Kinky women in Durham

Bit of a handful in body and mind Built for pinning down and hateful fuking Not built for lies, shit aftercare and poor communication 😊 Not seeking casual

New to the area seeking to join in with local munches and community events

Still building my profile 👷🏼‍♀️ But I'm a proud lesbian and I'm looking to explore the community and maybe learn more about myself and my desires. I love learning new things and so I'm hoping to educate myself about the kink community and maybe finally get up the courage to join in.

Yes, I’ve been here before. No, I’m not fresh meat , so if you’re here to prey on the naïve, keep it moving. I see you coming a mile off. I’m ENM and poly. Open to authentic connections and different dynamics with people who understand mutual respect, emotional intelligence, and how to behave like a grown-up. I'm hot, don’t approach if you're not. Just being my age doesn’t mean you’re my type. I don’t look my age, either, photos are real and recent. If feminism offends you, or you think confident women need “handling,” you’ll be out of your depth here, fast. Manosphere types, trad bros, and control freaks in Dom’s clothing: don't waste your time or mine. Unsolicited pics, pushy messages, or lazy one-liners will be ignored. This isn’t your fantasy playground. Bring your manners, or don’t bother. Now all the so-called “alphas” have retreated back to their mum’s spare room for a good old rage wank. I enjoy gigs (alternative/indie mostly), dancing like no one’s watching (but you probably are 😘), comedy, good food, and excellent company. If you can make me laugh, we’ll probably get on. If you can quote ***p Show, Stath Lets Flats, or The IT Crowd even better. Fair warning: I might be funnier than you. That’s not a challenge. It’s just statistically likely. If you’re emotionally literate, politically sound, and capable of adult conversation, feel free to say hi.

if your from another country then do not message me, only looking for serious people and those who are looking for a connection and not just kink. If you are in a relationship already then do not message me also

, ? In some way which I don’t understand, I discovered an interest in thin elderly/old/mature men....It was weird/embarrassing to realize, but since childhood, for some unknown reason, I've liked mature/elderly men...(not everyone in my environment, of course, but just like one of oddities of my interests). Unfortunately, there is not enough content on the internet with thin/slender elderly/old/mature/mature men, but in my opinion, such bodies look interesting and attractive in their own way (disclaimer) I'm not from the US, and not from an english-speaking country, so I won't be able to meet with anyone, so... yeah, I'm probably here just for the sake of communication, so don't waste your time chatting contact me if you plan to meet in person. I'm also open in/for(?) communication with other different users. Moreover, If you want, you also may tell me about your profession (cause, I'm looking for a job now, so I'm interested in hearing about your work and work experience)/hobbies/fetishes/pets/shameful incidents in your life/family/favorite books/movies/actors. Well, in conclusion, I'd say that I'm attracted to people who work as teachers/professors, educators/and etc. (but it's just a little addition). Gash, and I seriously believe that Maya Hawke is the most beautiful woman in the world! love girls like her......❤‍🩹

Hi everyone! I'm NEW to Fet but not new to the BDSM, kinky sex scene.. I've always been interested in it from a young age. I'm very open minded. X . Please don't message if you are under 30.. Nothing personal I just dont date people younger than me. . If you live more than 100+ miles away please dont message me as the chance of meeting up etc is slim. Thanks for checking out my profile.. Looking for.. . Older gentleman . Sexy woman . Kinky couple I'm a submissive, who likes been tied up, spanked, punished and dominated etc.. But it doesn't mean I don't like to occasionally take control. I'll be your"baby girl" if you'll be my "daddy" Ill be your "baby girl" if you'll be my "bitch" Send me a message #Let'sRockNRoll I will respond to messages when I can.. Apologies if it's not straight away!.. But I will get back to you! I am a genuine young lady looking to meet NEW people and to have a good time. X

seeing how it goes using this space a little differently because apps are draining the life out of me. I’d love to find something looking a little more traditional- long term, monogamous, but where things can build and connect in those more fun ways Outsidey, not outdoorsy .. I like a bit of exploring then coming home somewhere warm to a bath and wine. Nerdy and wholesome, tiny and curvy 🤓

Queer hermit / creature of many mischiefs with a love of spicy fantasy novels, learning new skills, creating things, and being cuddled. I love being used and pleasing others. A little praise and a forehead kiss goes a long way. That being said, I am also drawn to and intrigued by the darker side of kink. Psychology has always been an interest, and the idea of using it for kink is fascinating to me. It terrifies me, but that's part of the fun. Demi/pansexual so connection is the most important aspect to me. NSA is not my bag.

