You may call Mistress Olive. I'm a domme looking for a new sub. Sadist, ***, bondage, goddess/mistress worship.

I’m 35, on the bigger side. Looking to explore both sides of D/S. I am a full time carer to my mum who I live with so what I need would be online only.

Please don't just message to ask for pictures Im a large plus size girl in cornwall. Looking for friends and like minded people and the things these can lead too. I have a large list of fetishes and open to trying new things

Selina (23) & Ross (29) Switch Couple🎀 Languages: 🇬🇧/ 🇦🇹 Looking for Couples and other kinky people 👀 Cuckholding, Swingers and Switches Dom or Sub leaning are on the table🍽️ Don’t be shy, hit us with your thoughts and best lines!⭐️

hiii there! 💞 pretty new and inexperienced in the kink scene but have been curious for a while ! looking to explore what it is I’m really into ✨🧚🏻‍♀️

Yes I am a greeter on here and yes you'll get an automated message, no I'm not a bot or AI....I am a real person who actually has a life...I don't get paid for this I volunteer....also my Dom, my everything has just been diagnosed with cancer so I'm sorry if you are not my top priority so please be aware that I won't be answering messages right away just have a bit of patience and compassion please....!!! **WARNING: Any individuals or institutions using this site or any of its associated sites do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious *** of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.** I am one of the community volunteer meeter and greeters in the FET Universe, please hit me up if you need any help or guidance! Yes the message that comes through is automated but I am a real person behind the message so please don't assume I'm a bot or fake. PLEASE DON'T BE ASKING TO SEE MY PRIVATE GALLERY IT WON'T HAPPEN. Only friends and personally known people from here have access and as a woman I have the right to not have to explain why I have private pictures and why I don't allow just anyone to have access to them!!! So again please don't ask to see them and don't ask why I have them if no one can see them...... please use common sense lol. Don't ask me to send nudes it won't happen unless you want me to send you a sarcastic comment or gif then be my guest and ask away lol. I am currently in a D/s relationship so I'm not looking for anything besides friends and events so please when sending me a message please respect my relationship and dynamic I have with my Sir. I love my Sir, so please no rude messages, no dick pictures either please!!!! Also I'm NOT I repeat NOT a Domme or Mistress and any rude/disrespectful messages will get ignored and or deleted. **Any messages that include •***/watersports •*** or even fantasies of *** including CNC •needle play is a hard limits for me please respect that otherwise you will get blocked. •anything I repeat any messages to do with kids/***s will instantly get ignored and blocked.** I've been a sub for near on 8 years now and been with my Sir for 5 of those, but always knew I was meant to be a sub for as long as I can remember and been into BDSM and kink for well over 10 years, I also class myself as a SAM which stands for Smart Arse Masochist if you don't understand what one is Google is your friend lol. We are similar to a Brat but have different tendancies but all come under the same umbrella. So be prepared to get sarcastic comments or answers back if you're an idiot lol. I've had some bad experiences and made some mistakes in the past but they have made me stronger along the way. I've also had the privilege of being a mentor, which I enjoyed immensely that feeling of knowing that you've helped someone grow and become the sub they are born to be. Also remember this is a journey it's not a sprint to the finish line be patient. I would describe myself as an empath!!! An empath is a highly sensitive individual, who has a keen ability to sense what people around them are thinking and feeling. So I experience a great deal of empathy, often to the point of taking on the *** of others at my own expense. I'm loyal, caring and honest and once you have me as close friend, I'll be there for life, if you need a talk I'll be there no matter what. I'm fiercely loyal when it comes to my close friends mess with them and you'll have me to deal with also!!!!! I've been messed around by people in the past who I called close friends, they hurt me and messed my head up a lot, so if I seem a bit stand offish in the beginning it's just cause I've guarded my heart but once I can trust you and believe me it will take a long time, but when I do you'll have me as a friend for life!!!! Something I've recently found out about myself is that I've always identified as bisexual but only recently have I come to the realisation that I'm pansexual, for any one that doesn't know what that means- Pansexuality is sexual, romantic or emotional attraction towards people regardless of their sex or gender identity. After a year or so of being confused as to why I felt the way I did only then chatting to a friend recently did they point this out to me and it was BINGO!!!!!! I feel so much as been lifted off my shoulders now and don't feel confused anymore. I love my LGBTQIA community also, and I have been a supporter for many years I do all I can to support the community where I can and when I can!!!! I'm also Gender Fluid which is something else I've recently discovered about myself I am also a massive massive Lady Gaga fan!!! I always get asked about my profile name here and I have to explain that it's not cause I'm a brat, or Daddy's lil monster lol. I love Lady G she is my everything, my Queen, my Mother Monster. So to explain....... Lady Gaga calls her fans her little monsters and she is Mother Monster!! Hence where my profile name comes from. "Don't you ever let a soul in the world tell you that you can't be exactly who you are." - Lady Gaga. "Do not allow people to dim your shine because they are blinded. Tell them to put on some sunglasses." - Lady Gaga. "I think tolerance and acceptance and love is something that feeds every community." - Lady Gaga. "I feel like if you're a really good human being, you can try to find something beautiful in every single person, no matter what." - Lady Gaga. "People talking since the beginning of time Unless they paying your bills, pay them bitches no mind" - Rupaul Andre Charles "If you can't love yourself how in the hell are you gonna love somebody else" - Rupaul Andre Charles "It doesn't matter where you're from, that has nothing to do with how far you can go. Never be ashamed of how you walk, talk, because that is going to be the key to your success" -ChiChiDeVayne "THE HARDEST THING TO DO IN THIS WORLD IS TO LIVE IN IT. BE BRAVE. LIVE.” - Buffy Summers VANILLA ME: I love films and specifically comic book films as I am a MASSIVE comic book fan lolol. So start a convo with that in mind I may just like you ? I love my dynamic with Sir so we still have date nights and go out for meals and drinks ect but also we like our quiet nights too snuggled up together. I can be quite shy when I first meet anyone but get on wrong side of me and boy you will know about it!!! I am also a MASSIVE Horror fan always have been always will be....a massive kink for me is masks especially Ghostface and Michael Myers to me they are both Daddy lol 🤣

