si**** Posted August 24 Posted August 24 Hello everybody, i just want to ask a little thing. Im new to this lifestyle, but i tried scene with pro domme before. So is bdsm lifestyle always have to tribute first ? I want to try finding a partner without any payment at all, ofc i can buy some little things later as we know each other more like a vanilla date, but do subs always have to tribute first before knowing the master/mistress? Like is it some kind of rule in this lifestyle? Sorry for my bad english and im just asking to know more about this thing.