Pansexual 🏳️‍🌈 Switch 🖤 I am primarily a dom. I am open to subs and fellow switches, however please do not message me if you are strictly a dom looking for a sub. I am not interested in sexting or random 🍆 pics. Just your classic Alt Mommy that enjoys a little side of dark romance (you get extra points if you have a mask 👀), CNC and free use. Gamer, metalhead, reader, horror and true crime lover, history and mythology nerd, pagan witch. ⚠️ i am not a skinny queen, don't add me if you're not ok with a little jiggle

Kinky sub looking for a Dom. Always willing to try new things. I like serving and being kept. Wanting to get more involved in the scene, so if anyone has any recommendations of upcoming events, let me know!

Hey, I’m Rae. I’m a BBW so if you’re not into a fat ass and a big belly, please don’t message :) I like to game, PS5, and would love to have a duo to play with ☺️ I’m looking for a soft *** with a hard streak. Communication is a must for me. I like to know I'm being thought of, even if you're busy at work. Just a simple message would do, I don't need constant back and forth 🤭 If your distance from me is in the thousands, don't message me.. sorry.

looking for someone to have fun with! i’m mostly into: moderate impact play praise teasing moderate bondage orgasm control but i’m open to more

I’m a 32yo female submissive looking for a Dom. Into a lot of things list is quite long so if you would like to know just message me. A few of these include: ropeplay, being controlled, being a brat… sometimes xx

tied teased and edged virtual play i do not send pics or videos its not my thing i want a guy who can tell me what they will do to me and virtualise it im also ticklish if thats a kink and breathplay too im up for trying

# Hi bored female looking for fun, and a local fwb **Desires and Fantasies** _Tie me, cuff me, chain me, blindfold me, tease me, please me and spank me

Hey there! Please don't bounce into my DM's with a thousand word essay on scenarios or what you would do to me because I ain't got time to read all that. That also goes for random genital pictures, the dreaded "How's u?" and any kind of two word greeting. Anyway, about me. I am 22 and chronically ill with a neurological condition which impacts my day to day life. I have a long history of trauma, which means that I am wary and anxious, which means I'm looking for an experienced Dom, male or female around the Durham area, north east area. Each potential Dom will be vetted, and nothing will be rushed into and communication is PARAMOUNT. I can't stress that enough. looking at around 22-30 but may look into someone that is older if they peak my interest :) thank you for reading :)

hey 👋🏼 new area, looking for new connections 🔗 friendly southerner 👇🏼 d/s 🧎🏼‍♀️ good vibes + sense of humour 🤪 very chatty 🗣️ feel free to message ✌🏼

Id like to meet a dom, who I can be literally sexually obsessed with. I’m in to a lot of things. But most of that comes with time/trust. Enjoy being used. Rough. Orgasm denial. Pleasing. Restrained. Swinging. Clubs. Cum whore. Group. Discipline. Rules (I can be a bit of a brat and rules are meant to be broken for the right punishment, right). Roleplay. Your fantasies. Massage. Being a good girl. Not a huge *** fan. But can take a spanking. Did I say pleasing? No experience in the full lifestyle, which is what I’m looking for. to be owned. I’m looking for something a bit more serious. FWB dom/sub sexual relationship. Open to discussion about expectations. If I’m not your number 1 sub slut I’m not interested. requirements… local to me (Middlesbrough) single, similar age and I need to see your face on a first message, I have to be attracted to you. I need somebody experienced. I can’t connect with somebody over a phone. I’d prefer to go for a coffee or even better the pub!

I am a big fan of the world of kink, bdsm and *** in particular. looking to chat to like minded people and learn more. I am in a relationship and very happy so not looking for anything but friendship. So no I will not DM you, so don't ask!!

