Deleted Member Posted February 20 Posted February 20 Sooooo, I don't know where to start. But basically, I got divorced last year and I want to find a new man. I went to some dating sites and for some reason, got into an exchange with a guy from Egypt (we are both Arabs) who wants to find a "Queen" that treats him like. slave. I said I am not a domina but he was begging that I insult him and give him orders. I kinda felt sorry for him since he cannot get any validation in his patriarchal society. I called him a piece of sh... and that made him call me "My Queen". So I promised to give him orders for 7 days until I block him. I don't know how to treat him, but I gave him orders not to drink coffee and start his master's thesis (I'm pathetic , I know lol). He told me that he has been like this since his childhood when his very dominant female teacher used to hit him with a ruler to learn and how he was fascinated by her feet. He would dream of her and her feet and he was craving her attention. Am I doing a mistake? I kinda feel he has childhood trauma and whenever he says "I wish a was a slave", he doesn't really comprehend? I do feel a sweet something inside me when I give him orders or when I imagine him kissing my feet, or him bound on the bed and I ride him. But I also enjoy having a powerful dominant man generally. I just like to be "on top" sometimes. He asked me whether I would r*pe him and treat him like a bitch. So... my questions again: Shall I leave him alone to find a real domina? Can a sub man here tell me how this works and what happened to you guys? Are you always a sub or just in the bedroom? I don't know how he looks and I won't travel to engage in any relationship with him. I also don't do sex outside marriage anyway. But this whole thing made me very curious.... and I am wondering if I have "kinky" side, too. Thank you!!!