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hiya! so i have a breeding/cum kink. and im really craving to get full of cum! but i dont want to get pregnant. does anyone know how to make body-safe fake cum?
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Never mind about not getting pregnant, which as @TheBookCollector said about the only option is contraceptive pills, give some consideration to your sexual health also - totally "get" the fantasy, but STIs are and should be as big a concern as pregnancy - not suggesting you will get one, but they're a risk all the same, so take that into consideration too - and remember just seeing a negative test result means nothing than at the time of testing the other person tested negative - if they had sex for at least 4 weeks prior to the test (and for HIV it can be up to 12 weeks) or since the test then they could still have something and pass it on.
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Not trying to scaremonger here but it's something you need to consider and be aware of all the same.

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10 minutes ago, gemini_man said:
Never mind about not getting pregnant, which as @TheBookCollector said about the only option is contraceptive pills, give some consideration to your sexual health also - totally "get" the fantasy, but STIs are and should be as big a concern as pregnancy - not suggesting you will get one, but they're a risk all the same, so take that into consideration too - and remember just seeing a negative test result means nothing than at the time of testing the other person tested negative - if they had sex for at least 4 weeks prior to the test (and for HIV it can be up to 12 weeks) or since the test then they could still have something and pass it on.
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Not trying to scaremonger here but it's something you need to consider and be aware of all the same.

hiya! just thought i would reply,, im not having sex with anyone. if i was, those would be my concerns. and i will absolutely not take contraceptives as a trans man. thats why im opting to not have sex. was just asking about how to make body-safe cum!

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So - your best choice is to buy some of the products designed for this

Uberkinky has a full page of lubes that look like cum - they're body safe, they can work in squirting dildos, or used other ways - they get used a lot in porn.   

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4 hours ago, ftmpup9 said:

hiya! just thought i would reply,, im not having sex with anyone. if i was, those would be my concerns. and i will absolutely not take contraceptives as a trans man. thats why im opting to not have sex. was just asking about how to make body-safe cum!

Sorry, I obviously misunderstood what you meant when you said "I'm really craving to get full of cum" which suggested sex was on the cards.
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If you're just looking to fake it - as eyem says there are various products that look like it - even some hand wash products do, so guess it's a case of experimenting or buying something designed to fit the bill.

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Please excuse me, but I do not understand for asking pregnancy. Why did you ask knowing you can't bear children? I would never ask since I can't have children anymore. Am I missing something?🤷‍♀️
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5 hours ago, ftmpup9 said:

hiya! just thought i would reply,, im not having sex with anyone. if i was, those would be my concerns. and i will absolutely not take contraceptives as a trans man. thats why im opting to not have sex. was just asking about how to make body-safe cum!

What about the copper iud? It doesn’t have any hormones in and is an effective contraceptive. However I may have misunderstood the reason why you do not want to use contraceptives, so I apologise if I wrongly assumed it was due to hormones. 

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not wishing to project or speak on behalf of someone - but - if he is a trans man then 

I can understand not wanting to be penetrated by a real penis

and I suspect contraceptives designed for feminine bodies would feed into dysphoria.   They'd also be unnecessary if not using real cum.

While there's elements of this play I don't fully understand - it's not for me or us to necessarily fully understand but from what appears to be the fantasy/objective - body safe cum is the only option. 

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1 minute ago, eyemblacksheep said:

not wishing to project or speak on behalf of someone - but - if he is a trans man then 

I can understand not wanting to be penetrated by a real penis

and I suspect contraceptives designed for feminine bodies would feed into dysphoria.   They'd also be unnecessary if not using real cum.

While there's elements of this play I don't fully understand - it's not for me or us to necessarily fully understand but from what appears to be the fantasy/objective - body safe cum is the only option. 

That makes sense, I’ve also just realised I completely misread his post and missed the part about not using real cum. My bad. 
 

Apologies ftmpup9 😊

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So often used in porn is pancake mix. That looks way better on camera then real. You can heat it up.

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4 hours ago, kiseu said:
Please excuse me, but I do not understand for asking pregnancy. Why did you ask knowing you can't bear children? I would never ask since I can't have children anymore. Am I missing something?🤷‍♀️

as a trans man, there is still a possibility that i could get pregnant. and i really do not want to risk that.

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also just adding onto this. sex is not on the table for me. and i live in a household where if i were to even get the chance to buy a product that resembles fake cum, it would not end well. i have extreamely strict parents, so body-safe fake cum that i can make is pretty much my only option.
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I dm'ed you 2 other options to make fake cum. Enjoy :)

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4 hours ago, ftmpup9 said:

as a trans man, there is still a possibility that i could get pregnant. and i really do not want to risk that.

Really? Not to sound ignorant, at worst uninformed - but I did not think this was scientifically possible or with precedent in 2022?

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3 minutes ago, Shirt-n-Tie-Boy said:

Really? Not to sound ignorant, at worst uninformed - but I did not think this was scientifically possible or with precedent in 2022?

The OP is FTM which means Female To Male so is entirely scientifically possible if they are still transitioning which it appears they may be (apologies if I have that wrong OP)

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a trans man still has a womb and uterus...

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30 minutes ago, gemini_man said:

The OP is FTM which means Female To Male so is entirely scientifically possible if they are still transitioning which it appears they may be (apologies if I have that wrong OP)

yesyes!! i am on testosterone, and (directed at @shirt-n-tie-boy) that doesn't immediately shut down female reproductive organs!! i may not get my period anymore, but its still a possibility. it may be slim, but still a possibility.

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Look for a guy who's had a vasectomy. A guy will still cum, but it won't have sperm

To any other guy reading this, do what I did. Vasectomies free you. If you still want kids later, just get some spermies frozen.

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Vasectomies are a bit barbaric now though. Its like a scene from Game of Thrones, your wide awake.

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20 minutes ago, DevilishDevin said:

Look for a guy who's had a vasectomy. A guy will still cum, but it won't have sperm

I'm not sure which part of "he doesn't want a cock inside of him" people are failing to grasp here

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Sunday at 10:10 PM, eyemblacksheep said:

I'm not sure which part of "he doesn't want a cock inside of him" people are failing to grasp here

If you havent read all the replies then its easy to miss the poster is a trans-male.

In my first reply id assumed the poster was female not trans male.

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2 minutes ago, TheBookCollector said:

If you havent read all the replies then its easy to miss the poster is a trans-male.

In my first reply id assumed the poster was female not trans male.

my name is "ftmpup9" ftm means female to male. its not very easy to miss!! just gotta read my name lol

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5 minutes ago, ftmpup9 said:

my name is "ftmpup9" ftm means female to male. its not very easy to miss!! just gotta read my name lol

Just saying not every one will make the connection as i rarely read peoples usernames on OP's just the subject.

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As @TheBookCollectorhas pointed out re username I did see it and it meant nothing to me. I am not down with all the abbreviations. I don't even know that some kinks exist or what the descriptors or labels are as its such a vast library now. Only the other day I had to google what edging is. Things change too, I have not been no a fetish/BDSM dating site for sometime and I don't recall bratting was ever such a big thing. Its an even changing and fast evolving environment, or maybe it just seems this way for me as I am not as active as others.

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