Find kinky women in London

BDSM and the fetish scene have been a big part of my life for more than a decade. Initially, it was just for fun, but I enjoyed it so much that I ended up doing it professionally - all you have to do is look for Goddess Ruby Rousson. Recently, I've been more into hedonism, playing around with sensations, pleasure, and pain, rather than identifying solely as a Sadistic Domme. Don't get me wrong, I still love my canes, paddles, and floggers, but I have a love for how a few words and a light touch can turn someone into putty in my hands. My kinks vary depending on who I'm playing with and the dynamics we share, and there are more fetishes in my repertoire than what I've listed (I've only included those that sprang to mind first). I’m relatively open-minded when it comes to kinks, and I've encountered a lot of fetishes over the years. Right now, I'm looking for like-minded kinky folks and accessible events. I'm open to finding a play partner, but I'm not actively searching for one; just keeping my eyes open for someone I click with. Outside of kink, I run a few websites, start conversations, educate myself when curious, enjoy learning new instruments, am a bit of a nerd, and read/write copious amounts of fiction. Goddess Ruby Rousson
Female (30) London, Greater London
if you're asking all the time for me to provide for you and treat me like I'm your slave or despising my worth and value, it’s a big no! Care and respect will lead me to give you the same, so if you're not a gentleman, we can't click.
Female (23) London, Greater London
Hello ✨ Welcome to the profile of a shy but very desperate girl! I don't have much experience, but I'm eager to try and learn! And I hope you'll be patient with teaching me too :) I aspire to become the perfect little fuckdoll and an obedient submissive for someone. I'm very soft and affectionate, cuddly and overall just caring and empathetic person. But I'm not looking for a relationship or permanent dynamic, so don't expect that you will own me. I love anime, games, alternative fashion, cosplay, and I’m more than happy to incorporate that into play and fulfil your fantasies :) I would love to meet in person or chat on discord and enjoy a few glasses of fun-drinks with you ? So feel free to DM me anytime! I do get a lot of requests though, so try poking me one more time if you really want to chat. But be warned! I’m really new into all of this, like, almost no experience, so may I ask you to be patient with me and teach me how to be a good girl ? Hope to hear from you soon! Cheers! 160 cm/ 5’2 52 kg/ 114 pounds 07/07/2002
Female (21) London, Greater London
female dom looking for a sub. Fantasy: hope someone can cosplay Eren so that I can fuck him/her/them with a dildo. Don't msg if you’re not in London.
Female (23) London, Greater London
Hey kinksters : ) Please make conversation and dont just Hi. This isn’t bumble and I expect you to not waste my time. I am looking for a man who not only treats me with respect but becomes devoted and can comfortably surrender to me. The first date purely will be a lunch/dinner to vet you and see if we have similar values. 2nd date is when the spicy fun comes in. Each person brings a different side of me out. It’s more about listening to what needs to come out of me when interacting with you. I’m an avid reader and an artist. Playful and curious with the right person who presents gentlemen qualities. Love clothing, travelling, fine dining, and gifts.
Female (34) London, Greater London
What gets me excited is exploring all aspects of BDSM and finding my place in this world of sexual adventure.
Female (27) London, Greater London
Glamorous, fit, playful city lady, looking for a regular dominant lover/play partner, someone with good touch and aftercare. Love the psychological side of play, seduce my mind and my body will follow. I love corsets, lingerie, silk etc. We need to also connect on a vanilla level over interesting food, cheese, drinks, good wine etc. I’d love to go to events. More photos if we match. I hate feeling cheap. Please be in/around London UK, over 40, 5'8+. be polite, respectful, in good shape, live alone and have a good standard of living. Thank you.
Female (46) London, Greater London
Il crush, squeeze, kick, flick, stamp, whip....worship my heels boys ? Those whom cannot impress this Mistress with an introductory message will not receive the privilege of a reply ... use your brains boys, the balls are all mine
Female (41) London, Greater London
cheeky sub, with some brat tendancies. new to the lifestyle and interested in impact play, rope play, bondage, and some others.
