actual main event which o don’t think should ever be the case.

Sex is sex take it or leave it but touch and stimulation of the mind, body and senses should happen throughout the encounter.

Foreplay ought not be the poor relation of a sexual encounter. More that penetration shouldn’t be the main event.

Play, tease, touch, f,**k, lick, suck, touch, f**k mix it up but don’t use one to get to another.

Just my opinion x

[Fa****]

And it terms of how long it should last… it can last ALLLLL DAY LONG

[Ig****]

Foreplay Is the best part I love I mean love going down on a woman and I will do it for hours until she cums multiple times all over my face

[ku****]

I’m all about the foreplay. I love to explore a woman’s body I love to lick pussy. I have to get a woman off a few times before I even try to put my cock in them. I love watching a woman squirm

[OT****]

Why are you only asking the ladies, guys enjoy it to you know 🤔

[Deleted Member]

Veryyyy