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Hey, I’m slowly exploring and discovering my kinky side, which I think seems to have been denied for far too long! I need a man with a wicked sense of humour - playful and cheeky conversation is a bonus - and who appreciates a woman with curves. For kink, I favour restraint and control over sadistic tendencies - correction and punishment have their place but pain for pains sake isn’t for me. I prefer praise over humiliation and love filthy talk but not being degraded. I need a man taller than myself - I’m 5 foot 10 - to dominate me, take control and have fun with. In my vanilla life, I’m very independent and professional and love attending gigs, theatre, cinema, reading - various genres, including wonderful smut! - card and board games as well as being out in nature walking. I’m not looking for a Master and don’t want to live the life 24/7. Ultimately, I am hoping to meet someone to adore and be adored by and have an LTR. Most definitely am NOT into feet and foot fetishes!
Female (56) Bedford, Bedfordshire
# heading text Hello!! my name is Ducky (yes everyone in the real world calls me that) i am a curvy kinky kitten been in the BDSM world for many a year! in training Leather slave and enjoying the journey it is taking me on
Female (28) Bedford, Bedfordshire
I want to make friends that are spiritual, practice witchcraft and have knowledge/experience with BDSM so I can trust their advice & a protective Mentor. I want to make friends that are in the BDSM community that have knowledge, experience so I could trust their knowledge, experience & possibly make friends that could be a mentor. Kinks/Fetishes that I am into: Dd/lg Mask kink-Ghostface, Michael Myers, horror film characters, cosplayers, vintage, Mardi Gras, Renaissance, Venetian masks, Carnival masks, occult masks, masquerade ball masks Old fashioned clothing for roleplaying Satanic sex-consensual sex magick or sex with entities, demons and spirits Astral sex A supportive, encouraging and comforting Daddy Dom since it is a caring, but sometimes sexual role, there are many aspects to being a Daddy Dom, not just the sexual aspect if your Dd/lg or Dom/sub dynamic is even sexual. A caring, safe person I can be myself with without being judged, shamed, rejected, or given false hope then used, abused, rejected & abandoned on purpose. Hopefully I can find a mentor that is like that. Gentle Domination- being touched gently Being seduced by a man that is my boyfriend/Dadfy Dom (When I know he respects me, is trustworthy and I feel safe with him ?) Verbal Degradation Praise Kink Predator-prey kink CnC & similar roleplay Knife play, Blood play Vampirism as a kink/fetish Roleplaying Narratophilia-Dirty talk, Spicy ASMR Some men severely underestimate how dark, vivid or sexual a woman's imagination is audio erotica is sexy, hot and entertaining to listen to ??? Auralism-Men growling, grunting, purring like a big cat, speaking in a foreign language or with a accent when they speak in English, Spicy ASMR, Audio Erotica (Quinn App & audiodesires.com) Mental stimulation- blindfold, sensory deprivation Erotic Hypnosis- Fantasies, it helps with being sexually repressed/sexually frustrated Astral Sex- Astral projection, Astral sex, Lucid dreaming Spiritual BDSM, a spiritual Dom/sub dynamic that involves witchcraft, astral sex, BDSM, a spiritual connection/bond, Different types of pain (including being held in a man's arms & being bitten in various places, held down during sex and seduced, bitten a lot) There are also non sexual aspects of a Dom/sub dynamic that are important to me as well, that I want/need from a dynamic since it's not just about sex, or only want a Dom wants & only on their terms. I am sexually repressed & I have the right to do things at my own pace that I am comfortable with, no one decides what I am comfortable with or when I give my trust, respect, consent or submission. I have had a spiritual & psychic connection/bond in a Dom/sub dynamic that involves BDSM, spiritual kinks/fetishes & witchcraft. I'm a direct/honest person, i'm trustworthy, loyal, I genuinely love/care about my Dom when they are my long-term boyfriend/Daddy Dom. I'm a shy, awkward, direct/honest person & i'm sexually repressed, I have a long-distance boyfriend (he doesn't use this website so I can't add my relationship status) so I want to make some friends. There are specific things I want/need from a Dom/sub dynamic, I want/need to feel safe, respected, to be able to trust a guy 100%) I'm not into the Dd/lg kink for incestuous/peadophilic reasons/purposes & I don't hurt animals/kids either. I'm into alternative/niche things which includes BDSM, i'm trying to make friends that like similar things, but I fucking hate being pressured/coerced to meet people I don't know well in-person. I'm shy, awkward person, socialising in-person is/can be overwhelming, stressful. You don't automatically have my trust, respect, consent, submission, I won't give my consent to do any kinks/fetishes that I am not into, and it's disgusting to force kinks/fetishes your into onto anyone you talk to here. I'm no one's sexdoll, disposable plaything either, i'm a submissive, masochist but not everyone's submissive, masochist. People really need to learn the basics of respect, consent, the basic principles of BDSM as well & learn why the vetting process for any potential Dom or sub is important. No one automatically has your consent, respect, trust or submission, especially when you are getting to know them.
