Hey I'm newish here, but finally worked up some confidence to make a post.
I'm newly single, dating and I'm wondering about how to incorporate more fetish with my partners.
A little about me.
My sex life with my ex went dry over time, and I tried all sorts of things to spice things up in the bedroom, bought all sorts of begginer toys and bondage tools, which kind of worked for a bit and then things went stale again. I learned more about my submissive side during this time which was the bonus. I'm not very much into the aggression that seems to be associated with being a dom myself, I can dominate, but style is slow and sensual, lots of edging, no *** unless asked for. Also I haven't had sex with anyone since the breakup 4 months ago, but I have had a couple of dates and online exchanges since.
So now that you know a little about me, I have some questions. I know everyone is different and some will be more open to others about trying.

  1. How do I naturally bring up kink and fetishs with new partners, with out making them uncomfortable?
  2. How do I get a partner that isn't naturally dominant to explore a mor dominant role in the bedroom?
  3. How do I become more comfortable with causing *** to partners who ask for it?
  4. How do I learn to have a more dominant presence that is mor of a turn on to others?
    I understand that most things take good communication and time to learn, I'm guessing that others have felt this way, or still do, so any advice to help me grow so that me and partners can safely enjoy more kink in general.
    Thank you beautiful kinky souls of the world.
BDSM/Fetish Family18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK Lewes

Genuine bisexual guy. Clean, healthy and discreet with a passion for giving my partner/s pleasure. Have been told I’m very good at oral and very attentive (I love to hear you moan).

I am married but due to health effects after cancer/covid/and a back *** out sex life is minimal so I have been given permission but not a fully open relationship so must be discreet as my wife does not want to know and I have no intention to hurt/leave her.

Have been in a few threesomes/ moresomes but always with gay/bisexual men so would ideally like to meet a MF or FF couple or a mixed group for discreet fun and going to events/parties but MM couples and all singles are also welcome to contact me.

Reasonably comfortable nude though wouldn’t count myself as a naturist. Hoping to make some friends (hopefully with mutual benefits).

Always practice safe sex and would not do anything if not 100% healthy and expect the same in return.

Starting to explore my kinkier side (was spanked hard the other day and loved it) and hoping to go to some fetish events in the future.

If you want to know more then just ask, I’m easy going and none judgemental and happy to give most things a try. Would be nice to meet for a drink and see if we get on/where things lead or failing that let me know if your going to an event in Brighton/London and maybe we can meet there.

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BDSM/Fetish Family25 to 65 years ● 10km around UK Lewes

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