I'll try my hardest to write something here but I never know what to say I'm afraid hi I'm Evelyn I'm 23 . I think education is important to an individuals life. I wish I could say I love travelling but the truth is I hate flying with a passion but will that stop me ? absoloutly not . my next destination ? probably Korea I've been brushing up on the language skills . my favorite food ? probably steak - if it isn't still mooing when I'm eating it then it isn't for me. I love autumn walks but I hate the cold- i also hate being in the sun I work nights so if I don't reply quickly I can only apologise . anything you'd like to know about me please feel free to ask.

hello, i am a 28 year old female. I'm self conscious and pretty much inexperienced. I'm a bigger girl, and shy about it. I have a breeding kink I need to satisfy 🙊 looking for NSA!

22 Looking for NSA, probably mostly online because I work a lot but if you’re nearby then definitely chance to meet. I delete this app often when the notifications become overwhelming but I will always come back :)

Hey thx for looking at my profile :3 I'm a Trans woman who is looking for hookups and fwb until I mysteriously poof off the app. the Drone thing is essentially just a talking point as it's more just a kink I'm trying to get experience with in as opposed to something I've actually done a lot😂. in terms of people I'll actually take seriously when it comes to meeting up I need to actually get on with you first because I want to avoid really awkward hookups ❤️.

New to the area seeking to join in with local munches and community events

if your from another country then do not message me, only looking for serious people and those who are looking for a connection and not just kink. If you are in a relationship already then do not message me also

Still building my profile 👷🏼‍♀️ But I'm a proud lesbian and I'm looking to explore the community and maybe learn more about myself and my desires. I love learning new things and so I'm hoping to educate myself about the kink community and maybe finally get up the courage to join in.

Yes, I’ve been here before. No, I’m not fresh meat , so if you’re here to prey on the naïve, keep it moving. I see you coming a mile off. I’m ENM and poly. Open to authentic connections and different dynamics with people who understand mutual respect, emotional intelligence, and how to behave like a grown-up. I'm hot, don’t approach if you're not. Just being my age doesn’t mean you’re my type. I don’t look my age, either, photos are real and recent. If feminism offends you, or you think confident women need “handling,” you’ll be out of your depth here, fast. Manosphere types, trad bros, and control freaks in Dom’s clothing: don't waste your time or mine. Unsolicited pics, pushy messages, or lazy one-liners will be ignored. This isn’t your fantasy playground. Bring your manners, or don’t bother. Now all the so-called “alphas” have retreated back to their mum’s spare room for a good old rage wank. I enjoy gigs (alternative/indie mostly), dancing like no one’s watching (but you probably are 😘), comedy, good food, and excellent company. If you can make me laugh, we’ll probably get on. If you can quote ***p Show, Stath Lets Flats, or The IT Crowd even better. Fair warning: I might be funnier than you. That’s not a challenge. It’s just statistically likely. If you’re emotionally literate, politically sound, and capable of adult conversation, feel free to say hi.

, ? In some way which I don’t understand, I discovered an interest in thin elderly/old/mature men....It was weird/embarrassing to realize, but since childhood, for some unknown reason, I've liked mature/elderly men...(not everyone in my environment, of course, but just like one of oddities of my interests). Unfortunately, there is not enough content on the internet with thin/slender elderly/old/mature/mature men, but in my opinion, such bodies look interesting and attractive in their own way (disclaimer) I'm not from the US, and not from an english-speaking country, so I won't be able to meet with anyone, so... yeah, I'm probably here just for the sake of communication, so don't waste your time chatting contact me if you plan to meet in person. I'm also open in/for(?) communication with other different users. Moreover, If you want, you also may tell me about your profession (cause, I'm looking for a job now, so I'm interested in hearing about your work and work experience)/hobbies/fetishes/pets/shameful incidents in your life/family/favorite books/movies/actors. Well, in conclusion, I'd say that I'm attracted to people who work as teachers/professors, educators/and etc. (but it's just a little addition). Gash, and I seriously believe that Maya Hawke is the most beautiful woman in the world! love girls like her......❤‍🩹

Bit of a handful in body and mind Built for pinning down and hateful fuking Not built for lies, shit aftercare and poor communication 😊 Not seeking casual