Female (36) Bedford, Bedfordshire
Looking for a Dom to help remind me of my place once in a while... Just here for some fun with no strings attached, open to trying new things, haven't explored a great deal. Before you ask, I dont have a dominant bone in my body and will not switch, the clues in the username? Drop me a message, I dont bite (unless you ask me nicely)✌
Female (25) Beeston, Bedfordshire
The hardest part about setting up this profile was finding photos of myself, apparently I don’t take any. The second hardest is trying to describe myself. I’m open-minded, here to learn more about myself and meet new people in the community. Looking to explore more BDSM and kinks as well as a potential Dominant.
Female (20) Sundon, Bedfordshire
I joined here a long time ago and left due to other commitments but curiosity is killing the cat again so I'm back an still not sure what I'm here for but happy to chat and discover as I go. I am also looking to chat to other, more experienced subs to make friends and also for tips and advice ? == Results from bdsmtest.org == 98% Submissive 92% Brat 91% Rope bunny 75% Primal (Prey) 74% Boy/Girl 64% Masochist 58% Vanilla 50% Ageplayer 27% Experimentalist 23% Exhibitionist 20% Slave 17% Degradee 13% Switch 8% Voyeur 7% Pet 0% Non-monogamist
Female (35) Bedford, Bedfordshire
Nobody in my daily life would believe that I'm a sub. I'm confident, 6’1” who runs a multi-million pound business. I'm bi but tend to lean towards men. I am inexpirienced with women have only had one real experience which I loved. I would like to explore this more as I'm genuinely attracted to women - I am just inexperieneced and quite shy. I occasionally switch but generally like dominant males, bondage, being teased, humiliation and my ultimate desire is to find someone that will make me squirt, regardless of how much I resist. I do have some threesome fantasies that I would like to explore but it would be very reliant upon it being the right couple. In many ways I am dirty and confident but also still very shy and easily humiliated and made to blush. 100% open minded and non judgemental, even if I feel we can't meet each other needs.
Female (38) Bedford, Bedfordshire
Hello, I’m bi sexual I’m a plus size girl but trying to lose some weight. I’m exploring being a little, have my dummy at night. Please don’t message me if your over the age of 40 not into that! **Desires and Fantasies** not really got any yet
Female (30) Luton, Bedfordshire
Hi I'm Krissie, 5ft6 just here to look around and maybe find something that I only just discovered that I'm into.. looking for gentle Dom.. I am quite shy but if I find that someone I click with I'm sure you can change that.. haven't done anything like that before so would like someone who's got patience to "work" with me...
Female (39) Bedford, Bedfordshire
sick of being messed about. anyone out there that can show me respect and make me feel amazing at the same time. I’m honest, kind, but my kindness is often taken advantage of.
