Br**** Posted April 8 Posted April 8 What do you like or want to do the first time you partner with someone to set the tone for your physical relationship?
su**** Posted April 8 Posted April 8 First time I did a DVP on a girlfriend. It was glorious. I damn near fainted when I orgasmed.
DukeOfPayne Posted April 8 Posted April 8 Grab the hair in my fist and put her to her knees where she belongs
Fe**** Posted April 8 Posted April 8 First time activity…. knowledge, learning. I learn about the person. We discuss knowledge, experiences, potential triggers. We set the limits we talk about things we both want to achieve.. and this is how I set the tone.
Sting-ATL Posted April 9 Posted April 9 I like TheDuchy's checklist. It is seven pages long and has almost every kink and is called "BDSM-Experience-and-Curiosity-Checklist". Knowledge is power, consent is king, and discussing kinks is a fun way for her and me to relax. I can learn about her experience level, make her feel safe with me, and I can learn about any medical issues, limits, triggers, and boundaries I need to know. Then, I like showing a wide range of impact tools, some of which I know are scary and we will not use. Go over each and discuss how each can or will be used.
Ju**** Posted April 9 Posted April 9 That all things have been discussed. Things laid out as to what will happen, no deviations. Start small. Trust must be built. Look for any red flags.
DukeOfPayne Posted April 9 Posted April 9 Boundaries have been set and agreed beforehand and then each and every one is taken to the limits upon meeting
We**** Posted April 11 Posted April 11 Communication is KEY 🔑! If there are things I like dislike or want I will verbally tell you like if the vibes And attraction between us are there to fuck I will say “Hey, wanna fuck?” along those lines basically.
Fe**** Posted April 12 Posted April 12 16 hours ago, Leisa said: Conversation is always the best starting point. Actually, Tacos and the best starting point..
Leisa Posted April 13 Posted April 13 18 hours ago, Feral_MountainKing said: Actually, Tacos and the best starting point.. Only if the offer of tacos comes to fruition
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