Just an FYI! I'm a bigger woman. I’m a soft, affectionate and shy woman who thrives under the care of a protective, dominant man. Not in a golddigger way, just in that deep, oldfashioned sense of being looked after, guided, and claimed by someone strong enough to handle me. I’m drawn to men who are disciplined and serious about their lives. Career oriented, focused, and driven because that kind of ambition usually comes with the structure, confidence, and selfcontrol I naturally respond to. I want a dynamic built on devotion on both sides. I give my whole heart, my loyalty, and my obedience to the right man, and I want someone who values that and gives his presence, leadership, and affection in return. I’m looking for someone who can be strict when needed but warm and cozy too, the kind who’ll pull me into his chest for a movie night and also spank me when I need it. I want rules, consistency, tenderness, and a connection where dominance and love go hand in hand.

Surfing, music, keeping fit and just generally living life to its fullest are my main loves, I guess any sport that involves riding something, be that a board or a horse not so much into team sports..dominant men too however I’m not in a position to have a relationship right now but friends welcome, especially if you want to go for a surf together or just generally have fun. If you’ve stumbled across my profile because I’ve liked a photo of yours, it’s purely because I was scrolling the home page, nothing more than that, so no need to message me to tell me I’m too far away. Also, although a compliment, I’d rather much younger guys and girls didn’t message me, it’s not likely we will have much in common and I prefer my age and upwards.

Hi there! I'm Rose, and I'm a switch. Been into BDSM for 13 years, and still have so much to explore! I'm a big personality with a huge creative streak, and in the bedroom I'm either your caring bit firm Mistress or your sweet, good little whore. Take your pick 😜 I'm really active in the Plymouth/Devon scene - I go to a lot of events with my kinky family, and I also run Vault72's monthly smutty bookclub. I'm looking for someone to join me at these fun get togethers, either with me wearing the collar, or me holding the leash. ❤️ I'm open to both casual FWB/Playmates or something more serious, but I'm not pressuring myself or anyone else to get into an LTR. When the right person comes along, you know. As you probably gathered, vanilla me is a massive bookworm. I also write my own stories, and enjoy gaming and crochet in my free time. Kinky me is a verrry different story. I started out as a sub 13 years ago, but these days I do a lot of domming - mostly due to the Femdom shortage in the South West. 😂 I'd like to find someone I can submit to, but I hold myself to very high standards when I Domme someone, and finding someone with the same standards to Dom me is taking time. If you made it this far, I'm impressed. Feel free to message me! Pro tip: Ask me some questions to get to know me before jumping into the kink talk 😉 Not looking for online/ long distance. Devon/Cornwall UK area only please x

