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Impact bottom. Not a sub. Need to actually like the person I'm engaging with. Solo polyamorous weirdo. Happily partnered but always happy for more friends and people to play with at kink events. Not looking for monogamy or to be dominated. Just some happy *** with someone I actually enjoy as an actual human rather than just a means to an end. I have zero object permanence, so please don't ask what my favourite anything is. I'm also an entire person who does not want to hear fap fodder straight out of the gate. I do hate small talk, so please get to the point. Yes, I'm awkward as fuck. Generally uninterested in people under 30. Not looking for any high protocol or lifetime nonsense. If I don't find you interesting and engaging in conversation I'm not going to be interested in playing with you. Yes, I do know I'm hard work. I'm not looking for a knight in shining armour, but I do have existing dynamics and will not be settling for the sake of it. End goal is simply happy *** and good company now and again. Enjoying the company is relevant. if you're only looking to get your dick wet then I'm not for you.
Female (39) Carlisle, Cumbria
I’m a plus size Bi curious & BDSM sub curious, would love to meet a Dom or Dom couple or Dom sub couple to explore my kinks & to possibly train/teach me as a sub & would also love to find friends within the community.
Female (49) Ulverston, Cumbria
looking to explore with like minded females and make new friends. potentially leading to 1 on 1 play or maybe something more.
Female (41) Barrow-in-Furness, Cumbria
Bio… Hey this is all about me.. which I hate writing about but here we are. ✨I am 5,5 have curves & a big booty which is great for pretty marks and grabbing a hold of. ✨I am a mum to two little beans with two legs and a dog mumma too! As a person I’m pretty relaxed, fun and like to have a good laugh! ✨I love cooking & baking… staple meal to make is a curry. ✨I am a pretty independent woman & successful in my work. ✨Bratty & Bitey Vanilla- I am seeking vanilla wise somebody that is up for days out as well as good food! Likes a walk but also enjoys a good snuggle & snacks. I would like to have somebody that will have a laugh and doesn’t mind being wound up in a good way…. Because who doesn’t want to be kept on there toes 😁🤪 Kinkyyyy- Kink wise I’m submissive to men. But that doesn’t mean I won’t keep you on your toes. I haven’t been with anybody in a long time. I am jumping back in so take it easy with me. As a submissive I’m very much a giver and happy to learn about myself & the dominant I am with. I like to find what gets somebody going and sometimes the brat will come out to play to gain this, see what buttons can be pressed to see the reaction. I like to be mentally challenged but I also need the mental connection to play. My main fetish list: - Impact play- spanked with hand of implements - Pretty marks- I like having a hand print or a little bruise - Primal- growling/ being chased - Cum- taste, feel, wearing it hehe 🤭, seeing it leak out of me. - Morning sex.. is this one? But no better way to start the day in my opinion. - Outdoor play - Lingerie - Praise - Bondage - Hands- love man hands - Biting- nibbled/ teeth grazing - Anal- only ever used toys Hard limits: - Knife play - *** - Watersports
Female (30) Barrow-in-Furness, Cumbria
Just ask me ? If you don’t have picture of your face I won’t message back. Don’t message if you can’t hold a decent conversation 🙄 I want daddy to treat me like a princess 👑 tell me how you would treat me like a princess 👸🏼 DDLG,CNC,Bondage,Roleplay and much much more 😉 I can’t see likes just message me 😘
Female (30) Kendal, Cumbria
Long term pansexual couple (recently married) looking to explore connections together with other open minded none judgemental zero drama people. We are currently dating a wonderful man so not looking for anything long term or serious. We’re seeking deep meaningful conversations and a genuine emotional connection to get those vibes a vibing! We want to consensually have fun and see what happens along the way. Hopefully it will organically transcend into intimacy without any awkwardness. Extremely laid back and easy to talk to. Quirky and weird, we love to laugh and be silly but also enjoy deep serious random chats and spontaneous adventures. My sense of humour is dryer than a nuns vagina, so if you’re easily offended then we’re not the match for you. P.s To Every man reading this…. Don’t panic! You won’t be the bewildered participant in our breeding experiment! Better yet you won’t be an even more confused donor! 😜 Psst! We may be married with benefits but we only play together!
