Whats yalls Sapiosexual strategy?

[scientistxSaturday]

Looking for Ideas for Rules, guidelines, strategies for building and maintaining intellectual intimacy.

For dynamics like teacher/student, sexy conscientists, scientist/subject, witch/apprentice.

What're some other dynamics u find give you an intellectual high?

What are some of the vetting processes n boundaries intellectual doms n subs do?

[Deleted Member]

Morning, good topic.... I think sapio connection happens organically. Certainly when I've had very intelligent submissives it's evident from initial communication. Their emotional dexterity as well as intellectual prowess is very attractive/ appealing.... and so the dance begins.

Vetting and boundaries are very much the discernment of the individual and a 2 way awareness of these enable the progression from the initial communication.

I'll be interested to read what others have to say on the topic

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[MauroDraco]

Share, invest and build of each other's intellectual interests and hobbies seem like good strategies to me.

It's the crafting of bonds, keeping the closeness and sincerely acting to come nearer one another in a sapio meaningful way.

[Hexy]

For those that identify as a Sapiosexual or Demisexual, similar things may apply such as engaging questions and discussions etc.
Personally i've always played the bimbo air head submissive so i'll be watching this thread to see other people input as it would be nice to have some respect for my albeit limited intelligence.
The only thing i can add to this conversation is the old bits of advice like "Communication is key" or "be honest and respectful" but admittedly its not really adding a lot as this should be obvious to those that are experienced in such dynamics but also a good reminder to those who have just started their journey into any form of dynamic from taboo kink to vanilla relationships.

[Puppy6411]

I agree with Firewtch. It tends to happen organically. Conversations that can pull threads from many disparate sources. To start and continue that dance, stretching the ideas, agreeing, disagreeing, playing the devil's advocate, responding to each other's responses to, perhaps see things in a different way.
Not so much point scoring, more exploring thoughts.

[Th****]

I love debate and when I am in a sapiosexual dynamic, which is most of the time. I tend to approach that side as equals as first.
Even opinions have boundaries in a strange way, and with that organic conversation that Firewitch mentioned early on, you can find the areas that are not volatile.

It also has to be said I have a preference for lifestyle Brats which is a little like humorous fencing when the dynamic works right. Great for Sapiosexual and for giggles 🤣