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Hey fellow kinkster , If you're curious and landed your finger on my profile then you will find , Im friendly ,chatty and imaginative , I try to answer messages if they are polite , though if it's not immediately im not ignoring you probably just drowning in them lol (well unless you've been rude and really deserve to be ignored) I'm a creative and playful creature, so I'm often cheeky and sarcastic with a dirty sense of humour, I have a filthy mind and I'm very honest and open , there are too many things I like to list them all but I think that if you can hold a conversation that's a good start, so message me if your still curious and want to chat ...
Curvy, playful female looking for another female to join me and boyfriend for ffm. both neuro spicy. 🌶 both in our 30s. 😃 420 friendly 💚
I am currently looking for Masochist subs . Ones who enjoy being toyed with, humiliated and beg to be punished. Worshipping your Mistress at all times and knowing your place ,grovelling on the ground begging to worship my thigh-high boots longing to lick them clean .You look up at me .How dare you !! As you feel the *** of my crop against your quivering body .... Any snivelling little worms that I think deserve this treatment and dare to message me., will address me as Mistress Athena . If you fail to so you will be ignored .
Switch/Brat/Goddess 👸🏽 Seasoned in various lustrous delights. With a blend of submissive obedience and sensual authority, I craft experiences that are as exhilarating as they are transformative. 😈 Wanting to explore my little side as well as expanding my Brat lifestyle. Have been exploring my dom side for quite a while but feel like I’m losing passion and enjoyment from it. Definitely say I’m more submissive but prefer to be broken into submission and talked through it than just submitting easily. 😋 Looking for LTR With One Person (Male/Female) Poly isn’t for me, But Definitely Intrigued By Swinging & Cuckolds. All in all I’d liked for the person I’m with to want to own me entirely (&/or Vice versa)… Ultimately just looking to find someone who matches my freak 💋 AGE: 23 LOCATION: United Kingdom KINKS: Role play, BDSM, DD/LG, exhibitionism, Femdom, and so much more. PERSONALITY: Flirty💋, sensual👙, Freaky, open minded😋& Easygoing😊. But I do have a darker side 😈
Mature married blonde with ***. I have an PHD. Work in further education. Frustrated and exploring life and what it has to offer. Very very new to this so don’t expect me to meet and know everything or be into extreme aspects.
Female (42) Eastbourne, East Sussex
I'm a bondage slut and like anything that involves me being forcibly captured, restrained so it’s impossible to escape, teased, ***d and eventually fucked, I like nipple clamps, dildos, anal plugs, e-stim on my pussy and nipples. I love to be gagged. I can be anything from a sexy secretary to a latex clad super-heroine. I like indoor and Outdoor bondage.
soft dommy mommy / sadistic black cat gf. Shy polite nerds 😍 I am not looking for: dominant men, sex in the first message, helping you cheat on your partner or being your therapist without being your friend first. (Don’t leave Brighton for dates and cannot host 😘) What colour are my eyes?
Seeking: A dominant presence for an online dynamic—someone who leads with care, clarity, and control. I give my focus to one man at a time—I don’t play half-hearted. I crave mental seduction, emotional depth, and a space where real trust can grow, even at a distance.
I'm Polyamorous, I have several partners at the moment and my needs are being met. I'm not here looking to date or add to my partners. I am always happy to make friends, you can probably find me in Fetish.com's chat room "The Lobby" If you don't have a face pic, I probably won't respond, life is too short to chat to people who are probably catfishing anyway. I'm 4ft 11" Kink is a big part of my life but being a Mumma will always come first. My son is my world, nothing and no one will ever change that. If I had to label myself, it would be 'sadomasochist' but I'm so much more than that; A little bit little A little bit kitten A little bit unicorn A fair amount Sadist A hell of a lot Masochist All sorts of FUN! Take care, be kinky! I AM NOT A DOMME.
Just a girl wanting to be ***d, slapped and have my hair pulled while you tell me how good I’m being. I’m a walking contradiction; praise and ***.
