Find kinky women in East Sussex

I'm new to this dynamic! I’m looking for a Dom. I’m a curvy woman who loves to laugh, I'm very caring, big flirt, and in need of my mind being blown more than just in the bedroom. I'm very submissive with the right Dom. The type of Dom I'm looking for is one who can train me, has patience, shows kindness, is considerate, polite, has empathy, and sympathy. Has a strong sense of ethic, honesty and is respectful of others regardless of their position in life. AFTERCARE IS A MUST Must be able to talk and get to know me first. Must be local and U.K. only. (preferably Eastbourne) I can’t host or accommodate. So if you're interested in getting to know me or being a teachable Dom. You know what to do. Ok, now for the boring part (I can't believe I have to type this) if you are the following: I'm really not interested. if you are not genuine ? if you're looking for a fuck buddy or a one night stand?? No dick pics ? Wanting me to do weird shit. ? No scammers! (I get it. We all could all do with some extra cash from time to time, but seriously!) ??? Thanks for reading. I look forward to hearing from you. ☺️
Female (39) Westham, East Sussex
Hey fellow kinkster , If you're curious and landed your finger on my profile then you will find , Im friendly ,chatty and imaginative , I try to answer messages if they are polite , though if it's not immediately im not ignoring you probably just drowning in them lol (well unless you've been rude and really deserve to be ignored) I'm a creative and playful creature, so I'm often cheeky and sarcastic with a dirty sense of humour, I have a filthy mind and I'm very honest and open , there are too many things I like to list them all but I think that if you can hold a conversation that's a good start, so message me if your still curious and want to chat ...
I’m looking to meet someone to explore my many kinks and find out what my limits are. I would like to meet people who share the same filthy mind and thoughts as l do.
Don’t really use this much so your best bet is to message me on fetlife. I love engaging conversations (don’t we all), surprise me ? {-} I’m easily annoyed so do try not to embarrass yourself too quickly. To get in my good books - try sending a gift {-} I am NOT looking for anything remotely romantic, sexual, or otherwise! This includes meeting anyone in real life unless at a pre-arranged event or munch…! {-} A bit about me outside of kink: I’m gay (take note gentlemen), and into alt subculture, music, philosophy, and urban exploring! ♥️ {-} I have no interest in anything to do with sexual age play (including ABDL), feet, men who are pursuing anything other than friendship, or people who say they will “try/do anything” (EDUCATE yourselves!). Please do not message me if you wish to discuss these, you’ll be blocked
Power/Femme/Mistress/Bitch/Top/Sir with a passion for Power exchange, Shibari and Impact play. I have a big Vampire fetish (as if you can't tell from the name). I also have a passion for weightlifting, 40's/50's/clothes, movies, theater, art, cooking and sci-fi. I`m a massive rubberist and one of my main hobbies is making latex clothes. I have been on and off the scene since my late teens, I've DM'd at a number of clubs, Pro Dommed, ran my own queer fetish club, was a founding member of Kinkfest in the UK and have given many workshops over the years. Happily married to a gorgeous woman who is aware I am on here. It would be fun to find somebody to play with, who enjoys genuine power play and having a good laugh whilst playing or who enjoys fear/crying depending on my mood! I do NOT appreciate one liner e-mails, invitations to cyber etc. I ID as a gay women so I'm not interested in playing with bio men, so don't waste your time! If you want to be friends then please take the time to send me a message if I don't already know you.
Hi I’m Jane new to the site not new to the kinky world I’m a plus size lady looking to find herself in her new figure trying to embrace the curves and learn to love them and her again I am submissive not looking for 24/7 as have family life to think about and time gets less and less to explore with intrusions lol I’m looking for friendships first certainly won’t be rushing into anything so please respect that and don’t bombard my inbox with demanding Dom’s expressing there wishes it falls on deaf ears and more than likely no response. I’m 47 plus size (whoop whoop) and currently work evenings I’m very genuine and have a good heart.