Hi everyone! I'm NEW to Fet but not new to the BDSM, kinky sex scene.. I've always been interested in it from a young age. I'm very open minded. X . Please don't message if you are under 30.. Nothing personal I just dont date people younger than me. . If you live more than 100+ miles away please dont message me as the chance of meeting up etc is slim. Thanks for checking out my profile.. Looking for.. . Older gentleman . Sexy woman . Kinky couple I'm a submissive, who likes been tied up, spanked, punished and dominated etc.. But it doesn't mean I don't like to occasionally take control. I'll be your"baby girl" if you'll be my "daddy" Ill be your "baby girl" if you'll be my "bitch" Send me a message #Let'sRockNRoll I will respond to messages when I can.. Apologies if it's not straight away!.. But I will get back to you! I am a genuine young lady looking to meet NEW people and to have a good time. X

Pansexual 🏳️‍🌈 Switch 🖤 I am primarily a dom. I am open to subs and fellow switches, however please do not message me if you are strictly a dom looking for a sub. I am not interested in sexting or random 🍆 pics. Just your classic Alt Mommy that enjoys a little side of dark romance (you get extra points if you have a mask 👀), CNC and free use. Gamer, metalhead, reader, horror and true crime lover, history and mythology nerd, pagan witch. ⚠️ i am not a skinny queen, don't add me if you're not ok with a little jiggle

Hey, I’m Rae. I’m a BBW so if you’re not into a fat ass and a big belly, please don’t message :) I like to game, PS5, and would love to have a duo to play with ☺️ I’m looking for a soft *** with a hard streak. Communication is a must for me. I like to know I'm being thought of, even if you're busy at work. Just a simple message would do, I don't need constant back and forth 🤭 If your distance from me is in the thousands, don't message me.. sorry.

looking for someone to have fun with! i’m mostly into: moderate impact play praise teasing moderate bondage orgasm control but i’m open to more

Im married and have been for 2 years now, So im mostly here to find short term fun with people or for the fun to turn to friendship. I prefer to have deep conversations rather than small talk, so feel free to get right to the point.

seeing how it goes using this space a little differently because apps are draining the life out of me. I’d love to find something looking a little more traditional- long term, monogamous, but where things can build and connect in those more fun ways Outsidey, not outdoorsy .. I like a bit of exploring then coming home somewhere warm to a bath and wine. Nerdy and wholesome, tiny and curvy 🤓

hey 👋🏼 new area, looking for new connections 🔗 friendly southerner 👇🏼 d/s 🧎🏼‍♀️ good vibes + sense of humour 🤪 very chatty 🗣️ feel free to message ✌🏼

I'll try my hardest to write something here but I never know what to say I'm afraid hi I'm Evelyn I'm 23 . I think education is important to an individuals life. I wish I could say I love travelling but the truth is I hate flying with a passion but will that stop me ? absoloutly not . my next destination ? probably Korea I've been brushing up on the language skills . my favorite food ? probably steak - if it isn't still mooing when I'm eating it then it isn't for me. I love autumn walks but I hate the cold- i also hate being in the sun I work nights so if I don't reply quickly I can only apologise . anything you'd like to know about me please feel free to ask.

tied teased and edged virtual play i do not send pics or videos its not my thing i want a guy who can tell me what they will do to me and virtualise it im also ticklish if thats a kink and breathplay too im up for trying

I have been a submissive as both a pet and a little for a few years now but I think it's time for a change because I also have a firm nurturing side as well that craves to guide, disopline and care for my own submissive. My priority is to ensure that the submissive feels safe and cared for while obeying my rules.

Hey thx for looking at my profile :3 I'm a Trans woman who is looking for hookups and fwb until I mysteriously poof off the app. the Drone thing is essentially just a talking point as it's more just a kink I'm trying to get experience with in as opposed to something I've actually done a lot😂. in terms of people I'll actually take seriously when it comes to meeting up I need to actually get on with you first because I want to avoid really awkward hookups ❤️.

Queer hermit / creature of many mischiefs with a love of spicy fantasy novels, learning new skills, creating things, and being cuddled. I love being used and pleasing others. A little praise and a forehead kiss goes a long way. That being said, I am also drawn to and intrigued by the darker side of kink. Psychology has always been an interest, and the idea of using it for kink is fascinating to me. It terrifies me, but that's part of the fun. Demi/pansexual so connection is the most important aspect to me. NSA is not my bag.

hello, i am a 28 year old female. I'm self conscious and pretty much inexperienced. I'm a bigger girl, and shy about it. I have a breeding kink I need to satisfy 🙊 looking for NSA!