Female (24) Hastings, East Sussex
Hi, I have been off scene recently and now I have an empty nest I am looking for submissive males initially. I am caring and sensual as well as sadistic and teasing in my style of Domination. Have many kinks and these are growing. In an open relationship, we play apart and together. kinks include chastity tease and denial impact play sensation play (wax, pinwheel etc) temperature play pegging CBT ideally looking for regular play and dynamic so we can explore our kinks to the full as trust and understanding develops. honourifics include Mistress, Miss, Queen. I like an intimacy within the dynamic, looking after my needs while I look after yours is important. Feel free to approach respectfully and let's see where life takes us.
Firstly, to be clear, I’m exceptionally happy with my dynamic and not seeking another Dom, open to play, but we play together. Anyone, ladies or men, wishing to assist in bringing me to heel or to my knees must be open to chatting with both of us before meeting, just drop me a dm and we’ll take it from there. We are looking for regular meets rather than ons’s and play partners can be assured of discretion. Bit geeky in the day to day, love music, bones and critters. Lucky enough to live rurally and reap the benefits of living near the South Downs and secluded woods. Loved experimenting with being tied up and dominated before I was married, and now I’m divorced I’m rediscovering my more kinky side with my amazing owner MyDeviance. Since then, the floodgates have opened and we enjoy pushing our limits and imaginations. Apart from the obvious intellectual connection, I enjoy the physical domination of a stronger man, although mental stimulation is just as important, Bondage, Breeding, Praise, Breath Play, ass play, Hair Pulling, CNC, and lately enjoying exploring in play with women in mff, so others are added as they occur.
needy girl just wanting to be used into CNC, pet play,ddlg, bondage, free use, ***, impact play and many more
Full time collector of pretty books, owner of a few leafy friends, amateur swing dancer, a wardrobe like a crayon box exploded, avid gamer, board game connoisseur, with aspirations to be the mysterious person in the woods surrounded by a squad of woodland creatures. Much like a cat—if I like you, I will be in your personal space, and I thrive on compliments like a plant thrives on sunlight. Opening my car door for me? If you lead with a little old fashioned charm, I’m all yours.
Female (27) Stone Cross, East Sussex
Not that new to kink but pretty new to the community aspect, just here to explore and find people with good vibes :) V subby, impact is my main thing! If you’re going to message me please please just be normal, i will not reply to anyone being a freak!!! 🏻
hi, I’m Amelia and I’m really new to the scene so very inexperienced but I’m up for trying to new things and I’m looking to find out more of what I like.
hi! I'm looking for some kinky fun. when subbing I enjoy servicing, corporal, and all the fun mind games that can come with a trusting D/s dynamic. I am new to Domming but very much lean into caregiver role and having a good girl or boy service me
Female (37) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Looking to connect with LOCAL submissive men who are experienced in mummification, restraint and breath play as I need practice! I’m very elegant and my dominance is seductive and not loud…I’m not, afraid interested in meeting online friends, as I prefer real connections.