Female (48) Cross in Hand, East Sussex
I'm curvy, sexy and looking to embrace my kinky side! Into massage, sauna, kissing. Always interested in trying something new and naughty :lick:
Hi! I'm new to the world of fetish and kink, so be gentle, although not too gentle! Although I think it's always been something that's intrigued me, I'm diving in and loving what I'm learning so far! I'm mostly interested in women and couples as this is the side of me I'm now exploring. I don't want anything serious, online fun is enough, sharing pics (albeit I will need to grow my own portfolio! Lol) and fantasies, tips and suggestions. I'm not interested in men messaging me, as I can find that in the standard routes and it's not want I want from being here. Thanks for reading and I hope to hear from some of you soon xxx
Busty Dom looking for male and female subs to worship me. Golden showers, needle play, foot worship, breast worship always encouraged. My interests include corsetry, hosiery, and pretty slaves of any gender
Female (41) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Hi I'm Lady Thumper. I'm a super horny BBW with lovely large tits, sensitive nipples and a big, pierced clit that loves to be licked, sucked and rubbed. Sometimes I squirt, too.... I am also into BDSM and class myself as a sub. Currently love posing for spicy naughty photos which are always uploaded to my Fansly site, message me for more... Love to hear your comments on my sexy pics and videos that I regularly upload. Feel free to message me, and maybe we can chat.
Female (39) Lewes, East Sussex
I have been exploring my kinky side for a few years now and have found kink is something I want...maybe even need in my life. Not hugely up for labels and although submission is my first love, I have been experimenting with my more Dominant side. Love chatting kink and getting to know people. So come and say hi! **Desires and Fantasies** Probably best to chat about this!?
Female (40) Hastings, East Sussex
Hey! I’m a sub looking for a serious Dom who has experience and knowledge of the BDSM lifestyle. Bonus points if you have experience or are interested in a long term 24/7 TPE dynamic, as I would prefer an arrangement that isn’t just restricted to the bedroom. I like to hand over complete control once a connection is established and the trust has been built. An in person dynamic is preferred but I have done online before and was not against it. I do have a LOT of different kinks and love to try out new ones too as long as they do not breach my limits of course. Happy to accept access to private pictures if requested as they do show my face. :)
Female (24) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Brat in need of taming. I respond well to a good spanking and even better to humiliation. Deep down I want to be wearing a collar and licking your boots, but it might take me a while...
Submissive woman, with plenty of experience to the lifestyle. Like to chat about fantasies and experiences and that here but im am NOT looking for a master, I already have one. My Dom is NOT my husband. Male Doms for chat only please. I am NOT looking to meet. Please message me if you like to chat.
Female (43) Whatlington, East Sussex
Queer woman, late to the party. I am very curious and open minded, I'm looking for women or non-binary. I can be either a good student or a challenging one, who wants to be my mentor?
Good girl sub originally from the states but living in England now. I'm in a relationship with someone back home so can't commit to a LTR but would love to connect with someone and form some sort of relationship. I'm not into casual hook ups. I need connection to build trust. Please do not message me with disrespectful comments unless I have given consent and shown interest in you while chatting. Just because I'm a submissive doesn't mean you can disrespect me right from the start! Please don't message me if you are cheating on your wife. I'm not into being a homewrecker. For anyone left, I'm into CNC, breath play, knife play, edging, impact play, hunter/prey scenes, kidnapping/home invasion scenes, rape scenes, rope play, blindfolds, floggers, bondage, degradation, and lots of praise. I love to have my boundaries pushed and try new things. Feel free to message me and ask me anything!
Female (38) Stone Cross, East Sussex
Mainly I'm looking for my ENM/kinky love story but potentially open for something more casual if the connection is right ✨ Also looking for friends, community and events. Quite experienced soft Domme, however I'm totally a switch and would love to explore my own submissive side more ✨ Love for deep woods, stargazing, black coffee, all animals, heavy music, tarot, odd and old things and creatures. Gigs and Guinness! I make art and restore antique taxidermy. Personality vise I'm very mellow and confident, gentle and kind, independent and creative, nonjudgmental and open-minded. Ambivert. Chaotic neutral. Goblin girl energy. INFP. Grew up in the far far north with dogs and reindeers. Neurospicy, ADHD and dyspraxia, so please hold me cause I will fall.
Female (31) Eastbourne, East Sussex
I'm in Brighton but for some people it says I'm in Eastbourne and idk why ?? plz give me headpats and choke me ? here for spicy fun also smoke wif me plz?
Just in the beginning of my bdsm life, want to try stuff. might not be exactly sure in what I need but it would be nice to meet people with same interests and try out something new. I’m bottom, masochist. into spanking and rough, so i’m obviously looking for someone dominant and with experience. + maybe looking for two guys, want to try more people in my bed but anyway I might be interesting person to talk to, a lot of interests, good friend and patient listener. I just joined and already experienced some “interesting people here.. so I will add few more important things.
