I’m 41, bisexual, ENM, RA and identify as an extreme masochist, a submissive and explorer of things for science and humour.

I’ve been active in the community for over 20 years. I had a bit of a break for a few years and then came back, hence the name. I have campaigned for UK BDSM rights over these past few decades and will continue to do so. 🐝

Please don’t be sexual towards me if you’re not invited. I REALLY hate that.

I value kindness above all, I’d never hurt anyone on purpose.🐝🐝

If you cross my boundaries, I will disengage, no exceptions

I try my best to be kind, welcoming and understanding. But I don’t have time to waste my time.
I am happy to chat and be friendly with anyone nice but I am not interested in playships with anyone who lacks decades of life experience and usually a decade or more of BDSM community engagement. So please don’t waste your time either.

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I am seeking…

Traditional, old fashioned, ultra extreme natural Sadist, Dominant types, who are ENM and play with others openly. I can’t and don’t want to be your everything. I love and often prefer Sadist/Dom(me) couples or teams, but they must be stable and established. I won’t do drama or keep secrets and if we play together, we talk together.
I don’t want to Switch, I want to impress and show off my talents to people who are also talented and can appreciate and nurture them.
I observe people who are established members of the BDSM community very closely over much time, but I know quickly if we would be a good fit. I can be shy and risk averse in pressured social situations, which is amusing to me as someone who laughs when they are hit full on with spiked bats!
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I don’t play with strangers who I haven’t known as a friend first. I need to protect those who I play with as well as myself, the Sadomasochistic extremes I consent to and indulge in, safely and sanely, are not protected by UK law.
I value experience and confidence in my playships. I can spot frauds and egoists a mile off. I can spot true Sadists and BDSM’ers too.

Ask rather than assume. Bee x

BDSM Play Partner ● 38 to 70 years ● 75km around UK Bristol

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