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61 | Submissive | Happily Owned | Looking for a Like-Minded Couple I’m 61 and happily owned by my Master. We have a strong, trusting relationship and enjoy exploring different sides of our dynamic together. Although I’m usually the submissive, we sometimes switch roles, with my Master taking the sub role. He particularly enjoys dressing up when he’s in that role, and we both enjoy the freedom and playfulness that brings to our relationship. We’re now hoping to meet a like-minded couple who are open, friendly and comfortable with exploring dynamics together. We’re looking for genuine connection, good conversation, shared interests and people who understand the importance of trust, communication and boundaries. If you’re a couple looking to meet another couple with a relaxed, playful and open-minded attitude, we’d love to hear from you.
Female (61) Hastings, East Sussex
Submissive with a hint of brat. Switch from time to time depending on partner. Lover of bondage and books. Sensation, impact play and lingerie are my obsessions. Strong hand and arm appreciation. Here to make friends, explore and take part in stimulating conversation. I'm in a poly dynamic and happily collared to my Dom. Will add more here later 💋
I am currently looking for Masochist subs . Ones who enjoy being toyed with, humiliated and beg to be punished. Worshipping your Mistress at all times and knowing your place ,grovelling on the ground begging to worship my thigh-high boots longing to lick them clean .You look up at me .How dare you !! As you feel the *** of my crop against your quivering body .... Any snivelling little worms that I think deserve this treatment and dare to message me., will address me as Mistress Athena . If you fail to so you will be ignored .
Curvy, playful female looking for another female to join me and boyfriend for ffm. both neuro spicy. 🌶 both in our 30s. 😃 420 friendly 💚
44 married mum. Blonde, blue eyes, 5ft 6, slim. Husband doesn’t know I’m here.
Female (44) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Desires and Fantasies: To be discussed with right person but would involve exploring all kinds of new kink - rough, sub, BDSM... Limits: Nothing too extreme or involving spit, *** or poop.
✨️This was not a dating site when I joined and it's not what I'm here for!✨️ Co-Host of The Brighton Munch (see FL profile for info) on FL under Berry-Brighton I'm polyamorous and only date other polyamorous or ENM people. I am very lucky to have people who I love in my life. I am; Sexually submissive A little bit little A little bit kitten A little bit unicorn A hell of a lot Masochist A huge cumslut 4'11" I love primal play as much as I love the soft sweetness of being someone's treasure. I love the feel and connection that shibari brings. I enjoy the sweet *** of sharps and piercings. Having my tits caned makes me melt. I occasionally enjoy tying up or being mean to pretty girls. I am not interested in submissive men, men who crossdress or men who wear lingerie.
Independent, caring, and always up for good conversation and new experiences. I enjoy quality time, nice restaurants, weekends away, and people who bring positive energy into my life. Here to meet someone genuine, ambitious, and emotionally mature to see where things naturally go. I am a mum of 5 of my beautiful ***. I still have this naughty non mummy side to me were i want to be treated like a princess and fucked like a whore. after looking after 5 kids all the time has a very strong dominant side to it .... so its nice to to find that treatment back and that's why im here too get that princess treatment back, like a sub I am. I very submissive, I know how to have good sex but I also get turned on by the hole your do as your told vibe like I give to the kids but sexually for me of course. I want to find someone who is strong minded in what he wants and his needs are I want to be able to have the time to learn to drive. this is my goals in life. to be able to take the kids to more enjoyable places. loves a bit of trouble (😈), keeping things deliciously low-key and secret (🤫), but you always bring good vibes and a big smile (😀). Am I dealing with a bit of a brat here? ❣️" .. women who are confident and dominant in their everyday lives are the ones who find the deepest release from being submissive x Have you had anything done to you from this list sexually and or non sexually: 1 Gags - nope 2 Handcuffs - yes 3 Vibrators put in you by someone else - yes 4 Feet tickled - yes 5 Feet licked - yes 6 Ropes - nope 7 Bondage -nops 8 Whips - nope 9 Anal fingering - yes 10 Anal sex - yes 11 Vibrator up your bum - no 12 Your bum fingering - yes 13 Pegs put on your nipples - no 14 Pegs put on your pussy - NO 15 Chocking - yes 16 Spanking - yes 17 Butt plugs - no 18 Nipple clamps - no 19 Fisting - yss 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ 20 *** role play - no 21 Wands - no 22 Cum - yes 23 Squirting - yes 24 Ring gag - no 25 Daddy - yes 26 Mommy -NO 27 Had ice cubes put on your nipples - yes 28 Gang bang - yes (like 11 years ago ) 29 3 sum - yes 30 Been fingered in a public place - yes 31 Been made to get on your knees and beg for sex - no 32 been 1 on 1 with a girl - no 33 had toys used on you by you or someone else - yes 34 would you beg for whatever you was told 2 - yes
