Firstly I cannot vouch for everyone on my friends list, they have been
As a update 2021, I've recently taken up a interest in photography and would love to get into tasteful fetish shoots so if your interested please get in touch.
I will usually be found at Chelmsford Munch and Play or Chelmscolmunch and possibly The Colchester Munch, of course i will attend many others but these would be my place of choice.
I know what I bring to the table but at times I will choose to eat alone rather than compromise and you too should appreciate and use the same standard of measuring.
There are two kinds of **. The sort of that makes you strong, or useless . The sort of that's only suffering. I have no patience for useless things*
I have been in and around the lifestyle for over 25 years and take my role very seriously, I have my own way of doing things and I do not say that is the only way or the right way just what is right for me. Safe Sane and Consensual is a must or as people prefer now RACK
Notes for Potential play partners*
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I am a light vaper and if this is an issue to you then you cant compromise and its best you move along
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I do not wish to find a doormat, I need you to have opinions that you share with me and if your a wee bit playful and bratty at times I find that side of you amusing, providing the setting is correct.
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I have rules and protocols I will expect you to adopt these will be discussed during negotiation
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I will always honour and respect your hard limits, soft limits are fluid and will be pushed
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Communication is key, you should be articulate and able to communicate well and without ***.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Owner
100% Dominant
100% Degrader
100% Sadist
100% Master/Mistress
100% Daddy/Mommy
100% Non-monogamist
99% Voyeur
98% Exhibitionist
77% Rigger
63% Primal (Hunter)
56% Experimentalist
46% Ageplayer
36% Brat tamer
0% Vanilla
0% Switch