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Evening all, first post on here as such so just wanted to throw myself out there
Looking to chat with anyone, and being a switch that can be a sub or a dom, im far more of a pleaser in that regard
Shoot me a message and i’ll send you my EXTENSIVE kink list
stay kinky out there ;)
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 40 years · 65 km
Let’s fine Somewhere where we can find ourselves in our most unique and personal selves willing to give it all up for that one moment of finding each other
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Hi, lovely to meet you.
I always find introductions a bit awkward, but here we go. I’ve been a submissive for nearly six years now—honestly it’s a little terrifying to write that out loud, and I’ll save the existential crisis that comes with it for another time. What it does mean is that I’ve had enough experience to know myself, what I want, and the kind of connection I’m hoping to build with someone.
Ideally, I’m looking for a female-led relationship—something built on trust, communication, and the kind of dynamic where power exchange enriches rather than replaces the relationship. That said, I’m completely open to exploring one-off play sessions if that’s more what you’re looking for going in. At this point, I’ll be honest: I’m a bit tired of the search. Dating in general can feel exhausting, and trying to find something meaningful as a submissive guy adds an extra layer of difficulty that can be pretty discouraging at times.
I won’t go too deep into kinks right here since that’s definitely a conversation better had in DMs, but my top five are bondage, ***d orgasms, face sitting, marking, and nipple play. These are the areas I naturally gravitate toward and where I feel most at home. I’m also curious about exploring more—like eventually losing my anal virginity at some point, though that’s definitely a discussion for later and not something I’m rushing into. I’m also very interested in trying hypnosis as a kink, particularly the kind that blends relaxation, surrender, and trust. At the end of the day, what I really want is the experience of losing control in a way that feels safe and cared for.
As far as preferences go, I don’t have a huge checklist of requirements. The most important things to me are that the person I’m talking to enjoys the kinds of dynamics and kinks I’m into and is roughly around my age. Chemistry is a two-way street, and it’s nice to know if we tick each other’s boxes.
Outside of kink, I’ve been told I have that “hyperactive golden retriever” energy. I’m passionate—sometimes overwhelmingly so—about the things I love. I recently finished my degree in game design, which has been a huge part of my life for the past few years. I play guitar, and I’m currently bartending while looking for a graduate job. I’m always drawn to people who have creative or nerdy interests of their own. In terms of music, I’m pretty flexible—anything from classic rock like The Beatles to heavier bands like Avenged Sevenfold sits firmly in my library.
At the end of the day, I’m looking for someone who cares, someone confident and commanding, someone who’s excited to take the lead. I’ve been in a few relationships where the dynamic expectations didn’t match, often with partners who were also submissive, and it just didn’t work. I’m hoping to finally find something that fits.
I’ve done plenty of online dynamic work, and I’ve had a couple of professional sessions, so if you’re wondering whether I know how to serve—yes, I do.
Thank you for reading. Please feel free to reach out in dms. I'll try to reply asap.
Have a wonderful day.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 165 km
Looking to get into more ddlg/ pet play as a sub
BDSM Play Partner · 24 - 47 years · 25 km
Want someone who’s freaky in the sheets and knows what they’re doing
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 18 years · 5 km
I want to find my master looking for someone to make me their slave I’m curious about all kinks I’m good for pegging and other needs I will serve my dom like no other, if you couldn’t tell I’m very horny all the time
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 45 km
I want a woman who needs to earn my praise or ***.
I love confidence but if your nervous that's fine you wont be thinking with your nerves for too long 🤷♂️
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 33 years · 500 km
Hey all. Looking for a sub who will as I say. Online and in real. Be in shape. No limits please. Message me
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 500 km

I really do find this part awkward... having to sell myself. I'm predominantly sub and looking to serve a dominant lady, but have switched in the past and happy to explore this further. I don't like having to select a specific category of what I'm looking for as things are not set in stone and the dynamic depends on the person you're with.
I'm looking to meet in real life as opposed to online. Thanks for all the spanks guys, but I'm strictly for the ladies only.
BDSM Play Partner · 35 - 65 years · 75 km
If you think you could suit this caring Daddy Dom apply today!
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 46 years · 60 km
I wanna meet a nice blonde or brunette with even blue or green eyes so when we having fun I can get lots in her eyes 😘🤩
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 23 years · 10 km
My type is blonde and brunette
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 21 years · 10 km
Looking local people to have fun with
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 35 km
Help please anyone someone, I don't know how to control my girlfriend
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 550 km
Hello, I'm new to the scene and never experienced any sort of bdsm driven relationship before but my current girlfriend insists she's a brat, is constantly disrespectful and sometimes just mean to me and claims it's cause she's a brat, she wants me to punish her but I don't really know how to go about doing it (mainly cause if I start spanking her she starts begging me to stop).. So I'm confused can anyone help???
Thanks!
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 545 km

I’m looking for a master to play with me and do the things that go round my head! We must fit and have the same needs … to enjoy and hold your sub in great esteem .. to adore and punish for being so beautiful n submissive ! Not degraded , n treated like a nothing !
I will give the best of me the more you praise me for serving you ! Non smokers please
BDSM Play Partner · 35 - 60 years · 50 km
Turn me into your dirty sissy sex slave to be used. looking for a sadist (or gropu) into latex and a wide variety of fetish's csn't accommodate but willing to travel message me what your into looking forward to being used
BDSM Play Partner · 50 km
Down for anything meets
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km

Im looking for a long term sub who is into all sorts bdsm fun. Bonus if youre open to moresomes and group play
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 75 years · 50 km
Looking for Subs to message me and see what kind of fun we can have!
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 50 years · 90 km
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BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 51 years · 220 km
I'd love to meet someone who is interested in helping me become a full time girl x
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 120 km
Tall, ripped, big hands and a thick 8 inches looking for a good girl to do what I say, or a brat that needs training. 😏
Message me and let’s explore your fantasies 😈
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BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 35 years · 25 km
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