I’ve known I’ve been a sub for years but didn’t start actively wanting to give in to my desires and kinks until more recently. trust and honesty are non negotiable to me. I have a very busy and full on life but stick to my word and any promises I make. I’m in charge and responsible of almost everything in my day to day life and desperately want to have times where I can give that up and fully submit.
Female (33) Eastbourne, East Sussex
I'm not into much small chat generally, but I love to talk about things that matter to each of us. I am longing to inspire and support my masculine partner, honouring him and his needs. And I long to be cherished and loved for all my feminine complexities. It's important to me that we're both emotionally available, interested and committed (over time) to our mutual growth within our relationship, which means meeting the inevitable difficulties with honesty and kindness. There is so much devotion, depth, generosity, warmth, pleasure and yearning in my body, you can't help but shine your essence that deeply responds to my feminine yearning. I'm looking to explore kink, BDSM and tantra much more. Together we can create depth and a deep intimacy on so many levels, can't we? If we have a great emotional connection that makes the sexual connection between us all the more erotic. 'Lead her into the place of her heart she has been longing to go. This is the place she can't lead herself. It is a place of surrender, trust, opening, and sacred submission. It is a place where she can completely let you see all of her...' John Wineland
Female (62) Nutley, East Sussex
I’m hoping to find a soft nurturing daddy who has a naughty mind. I want to be looked after, I want him to take the lead and be in charge. I’m looking for someone with experience and knows what he’s doing as well as what he likes. I need to have a connection with someone. I have lots of experience online with all things kink. However I don’t have as much experience in real life when it comes to kink.
⛓Sub | Masochist | Rope Bunny | Impact play | Sense Deprivation | Events. vanilla insta: @thetechiedolan kink insta: @IAm.Dolan **I DON’T do online only and DON’T do long distance dynamics, I’ve tried previously and it doesn’t work for me because I enjoy actual human touch. Sorry!** **Desires and Fantasies** would love to go to more events and do more public scenes at these events! Just want to throw out there that I live an ENM (ethically non-monogamous) lifestyle, I respect if you’re monogamous so please respect my views. I’m not forcing my views upon anyone and NO I will not change my views for you even if you were my “ideal of perfect”. I’m happy loved and cared for by a LT partner/Dynamic as well as other play/event partners in my life. Please feel free to message me to learn / educate yourself, I’m happy to answer questions that I deem not too personal but don’t take this an an opportunity to force your monogamous views upon me. Thanks you filthy heathens! ✨⛓
After down to earth and drama free Fun! Consisting of good experiances and plenty of orgasams..I mean who doesn't want that?! Open to opportunities...
Female (36) Eastbourne, East Sussex

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Power/Femme/Mistress/Bitch/Top/Sir with a passion for Power exchange, Shibari and Impact play. I have a big Vampire fetish (as if you can't tell from the name). I also have a passion for weightlifting, 40's/50's/clothes, movies, theater, art, cooking and sci-fi. I`m a massive rubberist and one of my main hobbies is making latex clothes. I have been on and off the scene since my late teens, I've DM'd at a number of clubs, Pro Dommed, ran my own queer fetish club, was a founding member of Kinkfest in the UK and have given many workshops over the years. Happily married to a gorgeous woman who is aware I am on here. It would be fun to find somebody to play with, who enjoys genuine power play and having a good laugh whilst playing or who enjoys fear/crying depending on my mood! I do NOT appreciate one liner e-mails, invitations to cyber etc. I ID as a gay women so I'm not interested in playing with bio men, so don't waste your time! If you want to be friends then please take the time to send me a message if I don't already know you.
Hey! I’m a sub looking for a serious Dom who has experience and knowledge of the BDSM lifestyle. Bonus points if you have experience or are interested in a long term 24/7 TPE dynamic, as I would prefer an arrangement that isn’t just restricted to the bedroom. I like to hand over complete control once a connection is established and the trust has been built. An in person dynamic is preferred but I have done online before and was not against it. I do have a LOT of different kinks and love to try out new ones too as long as they do not breach my limits of course. Happy to accept access to private pictures if requested as they do show my face. :)
Female (24) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Brat in need of taming. I respond well to a good spanking and even better to humiliation. Deep down I want to be wearing a collar and licking your boots, but it might take me a while...
