BDSM Dating in UK

Looking for a lady or sub for fun dates, adventures and just to have a laugh. Has to be in Yorkshire, closer to Halifax the better so the dates can be better arranged and be longer! So if your chilled, likes a laugh. Message away

We are dominant couple looking for submisiv/a but if u are not true slave and u are only a women/men wich want to spend time talking here o fiind normal relation dont bother u to answer at our mesage o send first mesage.Read first the profile .Domination is not ONLINE is only FACE TO FACE and no *** for domination ,so dont asck this thinks.😝

Married but allowed to play, I have a number of casual play partners with varying interests. I am experienced but forever learning and will happily steal good ideas from any source. I host monthly parties at home, with a wide range of kinksters in attendance. Dungeon furniture that eclipses most commercial venues and an assortment of toys make for a fine play environment but I do like the social aspect as well. I can play on the edge but mostly it's sensual play, with spankings leading to pinwheels and vampire gloves leading to more intimate experiences. Or not. I respect limits.

I firmly believe in informed consent, and all my playmates know about each other. I won't share private details but I won't be a secret either. I seek to earn trust and maintain it, and expect the same from playmates. I'm far from being desperate - quality over quantity.

In terms of playmates I do like variety. Experience levels are irrelevant and in fact I've coached quite a few girls who are new to kink or just to certain aspects.

I'm an experienced French Dom looking for a sub and/or a rope partner.
I love to use my ropes and my other toys during a scene. I'm caring and strict. I'll punish or reward you depending on how you behave. You can have a bratty side, it's a pleasure to deal with.
But of course, you can always use your safeword ... ;-)

I like making you cum harder and more times than you have before.
Edging, toys,
Anything but ! And kids

Very open minded. Wanting to try everything before I am to old and can only think about it.
And sorry I can't see spanks as not a paid up member. Message me I don't bite unless you want me too.

Hello, I'm vamp searching for a woman who is dominant to establish a relationship. I am currently in an open relationship, so it's essential to find someone who is comfortable with that. I have a particular interest in risk play, which may involve knives, lighters, and flammable liquids. If you'd like to know more, feel free to ask. I'm married and seeking a poly partner, as my wife and I embrace a poly lifestyle. In this context, I prefer to be submissive, but only in the bedroom, where I enjoy being controlled. Outside of that, I am a caring male, assigned male at birth, identifying as non-binary, with plenty of affection to share. I enjoy a type of roleplay that incorporates risk and ; specifically, I like being restrained and covered in something flammable, as well as experiencing and anticipation. Watching the scenario unfold is part of my kink. I'm looking for someone who enjoys taking control of my mind, as the thrill of is a major turn-on for me. Please note that I have a disability; I'm often in a wheelchair, so it's important that my partner is understanding of that. I look forward to hearing from you.

I seek someone who can tie me up, apply a flammable substance, and playfully threaten to set me on fire while holding a lighter. The element of intensifies my pleasure. During our sessions, I would like to be teased and edged, with the added thrill that if I climax, I would be set ablaze.

You get to choose the type of flammable liquid or firework, and I prefer not to know what's in store until I'm restrained. Each session should have a different flammable element for variety. Apart from that, my goal is to develop a relationship, whether it's open or D/s.

Funny and imaginative gentleman looking for exploration with similar lady. I am switch by nature so I enjoy both submissive and dominant scenes. I am able to hold character well and can both take and give a sound flogging. My rope skills are amateur at best but I would be keen to find someone who would like to practice with me.

If you are local and genuinely want to explore you will find me very open minded and adventurous.

I love someone liberal minded open and into personal development . Physically as long as you feel comfortable in your skin it’s fine . I love curvaceousness but not a prerequisite . Exhibitionist and voyeurism is my thing and anything sensual.

I am new to this and would like to find a switch.
I am a confident women and confident with my sexual abilities but definitely open to trying new things. I have tried regularly dating sites but most of the men on there are all month and I think they're a little intimidated by me🤷🏾‍♀️

I'm looking for something with a bright and beautiful woman.

I'm a confident and experienced dom seeking a sub/slave/little and variations there of. I enjoy the mental as well as the physical side and I'm happy to provide a firm controlling hand when required. I'm into rope, restraints, teasing, penetration, toys, etc.

I believe in total respect and trust or nothing is ever going to happen with me, I also understand that submission is a precious gift that has to be earned.

I'm single but open to the right something developing into a relationship. In general I'm keen for the world to see us as normal but when we are alone we have our own world to play in.

For professional reasons I prefer to maintain my privacy but I do have private face pics upon request. Should you wish to maintain yours I fully respect that in all forms, though request that you have a face picture to share after initial contact and rapport has been established.

I'm genuine and will reply to all messages. If you are curious send me a message... I'm on here or outlook dotcom

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Great to have someone on board to have mutual fun and friendship.Preferably in the south london area of wandsworth.Appreciate discretion and the beautiful art of teasing which I find it amazing and sweet.