Female (35) Bedford, Bedfordshire

New members in Bedfordshire

# heading text Hello!! my name is Ducky (yes everyone in the real world calls me that) i am a curvy kinky kitten been in the BDSM world for many a year! in training Leather slave and enjoying the journey it is taking me on
Female (28) Bedford, Bedfordshire
Hey, I’m slowly exploring and discovering my kinky side, which I think seems to have been denied for far too long! I need a man with a wicked sense of humour - playful and cheeky conversation is a bonus - and who appreciates a woman with curves. For kink, I favour restraint and control over sadistic tendencies - correction and punishment have their place but pain for pains sake isn’t for me. I prefer praise over humiliation and love filthy talk but not being degraded. I need a man taller than myself - I’m 5 foot 10 - to dominate me, take control and have fun with. In my vanilla life, I’m very independent and professional and love attending gigs, theatre, cinema, reading - various genres, including wonderful smut! - card and board games as well as being out in nature walking. I’m not looking for a Master and don’t want to live the life 24/7. Ultimately, I am hoping to meet someone to adore and be adored by and have an LTR. Most definitely am NOT into feet and foot fetishes!
Female (56) Bedford, Bedfordshire
I want to make friends that are spiritual, practice witchcraft and have knowledge/experience with BDSM so I can trust their advice & a protective Mentor. I want to make friends that are in the BDSM community that have knowledge, experience so I could trust their knowledge, experience & possibly make friends that could be a mentor. Kinks/Fetishes that I am into: Dd/lg Mask kink-Ghostface, Michael Myers, horror film characters, cosplayers, vintage, Mardi Gras, Renaissance, Venetian masks, Carnival masks, occult masks, masquerade ball masks Old fashioned clothing for roleplaying Satanic sex-consensual sex magick or sex with entities, demons and spirits Astral sex A supportive, encouraging and comforting Daddy Dom since it is a caring, but sometimes sexual role, there are many aspects to being a Daddy Dom, not just the sexual aspect if your Dd/lg or Dom/sub dynamic is even sexual. A caring, safe person I can be myself with without being judged, shamed, rejected, or given false hope then used, abused, rejected & abandoned on purpose. Hopefully I can find a mentor that is like that. Gentle Domination- being touched gently Being seduced by a man that is my boyfriend/Dadfy Dom (When I know he respects me, is trustworthy and I feel safe with him ?) Verbal Degradation Praise Kink Predator-prey kink CnC & similar roleplay Knife play, Blood play Vampirism as a kink/fetish Roleplaying Narratophilia-Dirty talk, Spicy ASMR Some men severely underestimate how dark, vivid or sexual a woman's imagination is audio erotica is sexy, hot and entertaining to listen to ??? Auralism-Men growling, grunting, purring like a big cat, speaking in a foreign language or with a accent when they speak in English, Spicy ASMR, Audio Erotica (Quinn App & audiodesires.com) Mental stimulation- blindfold, sensory deprivation Erotic Hypnosis- Fantasies, it helps with being sexually repressed/sexually frustrated Astral Sex- Astral projection, Astral sex, Lucid dreaming Spiritual BDSM, a spiritual Dom/sub dynamic that involves witchcraft, astral sex, BDSM, a spiritual connection/bond, Different types of pain (including being held in a man's arms & being bitten in various places, held down during sex and seduced, bitten a lot) There are also non sexual aspects of a Dom/sub dynamic that are important to me as well, that I want/need from a dynamic since it's not just about sex, or only want a Dom wants & only on their terms. I am sexually repressed & I have the right to do things at my own pace that I am comfortable with, no one decides what I am comfortable with or when I give my trust, respect, consent or submission. I have had a spiritual & psychic connection/bond in a Dom/sub dynamic that involves BDSM, spiritual kinks/fetishes & witchcraft. I'm a direct/honest person, i'm trustworthy, loyal, I genuinely love/care about my Dom when they are my long-term boyfriend/Daddy Dom. I'm a shy, awkward, direct/honest person & i'm sexually repressed, I have a long-distance boyfriend (he doesn't use this website so I can't add my relationship status) so I want to make some friends. There are specific things I want/need from a Dom/sub dynamic, I want/need to feel safe, respected, to be able to trust a guy 100%) I'm not into the Dd/lg kink for incestuous/peadophilic reasons/purposes & I don't hurt animals/kids either. I'm into alternative/niche things which includes BDSM, i'm trying to make friends that like similar things, but I fucking hate being pressured/coerced to meet people I don't know well in-person. I'm shy, awkward person, socialising in-person is/can be overwhelming, stressful. You don't automatically have my trust, respect, consent, submission, I won't give my consent to do any kinks/fetishes that I am not into, and it's disgusting to force kinks/fetishes your into onto anyone you talk to here. I'm no one's sexdoll, disposable plaything either, i'm a submissive, masochist but not everyone's submissive, masochist. People really need to learn the basics of respect, consent, the basic principles of BDSM as well & learn why the vetting process for any potential Dom or sub is important. No one automatically has your consent, respect, trust or submission, especially when you are getting to know them.
