BDSM Dating in Heanor

As the title suggests, I'm open to making connections with folks whose appetites are able to match (or perhaps rival) my own.

I'm always open to experiment and have a wide array of personal kinks already (so chances are we might have one or two in common 😉).

I'm a switch, though heavily dom-leaning (you'll have to get me in the right mood if you want me to submit).

I'm down to play with couples (or more) as well as one-on-one. The more the merrier 😁 (I currently have a casual partner who would be interested in group play herself, so that could be a fun possibility a little later down the line as well).

There's a bit more info about me in my bio, so if I happen to take your fancy, feel free to give it a perusal and let me know if you'd like a chat sometime.

Looking for some fun prior to the weekend

I’m in a relationship with someone who can’t and won’t have sex. I’ve lost my dom and I’m desperate for a new one. And I’ve not had any fun for months, if you’re near Heanor and interested please send me a message because I need some no strings fun 😉

I’m 38 I was in a very kinky relationship and I’m looking for kink only now.
I loved to be humiliated and used like a fuck toy. I loved to be tied up and restrained and ‘***d’ to do things…
I’m not looking for anything serious, hopefully someone to message and maybe have some real life fun with..

Hi I’m looking for two males to spit roast me for my 21st birthday in September if you can do even earlier perfect.


Based in Derbyshire I can’t accommodate I’m afraid so a hotel would have to do.

This could be the start of an exciting adventure

Any rope bunnies into shibari and face sitting?

Genuine, honest, open guy here to try and find a likeminded girl who would like to explore our kinky side discreetly.

PLEASE NOTE I AM IN THE UK.
I want someone to take out, drinks, dance, food, bands.
Then if we click explore each other sensually, and take it further one step at a time.

Looking to build a connection with someone likeminded...

New to exploring this side of me looking to find dominant femmes or couples that would be open to exploring this side of me

Anybody interesting

Tell me what how you like to sub, are you a a good girl? A brat? What aftercare you like? How you like to feel dominated. It’s all an open book here

message me if ur a sub and into/willing to try omorashi! 🫶

Anyone wanna chat - meet up for some fun

With me

Ask us

Very open to new experiences and keen to play…who’s about.

Fun and adventurous.

Cruel and merciless would be preferred but I’m open to sweet/ mommy domme vibes

Hi, I'm looking for someone that I can get to know and make happy.

I know everyone's time is precious and I want to make their time fun enjoyable and relaxed.

I like to please and love to be told I have been a good boy, I want to follow the rules and tasks she sets but I know I can stray a little sometimes🫣 so someone that is inventive in ways to make me learn would be helpful, I don't mind these tasks if they are of a sexual or just a mundane task, anything that makes her happy or she has one less thing to do around the house. I have had experience with ass play and loved it so would definitely like if she wishes to explore this more.

I have some in person experience of being a sub, I had been online for more than two years with one Dom starting with texts then on to cam, I then moved to in person with a different Dom due to the other being in a different country, we met a few times and I believe I was able to fulfill her needs. She liked me to cook for her, she would play and me trying to make me make a mistake. Unfortunately, she is unable to continue due to personal reasons. So now I'm looking again.

I am only looking for in person meetings but happy to chat online for bit exchange phots and information to allow you to decide if I'm right for you, preferably around east midlands, but I am willing to travel If we have a good connection.

I do have some limits but these are more or less the same as most people's, like no , ***,kids, permanent marks, there are few more but nothing to extreme. I do like to experiment and try new things so I will try most things once unless is against my limits. I am straight but not against having other males in the room or play, this will probably take a bit of time to build up to as never done it before.

If this is something that interests you say hi so we can chat, see if we click, hopefully I will find my wonderful mistress and she her willing sub.

I will be open and honest from the start i do have a long-term partner of over 20 years and she dose not know im looking for a mistress to please, she has no interest in any kinks but i need to release the feeling to please someone.

Please note I'm not interested in people that will sell their service to me, I am also only interested in a female mistress. I would like a friend, someone when we are not playing, we can have a conversation, maybe take for a meal or go for drinks, want to be that person that you trust and feel you can try and say almost anything with. If you have gotten to the end thank you for you time.

Looking for a younger play partner for casual dom sub play sessions

Looking for a sub female upto 35 for play sessions someone open minded and wanting to explore themselves and the kinks they wish to try

Willing to travel to see the right person and would love to take them out for coffee first to get to know each other