Female (33) Flookburgh, Cumbria
🪢 Keen to explore kinks further; roleplays, (Dd/lg, CNC), power dynamics and more, so please only send requests if these interest you 👌🏼 🚫 having hit 40, I’m realising that life is too short for selfish or vanilla partners 💁🏻‍♀️ 💖 Kindness and empathy are attractive to me 😂 If you’re a fan of dry humour and shite jokes, you’re in the right place 💁🏻‍♀️ ⛓️So: kinky, kind, funny people to the front of the queue please 🤗 (there is no queue, but feel free to form one)
Female (42) Troutbeck, Cumbria
I identify as a submissive within a BDSM dynamic, someone who finds fulfillment in trust, communication, and consensual power exchange. For me, submission isn’t about weakness it’s about strength, self-awareness, and choosing to give control to someone who respects my boundaries and well-being. I value honesty, emotional connection, and mutual growth within any dynamic I’m part of. My faith is a central part of who I am, guiding my values, choices, and the way I treat others. I believe that my spirituality and my identity can coexist, and I approach both with intention, respect, and integrity. Balance is important to me—I seek a dynamic that honors not only the physical and emotional aspects of submission, but also my personal beliefs and moral compass. Above all, I prioritize consent, safety, and respect in everything I am taken currently by a caring dom 🙂‍↔️🤔
Female (35) Carlisle, Cumbria
⚠️?READ FIRST BEFORE CONTACTING ME!? NO I am not here for your pleasure or to try out your fantasy's Do not message Me if you are Dom and want to try your sub side out. Go to a dominatrix Your first message needs effort, or I will block it straight away. You need to have a pic, I will not respond without! You need to be aged 30s to 50s. I will want to see you on cam via WhatsApp. HONESTY is very important. No BS! I am a lifestyle very sadistic mistress looking for her perfect slave/partner. I want a local slave for a regular D/s relationship/contact NOT after online. I have no time for fantasists or to forfill your five second wank. Nor am I after a part-time subs when it suits you. you need to give me all of your time & attention. That is what all goddesses deserve after all. you must drive and have your own transport. I like clean shaven! ♡ I loves ♡ *** Degrading Cuckold lifestyle Restraining Toilet play (***) Spanking caning whipping cropping teasing lots more not listed @ukmistress4rl X
Female (45) Dalton-in-Furness, Cumbria
Looking for a man who’s 25-45 years old Preferably a bearded man because if you have the patience to grow a bread, you have the patience to deal with my sassy personality 😈 Questions?? Ask me, I don’t bite 😏
Female (27) Broughton Beck, Cumbria
I am a dominant woman seeking enduring relationships that I can invest in, with others who are willing to invest in a mutually reciprocal way. I have a broad interest in sex and kink, limits will be agreed with individuals. The single hard limit I insist on is honesty not only with me but with others in your life who may be affected by your choices. So, a situation where another partner is kept in the dark is not acceptable. this is non negotiable. I respond to respectful approaches only, I do not invite unsolicited sexually explicit images or messages as an introduction. my aftercare includes physical and emotional presence, mutual affection and humour. the sliders will not allow me to show my age preference, I do not date men in their forties or fifties, if you identify as that, thanks but no thanks ? I own the intellectual rights to all of my images. I do not give permission for them to be shared, printed or published digitally **Desires and Fantasies** I have a new one! i keep being asked if I would like to join a threesome. I have never been with multiple lovers at one time, and I worry it is close to some trigger points for me. So, i decided to think about what scenario I would feel comfortable enough to be turned on by. And I came up with a rather nice daydream about a pair of young men, let's call them Bill & Ben, who have a loving and fulfilling relationship together. However, they both enjoy a woman and they invite me into their bed to fulfil that aspect of their sexuality in return for teaching me about being in a threesome. I will not go into too much detail, suffice it to say, I have played out what we may do in extensive and vivid detail. I hope that my Bill & Ben can find me and make me their Little Weed xx So, I have a motorcycle thing. Directly for them, but that is between me and my gixer. But also for motorcyclists. I had an interesting experience on the motorway, a bit of over/under taking flirty thing with a man on a very sexy sports bike. He made me miss my junction! By I can’t help thinking that if he had not been riding with his bro, he woulda followed me off the motorway… and now I really, really, really want to explore what happened… So I need someone who shares my bike kink, rides, gets bikes & bike culture (it’s not just the leather thing for me, although …?) and would like to help me find out what happened one sunny afternoon just off the m6 ? Happy for this to be online, perhaps leading to meeting in the flesh, particularly if that led to high s***d, 2 up road action ?? I have a vivid and creative imagination, and I am excited to explore… my fantasies evolve. for specifics I need to know who I am sharing it with ?