Female (31) Hailsham, East Sussex
Not that new to kink but pretty new to the community aspect, just here to explore and find people with good vibes :) V subby, impact is my main thing! If you’re going to message me please please just be normal, i will not reply to anyone being a freak!!! 🏻
***Please read my preferences, many thanks*** If you are so kind as to message me, dazzle me, tease me, engage me, I dare you. Or at least tell me your favourite story or song, and why you savour them so much. Above all else, I enjoy sensuality, connection, intensity. Someone who enjoys nuance. That giving myself over to such earthly delights does not mean that I give over to everything. Someone who understands that to surrender is a specific act, a purposeful gift, in exchange for trust, vulnerability and exploration. That to earn my trust means knowing to whom you are talking to; understanding the borders within which you may shade. To see the boundaries are the limits of my soul, health and sanity. And that everything in between I might gift, if we have that shared spark, that shared trust. **Desires and Fantasies** It’s seen as an act of dominance, yet they fool themselves. This is an act of trust, gorgeous flesh bound by desire: your most exquisitely sensitive part between my slavering jaws, my hungry tongue rasping over you, wanting to consume you. Easily could I have you squealing between my incisors, yet with supreme faith, you thrust into my hot throat, heedless of the lightest tease from my teeth, forgetting the power of my bite. They say that fortune favours the brave, but I wonder who wrote that? ; ) …As a Submissive (and yes, I feel we deserve the capitalisation despite our somewhat quieter nature), knowing our body is a jewel to be treasured, jealously held or possessed, surrendered to ownership to ***s as fierce as the fires that made us, is a terrifyingly intimate and desolate conclusion. Never forget the sacrifice we make, offering our devotion to you, our pleasure and *** to your wants, our ultimate trust in you, you are our deity and we worship you. **Submission for Me** Submission - for those of you who are mostly or purely dominant… know that I don’t submit out of ***, out of awe, out of coercive behaviour. I offer my happy, playful, sensual cooperation when I respect you, and know you respect me. That you want an actual connection, a dialogue, even a war of selves. But for me to submit, you must realise that I am your equal. I am not submissive because you are somehow better, more deserving, more righteous, or stronger whether physically or, in your opinion, mentally. You don’t prove your dominance. You don’t impose it over me. “Exerting” dominance is abusive, cowardly and a smokescreen. An actual bond means a dynamic that is shared, communicated, negotiated, teased, relished. Without equality, it fails. What is more unsexy than someone who merely presumes? **About You** See my preferences. I am interested in what makes you tick, your passions and dreams, what you enjoy, what has meaning for you. I crave full messages, about you, your desires, who you are. Don’t feel you have to stop at “hey” or “hi”, I’m not shy of conversation.
Peroxide punk and bottom in disguise. Written and directed by David Cronenberg. Magnetised towards sadism with a smile. Also a lee. If that means anything to you then we should chat 🪶✨
I’m in a MF LTR practice ENM💕 I’m mainly just looking for a consistent FWB to have fun with. I’d consider myself a soft domme and love the idea of flipfucking a guy🥰 I’m vv nonjudgmental so let me know what you’re into and we can chat about it ;) P.S. I much prefer face pics before matching as it’s not just your body I’m connecting with ;) Live with partner but can host
Female (25) Eastbourne, East Sussex
I'm a Domme with a playful streak, a sharp and devious mind and a healthy appreciation for good manners. For me, BDSM has never been about just barking orders or punishment , it's about connection, trust, communication, and the quiet confidence that comes from knowing exactly who you are. I enjoy witty banter, intelligent conversation while still taking the dynamic seriously, crossing the fine line will result in punishment. If you're genuine, understand the meaning of submission and understand that consent is the foundation of everything, we'll probably get along just fine,if u don't know the true meaning of the words sub and submission- don't bother as I will not entertain it! So... tell me something interesting about yourself. First impressions only come around once!