Female (36) London, Greater London
Im a bisexual dominant with insomnia I was really into controling people as long as I can remember. not really into leather and high heels and latex all that "dominant women" signs. But Im sure Im really into fully controling mind and body in my hands. Also, currently living in Luxembourg so Im looking for an online communication mostly (also recently very tired of people thinking just cuz I am a dom I owe them domination, no I do not. U need to be interesting in my eyes in order to get that.) (if u dont know what to say, send me ur fav song)
Female (24) London, Greater London
Welcome to my profile ❤️? Sub at times brat, light bdsm experiences, desire to experience something more intense. I'm into rough but also sensual sex, face fucking, spit(my top kink), bondage, degradation, spanking, choking, mild pain, orgasm control, mmf, mff, kinky events..for now. Connection is very important to me, the goal would be a LTR but for the moment a FWB would be more than appreciated too. Please don't waste my time and yours if you are more than 20km away and you are not willing to travel, I have very little time to meet up. NO CYBER FUN. Thanks. Recent STI results required before meeting. In everyday life I'm a full time single parent, (that's why little free time to meet up). I like photography, go for walks, watching series, food, parties. English is not my first language so apologies if it’s not that great. ? Insta: @Red_cherry_uk
Female (32) London, Greater London
I mean, y’all all be really done out here There’s no option to tick a box for “Aliens from Pluto” So respectively, I’m waiting for a crop circle with signs to show up.
Female (30) London, Greater London
Honestly I’m a pillow princess, loved being worshiped. Face sittin, ass and feet worship ?. The dark side of me would love totally degrade you! ass fucking, piss drinking, spanking, choking. ?
Female (25) London, Greater London
Hi you can call me Mandy if you like I'm very outgoing I'm single no children. I am a lesbian so men I do prey you can read and not message with all do respect. I would say I'm a passionate lover I like to please making the person feel like she is on a cloud. I do share depending on my mood or if I'm feeling it wilh you or not I love sex more than the average person, if you do want to message please be 25+ I'm into. Feet,rimming,rough, outdoors and possibly more. Thank you for having the time reading this hope we can talk and have fun together.
Female (46) London, Greater London
I am a very demanding Queen. Be prepared to obey and worship, I will train you wether you have experience or not **DO NOT APPROACH IF YOU ARE A DOM *** AGAIN ANYONE MESSAGING WITH DOMINANT IN THEIR PROFILE WILL BE BLOCKED STRAIGHT AWAY
Female (32) London, Greater London
Keen submissive with the right person. Masochist - enjoy the flogger. Looking for someone who can push myself. Loved to be restrained. **Desires and Fantasies** role play pet play (I am a good kitty) Sensorial restriction Suspension Mummification
Female (32) London, Greater London
I’m the sort of person who finds the details of a situation very important. I like extra virgin olive oil and beautiful chairs. It matters to me if the towels and bedsheets are both soft and smell nice and not of a basic soap..I want to detect citrus or another scent that perhaps you brought back from somewhere other than boots. I am the sort of person who would enjoy an interestingly designed shaped spoon, I’d look at it for some time, imagining how much time it took to create. A cheese course type person who has favourite cheeses outside of the categories ‘hard or soft cheese’. I like the way my ankle bones click when i walk, it kind of reminds me I’m alive. I really enjoy red wine and large thin rimmed glasses. I am highly logical but also a woman so sometimes it feels like there’s two of me fighting for air in periods where my hormones dictate mood. I only buy tomatoes from warm climates. Books furnish a life. I am looking for a fun, experimental summer. Message me.