One thing I enjoy is going down on a woman with a nice smooth pussy a using my tongue to tease the clit and make the woman orgasm, I would love to find someone who can help me beat my record of 5 orgasms so far.

I really really want please a Mistress/ Master. I have only few limits and will do what ever she please or desires to do with me. I am bisexual and very open minded. Please message me there. Thanks xx

Hi,
I’m a dominant seeking a submissive, age, gender etc.. isn't all that important to me what is important is that some or all of our kinks match and you’re within the UK.

An added bonus would be that you are seeking 24/7 slavery but this is of course optional.

Some of my kinks are but not limited to:
ABDL.
Biting.
Body worship (including being rimmed).
Bondage.
Bruises.
CBT.
Choking.
Domestic servitude.
Edging/denial/chastity.
Electro play.
Hair pulling.
Impact play.
Nipple play.
Objectification.
Pet play.
Sadism.
Sen sory deprivation.
Spit.
Wax play.

My limits are:
Bareback. (With new partners)
Group play.
Illegal.
Poppers.
Toilet play.

I'm honestly only interested in genuinely experienced Doms - if you haven't actually trained, learned, researched etc then I am not interested.

I've been in the lifestyle over 15 years - I'm a very dedicated, passionate alpha sub. My submission needs to be earned, and trust built; but once I submit I give my whole self.

Ideally we'd either be fully online, or at least begin online only. My reason for this:
Anyone can have a fun kinky session, spanking and cumming away. But it takes a true Dom to fuck my mind, dominate and control me. So I need to know you can do that, not just know you can "play" kinky.

I want reality - not fantasy. And I absolutely will not be up for one night stands.

I know I sound demanding, but I'm so bored of being harassed by fakers. For the right Dom I will be the most loyal, passionate, honest, dedicated sub.

HI,
If we can go somewhere and do something. Meaby we will learn something new about ourselves.

I like deferend points of view
Open for ideas and ready to go in many different ways of feelings...

A new experience will be our good experience

First off, I just want to thank you for clicking on my profile and checking it out. I appreciate the time and curiosity.

Experienced Dom enjoys long no rushed meetings with adventurous sub girls who would enjoy handing over control of their mind/body/wants/needs and desires to a dom guy they respect and trust.
I'd like to dress/teach selected girls in various outfits, that I will provide and help initially guide toward becoming a brand new sexy, confident submissive woman.
I love the visual, sensual, tactile exploration of taking a blank canvas transforming from plain Jane into demure gorgeous sexy slutty sex kitten.
If you're slim, well presented, polite. If you like the thought of handing control of yourself over to a Dom man then please read on.
Would you let yourself be cuffed/collared by him and make you his submissive lover/plaything?
Maybe you'd like to be Daddys little girl, transforming you into exactly what he wants you to be. Do you think about finding a genuine guy to explore with and bring some of your innermost erotic fantasies to life, turning you on, teasing/using you with words, toys, textures, sensations, restraints, gags etc while you're looking the part fully dressed in something sexy classic designer clothing or slutty bimbo tramp PVC or latex outfit.
I would love to discover at least one adventurous girl in or around London to help her achieve and become all she can be by pleasing her Master with a willing submissive attitude and her deviant kinky mind and body.
The key words in this whole scenario are "Mutual Trust" without it we wont get passed two ***s.
If you feel this is the sort of possible adventure you'd like to explore then please let me know.
If you have questions about anything? Maybe we could discuss one evening over drinks.
Send me a message lets see where it goes.

"Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all" (Helen Keller)
Dom.
N.B If you are not in or close to the M25. If you're outside the age range of 20 to 55. If you would struggle to fit into a max size 12 dress.then please do not contact me . You will be ignored.

WARNING:Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects- Go for your fucking life. Knock yourself the hell out and make me famous.

Want to meet a lady who will be in charge and likes to dress her sissys. I'm into leather big time. Into boot worship and slavery. I'll be so well behaved and do as I am told. I love being put in ladysmith clothing and humiliated

Looking to meet a female who is looking for an experienced Dom for an on-going relationship to explore our kinks together based on friendship and trust but to remain on a NSA basis.

I can meet at my home in Norfolk where I have a dedicated and fully equipped playroom. I am also able to travel over much of the UK. My female partner can also meet with me and assist where the dynamic for play will be enhanced (see photos).

I am a kind, but kinky gentleman. Basically a switch and happy in either role.

I'd like to meet a naughty girl or a dominant woman to spend some quality dirty time with. All my interests are in my profile and I'm interested in trying almost everything over a long weekend of experimenting

Im a new sub looking to get his feet wet, looking to be trained to serve. i recently found myself wondering about bondage and i think i would enjoy being tied up and used. send me a message if your interested.

Submissive..open minded, strong sense of self.

Looking for a real connection on both a emotional and physical nature. Not looking for casual or online only.