BDSM Dating in Colchester

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Hello, thanks for looking at me profile.I a post-op female and proud of it.all so i am very open and honest about it i am a masochist, with over 10 years of experience in BDSM. Some of the things i like include good conversations and debates, quiet nights in, cuddled up on the sofa watching TV and films, evenings out for dinner or a few drinks, and socialising with friends. i likes cooking,
Many of my friends are also in the scene and i am quite active in the kink community, going to several events each month. where you cam meet me. I have real tits and a man made pussy. Everyone says it's just as good as a natural woman. or as I like to call it – a designer vagina. I’ve put myself as female on here because that’s what I am since having the operation, but I’m not hiding or denying my past either. Think of it this way – I’ve got the working parts of a female but without the monthly curse. How many other females want to be me now?
i am not looking for one off meet
I’m straight talking and honest, sometimes quite blunt. What you see is what you get with me, and I’m not ashamed of any of it. I can’t stand b/s and liars, if you can’t be honest, then be quiet, because I’m not interested in hearing your lies and excuses.
Since my operation, more than just my physical appearance has changed. I’ve become increasingly drawn towards the submissive role and giving up control, although I can be quite feisty so I don’t submit easily. I’ve also found an interest in other females, I've had a few experiences, and would like more.
I’ve not experienced much rope work and would like to have more of that, and more bondage in general. I’ve been told I can take quite a lot of , and I love it. I’ve done needle play a few times and enjoyed it, and I also like soft sensual play as well.
I’ve not used safe words in the past because I believe a good and experienced dominant can read the person they’re with, and will know when to stop or change what they’re doing.
I’m not one for lots of messaging as I'm dyslexic so if there’s a genuine interest I will want to talk on the phone quite early and meet soon after.

I can't gush like some natural females do but I do have orgasms and I do get wet when I'm aroused. I love d orgasms where I'm teased and played with till I can't stop myself having one or multiple orgasms.
so feel free to ask any questions you wish.
I'm looking for a Master or Mistress with plenty of experience for a D/s or M/s relationship. I'm willing to become your property and be trained as your slave
I love the idea of body modification, piercings, branding, tattoos and a lot more. For the right person I'd be willing to have my body modified

Looking to find a Domme who can put me in my place, when I step out of line. I would like a Domme who is strict but also kind. I have experienced lots of online play during covid, but am yet to experience a live experience.

Bondage, Sex, BSDM, ABDL.


Up for trying anything so let your imagination run wild with me.

Message me on Kik: Kinkybondage69

Picture exchanges

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I would like to find a bi bull to humiliate my bf

Anyone looking for a sub go message me!

women call me to have cyber sex especially older women

Unicorn woman /mistress

Need a submissive foot bitch willing to do whatever they are told and worship my feet whenever I command.

Looking for a dominating woman to show me the ropes of this scene as I'm new to the whole thing. Will show a pic in private chat.
I'm up for trying anything out at least once.
Males welcome but only in a couple.

Love a guy in his pants and or socks. Love kissing, cuddles, wanking, sucking, rimming and being fucked. Not into female clothing or ***. Like intimate time, not rushed and some dirty pillow talk in between.

We would love to find a like minded couple

Firstly I cannot vouch for everyone on my friends list, they have been

As a update 2021, I've recently taken up a interest in photography and would love to get into tasteful fetish shoots so if your interested please get in touch.

I will usually be found at Chelmsford Munch and Play or Chelmscolmunch and possibly The Colchester Munch, of course i will attend many others but these would be my place of choice.

I know what I bring to the table but at times I will choose to eat alone rather than compromise and you too should appreciate and use the same standard of measuring.

There are two kinds of **. The sort of that makes you strong, or useless . The sort of that's only suffering. I have no patience for useless things*

I have been in and around the lifestyle for over 25 years and take my role very seriously, I have my own way of doing things and I do not say that is the only way or the right way just what is right for me. Safe Sane and Consensual is a must or as people prefer now RACK


Notes for Potential play partners*

1. I am a light vaper and if this is an issue to you then you cant compromise and its best you move along
   

2. I do not wish to find a doormat, I need you to have opinions that you share with me and if your a wee bit playful and bratty at times I find that side of you amusing, providing the setting is correct.
   

3. I have rules and protocols I will expect you to adopt these will be discussed during negotiation
   

4. I will always honour and respect your hard limits, soft limits are fluid and will be pushed
   

5. Communication is key, you should be articulate and able to communicate well and without ***.
   
   
   
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Looking for play partners, photo shoots and good open honest kinky play once this craziness ends in the meantime get to know you and your wants needs and desires, not looking for gold diggers or princesses who feel entitled

Any guys or girls 18-25? And into feet? Msg me with pics of your feet.

All distances welcome.

This is mainly for chats but if you live close by lemme know.

Also up for stories and chit-chat too..

I would like to meet doms who accommodate those who would like to train and use me

Just women only just seeing what you got pulled down sexy undies nylons while you reading your mags etc on the toilet while you have a long relaxing poo please no men contact or profile me woman only thank you

Hi looking for a dominant woman that likes to play on message and in person.

Wld love to meet a female who loves wearinng tights who loves her legs and feet worshipped and other kinky tights fun. Or a bi cple with a big cock and strap on who wants a regular sissy tv slut. I wld also like to have my first gangbang as a tv slut being passed around to be used and pleasure both cocks and pussies and be covered in spunk and piss.

Im looking for someone to fulfil a threesome with me and my partner (no strings attached)

I am very new to the BDSM scene and community and would like to meet up with so like-minded people and make some friends, either casually, playmates, or something else I am fine with any.

So I'm a very kinky man that seeks a godess or queen to make my world fulfilled
I will try anything once or twice or maybe three times with the right bitch
I want tantric and wild inhibitions mutualally met with a preference to my mistress to get her rocks off and fulfill her dreams and wildest fantasies