• I’m shy at first, but very responsive once I feel safe. I value depth, emotional intelligence, and genuine connection. Kink is important to me, but it lives within a relationship - not a replacement for one.
• I’m sub-leaning and happiest staying in that lane. I don't Dom or switch - not even a little. I enjoy being guided with intention, measured control and self-assured energy that is always collaborative and attuned.
• I tend to fantasise more about the emotional side of kink than ticking off specific acts. I’m always open to new experiences when there’s trust, communication, and care behind them.
At this point I’m looking to build something with one person rather than navigating group dynamics. Depth over novelty.
Hey all, I'm Phoenix,
I have been active in the community for about 5 years at this point and am very confident in my position in where I fit in to the kink space, I am privileged in the fact that I am the submissive/property/fiancée of my Dominant and I could not be happier with this arrangement.
Our non kink life will always come first and neither of us have any intention of changing that ❤️❤️
If you would like to get to know me just message. I'm looking for kinky like minded friend to talk with about the community and life etc
My Dom and I are also open to the idea of playing with others as well however there needs to be a level of friendship first. If we don't get along out side the bedroom we wont get along inside it. Sir and I only play with other people if we are together we don't meet up solo.
In the interest of full transparency my dom/ fiancee will have full access to any messages if he wishes, it's not a control thing it is a mutal respect thing as I have access to his messages too.
All respectful comments are appreciated.
Unwanted comments about what you would do to me will result in you getting blocked!
I am owned and collared by my Sir.
I DON'T SEND NUDES PICS OR VIDEOS SO DON'T BOTHER ASKING!!
Hey,
My Domme side is currently looking for Content Subs/Slaves to serve for a range of kinks including pet play, impact play, facesitting, farting, foot worship ect. the more humiliating the hotter. I'm a strict but sensual Domme
I would like to build an ongoing D/S relationship with the right submissive on a personal level as well
I'm happy to join a couple as a Domme to dominate one of the partners together
My submissive side would like to meet a guy for regular NSA rimming & deep throat fun initially, maybe more
Thanks, Soph x
I am a girl who has ADHD and loves to read. I have a little pet rat who is so cute but getting old. I love ***s and would have many, if I had the space. I would love to meet a strong and confident person who is my age or a little older.
I am looking for someone who is interested in building something. Who will treat me with respect and talk to me like I'm a person and not just a set of boobs or holes to play with.
It is important for me to build trust and have common interests.
I am a sub and I absolutely cannot switch. I have a lot of kinks I would like to explore but I am still very new. I know I want to please, and I am not a brat.
Sent me a message but remember, I'm a person.
I’m naturally dominant in presence and energy. The dynamic that fits me is a devotional LTR, with submission gifted by the sub rather than demanded by me. The closest archetype that fits how I am, would be a Goddess Domme. I don’t instruct someone into submission; the right person is naturally submissive and enjoys discovering, through trial and error, what pleases me. I’ll allow what pleases me and gently decline what doesn’t.
My dominance is feminine in nature, so I don’t pursue or lead the dating ritual. I enjoy being romanced. I appreciate submissives who take initiative, plan dates, and enjoy learning what delights me. I particularly enjoy being presented with options and giving feedback.
I value emotional intelligence, steadiness, and authenticity. Character and behaviour matter more to me than claims or labels.
I’m not interested in kink discussions with strangers, and I don’t enjoy long online messaging. The intimate side of a dynamic only reveals itself once trust, romantic connection, and compatibility exist in person.
When intimacy exists, my pleasure comes first. The right kind of submissive finds fulfillment in that.
I take D/s seriously and I am not abusive. I see submission as a gift, and allowing a submissive to please me as a gift from me to them
Fully monogamous I won't do non-monogamy in any shape or form. I have nothing against it but it's not for me.
Not my first time on this site, so I know most people don't even look at descriptions anyways.
I'm young but have known about the amazing world of bdsm for years, so know more about it then some of you realise, am not interested in a quick fuck with some spanking nor am I interested in some abusive relationship that you wanna pretend is a 24/7 master slave dynamic, I'm up for 24/7 but I still want freedom and to not be treated like crap.
Favourite movies are harry potter and avatar and I can't ever say no to an old barbie movie._emphasized text_
My favourite TV shows are game of thrones, family guy things like that.
Any other questions just ask away I get quite anxious so sorry if you don't get a reply straight away (or ever)
I have taken down my face pics just to protect myself a little more! Feel free to ask me and I’m happy to send privately and will not be offended if you don’t like the look of me ?
Chunky Monkey ? 5’3 and wear a size 18 so if you’re into BBW … great stuff ??
I would class myself as very diverse. I’m intrigued by all types of submission whether it be sub , pet, little/middle ... I’m very open minded and always looking to explore more.
My top kinks I would say are impact play, ddlg, ***, tears, ***, orgasm denial!
I’m not overly keen on casual meet ups or hook ups as I need a level of trust with someone to allow myself to fully submit and feel comfortable. I am forever learning and still have areas I would love to explore more of - cnc, kidnap/***, wax play, *** and probably lots lots more
The dream is to live DS as close to 24/7 as I can with someone I trust and adore ?
single mama ♥️
Looking for a long-term emotional, mental, and physical connection with a local male (less than 40 miles from Hampshire). Gen x and 420 friendly desireable, for regular kinky and vanilla adventures.
Drop me a message, introducing yourself.