Looking for a SINGLE naughty FWB (or more) Daddy type to explore each other, clubs, parties and kink. Loves: • Beards • Taller than me (5'10 +) • Masculine energy • Kindness • Conversation and connection Nopes: • Smokers • Cheaters • Hook ups/ONS • 'In town for the night' • Spurs fans
Female (47) Hailsham, East Sussex
im an adventurous student who’s enthusiastic about all things kink and eccentric freinds and more who love trying new things women & couples only, no solo men say hi! i don’t bite.. unless you ask ;)
Down to explore more this year, open minded so hit me with your ideas. **Desires and Fantasies** Tell me your guess, I tell you if you’re right or we can make it work ;)
Female (28) Eastbourne, East Sussex
if i don’t answer promptly i am somewhere smoking and listening to music 🙂‍↕️ i love seeing/creating music and art, crafting whatever (crochet etc) and watching telly ofc (i love cartoons like the simpsons, bob burger but will watch almost anything!). i love all kinds of games (though i am limited to just a switch rn! play mario kart or splatoon with me ). audhd so love parallel play, love communication (i’m bad at cues 🤓), love yapping and being yapped at! but apologies in advance for poor replies, checking things is hard! i have a lovely gf so i’d love to keep it casual mates and dates! if it leads to a lasting connection, so be it 💛 oh also no terfs, swerfs, tories, cops or cop adjacents, thank you! i’m brown and queer and have a hard enough time keeping my peace ☺️
plus size switch looking for fun interested in women interested in couples love to be dominated but also wanting to explore my top side. open to fun and frolics - drop me a message!
Female (37) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Hey 👋🏽 I’m new to this sort of world I’ve always been interested but I’ve only gone as far as books and my own research. I am looking for a long-term thing as I don’t really shop around x Bit about me: I am an introverted individual that likes cozy nights in, reading books and fan-fictions and binge watching TV series. I love reading manga and watching anime. I love laying in the shade and listening to any music, I’m a bit of an eclectic. I can be social and do go out with friends, festivals and concerts. I love travelling and I am looking to go long distance backpacking in South East Asia later next year. I am a new Formula 1 fan and love watching the races each weekend!
Looking to find like minded people, go to events together and have fun. Naturally a Dom but will let out my subby side when I feel comfortable 🏳️‍⚧️
In a very loving committed relationship. we are looking for a woman to join us to Dom me with my partner and to be our sub. our sex life has reached a new level that we want to explore together and find out how far we want to go. looking for women only.
Just an outgoing, spontaneous masc lesbian. I am unfiltered and will be to honest. I am in a loving committed relationship with my wife, we are in an open relationship. I am looking for something casual/friends with benefits. I am a stone top. Message me if interested
FiIRST MY DISLIKES: Anal sex, gagging, puke, ***, whips, clamps, ball gag My updated description I’m very shy and anxious and can be very difficult. I’m straight and looking to expand my network and have new experiences I’m all about respect, consent and getting to know someone first before any intimacy anything your not comfortable with won’t happen and we’ll talk about it first I love having a Daddy/Dom role someone to handle me and control me being pushed against the wall pinned and being kissed making out being picked up feeling cherished and wanted enjoying me. I crave being eaten out and feeling that pleasure. I want to say again I am very nervous and anxious and will take time to build trust with me **Desires and Fantasies** Updated fantasy. Would like to get to know a man first feeling comfortable with him being taken out having a takeout (my fav takeout is McDonald’s hehe) want to take things slow at the start kissing and touching and hugging depending on how I’m feeling would love to be pushed against the wall pinned by both hands kisses passionate then having my neck kissed then being pushed again by another wall having my clothes ripped off being touched on my breasts my belly my legs then picked up thrown on the bed being taken again then getting eaten out for a long long time want to be moaning I want to get to the point of screaming then getting spanked being chocked slapped round the face and being told what to do need a Dom to tame me as I’m a wild one then I want to be fucked for a long time having my pussy filled been a long while for me and need to have a release depending on whether you can keep up with me ?.Would need to be built up and to feel at ease as I’m extremely anxious and nervous
Female (29) Hurst Green, East Sussex
Bratty, affectionate, and mostly submissive... but don't mistake that for being quiet. I like to push a few buttons, keep you on your toes, and occasionally steal the lead just to make you earn it. I'm into D/s dynamics, DDLG, praise, edging, sensory play, CNC, watersports, cuckolding, and immersive roleplay. Bonus points if you're confident, intelligent, and have big hands—they're absolutely my weakness.

