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[Asteria90]

Been approached by someone fairly local. Seems decent and all until admitted looking for companion to "act as the spouse/partner for a few hours a week at my home". What does a dynamic like that involve? Has anyone been in one I just don't fully understand expectations. Is it a kink? 

[he****]

Here’s a novel idea- ASK them🤔 what someone tells you here & what that persons expectations are may be worlds apart

[bi****]

Definitely ask them. Have them fully flesh it out for you, and ask lots of questions

[MA****]

For clarification, a man wants to come to your home, get the whole Bf/husband treatment. I've not heard of this before what are his expectations whilst you act like his partner, just sexual/physical or is he expecting you to cook his dinner. Do his laundry and the like?

[SeaDragon580]

You're going to want to get clarification but it sounds a bit like the 1950's dynamic where he's wanting the just came home from work and the wifey is taking care of the tired husband. When in doubt ask. I'm sure he'll be happy enough to go into details it might help them get what they want.

[ey****]

Sounds like he wants the experience of having a partner; without actually wanting to commit to a relationship himself

 

[Cu****]

Sounds like he wants you to be a cook/cleaner whilst he’s not there, and even though local, he only wants you for a few hours a WEEK at his home? Do you have the word “mug” tattooed across your forehead? Surely you’re worth far more than this, and what you’ve told us is all about what HE wants. Where’s your input? What do you want? I hope you tell him that what either of you want, is supposed to be consensual. You, are in charge of you. You, decide.

[Deleted Member]

Ask, wouldn’t go into anything blinded.

[jo****]

To act as a wife or spouse doesn’t really mean anything. These people above clearly have an idea to themselves what a wife or spouse should do but if I were I’d just ask him exactly what that means, you said they seem decent so they should be open enough to share their intentions. I wouldn’t have a sour taste in my mouth before asking this person because we’re all different, I have a very different idea of what it means to have a spouse/wife at my house for a few hours a week than the previous replies. People vary wildly so don’t assume what they mean

[TheRigger]

Tune in to your gut feeling first - is it something you want to explore? If it is then meet him in a public place for a coffee or drink - face to face connection usually let's your head know if it feels right - and if you two will have a connection.
When you meet on the agenda to discuss is boundaries and limits and what are the expectations that he wants and just as important your expectations.
If all the pieces fit together go for it, if not you can leave and find something else where the pieces fit.
The big question though has this pricked your interest and is ir something you may want to explore?