Female (55) Carlisle, Cumbria

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I’m a plus size Bi curious & BDSM sub curious, would love to meet a Dom or Dom couple or Dom sub couple to explore my kinks & to possibly train/teach me as a sub & would also love to find friends within the community.
Female (49) Ulverston, Cumbria
Impact bottom. Not a sub. Need to actually like the person I'm engaging with. Solo polyamorous weirdo. Happily partnered but always happy for more friends and people to play with at kink events. Not looking for monogamy or to be dominated. Just some happy *** with someone I actually enjoy as an actual human rather than just a means to an end. I have zero object permanence, so please don't ask what my favourite anything is. I'm also an entire person who does not want to hear fap fodder straight out of the gate. I do hate small talk, so please get to the point. Yes, I'm awkward as fuck. Generally uninterested in people under 30. Not looking for any high protocol or lifetime nonsense. If I don't find you interesting and engaging in conversation I'm not going to be interested in playing with you. Yes, I do know I'm hard work. I'm not looking for a knight in shining armour, but I do have existing dynamics and will not be settling for the sake of it. End goal is simply happy *** and good company now and again. Enjoying the company is relevant. if you're only looking to get your dick wet then I'm not for you.
Female (39) Carlisle, Cumbria
I identify as a submissive within a BDSM dynamic, someone who finds fulfillment in trust, communication, and consensual power exchange. For me, submission isn’t about weakness it’s about strength, self-awareness, and choosing to give control to someone who respects my boundaries and well-being. I value honesty, emotional connection, and mutual growth within any dynamic I’m part of. My faith is a central part of who I am, guiding my values, choices, and the way I treat others. I believe that my spirituality and my identity can coexist, and I approach both with intention, respect, and integrity. Balance is important to me—I seek a dynamic that honors not only the physical and emotional aspects of submission, but also my personal beliefs and moral compass. Above all, I prioritize consent, safety, and respect in everything I am taken currently by a caring dom 🙂‍↔️🤔
Female (35) Carlisle, Cumbria
Bio… Hey this is all about me.. which I hate writing about but here we are. ✨I am 5,5 have curves & a big booty which is great for pretty marks and grabbing a hold of. ✨I am a mum to two little beans with two legs and a dog mumma too! As a person I’m pretty relaxed, fun and like to have a good laugh! ✨I love cooking & baking… staple meal to make is a curry. ✨I am a pretty independent woman & successful in my work. ✨Bratty & Bitey Vanilla- I am seeking vanilla wise somebody that is up for days out as well as good food! Likes a walk but also enjoys a good snuggle & snacks. I would like to have somebody that will have a laugh and doesn’t mind being wound up in a good way…. Because who doesn’t want to be kept on there toes 😁🤪 Kinkyyyy- Kink wise I’m submissive to men. But that doesn’t mean I won’t keep you on your toes. I haven’t been with anybody in a long time. I am jumping back in so take it easy with me. As a submissive I’m very much a giver and happy to learn about myself & the dominant I am with. I like to find what gets somebody going and sometimes the brat will come out to play to gain this, see what buttons can be pressed to see the reaction. I like to be mentally challenged but I also need the mental connection to play. My main fetish list: - Impact play- spanked with hand of implements - Pretty marks- I like having a hand print or a little bruise - Primal- growling/ being chased - Cum- taste, feel, wearing it hehe 🤭, seeing it leak out of me. - Morning sex.. is this one? But no better way to start the day in my opinion. - Outdoor play - Lingerie - Praise - Bondage - Hands- love man hands - Biting- nibbled/ teeth grazing - Anal- only ever used toys Hard limits: - Knife play - *** - Watersports
Female (30) Barrow-in-Furness, Cumbria
🪢 Keen to explore kinks further; roleplays, (Dd/lg, CNC), power dynamics and more, so please only send requests if these interest you 👌🏼 🚫 having hit 40, I’m realising that life is too short for selfish or vanilla partners 💁🏻‍♀️ 💖 Kindness and empathy are attractive to me 😂 If you’re a fan of dry humour and shite jokes, you’re in the right place 💁🏻‍♀️ ⛓️So: kinky, kind, funny people to the front of the queue please 🤗 (there is no queue, but feel free to form one)
Female (42) Troutbeck, Cumbria
Long term pansexual couple (recently married) looking to explore connections together with other open minded none judgemental zero drama people. We are currently dating a wonderful man so not looking for anything long term or serious. We’re seeking deep meaningful conversations and a genuine emotional connection to get those vibes a vibing! We want to consensually have fun and see what happens along the way. Hopefully it will organically transcend into intimacy without any awkwardness. Extremely laid back and easy to talk to. Quirky and weird, we love to laugh and be silly but also enjoy deep serious random chats and spontaneous adventures. My sense of humour is dryer than a nuns vagina, so if you’re easily offended then we’re not the match for you. P.s To Every man reading this…. Don’t panic! You won’t be the bewildered participant in our breeding experiment! Better yet you won’t be an even more confused donor! 😜 Psst! We may be married with benefits but we only play together!