you may address me as Enchantress or Princess Luna. I’m a domme from EU. a little about me: I love reading, baking, movies, and cuddling my two cats. I have a journalism degree. I’m very curious and talkative with the right people. I love traveling and getting to know different people and their cultures. kinks: ***, ***, praise, joi, orgasm denial, edging, cuckolding, gfe, body worship, obedience (tasks), chastity, keyholding, voyeurism, exhibitionism. open to trying other things upon discussion. what I look for in a sub: I value honest and clear communication. someone that can actually hold a conversation is more likely to get my attention. I’m interested in long term dynamics but not opposed to short term. I also appreciate consistency, and someone who knows what they want. I seek subs that respect me and the time and effort I put into building a satisfying dynamic on both sides.

I like to play as a sub but I like to have a lot of control in my day to day life so a guy who can switch would be best for me or a guy who can handle my freedom of choice. I’m not sure about having caregiver scenario as I’m used to being independent atm. I might need some taming too! I like to please my man a lot in the bedroom though and can be very obedient with a right touch.

I’m relatively new to this world of dating (it’s been a while!?) and though I’m a bit nervous, I’m also very excited about exploring and discovering new connections. So here goes: I'm a spiritual soul who finds joy in the outdoors, especially being by the sea, sunrises and sunsets, and gazing at the moon and stars. I need to feel nature around me. It feeds my soul☺️ I feel music deeply. Where there's music, you'll find me dancing, and I love getting completely absorbed in the energy of festivals? Age is just a number to me - I'm a young 52 yr old (in my head and heart, I truly think I'm still 27!?), embracing life with zest and enthusiasm. I enjoy getting into deep conversations but silliness and fun is my default. I usually find a good balance between the 2 and naturally lead a life of positivity and lightness. Laughter, for me, is basically foreplay—a crucial ingredient in any connection☺️ I’m direct and honest (apologies in advance?) but at least you’ll always know where you stand with me! Seeking people with experience and patience to nurture me on my journey of exploring my kinks and desires, (and help to sate my need to please...?)

Heyyyyyy gang! I am newly single and to be honest I am more looking for friendship and networking right now while I heal. However when I am ready the below will apply. A connection matters to me. I want someone I can laugh with and also feel safe with…and then fully submit to. Would love to meet someone who understands that real submission is cultivated through patience, consistency, and trust. I’m neurospicy — which means I value clear communication, emotional intelligence, and hopefully someone who sees different wiring as depth, not inconvenience. And also that you don’t see it as chaos, but intensity in the right hands 😉 there will be one week where I completely love something and am ruined by what you’ve done to me and the next week it won’t even make a dent. I’ve learnt that we need to change it up to keep me focused and present in the moment and it’s not a personal thing but just the way my brain is wired. What turns me on the most? Praise,impact play, being ***d and being tied up 😈 blindfolds are fun too. I really thrive with clarity and structure and being tied up and held securely amplifies it all. There is something about surrendering control that calms me and quietens the overthinking. Praise does things to me. Earned words, steady control, and being told I’m doing well? It’s so devastating in the best way. I really want to hear that you are enjoying me as much as I am enjoying you. Oh my and don’t even get me started with calling me ‘Good Girl’ or using my full name to keep me in line 😇 Though interestingly I am not a fan of *** and ***. It’s all about you being in control of me and clear instructions to make me feel connected to you. Also please take note I am a large curvy girl so take that into mind before you message me you lovely kinky people.

