Find kinky women in Bedfordshire

Hey, I’m slowly exploring and discovering my kinky side, which I think seems to have been denied for far too long! I need a man with a wicked sense of humour - playful and cheeky conversation is a bonus - and who appreciates a woman with curves. For kink, I favour restraint and control over sadistic tendencies - correction and punishment have their place but pain for pains sake isn’t for me. I prefer praise over humiliation and love filthy talk but not being degraded. I need a man taller than myself - I’m 5 foot 10 - to dominate me, take control and have fun with. In my vanilla life, I’m very independent and professional and love attending gigs, theatre, cinema, reading - various genres, including wonderful smut! - card and board games as well as being out in nature walking. I’m not looking for a Master and don’t want to live the life 24/7. Ultimately, I am hoping to meet someone to adore and be adored by and have an LTR. Most definitely am NOT into feet and foot fetishes!
Female (56) Bedford, Bedfordshire
# heading text Hello!! my name is Ducky (yes everyone in the real world calls me that) i am a curvy kinky kitten been in the BDSM world for many a year! in training Leather slave and enjoying the journey it is taking me on
Female (27) Bedford, Bedfordshire
I want to make friends that are spiritual, practice witchcraft and have knowledge/experience with BDSM so I can trust their advice & a protective Mentor. I want to make friends that are in the BDSM community that have knowledge, experience so I could trust their knowledge, experience & possibly make friends that could be a mentor. Kinks/Fetishes that I am into: Dd/lg Mask kink-Ghostface, Michael Myers, horror film characters, cosplayers, vintage, Mardi Gras, Renaissance, Venetian masks, Carnival masks, occult masks, masquerade ball masks Old fashioned clothing for roleplaying Satanic sex-consensual sex magick or sex with entities, demons and spirits Astral sex A supportive, encouraging and comforting Daddy Dom since it is a caring, but sometimes sexual role, there are many aspects to being a Daddy Dom, not just the sexual aspect if your Dd/lg or Dom/sub dynamic is even sexual. A caring, safe person I can be myself with without being judged, shamed, rejected, or given false hope then used, abused, rejected & abandoned on purpose. Hopefully I can find a mentor that is like that. Gentle Domination- being touched gently Being seduced by a man that is my boyfriend/Dadfy Dom (When I know he respects me, is trustworthy and I feel safe with him ?) Verbal Degradation Praise Kink Predator-prey kink CnC & similar roleplay Knife play, Blood play Vampirism as a kink/fetish Roleplaying Narratophilia-Dirty talk, Spicy ASMR Some men severely underestimate how dark, vivid or sexual a woman's imagination is audio erotica is sexy, hot and entertaining to listen to ??? Auralism-Men growling, grunting, purring like a big cat, speaking in a foreign language or with a accent when they speak in English, Spicy ASMR, Audio Erotica (Quinn App & audiodesires.com) Mental stimulation- blindfold, sensory deprivation Erotic Hypnosis- Fantasies, it helps with being sexually repressed/sexually frustrated Astral Sex- Astral projection, Astral sex, Lucid dreaming Spiritual BDSM, a spiritual Dom/sub dynamic that involves witchcraft, astral sex, BDSM, a spiritual connection/bond, Different types of pain (including being held in a man's arms & being bitten in various places, held down during sex and seduced, bitten a lot) There are also non sexual aspects of a Dom/sub dynamic that are important to me as well, that I want/need from a dynamic since it's not just about sex, or only want a Dom wants & only on their terms. I am sexually repressed & I have the right to do things at my own pace that I am comfortable with, no one decides what I am comfortable with or when I give my trust, respect, consent or submission. I have had a spiritual & psychic connection/bond in a Dom/sub dynamic that involves BDSM, spiritual kinks/fetishes & witchcraft. I'm a direct/honest person, i'm trustworthy, loyal, I genuinely love/care about my Dom when they are my long-term boyfriend/Daddy Dom. I'm a shy, awkward, direct/honest person & i'm sexually repressed, I have a long-distance boyfriend (he doesn't use this website so I can't add my relationship status) so I want to make some friends. There are specific things I want/need from a Dom/sub dynamic, I want/need to feel safe, respected, to be able to trust a guy 100%) I'm not into the Dd/lg kink for incestuous/peadophilic reasons/purposes & I don't hurt animals/kids either. I'm into alternative/niche things which includes BDSM, i'm trying to make friends that like similar things, but I fucking hate being pressured/coerced to meet people I don't know well in-person. I'm shy, awkward person, socialising in-person is/can be overwhelming, stressful. You don't automatically have my trust, respect, consent, submission, I won't give my consent to do any kinks/fetishes that I am not into, and it's disgusting to force kinks/fetishes your into onto anyone you talk to here. I'm no one's sexdoll, disposable plaything either, i'm a submissive, masochist but not everyone's submissive, masochist. People really need to learn the basics of respect, consent, the basic principles of BDSM as well & learn why the vetting process for any potential Dom or sub is important. No one automatically has your consent, respect, trust or submission, especially when you are getting to know them.
Female (36) Bedford, Bedfordshire
Looking for a Dom to help remind me of my place once in a while... Just here for some fun with no strings attached, open to trying new things, haven't explored a great deal. Before you ask, I dont have a dominant bone in my body and will not switch, the clues in the username? Drop me a message, I dont bite (unless you ask me nicely)✌
Female (25) Blunham, Bedfordshire
Hi I'm Krissie, 5ft6 just here to look around and maybe find something that I only just discovered that I'm into.. looking for gentle Dom.. I am quite shy but if I find that someone I click with I'm sure you can change that.. haven't done anything like that before so would like someone who's got patience to "work" with me...
Female (39) Bedford, Bedfordshire
Hello, I’m bi sexual I’m a plus size girl but trying to lose some weight. I’m exploring being a little, have my dummy at night. Please don’t message me if your over the age of 40 not into that! **Desires and Fantasies** not really got any yet
Female (30) Luton, Bedfordshire
the brattiest brat you’ve ever seen disclaimer: if i don’t respond don’t take it as an invitation to spam me with messages and acting beggish, it puts me off and completely slims your chances to zero.
Female (24) Luton, Bedfordshire
I joined here a long time ago and left due to other commitments but curiosity is killing the cat again so I'm back an still not sure what I'm here for but happy to chat and discover as I go. I am also looking to chat to other, more experienced subs to make friends and also for tips and advice ? == Results from bdsmtest.org == 98% Submissive 92% Brat 91% Rope bunny 75% Primal (Prey) 74% Boy/Girl 64% Masochist 58% Vanilla 50% Ageplayer 27% Experimentalist 23% Exhibitionist 20% Slave 17% Degradee 13% Switch 8% Voyeur 7% Pet 0% Non-monogamist
Female (35) Bedford, Bedfordshire
29, looking to meet new people and try new things Looking for someone more dominant, who enjoys experimenting and is open minded ✨?
Female (30) Luton, Bedfordshire
Nobody in my daily life would believe that I'm a sub. I'm confident, 6’1” who runs a multi-million pound business. I'm bi but tend to lean towards men. I am inexpirienced with women have only had one real experience which I loved. I would like to explore this more as I'm genuinely attracted to women - I am just inexperieneced and quite shy. I occasionally switch but generally like dominant males, bondage, being teased, humiliation and my ultimate desire is to find someone that will make me squirt, regardless of how much I resist. I do have some threesome fantasies that I would like to explore but it would be very reliant upon it being the right couple. In many ways I am dirty and confident but also still very shy and easily humiliated and made to blush. 100% open minded and non judgemental, even if I feel we can't meet each other needs.
Female (38) Bedford, Bedfordshire
The hardest part about setting up this profile was finding photos of myself, apparently I don’t take any. The second hardest is trying to describe myself. I’m open-minded, here to learn more about myself and meet new people in the community. Looking to explore more BDSM and kinks as well as a potential Dominant.
Female (20) Sundon, Bedfordshire
Happy-go-lucky Looking for someone to explore kinks with
Female (31) Bedford, Bedfordshire
I’m a sub leaning switch, I’ll happily say more about myself in dms. I prefer women, men are ok not interested in hookups/FWB. message me and get to know me as a person dominant women >> this app is literally riddled with men, ladies slide into my dms even just to be friends atp
Female (21) Steppingley, Bedfordshire