Kinky sub looking for a Dom. Always willing to try new things. I like serving and being kept. Wanting to get more involved in the scene, so if anyone has any recommendations of upcoming events, let me know!

Hello. I'm a cis, pan, allistic woman and right now I'm exploring solo-poly life. if you're still reading, here are a bunch more representative words I would use to describe myself... I'm an atheist, a humanist, a socialist and a pacifist. I'm a subtle, non-conformist aspiring to live a hedonistic lifestyle. I'm kind. I'm respectful. I'm considerate and intuitive. I'm INFJ-T. An empath and an active listener. I'm self reflective. I'm a critical thinker, a non-drinker, a procrastinator and an over-eater. I'm into good morals, ethics and communication. I have a broad and complex sense of self. I'm a sensitive soul and I'm somewhat of an anxious introvert. I also have a silly sense of humour. I get fired up about social injustice. I don't fit in. I never did but nowadays I'm not sure I want to. I'm the quiet one but that's mostly because my head is often busy thinking big thoughts that I probably shouldn't say out loud. I write them down so that I don't have to. I'm not great in large crowds or even big groups really. I cope just fine but feel overwhelmed and need lots of time afterwards to retreat to my safe place. I do like seeing new places and doing fun things with nice people though. I'm not into ONS. Trust and understanding builds over time. I'm not looking to third wheel with a pre-existing couple. Tried it and it was nothing but a trainwreck. I'm not interested in becoming a parent. I'm happily child free and I have no maternal instincts. I've been hurt in life and in love. Such is part of this human existence. I've been treated badly but I have too much love to give to let it go to waste. So I refuse to build up a stupid, reactionary, cold, stoney wall. Instead I am committed to self improvement and learning from mistakes. When I feel close to someone, I like to be cuddly, tactile and affectionate. I like talking and bonding and developing real, authentic, fulfilling connections. I like sharing experiences and making happy memories together. I'm kinky. I am in to BDSM. I identify as submissive. I'm most comfortable around people who understand this as a real, authentic part of me. People who understand it's about so much more than sex. I've always gravitated towards power exchange relationship models. I'm experienced in kink but not nearly as advanced as I'd hoped by now. My desires are still largely unexplored and I would like to change that. Broadly speaking I'm attracted to maturity, self confidence and emotional availability. I like having someone to be silly with and to relax with. I like putting the world to rights. I like being in the company of trustworthy people I can comfortably be *** with and share my thoughts and feelings with and vice versa. I like it when people feel they can talk openly and honestly with me too. In an age where technology is ruling over our lives, I'm keen to move swiftly along from hollow, online chat to real world, face to face socialisation. No face pic because work, family and well, you know... because... the internet... Thanks for reading! Fetlife: floating-feather

I’m a 32yo female submissive looking for a Dom. Into a lot of things list is quite long so if you would like to know just message me. A few of these include: ropeplay, being controlled, being a brat… sometimes xx

Id like to meet a dom, who I can be literally sexually obsessed with. I’m in to a lot of things. But most of that comes with time/trust. Enjoy being used. Rough. Orgasm denial. Pleasing. Restrained. Swinging. Clubs. Cum whore. Group. Discipline. Rules (I can be a bit of a brat and rules are meant to be broken for the right punishment, right). Roleplay. Your fantasies. Massage. Being a good girl. Not a huge *** fan. But can take a spanking. Did I say pleasing? No experience in the full lifestyle, which is what I’m looking for. to be owned. I’m looking for something a bit more serious. FWB dom/sub sexual relationship. Open to discussion about expectations. If I’m not your number 1 sub slut I’m not interested. requirements… local to me (Middlesbrough) single, similar age and I need to see your face on a first message, I have to be attracted to you. I need somebody experienced. I can’t connect with somebody over a phone. I’d prefer to go for a coffee or even better the pub!

I don’t really know what to put here without sounding cringe or weird lol ? in other words I’m probably the most brattiest girl you will ever meet. I’m a tattoo addict and I plan to get so many more- I just love ***. I’m quite hard to make obedient as I like to do what I want when I want lol.