She wants to know

[Bi****]

My girlfriend would like to know the best way to practice anal play.

[Li****]

Would that be on you or her?

[ge****]

Lube. Lots of lube. And go slow.

[gr****]

Start slow and small use a plug and fingers let her breath and relax that's the big keys pushing just a lil while u insert helps

[Deleted Member]

Patience and relaxation

[Deleted Member]

Start small then get bigger gradually

[Li****]

Butt plugs! 😀

[re****]

But plug trainer kits and fingering. With fingering start slow and gentle with one finger then gradually move to two once she is comfortable with one. Once two is ok get a bit plug trainer kit and start with the small one have her wear it for a set time like 30 minutes or an hour and keep doing that. Key is to be very relaxed and use plenty of lubricant

[Ri****]

Start using fingers, gloves and lube make it more fun. Then graduate to small plugs and use doing play, or have her keep it in for a punishment/reward.

[Ak****]

Gradually stretching, lots of lube, music, massage, different positions and poppers if needed for the initial incursion.

[se****]

Lots of lube. Think you got enough use more and then double it.

[ey****]

so make sure you clean for her first

perhaps if you start by using butt plugs, you'll already be stretched when she penetrates you for the first time 

[Deleted Member]

Use anal/fisting specific lubricants, theyre thicker, last longer & will make things much easier for her but I'd also say go look at female anatomy/genital diagrams, the vagina is tiny compared to the ass & all you need to do is train the sphincter muscle to relax & stretch.

Anal is so much easier than most people expect & generally only hurts when you don't take your time, don't use the right lubes & toys to enable penis penetration.

1 of the most important things is to be relaxed & take your time, don't try rush it, give her plenty of foreplay, make her orgasm - anal I find is usually easier after the woman has orgasmed - but it shouldn't take long at all, sometimes it only takes one or to practice sessions with toys before I can actually have anal sex.

[re****]

You both need to trust each other, hygiene comes in next, cause you'll def not want the atmosphere smelling like carrion... So I'll advise enema, it's simply using Lukewarm water with regular bathing soap with a syringe or something she should administer it in a bun, about 10-20 mL or so.. that should help sterilise are bowl... Back to you, you'll be needing alot of water base lubes and get a condom at least since you trying it with her for the first, don't rush it, take your time and most importantly remember to *** her😘

[Lord_Talion]

Start with her finger, then 2, 3, your finger, then 2, 3. Getvused to using lube. All thins gets her used to having something there as it's slowly increased in size.

[Deleted Member]

Lots of foreplay lube and be gentle

[Bi****]

1 hour ago, Littlemisstake said:

Would that be on you or her?

Her

[Jo****]

Getting in the mood, then lube and gently inserting finger then fingers, while keeping excited after that is all she wrote!

[Sk****]

Lots of rimming. Slow play. Increasing pressure. Alternate eating her ass and licking it from c**t to tailbone. Massaging it with your fingers. Make sure she’s relaxed and can enter subspace and reassure her that you don’t have any expectations. Lots and LOTS of sex with advancing play. Eventually she’ll crave it and begin pushing back up onto you. Give her some control and let her decide what she can handle. I’m not a fan of popper. Never have been. They’re great for relaxing the anal sphincter, but I don’t like the head rush feeling. Not good for brain cells either. Losing my mind for anal like that just wasn’t worth it to me. I personally love anal, but for whatever reason, never had to go through all the training that I hear about these days. Same thing with DT. Can’t say that ever required training insomuch as it did desire. You’re either hungry for what you want, or you’re not. Being able to do it and wanting to do it because you enjoy it are two completely different ***s IMO.

[eu****]

Really I was wondering about that,I did it to my self but I was really drunk,so glad I don't drink any more I can experience every
thing.

[Bi****]

1 hour ago, eyemblacksheep said:

so make sure you clean for her first

perhaps if you start by using butt plugs, you'll already be stretched when she penetrates you for the first time 

Sorry for the confusion, she is the one getting penetrated. 

[su****]

Analeze helps a lot!

[Se****]

When I first started I read as many online articles as I could. I'm kind of a bed in that regard when I want to learn something new. I recommend education on hygiene, common insecurities and reassurance. It took me in guessing 3-4 months before my ex could comfortably slide his cock in (he was thick). If she just wants to start with play I recommend soft music, hot bath, don't eat a heavy meal beforehand, fully body massage or whatever helps her relax. Just touching herself for starters is helpful, getting used to the sensation. Use small toys or just a finger to begin. Relaxation is key!! Lube is the next best important component. Never ever rush. Have fun!!

[Deleted Member]

Numbing anal lube and riding seems to be the easiest to control. Definitely not doggie to start it goes alot deeper

[Ma****]

Am curious to know too