New members in Bedfordshire

# heading text Hello!! my name is Ducky (yes everyone in the real world calls me that) i am a curvy kinky kitten been in the BDSM world for many a year! in training Leather slave and enjoying the journey it is taking me on
Female (27) Bedford, Bedfordshire
Hey, I’m slowly exploring and discovering my kinky side, which I think seems to have been denied for far too long! I need a man with a wicked sense of humour - playful and cheeky conversation is a bonus - and who appreciates a woman with curves. For kink, I favour restraint and control over sadistic tendencies - correction and punishment have their place but pain for pains sake isn’t for me. I prefer praise over humiliation and love filthy talk but not being degraded. I need a man taller than myself - I’m 5 foot 10 - to dominate me, take control and have fun with. In my vanilla life, I’m very independent and professional and love attending gigs, theatre, cinema, reading - various genres, including wonderful smut! - card and board games as well as being out in nature walking. I’m not looking for a Master and don’t want to live the life 24/7. Ultimately, I am hoping to meet someone to adore and be adored by and have an LTR. Most definitely am NOT into feet and foot fetishes!
Female (56) Bedford, Bedfordshire
I want to make friends that are spiritual, practice witchcraft and have knowledge/experience with BDSM so I can trust their advice & a protective Mentor. I want to make friends that are in the BDSM community that have knowledge, experience so I could trust their knowledge, experience & possibly make friends that could be a mentor. Kinks/Fetishes that I am into: Dd/lg Mask kink-Ghostface, Michael Myers, horror film characters, cosplayers, vintage, Mardi Gras, Renaissance, Venetian masks, Carnival masks, occult masks, masquerade ball masks Old fashioned clothing for roleplaying Satanic sex-consensual sex magick or sex with entities, demons and spirits Astral sex A supportive, encouraging and comforting Daddy Dom since it is a caring, but sometimes sexual role, there are many aspects to being a Daddy Dom, not just the sexual aspect if your Dd/lg or Dom/sub dynamic is even sexual. A caring, safe person I can be myself with without being judged, shamed, rejected, or given false hope then used, abused, rejected & abandoned on purpose. Hopefully I can find a mentor that is like that. Gentle Domination- being touched gently Being seduced by a man that is my boyfriend/Dadfy Dom (When I know he respects me, is trustworthy and I feel safe with him ?) Verbal Degradation Praise Kink Predator-prey kink CnC & similar roleplay Knife play, Blood play Vampirism as a kink/fetish Roleplaying Narratophilia-Dirty talk, Spicy ASMR Some men severely underestimate how dark, vivid or sexual a woman's imagination is audio erotica is sexy, hot and entertaining to listen to ??? Auralism-Men growling, grunting, purring like a big cat, speaking in a foreign language or with a accent when they speak in English, Spicy ASMR, Audio Erotica (Quinn App & audiodesires.com) Mental stimulation- blindfold, sensory deprivation Erotic Hypnosis- Fantasies, it helps with being sexually repressed/sexually frustrated Astral Sex- Astral projection, Astral sex, Lucid dreaming Spiritual BDSM, a spiritual Dom/sub dynamic that involves witchcraft, astral sex, BDSM, a spiritual connection/bond, Different types of pain (including being held in a man's arms & being bitten in various places, held down during sex and seduced, bitten a lot) There are also non sexual aspects of a Dom/sub dynamic that are important to me as well, that I want/need from a dynamic since it's not just about sex, or only want a Dom wants & only on their terms. I am sexually repressed & I have the right to do things at my own pace that I am comfortable with, no one decides what I am comfortable with or when I give my trust, respect, consent or submission. I have had a spiritual & psychic connection/bond in a Dom/sub dynamic that involves BDSM, spiritual kinks/fetishes & witchcraft. I'm a direct/honest person, i'm trustworthy, loyal, I genuinely love/care about my Dom when they are my long-term boyfriend/Daddy Dom. I'm a shy, awkward, direct/honest person & i'm sexually repressed, I have a long-distance boyfriend (he doesn't use this website so I can't add my relationship status) so I want to make some friends. There are specific things I want/need from a Dom/sub dynamic, I want/need to feel safe, respected, to be able to trust a guy 100%) I'm not into the Dd/lg kink for incestuous/peadophilic reasons/purposes & I don't hurt animals/kids either. I'm into alternative/niche things which includes BDSM, i'm trying to make friends that like similar things, but I fucking hate being pressured/coerced to meet people I don't know well in-person. I'm shy, awkward person, socialising in-person is/can be overwhelming, stressful. You don't automatically have my trust, respect, consent, submission, I won't give my consent to do any kinks/fetishes that I am not into, and it's disgusting to force kinks/fetishes your into onto anyone you talk to here. I'm no one's sexdoll, disposable plaything either, i'm a submissive, masochist but not everyone's submissive, masochist. People really need to learn the basics of respect, consent, the basic principles of BDSM as well & learn why the vetting process for any potential Dom or sub is important. No one automatically has your consent, respect, trust or submission, especially when you are getting to know them.
Female (36) Bedford, Bedfordshire
The hardest part about setting up this profile was finding photos of myself, apparently I don’t take any. The second hardest is trying to describe myself. I’m open-minded, here to learn more about myself and meet new people in the community. Looking to explore more BDSM and kinks as well as a potential Dominant.
Female (20) Sundon, Bedfordshire
I’m a sub leaning switch, I’ll happily say more about myself in dms. I prefer women, men are ok not interested in hookups/FWB. message me and get to know me as a person dominant women >> this app is literally riddled with men, ladies slide into my dms even just to be friends atp
Female (21) Steppingley, Bedfordshire
the brattiest brat you’ve ever seen disclaimer: if i don’t respond don’t take it as an invitation to spam me with messages and acting beggish, it puts me off and completely slims your chances to zero.
Female (24) Luton, Bedfordshire
Looking for a Dom to help remind me of my place once in a while... Just here for some fun with no strings attached, open to trying new things, haven't explored a great deal. Before you ask, I dont have a dominant bone in my body and will not switch, the clues in the username? Drop me a message, I dont bite (unless you ask me nicely)✌
Female (25) Blunham, Bedfordshire
Nobody in my daily life would believe that I'm a sub. I'm confident, 6’1” who runs a multi-million pound business. I'm bi but tend to lean towards men. I am inexpirienced with women have only had one real experience which I loved. I would like to explore this more as I'm genuinely attracted to women - I am just inexperieneced and quite shy. I occasionally switch but generally like dominant males, bondage, being teased, humiliation and my ultimate desire is to find someone that will make me squirt, regardless of how much I resist. I do have some threesome fantasies that I would like to explore but it would be very reliant upon it being the right couple. In many ways I am dirty and confident but also still very shy and easily humiliated and made to blush. 100% open minded and non judgemental, even if I feel we can't meet each other needs.
Female (38) Bedford, Bedfordshire
29, looking to meet new people and try new things Looking for someone more dominant, who enjoys experimenting and is open minded ✨?
Female (30) Luton, Bedfordshire
Hello, I’m bi sexual I’m a plus size girl but trying to lose some weight. I’m exploring being a little, have my dummy at night. Please don’t message me if your over the age of 40 not into that! **Desires and Fantasies** not really got any yet
Female (30) Luton, Bedfordshire
I joined here a long time ago and left due to other commitments but curiosity is killing the cat again so I'm back an still not sure what I'm here for but happy to chat and discover as I go. I am also looking to chat to other, more experienced subs to make friends and also for tips and advice ? == Results from bdsmtest.org == 98% Submissive 92% Brat 91% Rope bunny 75% Primal (Prey) 74% Boy/Girl 64% Masochist 58% Vanilla 50% Ageplayer 27% Experimentalist 23% Exhibitionist 20% Slave 17% Degradee 13% Switch 8% Voyeur 7% Pet 0% Non-monogamist
Female (35) Bedford, Bedfordshire
Hi I'm Krissie, 5ft6 just here to look around and maybe find something that I only just discovered that I'm into.. looking for gentle Dom.. I am quite shy but if I find that someone I click with I'm sure you can change that.. haven't done anything like that before so would like someone who's got patience to "work" with me...
Female (39) Bedford, Bedfordshire
Happy-go-lucky Looking for someone to explore kinks with
Female (31) Bedford, Bedfordshire