Hi fairly new to the scene, had my first excellent brief Dom/Sub role/relationship last year. looking for an experienced respectful Dom to explore new things with x **Desires and Fantasies** something I like to keep to myself, until I met someone

I am naturally submissive woman, looking to connect with a Dominant male to build a connection with and share my submissive side and journey with. submission is a mindset for me and starts outside of the bedroom. I value connection, conversation and IRL experience. Connection is a must for me as a demisexual. Meaningful conversation will always peak my interest first. In my vanilla life I enjoy reading, being outside, walking and cooking. Being near big bodies of water always brings me inner peace and am quite comfortable with just myself as company but also like to share. Within in a dynamic I thrive off praise, a high level of expectation, rule and ritual along with a firm but fair connection. Ideally would seek someone who lives within a reasonable travelling distance to myself as real life would not allow me to be comfortably hours away from home. Although happy to get to know someone further afield, I enjoy the presence and discussion with Dom’s so happy to connect on a conversational level.

hiya I’m 22 and I live in the uk ideally I am looking for a relationship but I’m open to friends fwb is not for me I get too attached easily lol I am a switch but I lean more towards submissive as I don’t have a lot of experience being the dominant and I can be a bit of a brat when I’m bored but apart from that I actually have a *** of getting into trouble

I want a connection built on trust, polarity and slow-burn intensity. A man who leads with presence, protects what he values and takes control in all the right ways. Masculine energy paired with emotional depth and grounded dominance is my favourite combination. Praise me, guide me, take care of me and I’ll bloom for you.

Service submissive, little tendencies and I thrive off attention, rules routine and structure. I don't brat I am a people pleaser. So much more to learn better done in conversation.

Looking for someone who isn’t afraid to know what they want and say it. Effort, consistency, and genuine care matter to me. I’m affectionate, but a little sensitive I want someone who excites me, and is ready to show up for something meaningful (or a hook up if I’m feeling down) I’m into guys who have longer hair and alternative

Hi! I’ve been into BDSM for many many years now but was never in a position where I felt like I could be in a committed D/S relationship, however I would like to start with talking to people and seeing if this is something that could be possible. I’m a brat through and through.

Hello. I'm 32 years old. She/Her. I'm looking for a long term romance. A relationship. Hoping for a Daddy Dom. I'm not a skinny girl (a little chunky, felt like i needed to be honest with that), there will always be more to love. I've had a hard up bringing so there are days I get down. I'm a single mum and my child will always have to come first. However it would be nice to always come first to someone else aswell.

You may call Mistress Olive. I'm a domme looking for a new sub. Sadist, ***, bondage, goddess/mistress worship.

I’m 35, on the bigger side. Looking to explore both sides of D/S. I am a full time carer to my mum who I live with so what I need would be online only.

Please don't just message to ask for pictures Im a large plus size girl in cornwall. Looking for friends and like minded people and the things these can lead too. I have a large list of fetishes and open to trying new things

Looking for someone who isn’t afraid to know what they want and say it. Effort, consistency, and genuine care matter to me. I’m affectionate, but a little sensitive I want someone who excites me, and is ready to show up for something meaningful (or a hook up if I’m feeling down) I’m into guys who have longer hair and alternative

Hello. I'm 32 years old. She/Her. I'm looking for a long term romance. A relationship. Hoping for a Daddy Dom. I'm not a skinny girl (a little chunky, felt like i needed to be honest with that), there will always be more to love. I've had a hard up bringing so there are days I get down. I'm a single mum and my child will always have to come first. However it would be nice to always come first to someone else aswell.

Just an FYI! I'm a bigger woman. I’m a soft, affectionate and shy woman who thrives under the care of a protective, dominant man. Not in a golddigger way, just in that deep, oldfashioned sense of being looked after, guided, and claimed by someone strong enough to handle me. I’m drawn to men who are disciplined and serious about their lives. Career oriented, focused, and driven because that kind of ambition usually comes with the structure, confidence, and selfcontrol I naturally respond to. I want a dynamic built on devotion on both sides. I give my whole heart, my loyalty, and my obedience to the right man, and I want someone who values that and gives his presence, leadership, and affection in return. I’m looking for someone who can be strict when needed but warm and cozy too, the kind who’ll pull me into his chest for a movie night and also spank me when I need it. I want rules, consistency, tenderness, and a connection where dominance and love go hand in hand.