Female (35) London, Greater London
I'm a 45 year old woman with tattoos and piercings as well as some scars from self arm. I'm about 10 stone and 5ft 6. I am fairly flat chested but have long long legs with long dark hair and blue eyes I'm looking for fun and to take my growing interest in submission further as I'm quite new..I enjoy the rougher side of sex although prefer to have a connection of some form first enablibg trust open minded to most things at least to try in the right situation **Desires and Fantasies** voyeurism and being watched fear of being caught outdoor sex..and risk sex n public places being tied up or held down choking quick ruff sex.. being masterbated over sloppy blow jobs and face fucking some forms of consent non consent role play
Female (47) London, Greater London
Fairly new to the scene, always researching & learning. A Domme, single, heterosexual, and looking for service submissives, sissy (maids), subs, and like minded fe/males to befriend, joining me in the domination and humiliation of my harem. Also, to help me learn so much more to this kink life. I'm like a diamond and an onion. There are many sides, layers, hard, and soft aspects of/to me. Who feels like they're worthy of pleasing this Empress? Single men only! Are you worth my time and energy? Don't you dare to waste it! HARD LIMITS* Anything to do with children, race play, age play, scat, vomit, blood, needles, drugs, anything illegal, CAPRICORNS, tea, coffee, online Domming **Desires and Fantasies** The main one is to have TOTAL CONTROL of a sissy maid, slave or Sub. Absolute ownership. There are many more, but you will have to get to know me to find out.
Female (61) London, Greater London
Looking for a partner or two to explore FLR with. I’m geeky, and love a good conversation, either over coffee or with you kneeling at my feet. Generally into younger guys. Love to travel, and would love a travel companion. Please don’t think that means I’m looking for a sugar baby, though - I’m not. Not a pro domme, and not into cyber, so if you’re not up for in person, we’re not a match. Play dates, fwb, and one offs are not my thing. If you have some experience and are looking for a relationship, come say hi.
Female (53) London, Greater London
I don't have much experience, I need someone who is patient enough to train me on how to please them
Female (26) London, Greater London
Looking to find people who have similar interests as me or others who could introduce me to things that I may not know much about and in the end might be willing to try certain things out. My main interests have been the thought of cnc specifically in the form of a kidnapping roleplay where I can be completely restrained and teased. I'd also like to try out wax play, breath play and something to do with knives. Other than that I really like drawing and cooking in my free time.
Female (18) London, Greater London
21+ She/her ♍ ?|#NSFW||BDSM|| Looking for a Caregiver/Daddy I'm a little. I have a praise kink. I love cuddles, kisses and being showered with attention by my Daddy I want my Daddy to take me out to do things. I'm a good girl got brat tendencies , so may need to get punished now and then I love to role play, DDLG Age regression Age play Pet Play I want my Daddy to treat me like a princess and his baby . I like being forced to orgasm. I have a praise kink I like teddy bears and gifts i want a Daddy who is tall, I’m 5’9 so above please I can only meet in London I want a long term arrangement with emotional connection.
Female (25) London, Greater London
Looking for a female sub, or a switch. If you’re needy and require lots of attention, I’m definitely not for you. Please don’t waste my time. I’m polyamorous. Ideally looking to build more of a longer-term special connection rather than one-offs.
Female (44) London, Greater London

New members in London

BDSM and the fetish scene have been a big part of my life for more than a decade. Initially, it was just for fun, but I enjoyed it so much that I ended up doing it professionally - all you have to do is look for Goddess Ruby Rousson. Recently, I've been more into hedonism, playing around with sensations, pleasure, and pain, rather than identifying solely as a Sadistic Domme. Don't get me wrong, I still love my canes, paddles, and floggers, but I have a love for how a few words and a light touch can turn someone into putty in my hands. My kinks vary depending on who I'm playing with and the dynamics we share, and there are more fetishes in my repertoire than what I've listed (I've only included those that sprang to mind first). I’m relatively open-minded when it comes to kinks, and I've encountered a lot of fetishes over the years. Right now, I'm looking for like-minded kinky folks and accessible events. I'm open to finding a play partner, but I'm not actively searching for one; just keeping my eyes open for someone I click with. Outside of kink, I run a few websites, start conversations, educate myself when curious, enjoy learning new instruments, am a bit of a nerd, and read/write copious amounts of fiction. Goddess Ruby Rousson
Female (30) London, Greater London
I am new in all this online dating stuff and here for something serious and ready to settle down..... if interested drop you email or number or reach me on google chat [email protected]
Female (34) London, Greater London
I think the ideal relationship is when you feel really comfortable with each other, when you can enjoy the party time together, as well as the calm romantic evening at home same way. And I believe that an open mind approach to sex within a couple is the best way to never get bored with each other. I like to play in the game of seduction, I care about particulars. I like to start slow, kisses on neck are the most easy way to get me wet; I also like to say ''no''. But think about me as the girl next door who has sexual wishes as you. Feel free to start a conversation :)
Female (34) London, Greater London
I am a pre-transition AFAB transmasculine, looking for females and other transmasc people interested in spankings and a light dom/sub relationship. I would like to find some new friends and if we have a mutual interest, play partners. I'm a sub-leaning switch, willing to explore if the dynamic is there.