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NSA32 to 80 years ● 140km around USA, Florence 4 hours ago
Kinky Date24 to 60 years ● 100km around USA, Winchester 17.03.2024 - 24.03.2024
BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, Geneseo 8 hours ago

I am open to approach from possible doms for my use, service, ongoing bratty submission and dating relationship.

I currently have an amazing playpartner/protector who I switch with (not often as I dont tend to dom much at all)

What I offer:

Experience

  • Honesty
  • Openess to new things withing my personal limits.
  • Everything is negotiation so I can meet your requirements and needs as my superior; Including rules and conditions or even a contract if wanted.
    -Meets organised at suitabke times and potentially mine as and when im able to
    Pleasure - Full use of my body
    -A smi high *** threshold - masochist
    -Willingness to learn ( if there is anything i am a brat)
    -An extensive wardrobe and dungeon

    Ideally my dominant will be:

    • between the ages of 26 and 40, male white ( sorry bbc isnt for me 😕)
  • seeking real life submission when with my dominant and am open to their needs.
  • have good experience in kink and a good basic understanding of bdsm ( we are always learning after all)
  • within an hour and a half drive of my location, Plymouth. ( I do not drive and can't travel)
  • open to me having poly type dynamic as I do have another playpartner whom is also My carer in vanilla life)
  • realise that my health will come first
  • understand I'm a private person and keeping personal things between myself and them.
  • All would naturally be open to full discussion and I’d seek/request a social meet/coffee etc before any commitment to ensure this is correct for both and clear any questions.

    Happy to discuss My health issues more in depth if need be in private chats.

    Respectfully

    Sub_sparkles

BDSM Play Partner26 to 40 years ● 40km around UK, Plymouth 17.03.2024 - 13.04.2024
Kinky Date18 to 80 years ● 250km around USA, Austin 17.03.2024 - 24.03.2024

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