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61 | Submissive | Happily Owned | Looking for a Like-Minded Couple I’m 61 and happily owned by my Master. We have a strong, trusting relationship and enjoy exploring different sides of our dynamic together. Although I’m usually the submissive, we sometimes switch roles, with my Master taking the sub role. He particularly enjoys dressing up when he’s in that role, and we both enjoy the freedom and playfulness that brings to our relationship. We’re now hoping to meet a like-minded couple who are open, friendly and comfortable with exploring dynamics together. We’re looking for genuine connection, good conversation, shared interests and people who understand the importance of trust, communication and boundaries. If you’re a couple looking to meet another couple with a relaxed, playful and open-minded attitude, we’d love to hear from you.
Female (61) Hastings, East Sussex
Submissive with a hint of brat. Switch from time to time depending on partner. Lover of bondage and books. Sensation, impact play and lingerie are my obsessions. Strong hand and arm appreciation. Here to make friends, explore and take part in stimulating conversation. I'm in a poly dynamic and happily collared to my Dom. Will add more here later 💋
44 married mum. Blonde, blue eyes, 5ft 6, slim. Husband doesn’t know I’m here.
Female (44) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Curvy, playful female looking for another female to join me and boyfriend for ffm. both neuro spicy. 🌶 both in our 30s. 😃 420 friendly 💚
I am currently looking for Masochist subs . Ones who enjoy being toyed with, humiliated and beg to be punished. Worshipping your Mistress at all times and knowing your place ,grovelling on the ground begging to worship my thigh-high boots longing to lick them clean .You look up at me .How dare you !! As you feel the *** of my crop against your quivering body .... Any snivelling little worms that I think deserve this treatment and dare to message me., will address me as Mistress Athena . If you fail to so you will be ignored .
Desires and Fantasies: To be discussed with right person but would involve exploring all kinds of new kink - rough, sub, BDSM... Limits: Nothing too extreme or involving spit, *** or poop.
I’m in a MF LTR practice ENM💕 I’m mainly just looking for a consistent FWB to have fun with. I’d consider myself a soft domme and love the idea of flipfucking a guy🥰 I’m vv nonjudgmental so let me know what you’re into and we can chat about it ;) P.S. I much prefer face pics before matching as it’s not just your body I’m connecting with ;) Live with partner but can host
Female (25) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Looking for a SINGLE naughty FWB (or more) Daddy type to explore each other, clubs, parties and kink. Loves: • Beards • Taller than me (5'10 +) • Masculine energy • Kindness • Conversation and connection Nopes: • Smokers • Cheaters • Hook ups/ONS • 'In town for the night' • Spurs fans
Female (47) Hailsham, East Sussex
Photographer available! Experienced photographer available for private events, parties, sessions and so on. Clear communication, calm and discrete manner.
Female (41) Lewes, East Sussex
I'm a Domme with a playful streak, a sharp and devious mind and a healthy appreciation for good manners. For me, BDSM has never been about just barking orders or punishment , it's about connection, trust, communication, and the quiet confidence that comes from knowing exactly who you are. I enjoy witty banter, intelligent conversation while still taking the dynamic seriously, crossing the fine line will result in punishment. If you're genuine, understand the meaning of submission and understand that consent is the foundation of everything, we'll probably get along just fine,if u don't know the true meaning of the words sub and submission- don't bother as I will not entertain it! So... tell me something interesting about yourself. First impressions only come around once!
Bratty, affectionate, and mostly submissive... but don't mistake that for being quiet. I like to push a few buttons, keep you on your toes, and occasionally steal the lead just to make you earn it. I'm into D/s dynamics, DDLG, praise, edging, sensory play, CNC, watersports, cuckolding, and immersive roleplay. Bonus points if you're confident, intelligent, and have big hands—they're absolutely my weakness.
Just an outgoing, spontaneous masc lesbian. I am unfiltered and will be to honest. I am in a loving committed relationship with my wife, we are in an open relationship. I am looking for something casual/friends with benefits. I am a stone top. Message me if interested
im an adventurous student who’s enthusiastic about all things kink and eccentric freinds and more who love trying new things women & couples only, no solo men say hi! i don’t bite.. unless you ask ;)
Classy, submissive woman from the continent but I recently re-located outside Hastings. I'm looking for an experienced dom for NSA, kinky fun. Ideal first date: To be be ordered to bend over by a complete stranger, to have my knickers pulled down unceremoniously and given a good spanking for my troubles! I enjoy mild bondage, blindfolds and I love being tied, teased and fucked with toys, sex machines a favourite. I have experience of attending clubs and sex parties and also love to be shared and passed around in group sex scenarios, but I'm strictly heterosexual.