you may address me as Enchantress or Princess Luna. I’m a domme from EU. a little about me: I love reading, baking, movies, and cuddling my two cats. I have a journalism degree. I’m very curious and talkative with the right people. I love traveling and getting to know different people and their cultures. kinks: ***, ***, praise, joi, orgasm denial, edging, cuckolding, gfe, body worship, obedience (tasks), chastity, keyholding, voyeurism, exhibitionism. open to trying other things upon discussion. what I look for in a sub: I value honest and clear communication. someone that can actually hold a conversation is more likely to get my attention. I’m interested in long term dynamics but not opposed to short term. I also appreciate consistency, and someone who knows what they want. I seek subs that respect me and the time and effort I put into building a satisfying dynamic on both sides.

hiii there! 💞 pretty new and inexperienced in the kink scene but have been curious for a while ! looking to explore what it is I’m really into ✨🧚🏻‍♀️

I like to play as a sub but I like to have a lot of control in my day to day life so a guy who can switch would be best for me or a guy who can handle my freedom of choice. I’m not sure about having caregiver scenario as I’m used to being independent atm. I might need some taming too! I like to please my man a lot in the bedroom though and can be very obedient with a right touch.

I want a connection built on trust, polarity and slow-burn intensity. A man who leads with presence, protects what he values and takes control in all the right ways. Masculine energy paired with emotional depth and grounded dominance is my favourite combination. Praise me, guide me, take care of me and I’ll bloom for you.

Hi! I’ve been into BDSM for many many years now but was never in a position where I felt like I could be in a committed D/S relationship, however I would like to start with talking to people and seeing if this is something that could be possible. I’m a brat through and through.

I am naturally submissive woman, looking to connect with a Dominant male to build a connection with and share my submissive side and journey with. submission is a mindset for me and starts outside of the bedroom. I value connection, conversation and IRL experience. Connection is a must for me as a demisexual. Meaningful conversation will always peak my interest first. In my vanilla life I enjoy reading, being outside, walking and cooking. Being near big bodies of water always brings me inner peace and am quite comfortable with just myself as company but also like to share. Within in a dynamic I thrive off praise, a high level of expectation, rule and ritual along with a firm but fair connection. Ideally would seek someone who lives within a reasonable travelling distance to myself as real life would not allow me to be comfortably hours away from home. Although happy to get to know someone further afield, I enjoy the presence and discussion with Dom’s so happy to connect on a conversational level.

Hi there! I'm Rose, and I'm a switch. Been into BDSM for 13 years, and still have so much to explore! I'm a big personality with a huge creative streak, and in the bedroom I'm either your caring bit firm Mistress or your sweet, good little whore. Take your pick 😜 I'm really active in the Plymouth/Devon scene - I go to a lot of events with my kinky family, and I also run Vault72's monthly smutty bookclub. I'm looking for someone to join me at these fun get togethers, either with me wearing the collar, or me holding the leash. ❤️ I'm open to both casual FWB/Playmates or something more serious, but I'm not pressuring myself or anyone else to get into an LTR. When the right person comes along, you know. As you probably gathered, vanilla me is a massive bookworm. I also write my own stories, and enjoy gaming and crochet in my free time. Kinky me is a verrry different story. I started out as a sub 13 years ago, but these days I do a lot of domming - mostly due to the Femdom shortage in the South West. 😂 I'd like to find someone I can submit to, but I hold myself to very high standards when I Domme someone, and finding someone with the same standards to Dom me is taking time. If you made it this far, I'm impressed. Feel free to message me! Pro tip: Ask me some questions to get to know me before jumping into the kink talk 😉 Not looking for online/ long distance. Devon/Cornwall UK area only please x

hiya I’m 22 and I live in the uk ideally I am looking for a relationship but I’m open to friends fwb is not for me I get too attached easily lol I am a switch but I lean more towards submissive as I don’t have a lot of experience being the dominant and I can be a bit of a brat when I’m bored but apart from that I actually have a *** of getting into trouble

Selina (23) & Ross (29) Switch Couple🎀 Languages: 🇬🇧/ 🇦🇹 Looking for Couples and other kinky people 👀 Cuckholding, Swingers and Switches Dom or Sub leaning are on the table🍽️ Don’t be shy, hit us with your thoughts and best lines!⭐️

