Trans Men

[be****]

Interesting topic, tbh. I’m a non-binary trans guy and tend to put myself in the non-binary category more often than not. It’s definitely still a part of my identity, but part of it is also bc of the issue you run into - people automatically assume I’m a trans woman and it can be frustrating and dysphoric. I prefer it when they allow us to specify our identities instead of calling ‘trans’ a whole gender in and of itself

[po****]

trans guy n nby here just wanted to say sorry to op that you have to read a lot of subtlety transphobic things in this thread. there's def an invisibility issue about trans dudes n trans mascs

[Seedplantr269]

August 28, Bulbarat said:

Thank you, there's nothing wrong with fetishes. But people's identity, race, ect. aren't fetishes, it's dehumanizing

But your sexual orientation can be a fetish . It's a unique trait and choice not God given . Not knocking anyone in any way as I love being with a trans man . But it's reality . So yes it can be a fetish respectfully . It's all about how some people approach others that makes it wrong .

[eu****]

Question:Bullarat- How is being a trans a fetish?

[Bu****]

I was saying that it's not a fetish specifically

[Per-seus]

i feel the same i’m t4t in most cases and i haven’t found many trans men on here

[eu****]

Ya, it's even harder to engage with any one especially being bisexual what's up with that?

[si****]

I’m a trans guy and I def have like had some questionable interactions. It would nice to have trans men + trans women as separate categories as well to reduce confusion.

[eu****]

Also if your into trans specify, which one FtM or MtF and answer the damn text!

[eu****]

Also would be nice if they are into trans to please specify which FtM or MtF then answer the text!

[RosesHaveThorns75]

On 8/29/2022 at 12:23 AM, Bulbarat said:

Thank you, there's nothing wrong with fetishes. But people's identity, race, ect. aren't fetishes, it's dehumanizing

But that seems to shame peeps who have attraction for or extra attraction/interest in certain physical types or certain social groups or races how is attraction & desire to always dehumane peeps?!? So I should aim at being with an identity/race/group/look that I'm NOT interested in or attracted to or desiring of atall in case it's fetishizing?!? Now life is just a straight-jacket ☹️ now natural affinitys can cause us to be like accused of inequalities?!? Without natural attractions which is a vibe which is there or its not there is nothing natural 🤔 regardless of social/genetical types & in history certain types or groups were often seen as more/less desirable or taken on as say "trophy wives" or lovers by certain groups & that still happens now days.....often minority identitys are fetish interests partly or fully & otherwise they may not get any social-access & sex romance chances!!! now you've made it about even more rules that limit minority groups peeps like me) even more.....while supremacists value systems  still rule majority society anywayz & get away with whatever inequalities they feel entitled to.....sucks ☹️💀

[RosesHaveThorns75]

On 8/30/2022 at 11:14 PM, bebes said:

Interesting topic, tbh. I’m a non-binary trans guy and tend to put myself in the non-binary category more often than not. It’s definitely still a part of my identity, but part of it is also bc of the issue you run into - people automatically assume I’m a trans woman and it can be frustrating and dysphoric. I prefer it when they allow us to specify our identities instead of calling ‘trans’ a whole gender in and of itself

Transgender= equals a whole spectrum of differing gender identitys!! 🤔 that don't conform to just the norm of traditional male/female social gender eXpectations) most folks think now days because of the media that Transgender=legal/medical change from one gender to another ☹️ no it's a term for a whole spectrum of gender identitys on various levels-transgender is from internal & personal gender identity(s) not just what you look like outside gender-wise which would come under "gender expression" part of gender study's!!! 🕵️