Hey 👋🏽 I’m new to this sort of world I’ve always been interested but I’ve only gone as far as books and my own research. I am looking for a long-term thing as I don’t really shop around x Bit about me: I am an introverted individual that likes cozy nights in, reading books and fan-fictions and binge watching TV series. I love reading manga and watching anime. I love laying in the shade and listening to any music, I’m a bit of an eclectic. I can be social and do go out with friends, festivals and concerts. I love travelling and I am looking to go long distance backpacking in South East Asia later next year. I am a new Formula 1 fan and love watching the races each weekend!
Independent, caring, and always up for good conversation and new experiences. I enjoy quality time, nice restaurants, weekends away, and people who bring positive energy into my life. Here to meet someone genuine, ambitious, and emotionally mature to see where things naturally go. I am a mum of 5 of my beautiful ***. I still have this naughty non mummy side to me were i want to be treated like a princess and fucked like a whore. after looking after 5 kids all the time has a very strong dominant side to it .... so its nice to to find that treatment back and that's why im here too get that princess treatment back, like a sub I am. I very submissive, I know how to have good sex but I also get turned on by the hole your do as your told vibe like I give to the kids but sexually for me of course. I want to find someone who is strong minded in what he wants and his needs are I want to be able to have the time to learn to drive. this is my goals in life. to be able to take the kids to more enjoyable places. loves a bit of trouble (😈), keeping things deliciously low-key and secret (🤫), but you always bring good vibes and a big smile (😀). Am I dealing with a bit of a brat here? ❣️" .. women who are confident and dominant in their everyday lives are the ones who find the deepest release from being submissive x Have you had anything done to you from this list sexually and or non sexually: 1 Gags - nope 2 Handcuffs - yes 3 Vibrators put in you by someone else - yes 4 Feet tickled - yes 5 Feet licked - yes 6 Ropes - nope 7 Bondage -nops 8 Whips - nope 9 Anal fingering - yes 10 Anal sex - yes 11 Vibrator up your bum - no 12 Your bum fingering - yes 13 Pegs put on your nipples - no 14 Pegs put on your pussy - NO 15 Chocking - yes 16 Spanking - yes 17 Butt plugs - no 18 Nipple clamps - no 19 Fisting - yss 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ 20 *** role play - no 21 Wands - no 22 Cum - yes 23 Squirting - yes 24 Ring gag - no 25 Daddy - yes 26 Mommy -NO 27 Had ice cubes put on your nipples - yes 28 Gang bang - yes (like 11 years ago ) 29 3 sum - yes 30 Been fingered in a public place - yes 31 Been made to get on your knees and beg for sex - no 32 been 1 on 1 with a girl - no 33 had toys used on you by you or someone else - yes 34 would you beg for whatever you was told 2 - yes
Female (31) Hailsham, East Sussex
chill and curious, clear communication is needed and open to knowing more about you and what you like. Brighton based and looking for something nearby.
Looking to find like minded people, go to events together and have fun. Naturally a Dom but will let out my subby side when I feel comfortable 🏳️‍⚧️
plus size switch looking for fun interested in women interested in couples love to be dominated but also wanting to explore my top side. open to fun and frolics - drop me a message!
Female (37) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Peroxide punk and bottom in disguise. Written and directed by David Cronenberg. Magnetised towards sadism with a smile. Also a lee. If that means anything to you then we should chat 🪶✨
if i don’t answer promptly i am somewhere smoking and listening to music 🙂‍↕️ i love seeing/creating music and art, crafting whatever (crochet etc) and watching telly ofc (i love cartoons like the simpsons, bob burger but will watch almost anything!). i love all kinds of games (though i am limited to just a switch rn! play mario kart or splatoon with me ). audhd so love parallel play, love communication (i’m bad at cues 🤓), love yapping and being yapped at! but apologies in advance for poor replies, checking things is hard! i have a lovely gf so i’d love to keep it casual mates and dates! if it leads to a lasting connection, so be it 💛 oh also no terfs, swerfs, tories, cops or cop adjacents, thank you! i’m brown and queer and have a hard enough time keeping my peace ☺️
In a very loving committed relationship. we are looking for a woman to join us to Dom me with my partner and to be our sub. our sex life has reached a new level that we want to explore together and find out how far we want to go. looking for women only.
Artist by day, kinky, submissive insomniac by night ✨ I always love hearing about other people’s kinks, and sometimes I discover a new one for myself. Other things I can offer you; the latest news on cryptid conspiracy theories & occasional mushroom identification ?

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