Looking to find like minded people, go to events together and have fun. 🏳️‍⚧️ @callm3izzy
***Please read my preferences, many thanks*** If you are so kind as to message me, dazzle me, tease me, engage me, I dare you. Or at least tell me your favourite story or song, and why you savour them so much. Above all else, I enjoy sensuality, connection, intensity. Someone who enjoys nuance. That giving myself over to such earthly delights does not mean that I give over to everything. Someone who understands that to surrender is a specific act, a purposeful gift, in exchange for trust, vulnerability and exploration. That to earn my trust means knowing to whom you are talking to; understanding the borders within which you may shade. To see the boundaries are the limits of my soul, health and sanity. And that everything in between I might gift, if we have that shared spark, that shared trust. **Desires and Fantasies** It’s seen as an act of dominance, yet they fool themselves. This is an act of trust, gorgeous flesh bound by desire: your most exquisitely sensitive part between my slavering jaws, my hungry tongue rasping over you, wanting to consume you. Easily could I have you squealing between my incisors, yet with supreme faith, you thrust into my hot throat, heedless of the lightest tease from my teeth, forgetting the power of my bite. They say that fortune favours the brave, but I wonder who wrote that? ; ) …As a Submissive (and yes, I feel we deserve the capitalisation despite our somewhat quieter nature), knowing our body is a jewel to be treasured, jealously held or possessed, surrendered to ownership to ***s as fierce as the fires that made us, is a terrifyingly intimate and desolate conclusion. Never forget the sacrifice we make, offering our devotion to you, our pleasure and *** to your wants, our ultimate trust in you, you are our deity and we worship you. **Submission for Me** Submission - for those of you who are mostly or purely dominant… know that I don’t submit out of ***, out of awe, out of coercive behaviour. I offer my happy, playful, sensual cooperation when I respect you, and know you respect me. That you want an actual connection, a dialogue, even a war of selves. But for me to submit, you must realise that I am your equal. I am not submissive because you are somehow better, more deserving, more righteous, or stronger whether physically or, in your opinion, mentally. You don’t prove your dominance. You don’t impose it over me. “Exerting” dominance is abusive, cowardly and a smokescreen. An actual bond means a dynamic that is shared, communicated, negotiated, teased, relished. Without equality, it fails. What is more unsexy than someone who merely presumes? **About You** See my preferences. I am interested in what makes you tick, your passions and dreams, what you enjoy, what has meaning for you. I crave full messages, about you, your desires, who you are. Don’t feel you have to stop at “hey” or “hi”, I’m not shy of conversation.
41 yr old keep fit woman looking for someone for regular meet ups .I need to build trust with first and be ok with that.im open minded but to a limit.
Female (41) Lewes, East Sussex
Just a girl looking for a regular play partner, ddlg, SSC, consent is everything- 🙏 don’t be a creep.
Hi, I'm Elyen, originally from Germany, but now living in Brighton. I am one half of a Two-some looking for a WOMAN for a fun night as a Three-some. My partner Paul and I are looking for a lovely woman to come join us for a one-off one night of threefold fun. PLEASE, NO ONE UNDER 35 OR TOO FAR AWAY!!! Anything else? Just ask.
Newly based in Brighton. Looking for people to have fun times with, and to show me what's good in this brilliant city. Enjoy being tamed and praised when I deserve it 😈 I can also be switchy and enjoy giving comfort. I'm a lover of countryside hiking, city cycling, and a bit of partying. I'm 5'11, so let's get that fact over and done with :)

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Switch/Brat/Goddess 👸🏽 Seasoned in various lustrous delights. With a blend of submissive obedience and sensual authority, I craft experiences that are as exhilarating as they are transformative. 😈 Wanting to explore my little side as well as expanding my Brat lifestyle. Have been exploring my dom side for quite a while but feel like I’m losing passion and enjoyment from it. Definitely say I’m more submissive but prefer to be broken into submission and talked through it than just submitting easily. 😋 Looking for LTR With One Person (Male/Female) Poly isn’t for me, But Definitely Intrigued By Swinging & Cuckolds. All in all I’d liked for the person I’m with to want to own me entirely (&/or Vice versa)… Ultimately just looking to find someone who matches my freak 💋 AGE: 23 LOCATION: United Kingdom KINKS: Role play, BDSM, DD/LG, exhibitionism, Femdom, and so much more. PERSONALITY: Flirty💋, sensual👙, Freaky, open minded😋& Easygoing😊. But I do have a darker side 😈
Curvy, playful female looking for another female to join me and boyfriend for ffm. both neuro spicy. 🌶 both in our 30s. 😃 420 friendly 💚
I'm a bondage slut and like anything that involves me being forcibly captured, restrained so it’s impossible to escape, teased, ***d and eventually fucked, I like nipple clamps, dildos, anal plugs, e-stim on my pussy and nipples. I love to be gagged. I can be anything from a sexy secretary to a latex clad super-heroine. I like indoor and Outdoor bondage.