Female (33) Flookburgh, Cumbria
Looking for a man who’s 25-45 years old Preferably a bearded man because if you have the patience to grow a bread, you have the patience to deal with my sassy personality 😈 Questions?? Ask me, I don’t bite 😏
Female (27) Broughton Beck, Cumbria
Just ask me ? If you don’t have picture of your face I won’t message back. Don’t message if you can’t hold a decent conversation 🙄 I want daddy to treat me like a princess 👑 tell me how you would treat me like a princess 👸🏼 DDLG,CNC,Bondage,Roleplay and much much more 😉 I can’t see likes just message me 😘
Female (30) Kendal, Cumbria
⚠️?READ FIRST BEFORE CONTACTING ME!? NO I am not here for your pleasure or to try out your fantasy's Do not message Me if you are Dom and want to try your sub side out. Go to a dominatrix Your first message needs effort, or I will block it straight away. You need to have a pic, I will not respond without! You need to be aged 30s to 50s. I will want to see you on cam via WhatsApp. HONESTY is very important. No BS! I am a lifestyle very sadistic mistress looking for her perfect slave/partner. I want a local slave for a regular D/s relationship/contact NOT after online. I have no time for fantasists or to forfill your five second wank. Nor am I after a part-time subs when it suits you. you need to give me all of your time & attention. That is what all goddesses deserve after all. you must drive and have your own transport. I like clean shaven! ♡ I loves ♡ *** Degrading Cuckold lifestyle Restraining Toilet play (***) Spanking caning whipping cropping teasing lots more not listed @ukmistress4rl X
Female (45) Dalton-in-Furness, Cumbria
looking to explore with like minded females and make new friends. potentially leading to 1 on 1 play or maybe something more.
Female (41) Barrow-in-Furness, Cumbria
I am a dominant woman seeking enduring relationships that I can invest in, with others who are willing to invest in a mutually reciprocal way. I have a broad interest in sex and kink, limits will be agreed with individuals. The single hard limit I insist on is honesty not only with me but with others in your life who may be affected by your choices. So, a situation where another partner is kept in the dark is not acceptable. this is non negotiable. I respond to respectful approaches only, I do not invite unsolicited sexually explicit images or messages as an introduction. my aftercare includes physical and emotional presence, mutual affection and humour. the sliders will not allow me to show my age preference, I do not date men in their forties or fifties, if you identify as that, thanks but no thanks ? I own the intellectual rights to all of my images. I do not give permission for them to be shared, printed or published digitally **Desires and Fantasies** I have a new one! i keep being asked if I would like to join a threesome. I have never been with multiple lovers at one time, and I worry it is close to some trigger points for me. So, i decided to think about what scenario I would feel comfortable enough to be turned on by. And I came up with a rather nice daydream about a pair of young men, let's call them Bill & Ben, who have a loving and fulfilling relationship together. However, they both enjoy a woman and they invite me into their bed to fulfil that aspect of their sexuality in return for teaching me about being in a threesome. I will not go into too much detail, suffice it to say, I have played out what we may do in extensive and vivid detail. I hope that my Bill & Ben can find me and make me their Little Weed xx So, I have a motorcycle thing. Directly for them, but that is between me and my gixer. But also for motorcyclists. I had an interesting experience on the motorway, a bit of over/under taking flirty thing with a man on a very sexy sports bike. He made me miss my junction! By I can’t help thinking that if he had not been riding with his bro, he woulda followed me off the motorway… and now I really, really, really want to explore what happened… So I need someone who shares my bike kink, rides, gets bikes & bike culture (it’s not just the leather thing for me, although …?) and would like to help me find out what happened one sunny afternoon just off the m6 ? Happy for this to be online, perhaps leading to meeting in the flesh, particularly if that led to high s***d, 2 up road action ?? I have a vivid and creative imagination, and I am excited to explore… my fantasies evolve. for specifics I need to know who I am sharing it with ?
Female (55) Carlisle, Cumbria

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