New Here? Introduce Yourselves!

[Deleted Member]

Fairly new to the website but not the lifestyle. Here from Greensboro, NC looking to hopefully find the right Dom to meet my needs. 

[qu****]

Hi! I am new here. I joined because a friend suggested it. I am married have been for 8 years and we are wanting to find others to be friends with. Saying that we also are looking for fun in and out of the bedroom. I am still confused about this app, so I am trying to get use to it! I’ve been into a lot of kinks but never unleashed it until now. So my husband and I would be brand new to all this.

[ex****]

Hi I'm new. Just setting up. I'm taken and have been for a year but want to experiment

[Will_Morin]

Dear new comers, kindly make sure you read and abide by the community terms and condition a to avoid ***s. Thank you!! 

[Lo****]

My name is Jesus I’m new to the life style I’m just honestly plan curious I do want a dom mommy tho that’s for sure

[An****]

Ive been on for a few I like exploration still learning what into this is kind of a side hobby as I’m unable to make this a lifestyle thing . It’s part of me but I have to conceal it mostly. I can only come here privately to experience it almost open to anything but must start consensual and slow. Threesomes and daddy dom I’d like. I’m not too picky don’t know about slave or too much bondage tho some *** feels good.

[Oh****]

Hello am Ohpolelite and am excited to find my Dom Daddy. And obvs get eaten out as much as I please.

[Na****]

I’m john. New here and kink. Just checking it out, and make some friends along the way

[tr****]

Hello im jon not well versed in terms or the ways and or etiquette

[tr****]

But good to know I’m not the outcast I thought people are just a little more reserved I don’t know others LOL

[ne****]

Hello 

Not new to the community but new to this site north east England holla

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[Mr****]

Hello
39 years old brasilian in Vancouver
BDSM experienced and looking for fun and friends .
Man woman trans gay
I just love everyone ...

[Da****]

Heyy lovelies new here!! I’m 28 and in Tx, USA. I’m into Consensual non-consent

[T2****]

Just joined last week. From Boston Ma area. Looking to explore fetishes meet new people and have fun! Thanks.

[Goober-9862]

Hello.  Funny I've been here for over seven days now and I'm just now finding this forum topic.  I really wish there was better search functionality. 

So hey, I'm new here, but not  .

There was a recent post by, shoot...copperknot, hope I got that right without looking, which was super helpful.

I think, from what I can at least, there are newbies that get lost here or I'm just doing it wrong.  Is there a better way?  Is there a FAQ specific to "I'm just getting started in my kinkiness"?

Seven days and I'm still a bit lost here, but thanks to kind folks I've decided to stick around.

I'll round this out with the following, I posted it somewhere, but I'm sure it is lost in the sea that is fetish.com:

Where did you all start?  How did you decide I'm into this or that and grow it?

I see lots of threads regarding bdsm, spanking, etc. And suggestions on starting small, makes sense.  But for example, I like leather, seeing it being worn, is that kinky, is that a fetish or just a turn on?  What do I do with that?  Where do I find leather that is not sub par?

I tend to overanalyze most everything, I know that, it's a curse and a blessing. 

What would it take to get a "hey I'm new to this" section, with a top 10 FAQ or other useful information, or hey here is bdsm stuff, here's kinky stuff, here's what a vanilla should know stuff?

Sorry for the long post, I appreciate everyone I've interacted with so far, seriously great community!

[wo****]

I’m new here to I’m 40 from Baltimore Maryland hey there 👋🏽

[De****]

Hello everyone, I’m Derik from San Diego, CA. See

[sq****]

Hi Cali baby here

[Ch****]

Hi everyone!

[De****]

Hello

[Just_A_Good_Boy]

Hello! I recently joined the site, I am 26 and from Ireland! (if any other Irish people want to have a chat or send me a message, go ahead  )

I have been interested in kink for years, and now would really like to truly explore it more and start attending munches, and making new connections.  

[bb****]

New here living in Malta

[Fetishlover45]

Hi everyone, can i introduce myself.

I am looking to meet new friends,  and be able to explore this strange new world of kink

Any help very much appreciated 

[ma****]

Hi everyone

I've been watching bdsm porn for a few years, watching some of submissions, and I would like to enter this world as a submissive, I'm new here, I've never done anything like that before, because I can't find someone I like too. I'm curious about Pegging and ***d deepthroat while I'm tied up and blindfolded.

[JayJ]

Buckinghamshire, UK here