Female (32) London, Greater London
Hey kinksters : ) Please make conversation and dont just Hi. This isn’t bumble and I expect you to not waste my time. I am looking for a man who not only treats me with respect but becomes devoted and can comfortably surrender to me. The first date purely will be a lunch/dinner to vet you and see if we have similar values. 2nd date is when the spicy fun comes in. Each person brings a different side of me out. It’s more about listening to what needs to come out of me when interacting with you. I’m an avid reader and an artist. Playful and curious with the right person who presents gentlemen qualities. Love clothing, travelling, fine dining, and gifts.
Female (34) London, Greater London
I am single, never married and seeking a long-term relationship with someone who is open to meeting in person and exploring in real life if there is an interest. I am open to visiting or relocating if there is a match
Female (31) London, Greater London
**Just to be clear because clearly some need to see it written down :coffee_happy: ** Not looking to hook up. I'm not using the platform as an invitation to meet you- If I want to meet you I'll let you know personally. My intentions are visible on my page- that's it. Not a newbie to the fet community- not a newbie with men.
Female (39) London, Greater London
What gets me excited is exploring all aspects of BDSM and finding my place in this world of sexual adventure.
Female (27) London, Greater London
if you're asking all the time for me to provide for you and treat me like I'm your slave or despising my worth and value, it’s a big no! Care and respect will lead me to give you the same, so if you're not a gentleman, we can't click.
Female (23) London, Greater London
I'm searching for a Dominant who can guide me on a journey of self-discovery and growth. Someone who cherishes my submission as a precious gift and respects my boundaries. I crave a connection that goes beyond physicality, where we can explore our desires and vulnerabilities with honesty and passion. Ideally, I'm seeking a long-term relationship built on trust, communication, and mutual admiration. Someone who is not only my Dominant but also my confidant, partner, and best friend. Together, we'll embark on an adventure of the mind, body, and soul, exploring the depths of our desires and creating unforgettable memories along the way. If you're a Dominant who shares my values and is ready to embark on this journey together, I'd love to hear from you. Let's connect and see where our shared desires take us. Remember, consent, communication, and care are paramount in any relationship, and I look forward to building something beautiful with the right person.
Female (24) London, Greater London
I look after my appearance and I know I make heads turn and I can get laid anytime I want but am looking for something more challenging and something I won’t normally meet socially
Female (25) London, Greater London
cheeky sub, with some brat tendancies. new to the lifestyle and interested in impact play, rope play, bondage, and some others.