Mature married blonde with ***. I have an PHD. Work in further education. Frustrated and exploring life and what it has to offer. Very very new to this so don’t expect me to meet and know everything or be into extreme aspects.
Female (42) Eastbourne, East Sussex
I am currently looking for Masochist subs . Ones who enjoy being toyed with, humiliated and beg to be punished. Worshipping your Mistress at all times and knowing your place ,grovelling on the ground begging to worship my thigh-high boots longing to lick them clean .You look up at me .How dare you !! As you feel the *** of my crop against your quivering body .... Any snivelling little worms that I think deserve this treatment and dare to message me., will address me as Mistress Athena . If you fail to so you will be ignored .
Hey fellow kinkster , If you're curious and landed your finger on my profile then you will find , Im friendly ,chatty and imaginative , I try to answer messages if they are polite , though if it's not immediately im not ignoring you probably just drowning in them lol (well unless you've been rude and really deserve to be ignored) I'm a creative and playful creature, so I'm often cheeky and sarcastic with a dirty sense of humour, I have a filthy mind and I'm very honest and open , there are too many things I like to list them all but I think that if you can hold a conversation that's a good start, so message me if your still curious and want to chat ...
Soft-hearted female leaning individual 🖤 with a calm, caring nature 💄 I love expressing my feminine side 🖤 Gentle, loyal, and happiest when I’m supporting someone 👣 Detail-focused, tidy, and love making others feel appreciated ✨ I enjoy structure, routine, and meaningful connection 📚 Always open to learning, growing, and becoming better for someone special I’m a quiet, thoughtful type — more of a listener than a talker. I enjoy feeling useful, dressing up, and bringing comfort to others. If you’re kind but confident, I’ll probably adore you. 📸 Face pics shared once there’s a real connection and trust.
Just a girl wanting to be ***d, slapped and have my hair pulled while you tell me how good I’m being. I’m a walking contradiction; praise and ***.
Female (24) Hastings, East Sussex
soft dommy mommy / sadistic black cat gf. Shy polite nerds 😍 I am not looking for: dominant men, sex in the first message, helping you cheat on your partner or being your therapist without being your friend first. (Don’t leave Brighton for dates and cannot host 😘) What colour are my eyes?
Looking to find like minded people, go to events together and have fun. 🏳️‍⚧️ @callm3izzy
I’m a bratty artist. looking for a calm, confidant, DaddyDom who doesn’t need to raise his voice to be obeyed. Someone steady, experienced and firm enough to handle a playful challenge. Only looking for Dominant person, who has experience, and wants to live out the DD/lg and D/s. No random hookups, no submissive, and definitely someone older and taller than me. Can’t wait to find me a big strong, experienced man to keep me in my place 😼😉
41 yr old keep fit woman looking for someone for regular meet ups .I need to build trust with first and be ok with that.im open minded but to a limit.
Female (41) Lewes, East Sussex
hi! I'm looking for some kinky fun. when subbing I enjoy servicing, corporal, and all the fun mind games that can come with a trusting D/s dynamic. I am new to Domming but very much lean into caregiver role and having a good girl or boy service me
Female (37) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Hi, I'm Elyen, originally from Germany, but now living in Brighton. I am one half of a Two-some looking for a WOMAN for a fun night as a Three-some. My partner Paul and I are looking for a lovely woman to come join us for a one-off one night of threefold fun. PLEASE, NO ONE UNDER 35 OR TOO FAR AWAY!!! Anything else? Just ask.
Seeking: A dominant presence for an online dynamic—someone who leads with care, clarity, and control. I give my focus to one man at a time—I don’t play half-hearted. I crave mental seduction, emotional depth, and a space where real trust can grow, even at a distance.