I'm curvy, sexy and looking to embrace my kinky side! Into massage, sauna, kissing. Always interested in trying something new and naughty :lick:
I’m looking to meet someone to explore my many kinks and find out what my limits are. I would like to meet people who share the same filthy mind and thoughts as l do.
Hi I'm Lady Thumper. I'm a super horny BBW with lovely large tits, sensitive nipples and a big, pierced clit that loves to be licked, sucked and rubbed. Sometimes I squirt, too.... I am also into BDSM and class myself as a sub. Currently love posing for spicy naughty photos which are always uploaded to my Fansly site, message me for more... Love to hear your comments on my sexy pics and videos that I regularly upload. Feel free to message me, and maybe we can chat.
Female (39) Lewes, East Sussex
Hi I’m Jane new to the site not new to the kinky world I’m a plus size lady looking to find herself in her new figure trying to embrace the curves and learn to love them and her again I am submissive not looking for 24/7 as have family life to think about and time gets less and less to explore with intrusions lol I’m looking for friendships first certainly won’t be rushing into anything so please respect that and don’t bombard my inbox with demanding Dom’s expressing there wishes it falls on deaf ears and more than likely no response. I’m 47 plus size (whoop whoop) and currently work evenings I’m very genuine and have a good heart.
Female (48) Cross in Hand, East Sussex
Hi! I'm new to the world of fetish and kink, so be gentle, although not too gentle! Although I think it's always been something that's intrigued me, I'm diving in and loving what I'm learning so far! I'm mostly interested in women and couples as this is the side of me I'm now exploring. I don't want anything serious, online fun is enough, sharing pics (albeit I will need to grow my own portfolio! Lol) and fantasies, tips and suggestions. I'm not interested in men messaging me, as I can find that in the standard routes and it's not want I want from being here. Thanks for reading and I hope to hear from some of you soon xxx
I'm new to this dynamic! I’m looking for a Dom. I’m a curvy woman who loves to laugh, I'm very caring, big flirt, and in need of my mind being blown more than just in the bedroom. I'm very submissive with the right Dom. The type of Dom I'm looking for is one who can train me, has patience, shows kindness, is considerate, polite, has empathy, and sympathy. Has a strong sense of ethic, honesty and is respectful of others regardless of their position in life. AFTERCARE IS A MUST Must be able to talk and get to know me first. Must be local and U.K. only. (preferably Eastbourne) I can’t host or accommodate. So if you're interested in getting to know me or being a teachable Dom. You know what to do. Ok, now for the boring part (I can't believe I have to type this) if you are the following: I'm really not interested. if you are not genuine ? if you're looking for a fuck buddy or a one night stand?? No dick pics ? Wanting me to do weird shit. ? No scammers! (I get it. We all could all do with some extra cash from time to time, but seriously!) ??? Thanks for reading. I look forward to hearing from you. ☺️
Female (39) Westham, East Sussex
Don’t really use this much so your best bet is to message me on fetlife. I love engaging conversations (don’t we all), surprise me ? {-} I’m easily annoyed so do try not to embarrass yourself too quickly. To get in my good books - try sending a gift {-} I am NOT looking for anything remotely romantic, sexual, or otherwise! This includes meeting anyone in real life unless at a pre-arranged event or munch…! {-} A bit about me outside of kink: I’m gay (take note gentlemen), and into alt subculture, music, philosophy, and urban exploring! ♥️ {-} I have no interest in anything to do with sexual age play (including ABDL), feet, men who are pursuing anything other than friendship, or people who say they will “try/do anything” (EDUCATE yourselves!). Please do not message me if you wish to discuss these, you’ll be blocked
I have been exploring my kinky side for a few years now and have found kink is something I want...maybe even need in my life. Not hugely up for labels and although submission is my first love, I have been experimenting with my more Dominant side. Love chatting kink and getting to know people. So come and say hi! **Desires and Fantasies** Probably best to chat about this!?
Female (40) Hastings, East Sussex
Busty Dom looking for male and female subs to worship me. Golden showers, needle play, foot worship, breast worship always encouraged. My interests include corsetry, hosiery, and pretty slaves of any gender
Female (41) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Hey fellow kinkster , If you're curious and landed your finger on my profile then you will find , Im friendly ,chatty and imaginative , I try to answer messages if they are polite , though if it's not immediately im not ignoring you probably just drowning in them lol (well unless you've been rude and really deserve to be ignored) I'm a creative and playful creature, so I'm often cheeky and sarcastic with a dirty sense of humour, I have a filthy mind and I'm very honest and open , there are too many things I like to list them all but I think that if you can hold a conversation that's a good start, so message me if your still curious and want to chat ...