Female (36) London, Greater London
I am new to all this online stuff. I am looking for some fun and good vibes. I like my nipples being sucked for hours and I am dominating. Only people from London Easy going looking to have fun
Female (32) London, Greater London
Bubbly outgoing but eager to please. I have a bit of experience and would prefer someone who also knows what they are doing (but hey if you’re hot, easy going and powerful please hit me up!) Discretion is key
Female (41) London, Greater London
420 Friendly Dirty talker Squirter SUB LOOKING FOR A MASTER/DADDY Looking for discreet meet ups something on a regular bases someone i can chill have fun with get high or even both get high and drunk and go with the flow in exploring the many impossible things we can do together Looking to get fisted ONLY DONE PUSSY havent done ANAL YET but would like to try anal NEEDS to be hard rough double and punch fisting you can go as deep as you like shove your whole arm inside if you must and if you want you can also shove your foot deep in my pussy and even anal if successful of course I like rough hard play such as hair pulling being choked tied up blindfolded i like to be pounded really hard the type where you hate me maybe even rape play Also looking for people who like to be pissed on Many more things im into DM to find out more
Female (33) London, Greater London
Hello there! I'm an open-minded and outgoing lady who loves connecting with people and exploring new ideas. My curiosity knows no bounds, and I thrive on learning from different perspectives. Whether it's engaging in thought-provoking conversations or embarking on exciting adventures, I'm always up for expanding my horizons. I believe in the power of communication and staying informed, so I make it a point to keep everyone around me in the loop. Sharing knowledge and experiences not only fosters understanding but also creates a sense of community. I'm a strong advocate for safety, both in the physical and emotional sense. Ensuring that those around me feel secure and supported is a priority.
Female (30) London, Greater London
I’m single very honest understanding person I’m here to search for love and I’m able and willing to verify my self and do anything for the good man
Female (35) London, Greater London
I'd like to find a man who's into ddlg. Not looking a very dominant man who want a sub and follow orders for him. More like a genuine, kinky guy with a freaky mind. I'm into more things, if we having a conversation I'm sure will be revealed.
Female (35) London, Greater London
No longer looking for doms, am saving my self for my husband as I have been. My account will be deleted at the end of this week. Your intentions to be friends then message if not , do not bother. Any sexual messages or flirting will end with you being ignored
Female (24) London, Greater London
I mean, y’all all be really done out here There’s no option to tick a box for “Aliens from Pluto” So respectively, I’m waiting for a crop circle with signs to show up.
Female (30) London, Greater London
Hello, I am Mistress Mandy, the ultimate professional Mistress, fetish latex/ lingerie published model and leading London Dominatrix. Described as a "Sado Beauty", "Glaminatrix", "Sex Goddess" and "The Original Sin!" I am strict, glamorous, sensual, adore being worshiped and an expert practitioner of BDSM offering mild to wild BDSM and Fetish sessions. You are invited to enter My wonderful world of pleasure and pain domain. A mental and physical playground of fun and fantasy where erotica and kink are a common thread that will bind you. I am a well-established London Domme with 10 years of experience, I thrive on the total exchange of power. I am happy to entertain both experienced and novice slaves. Naturally I am Dominant, there is nothing more that I enjoy than to session with gentlemen submissives who live to appreciate My unique style of sensual and sexual Domination. Put yourself in My expert hands, I am an exquisitely charismatic, highly intuitive and an emotionally intelligent Goddess. Unlike most Mistresses, I apply the belief that sexual acts are the heart and soul of a successful session between a FemDom and her sub-male. I adore using My slaves and servants' bodies for My pleasure when I see fit, in any style that I like and of course only if I want to.
Female (28) London, Greater London
Il crush, squeeze, kick, flick, stamp, whip....worship my heels boys ? Those whom cannot impress this Mistress with an introductory message will not receive the privilege of a reply ... use your brains boys, the balls are all mine
Female (41) London, Greater London
Afro Caribbean woman, looking to cede control to a Dom, that won't abuse my trust. Also, just becuz I'm a SUB, doesn't mean I'm YOUR sub. My submission must be earned, you can't order me around unless I consent to it. Plz refrain from coming to my dm & telling me that you'll punish me if I don't obey you, or that you're more superior just because you're a "Dom". This just tells me that you're a poor excuse for a Dom & you're probably not a real one. I maybe new to this but I know that CONSENT, RESPECT & RESPONSIBILITY are 3 important tings in a D/S dynamic. So please leave me alone if you're gonna come with this bullshit.
Female (38) London, Greater London

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