Curvy female, I would like to find either FWB or NSA. Looking for kinky fun, Sub/Dom ideally an older male or maybe a couple to explore with Photos on request
Female (43) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Just a girl looking for a regular play partner, ddlg, SSC, consent is everything- 🙏 don’t be a creep.
Full time collector of pretty books, owner of a few leafy friends, amateur swing dancer, a wardrobe like a crayon box exploded, avid gamer, board game connoisseur, with aspirations to be the mysterious person in the woods surrounded by a squad of woodland creatures. Much like a cat—if I like you, I will be in your personal space, and I thrive on compliments like a plant thrives on sunlight. Opening my car door for me? If you lead with a little old fashioned charm, I’m all yours.
Female (27) Stone Cross, East Sussex
needy girl just wanting to be used into CNC, pet play,ddlg, bondage, free use, ***, impact play and many more
Looking to connect with LOCAL submissive men who are experienced in mummification, restraint and breath play as I need practice! I’m very elegant and my dominance is seductive and not loud…I’m not, afraid interested in meeting online friends, as I prefer real connections.
Hi, I have been off scene recently and now I have an empty nest I am looking for submissive males initially. I am caring and sensual as well as sadistic and teasing in my style of Domination. Have many kinks and these are growing. In an open relationship, we play apart and together. kinks include chastity tease and denial impact play sensation play (wax, pinwheel etc) temperature play pegging CBT ideally looking for regular play and dynamic so we can explore our kinks to the full as trust and understanding develops. honourifics include Mistress, Miss, Queen. I like an intimacy within the dynamic, looking after my needs while I look after yours is important. Feel free to approach respectfully and let's see where life takes us.
Looking for a 24/7 Dom/Domme who wants to control aspects in my everyday life as well as in the bedroom. I’m into a lot of kinks, especially *** and the rougher play. I’m only interested if you actually want to meet in person and can actually put effort into getting to know me. I’ve been doing this long enough now to spot when you’re not willing to put effort in or you’re just wanting someone to sext. I sound blunt about it but I’m just tired of the fakes and have no patience for it anymore🤣 Not interested in any casual, FWB or ONS. The psychological effects of bdsm are such a turn on for me and I feel like you can only truly experience that when you’ve built a connection and I’m able to completely devote myself to you. Outside of bdsm, I love a quiet life where I spend my time either in the gym, out for walks or at home reading for watching films🥰 I love a cosy movie night in. However, I do also love to travel and experience new things, eat lovely food and make lots of memories too! I have a fair amount of experience (although there is always more to learn!) and enjoy chatting about all things bdsm. There are still a lot of kinks and fantasies that I am yet to try in person, which I am keen to explore. I have pictures that show my face in my private photos which I’m happy to share if requested :) Verified accounts only
Female (26) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Firstly, to be clear, I’m exceptionally happy with my dynamic and not seeking another Dom, open to play, but we play together. Anyone, ladies or men, wishing to assist in bringing me to heel or to my knees must be open to chatting with both of us before meeting, just drop me a dm and we’ll take it from there. We are looking for regular meets rather than ons’s and play partners can be assured of discretion. Bit geeky in the day to day, love music, bones and critters. Lucky enough to live rurally and reap the benefits of living near the South Downs and secluded woods. Loved experimenting with being tied up and dominated before I was married, and now I’m divorced I’m rediscovering my more kinky side with my amazing owner MyDeviance. Since then, the floodgates have opened and we enjoy pushing our limits and imaginations. Apart from the obvious intellectual connection, I enjoy the physical domination of a stronger man, although mental stimulation is just as important, Bondage, Breeding, Praise, Breath Play, ass play, Hair Pulling, CNC, and lately enjoying exploring in play with women in mff, so others are added as they occur.
Newly based in Brighton. Looking for people to have fun times with, and to show me what's good in this brilliant city. Enjoy being tamed and praised when I deserve it 😈 I can also be switchy and enjoy giving comfort. I'm a lover of countryside hiking, city cycling, and a bit of partying. I'm 5'11, so let's get that fact over and done with :)

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