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BDSM Play Partner18 to 35 years ● 290km around UK, Basingstoke one year ago
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Kinky Date18 to 44 years ● 110km around UK, Basingstoke 3 months ago

I’m a confident not cocky, calm, intelligent and down to earth guy, who loves great conversation and the simple pleasures in life, especially when it comes to walking, photography, cooking or a good boxset. I’m also naturally dominant, know what I want and like to be in control, but I am not controlling, nor am I pushy. Think of me as a gentleman, with a Dominant and kinky undercurrent.

I will always support, cherish and treat you as my equal, nor will I ever belittle or shout at you. However, I will use you for my pleasure (within agreed limits) and put you in your place when I feel it is appropriate.

I’m looking for someone who enjoys a mix of Ds and vanilla, who likes to be challenged and who challenges me, where trust and a mental connection are built organically, which would ideally lead to a friendship or LTR. I also live in the real world and appreciate we all have real life responsibilities and commitments.

For me, everything is about respect, trust, and being safe, sane and consensual (SSC). Additionally, it’s about structure, consistency, fulfilling her need to please, submit and having a deep mental connection with her Dom.

In terms of my Dominant side, I’m strict and demanding but also caring and imaginative, with a particular interest in the psychological side of Ds. For me, I love nothing more than building anticipation, seeing her relinquish control (within the agreed limits), mentally letting go and her body following. However, she always knows that she is in a safe place and will be given lots of aftercare, TLC and cuddles.

My interests are varied and ever evolving. I particularly like impact play, including spanking, floggers, canes, paddles, belts, whips, crops. As well as mental BDSM, dressing to please, restraint, collars, belts, rope, gags, hoods, orgasm control, protocol, service positions, giving oral and outdoor play. I also enjoy rough play and CNC on occasion, although nothing at the extreme end of the scale.

Always happy to have a conversation or meet for a coffee without any expectation or pressure.

BDSM Play Partner150km around UK, Winchester 2 years ago

I'm really just starting to find my feet in the world of Kink, I've played in the shallows for many years and think that it is now time to go in deep and sink or swim.

Being a switch makes it difficult in someways, I love strong women who know what they want and will help me give it to them, but on the flip side I also love *** little girls who would like me to look after them and drive them mad with pleasure.

And what of you? Ideally you are also a switch and looking to try all sorts of wild things with a like minded partner. Or maybe you are a little looking for a daddy, (but not too little as he is new to this) and you will probably need to share him with a Mildly Dominant Mommy, and possibly all play together. Alternatively you might a Mild Dom who wants to take control of me and my little girl?

Hopefully this might start with a bit of online play and then a meet up to really bring it to life.

So one of my biggest kink currently (although maybe you can help me find some more) is remote play, have a look at lovense.com and see what we could do (particularly Max & Nora or the Lush)?

Whats you favourite Kink, I'd love to know how to give you pleasure?

So always learning, I now now more about you, you probbly arn't a little but more likly to be an ABDL, and want nothing less than for me to take you down the pub with your nappy on under your going out clothes, maybe even with your favorit buzzy toy, Knowing that your nappy will save you from the danger of wetting your set, but still having to stiffle the moans so no on chatches on.

Looking forward to hearing from you, visit my profile for more information, or message me I only bite if you ask.

Kinky Date18 to 55 years ● 75km around UK, Basingstoke one year ago

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