I’m relatively new to this world of dating (it’s been a while!?) and though I’m a bit nervous, I’m also very excited about exploring and discovering new connections. So here goes: I'm a spiritual soul who finds joy in the outdoors, especially being by the sea, sunrises and sunsets, and gazing at the moon and stars. I need to feel nature around me. It feeds my soul☺️ I feel music deeply. Where there's music, you'll find me dancing, and I love getting completely absorbed in the energy of festivals? Age is just a number to me - I'm a young 52 yr old (in my head and heart, I truly think I'm still 27!?), embracing life with zest and enthusiasm. I enjoy getting into deep conversations but silliness and fun is my default. I usually find a good balance between the 2 and naturally lead a life of positivity and lightness. Laughter, for me, is basically foreplay—a crucial ingredient in any connection☺️ I’m direct and honest (apologies in advance?) but at least you’ll always know where you stand with me! Seeking people with experience and patience to nurture me on my journey of exploring my kinks and desires, (and help to sate my need to please...?)

Service submissive, little tendencies and I thrive off attention, rules routine and structure. I don't brat I am a people pleaser. So much more to learn better done in conversation.

Heyyyyyy gang! I am newly single and to be honest I am more looking for friendship and networking right now while I heal. However when I am ready the below will apply. A connection matters to me. I want someone I can laugh with and also feel safe with…and then fully submit to. Would love to meet someone who understands that real submission is cultivated through patience, consistency, and trust. I’m neurospicy — which means I value clear communication, emotional intelligence, and hopefully someone who sees different wiring as depth, not inconvenience. And also that you don’t see it as chaos, but intensity in the right hands 😉 there will be one week where I completely love something and am ruined by what you’ve done to me and the next week it won’t even make a dent. I’ve learnt that we need to change it up to keep me focused and present in the moment and it’s not a personal thing but just the way my brain is wired. What turns me on the most? Praise,impact play, being ***d and being tied up 😈 blindfolds are fun too. I really thrive with clarity and structure and being tied up and held securely amplifies it all. There is something about surrendering control that calms me and quietens the overthinking. Praise does things to me. Earned words, steady control, and being told I’m doing well? It’s so devastating in the best way. I really want to hear that you are enjoying me as much as I am enjoying you. Oh my and don’t even get me started with calling me ‘Good Girl’ or using my full name to keep me in line 😇 Though interestingly I am not a fan of *** and ***. It’s all about you being in control of me and clear instructions to make me feel connected to you. Also please take note I am a large curvy girl so take that into mind before you message me you lovely kinky people.

Hi fairly new to the scene, had my first excellent brief Dom/Sub role/relationship last year. looking for an experienced respectful Dom to explore new things with x **Desires and Fantasies** something I like to keep to myself, until I met someone

Surfing, music, keeping fit and just generally living life to its fullest are my main loves, I guess any sport that involves riding something, be that a board or a horse not so much into team sports..dominant men too however I’m not in a position to have a relationship right now but friends welcome, especially if you want to go for a surf together or just generally have fun. If you’ve stumbled across my profile because I’ve liked a photo of yours, it’s purely because I was scrolling the home page, nothing more than that, so no need to message me to tell me I’m too far away. Also, although a compliment, I’d rather much younger guys and girls didn’t message me, it’s not likely we will have much in common and I prefer my age and upwards.

