If you are so kind as to message me, dazzle me, tease me, engage me, I dare you. Or at least tell me your favourite story or song, and why you savour them so much.
***Please read my preferences, many thanks***
Above all else, I enjoy sensuality, connection, intensity. Someone who enjoys nuance. That giving myself over to such earthly delights does not mean that I give over to everything. Someone who understands that to surrender is a specific act, a purposeful gift, in exchange for trust, vulnerability and exploration. That to earn my trust means knowing who you are talking to; understanding the borders within which you may shade. To see the boundaries are the limits of my soul, health and sanity. And that everything in between I might gift, if we have that shared spark, that shared trust.
**Desires and Fantasies**
It’s seen as an act of dominance, yet they fool themselves. This is an act of trust, gorgeous flesh bound by desire: your most exquisitely sensitive part between my slavering jaws, my hungry tongue rasping over you, wanting to consume you. Easily could I have you squealing between my incisors, yet with supreme faith, you thrust into my hot throat, heedless of the lightest tease from my teeth, forgetting the power of my bite. They say that fortune favours the brave, but I wonder who wrote that? ; )
…As a Submissive (and yes, I feel we deserve the capitalisation despite our somewhat quieter nature), knowing our body is a jewel to be treasured, jealously held or possessed, surrendered to ownership to forces as fierce as the fires that made us, is a terrifyingly intimate and desolate conclusion. Never forget the sacrifice we make, offering our devotion to you, our pleasure and pain to your wants, our ultimate trust in you, you are our deity and we worship you.
**Submission for Me**
Submission - for those of you who are mostly or purely dominant… know that I don’t submit out of fear, out of awe, out of coercive behaviour. I offer my happy, playful, sensual cooperation when I respect you, and know you respect me. That you want an actual connection, a dialogue, even a war of selves. But for me to submit, you must realise that I am your equal. I am not submissive because you are somehow better, more deserving, more righteous, or stronger whether physically or, in your opinion, mentally. You don’t prove your dominance. You don’t impose it over me. “Exerting” dominance is abusive, cowardly and a smokescreen. An actual bond means a dynamic that is shared, communicated, negotiated, teased, relished. Without equality, it fails. What is more unsexy than someone who merely presumes?
**About You**
Please see my preferences. I am interested in what makes you tick, your passions and dreams, what you enjoy, what has meaning for you. I crave full messages, about you, your desires, who you are. Don’t feel you have to stop at “hey” or “hi”, I’m not shy of conversation.
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