Female (36) Bedford, Bedfordshire
sick of being messed about. anyone out there that can show me respect and make me feel amazing at the same time. I’m honest, kind, but my kindness is often taken advantage of.
Female (35) Bedford, Bedfordshire
The hardest part about setting up this profile was finding photos of myself, apparently I don’t take any. The second hardest is trying to describe myself. I’m open-minded, here to learn more about myself and meet new people in the community. Looking to explore more BDSM and kinks as well as a potential Dominant.
Female (20) Sundon, Bedfordshire
Looking for a Dom to help remind me of my place once in a while... Just here for some fun with no strings attached, open to trying new things, haven't explored a great deal. Before you ask, I dont have a dominant bone in my body and will not switch, the clues in the username? Drop me a message, I dont bite (unless you ask me nicely)✌
Female (25) Beeston, Bedfordshire
Nobody in my daily life would believe that I'm a sub. I'm confident, 6’1” who runs a multi-million pound business. I'm bi but tend to lean towards men. I am inexpirienced with women have only had one real experience which I loved. I would like to explore this more as I'm genuinely attracted to women - I am just inexperieneced and quite shy. I occasionally switch but generally like dominant males, bondage, being teased, humiliation and my ultimate desire is to find someone that will make me squirt, regardless of how much I resist. I do have some threesome fantasies that I would like to explore but it would be very reliant upon it being the right couple. In many ways I am dirty and confident but also still very shy and easily humiliated and made to blush. 100% open minded and non judgemental, even if I feel we can't meet each other needs.
Female (38) Bedford, Bedfordshire
Hello, I’m bi sexual I’m a plus size girl but trying to lose some weight. I’m exploring being a little, have my dummy at night. Please don’t message me if your over the age of 40 not into that! **Desires and Fantasies** not really got any yet
Female (30) Luton, Bedfordshire
I joined here a long time ago and left due to other commitments but curiosity is killing the cat again so I'm back an still not sure what I'm here for but happy to chat and discover as I go. I am also looking to chat to other, more experienced subs to make friends and also for tips and advice ? == Results from bdsmtest.org == 98% Submissive 92% Brat 91% Rope bunny 75% Primal (Prey) 74% Boy/Girl 64% Masochist 58% Vanilla 50% Ageplayer 27% Experimentalist 23% Exhibitionist 20% Slave 17% Degradee 13% Switch 8% Voyeur 7% Pet 0% Non-monogamist
Female (35) Bedford, Bedfordshire
Hi I'm Krissie, 5ft6 just here to look around and maybe find something that I only just discovered that I'm into.. looking for gentle Dom.. I am quite shy but if I find that someone I click with I'm sure you can change that.. haven't done anything like that before so would like someone who's got patience to "work" with me...
Female (39) Bedford, Bedfordshire

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The two biggest things you can do to impress me is to be steady in your communication and believe it or not, here is the sticking point for almost everyone, just be respectful! I'm professional, own my own home, and I don't have any kiddos. I have an MBA; I am serious and intellectual when I need to be and if the situation requires. A relationship (physical and emotional) takes time for me to build. I will NOT have sex until I understand that we are both looking for a relationship and giving us a chance. I have not had a lot of partners.

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