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Kinky Date · 25 - 60 years · 90 km
Evening all, first post on here as such so just wanted to throw myself out there
Looking to chat with anyone, and being a switch that can be a sub or a dom, im far more of a pleaser in that regard
Shoot me a message and i’ll send you my EXTENSIVE kink list
stay kinky out there ;)
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 40 years · 65 km
Any women in or near Harlow Essex also like trans looking for fun 247
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Looking to worship women pls message me if you are interested
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 35 km

I really enjoy serving, I want you to sit on face until I can’t breathe. I want to make you cum so bad
NSA · 18 - 30 years · 25 km

Someone come take control of me
Dom/me Session · 18 - 80 years · 310 km
Let’s fine Somewhere where we can find ourselves in our most unique and personal selves willing to give it all up for that one moment of finding each other
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km

Hey, I'm looking for some friends who have similar interests in similar kinks. We could explore them together maybe, who knows ;)
Kinky Date · 18 - 50 years · 5 km
Im in harlow for the week anyone up for some fun? 😏
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 25 km

I'm new to this sort of thing. I'm into bdsm, anal meeting up with couples.
Kinky Date · 28 - 46 years · 230 km
Hi, lovely to meet you.
I always find introductions a bit awkward, but here we go. I’ve been a submissive for nearly six years now—honestly it’s a little terrifying to write that out loud, and I’ll save the existential crisis that comes with it for another time. What it does mean is that I’ve had enough experience to know myself, what I want, and the kind of connection I’m hoping to build with someone.
Ideally, I’m looking for a female-led relationship—something built on trust, communication, and the kind of dynamic where power exchange enriches rather than replaces the relationship. That said, I’m completely open to exploring one-off play sessions if that’s more what you’re looking for going in. At this point, I’ll be honest: I’m a bit tired of the search. Dating in general can feel exhausting, and trying to find something meaningful as a submissive guy adds an extra layer of difficulty that can be pretty discouraging at times.
I won’t go too deep into kinks right here since that’s definitely a conversation better had in DMs, but my top five are bondage, ***d orgasms, face sitting, marking, and nipple play. These are the areas I naturally gravitate toward and where I feel most at home. I’m also curious about exploring more—like eventually losing my anal virginity at some point, though that’s definitely a discussion for later and not something I’m rushing into. I’m also very interested in trying hypnosis as a kink, particularly the kind that blends relaxation, surrender, and trust. At the end of the day, what I really want is the experience of losing control in a way that feels safe and cared for.
As far as preferences go, I don’t have a huge checklist of requirements. The most important things to me are that the person I’m talking to enjoys the kinds of dynamics and kinks I’m into and is roughly around my age. Chemistry is a two-way street, and it’s nice to know if we tick each other’s boxes.
Outside of kink, I’ve been told I have that “hyperactive golden retriever” energy. I’m passionate—sometimes overwhelmingly so—about the things I love. I recently finished my degree in game design, which has been a huge part of my life for the past few years. I play guitar, and I’m currently bartending while looking for a graduate job. I’m always drawn to people who have creative or nerdy interests of their own. In terms of music, I’m pretty flexible—anything from classic rock like The Beatles to heavier bands like Avenged Sevenfold sits firmly in my library.
At the end of the day, I’m looking for someone who cares, someone confident and commanding, someone who’s excited to take the lead. I’ve been in a few relationships where the dynamic expectations didn’t match, often with partners who were also submissive, and it just didn’t work. I’m hoping to finally find something that fits.
I’ve done plenty of online dynamic work, and I’ve had a couple of professional sessions, so if you’re wondering whether I know how to serve—yes, I do.
Thank you for reading. Please feel free to reach out in dms. I'll try to reply asap.
Have a wonderful day.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 165 km

Looking to be degraded NSA. Message me for more. 💋💋
NSA · 5 km
Hey, I am a 6ft 5 guy in an ENM relationship. We are exploring separately and I am looking for someone to come over and dominate me. I can host and pick you up if needed. I don’t have a lot of limits
NSA · 18 - 25 years · 50 km
Hey I’m in Harlow looking for a hookup in the next couple of weeks. I can host and pick you up if we hit it off.
Looking to explore with an open minded person.
Kinky Date · 18 - 28 years · 70 km
Ladies in the Harlow area, who wants to get filthy?
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 25 km

Im looking for like minded people
NSA · 18 - 80 years
Need a dom Essex Harlow
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 55 km
I just moved to the area and am wondering who is around me 🫢. Say hi if you are and let’s get acquainted
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 80 km
I would love to meet someone
Club Buddy · 26 - 37 years · 65 km
Hey recently single Dom looking for kinky sub/switch to have some long term fun with.
Very open happy to explore new things and new kinks let’s hear what’s the naughty fantasy’s you want to play out
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 70 km
Looking for fun happy to explore new things, have experience as a dom and switch, looking for regular fun, interested in slave or maybe pet owner scenarios but tell me your dirtiest fantasy’s probably up for them too haha
Kinky Date · 18 - 27 years · 45 km
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