Submissive woman, with plenty of experience to the lifestyle. Like to chat about fantasies and experiences and that here but im am NOT looking for a master, I already have one. My Dom is NOT my husband. Male Doms for chat only please. I am NOT looking to meet. Please message me if you like to chat.
Female (43) Whatlington, East Sussex
Queer woman, late to the party. I am very curious and open minded, I'm looking for women or non-binary. I can be either a good student or a challenging one, who wants to be my mentor?
Mainly I'm looking for my ENM/kinky love story but potentially open for something more casual if the connection is right ✨ Also looking for friends, community and events. Quite experienced soft Domme, however I'm totally a switch and would love to explore my own submissive side more ✨ Love for deep woods, stargazing, black coffee, all animals, heavy music, tarot, odd and old things and creatures. Gigs and Guinness! I make art and restore antique taxidermy. Personality vise I'm very mellow and confident, gentle and kind, independent and creative, nonjudgmental and open-minded. Ambivert. Chaotic neutral. Goblin girl energy. INFP. Grew up in the far far north with dogs and reindeers. Neurospicy, ADHD and dyspraxia, so please hold me cause I will fall.
Female (31) Eastbourne, East Sussex
I’ve known I’ve been a sub for years but didn’t start actively wanting to give in to my desires and kinks until more recently. trust and honesty are non negotiable to me. I have a very busy and full on life but stick to my word and any promises I make. I’m in charge and responsible of almost everything in my day to day life and desperately want to have times where I can give that up and fully submit.
Female (33) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Inexperienced sub but learning quickly, looking for experienced ,intelligent Dom who knows the power of words. I’m not interested in being a slave but will do as I’m told if you make me. l like my Dom to take complete control. l don’t want to be looked after l can look after myself. l like men with a mean streak .
I'm like Marmite, Some Love me whilst some Hate me? I won't sugar-coat anything? My Man and I are Looking for that 1 rare Unicorn of ours could it be you?? FF couple or Single Females only to join me and my MAN. https://onlyfans.com/tiffanypage
Owned Sub with experienced Dom looking for a woman either with/ without experience for kink play. Both professionals and interested to explore have fun. Able to host
Female (46) Lewes, East Sussex
I’m hoping to find a soft nurturing daddy who has a naughty mind. I want to be looked after, I want him to take the lead and be in charge. I’m looking for someone with experience and knows what he’s doing as well as what he likes. I need to have a connection with someone. I have lots of experience online with all things kink. However I don’t have as much experience in real life when it comes to kink.
Bdsm is a delicate balance. A dominant is not a dictator more of a teacher. A true dominant understands that submission is a beautiful gift. Someone that chooses to gift such a tender thing should be valued, respected and appreciated above all else. Submission is a mind set aswell as the physical desire. Connection is paramount. Have had a few years of the scene therefore have returned with a very open mind. I thrive of a cheeky, confident and classy individual that knows his/her own mind. NO doormats welcome!!! If the above spikes an interest deep within you please do drop me a message.
I'm not into much small chat generally, but I love to talk about things that matter to each of us. I am longing to inspire and support my masculine partner, honouring him and his needs. And I long to be cherished and loved for all my feminine complexities. It's important to me that we're both emotionally available, interested and committed (over time) to our mutual growth within our relationship, which means meeting the inevitable difficulties with honesty and kindness. There is so much devotion, depth, generosity, warmth, pleasure and yearning in my body, you can't help but shine your essence that deeply responds to my feminine yearning. I'm looking to explore kink, BDSM and tantra much more. Together we can create depth and a deep intimacy on so many levels, can't we? If we have a great emotional connection that makes the sexual connection between us all the more erotic. 'Lead her into the place of her heart she has been longing to go. This is the place she can't lead herself. It is a place of surrender, trust, opening, and sacred submission. It is a place where she can completely let you see all of her...' John Wineland
Female (62) Nutley, East Sussex
I haven’t had much experience in the kink world, had only just very slightly started to before I became single. I would like to try things out to see what I am into. I have a rough idea but you never know until you try!

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