Yes I am a greeter on here and yes you'll get an automated message, no I'm not a bot or AI....I am a real person who actually has a life...I don't get paid for this I volunteer....also my Dom, my everything has just been diagnosed with cancer so I'm sorry if you are not my top priority so please be aware that I won't be answering messages right away just have a bit of patience and compassion please....!!! **WARNING: Any individuals or institutions using this site or any of its associated sites do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious *** of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.** I am one of the community volunteer meeter and greeters in the FET Universe, please hit me up if you need any help or guidance! Yes the message that comes through is automated but I am a real person behind the message so please don't assume I'm a bot or fake. PLEASE DON'T BE ASKING TO SEE MY PRIVATE GALLERY IT WON'T HAPPEN. Only friends and personally known people from here have access and as a woman I have the right to not have to explain why I have private pictures and why I don't allow just anyone to have access to them!!! So again please don't ask to see them and don't ask why I have them if no one can see them...... please use common sense lol. Don't ask me to send nudes it won't happen unless you want me to send you a sarcastic comment or gif then be my guest and ask away lol. I am currently in a D/s relationship so I'm not looking for anything besides friends and events so please when sending me a message please respect my relationship and dynamic I have with my Sir. I love my Sir, so please no rude messages, no dick pictures either please!!!! Also I'm NOT I repeat NOT a Domme or Mistress and any rude/disrespectful messages will get ignored and or deleted. **Any messages that include •***/watersports •*** or even fantasies of *** including CNC •needle play is a hard limits for me please respect that otherwise you will get blocked. •anything I repeat any messages to do with kids/***s will instantly get ignored and blocked.** I've been a sub for near on 8 years now and been with my Sir for 5 of those, but always knew I was meant to be a sub for as long as I can remember and been into BDSM and kink for well over 10 years, I also class myself as a SAM which stands for Smart Arse Masochist if you don't understand what one is Google is your friend lol. We are similar to a Brat but have different tendancies but all come under the same umbrella. So be prepared to get sarcastic comments or answers back if you're an idiot lol. I've had some bad experiences and made some mistakes in the past but they have made me stronger along the way. I've also had the privilege of being a mentor, which I enjoyed immensely that feeling of knowing that you've helped someone grow and become the sub they are born to be. Also remember this is a journey it's not a sprint to the finish line be patient. I would describe myself as an empath!!! An empath is a highly sensitive individual, who has a keen ability to sense what people around them are thinking and feeling. So I experience a great deal of empathy, often to the point of taking on the *** of others at my own expense. I'm loyal, caring and honest and once you have me as close friend, I'll be there for life, if you need a talk I'll be there no matter what. I'm fiercely loyal when it comes to my close friends mess with them and you'll have me to deal with also!!!!! I've been messed around by people in the past who I called close friends, they hurt me and messed my head up a lot, so if I seem a bit stand offish in the beginning it's just cause I've guarded my heart but once I can trust you and believe me it will take a long time, but when I do you'll have me as a friend for life!!!! Something I've recently found out about myself is that I've always identified as bisexual but only recently have I come to the realisation that I'm pansexual, for any one that doesn't know what that means- Pansexuality is sexual, romantic or emotional attraction towards people regardless of their sex or gender identity. After a year or so of being confused as to why I felt the way I did only then chatting to a friend recently did they point this out to me and it was BINGO!!!!!! I feel so much as been lifted off my shoulders now and don't feel confused anymore. I love my LGBTQIA community also, and I have been a supporter for many years I do all I can to support the community where I can and when I can!!!! I'm also Gender Fluid which is something else I've recently discovered about myself I am also a massive massive Lady Gaga fan!!! I always get asked about my profile name here and I have to explain that it's not cause I'm a brat, or Daddy's lil monster lol. I love Lady G she is my everything, my Queen, my Mother Monster. So to explain....... Lady Gaga calls her fans her little monsters and she is Mother Monster!! Hence where my profile name comes from. "Don't you ever let a soul in the world tell you that you can't be exactly who you are." - Lady Gaga. "Do not allow people to dim your shine because they are blinded. Tell them to put on some sunglasses." - Lady Gaga. "I think tolerance and acceptance and love is something that feeds every community." - Lady Gaga. "I feel like if you're a really good human being, you can try to find something beautiful in every single person, no matter what." - Lady Gaga. "People talking since the beginning of time Unless they paying your bills, pay them bitches no mind" - Rupaul Andre Charles "If you can't love yourself how in the hell are you gonna love somebody else" - Rupaul Andre Charles "It doesn't matter where you're from, that has nothing to do with how far you can go. Never be ashamed of how you walk, talk, because that is going to be the key to your success" -ChiChiDeVayne "THE HARDEST THING TO DO IN THIS WORLD IS TO LIVE IN IT. BE BRAVE. LIVE.” - Buffy Summers VANILLA ME: I love films and specifically comic book films as I am a MASSIVE comic book fan lolol. So start a convo with that in mind I may just like you ? I love my dynamic with Sir so we still have date nights and go out for meals and drinks ect but also we like our quiet nights too snuggled up together. I can be quite shy when I first meet anyone but get on wrong side of me and boy you will know about it!!! I am also a MASSIVE Horror fan always have been always will be....a massive kink for me is masks especially Ghostface and Michael Myers to me they are both Daddy lol 🤣