BDSM Dating in Torridge

Hey I’m usually a goofball so excuse the overly serious tone here.

The following applies to kink and life in general. I am attracted to subversion and eccentricity: not the performative variety but the unselfconscious kind. I abhor mindless ritual (like watching TV for its own sake) and strict rules that arbitrarily police the bounds of acceptable behaviour. I cherish exploration and carnal spontaneity.

I’m seeking a switch, but really what that means is I want someone who favours fluidity over one set dynamic. Assertiveness may not be your default state for example—that’s fine, I don’t care about “experience” or familiarity with a given state or role, I want to see that part of you because it is you who is the subject of my interest.

Quick stats
Mischievous, non-malicious troll
Love languages of kink, humour and song playlists.
Ironic media enthusiast
Crossdresser
Monogamous, childfree (and seeking same)

My kink philosophy
Kink is the shared exploration of our authentic selves (but hot). It is a love language, a marriage of deviants.
I don't see the need for an always firm line between dominance and submission. And I love flipping traditional dynamics on their head.

Kinks I like most in a SO:
Power struggle
Name-calling / verbal *** / hatefucking
Something weird

My kink results
100% switch, brat, brat tamer, ageplayer, degrader, degradee, hunter, prey