Note that any first responses that are sexually, lack thought, or just 'how are you?' will be blocked. As I won't trust you and will not be wasting my time.
Hey there
Thank you for stopping by my profile. My name is Cherry. i am 36 year old Domme from southampton.
Face photos kept private only due to professional boundaries
i am happily married.
i am not seeking any play partners or play. as my husband/ sub are my only play partner.
i am here for events, networking, and getting to know the wider kink community.
little FYI, leave the honorifics for your well negotiated, consented, and established dynamics. i am NOT your Mistress, Mommy, Domme,Goddess, or whatever D type honorific you use. your dm will go unread, deleted, and possibly blocked.
Brat, interested in finding those who enjoy taming brats or more brats specifically.
Fair warning: I don’t give away submission for free; it’s earned.
Note: I’m only interested in real-world connections. If you’re looking for "online fun," I’m not the one.
Hey there.
In a relationship, and really into swinging. Also looking for a solo female to join me and my partner to play with.
Message if you are interested
Looking for a Bull to join me and my cuck, these are to be one offs and not long term arrangements. Messages are welcome and will be shared with him as I want him to be turned on by them, we will not exchange numbers or last names.
Just here for the chat, see what happens. Happy to talk with any onein the main chat room. Not seeking men. I am Bisexual by nature, not curious this has long left my vocabulary.
In a vanilla relationship, I need the excitement from somewhere else in my life. I am open to meeting - NSA.
I enjoy you taking over my body, teasing, eating, biting, whipping, choking, CNC, clamping, paddles. I will usually try anything once!!
28, married, confident, and a little bit mischievous. I’m here with full honesty and consent, exploring the kink world one tempting conversation at a time. I love teasing energy, playful banter, and people who know how to flirt with respect and confidence.
No drama, just fun and chemistry
*Men must be over 25 and under 45 please. **
**I already have 2 partners who I love very much, I am polyamorous. Looking more for dom leaning switches but open to chat to most people who are cool and respectful**
I don't have a subscription so cannot see likes- if you'd like to chat, just message but if you have no picture or a bio less than 3 setences please don't bother.
Looking for fun chats and connection primarily, this is really important to me. Very into voices, accents and other languages. Not into people who can't have an actual conversation or have fun outside of discussing kinks.
I am not into *** and I like to be treated as a person... most of the time.
My kink list is longer than my arm. If you choose to message me, please make it fun and don't just immediately try to use our conversation to masturbate without telling me.
Being direct, honest and kind is incredibly important to me, both for how I act and how I expect to be treated. Not into guessing feelings and wants... Plus I love dirty talk.
Finally, very much a switch, preferably looking for other switches for powerplay dynamics and more exploration, particularly interested in trying some rope play.
Thanks for reading. If you want extra points with me, say the word Pineapple, so I know you have taken the time to read.
ah you’ve found me, british brat.. I’ve got a loud mouth, full of attitude, addicted to tattoos, the gym and I have pretty feet 🗣️💅🏻🦶🏻
🔑 to my heart? food, gifts, humour
you’ll be addicted to me in no time 💅🏻
any pronouns || 🇵🇭🇬🇧 ||
found a few things I like (some have surprised me more than others) but im still figuring a lot out and stuff. pretty open to most things but like just ask :)
There are a number of kinks that I am currently exploring; ANR/ABF but not for adult babies, I’d love to try this with another woman. A cuckold/stag dynamic is also of interest, but you can’t be a sissy and I don’t want to humiliate you. Cuckqueans, I might be interested in being a cuckcake if I’m attracted to your man.
I have a weakness for married men, if you consider yourself to be a pleasure dom, need an escape on a regular basis, then drop me a message.
Whatever the situation, there needs to be a strong connection, an attraction and a feeling of safety. I’m attracted to curvy, feminine ladies and masculine men.
UPDATE:
My standards are high, so I’m very selective with who I engage with, and I expect you to be the same. If you send a 100 messages in a day, that’s an act of desperation and a sign of low self esteem, none of which are appealing.
To me attraction and integrity are paramount. I will ask for a face pic early on and will say if you’re not for me. Please don’t fit or change your narrative to align with my wants and desires,again it’s a sign of desperation. I’m under no obligation to chat with you if you send me a message, nor continue a conversation if we have chatted before. Sometimes I might need a nudge to respond, but keep it light. If you bombard me with messages, I’m going to assume you lack the emotional intelligence to handle any form of friendship. Every interaction made is a glimpse into your personality, sometimes it’s the things that aren’t said that show off your true authentic self.
i like anything to do with nature.love a good camp out in my car or photography. Love having a good time festivals raves anywhere the music is so if u like dnb,techno,hardstyle,trance we willget along great. abit weird and like making new friends although not very good at it sometimes lol. 😍🤣 i love tattoos, piercings,***s and gaming😘😘can’t see likes so message me
Hi! I’m MJ. im relatively new to the kink scene and im excited to build community and explore desires!
I’m a lesbian, singer, dancer, writer, astrologer, activist, witch and crisp enthusiast.
drop me a message and say hi!
• I’m shy at first, but very responsive once I feel safe. I value depth, emotional intelligence, and genuine connection. Kink is important to me, but it lives within a relationship - not a replacement for one.
• I’m sub-leaning and happiest staying in that lane. I don't Dom or switch - not even a little. I enjoy being guided with intention, measured control and self-assured energy that is always collaborative and attuned.
• I tend to fantasise more about the emotional side of kink than ticking off specific acts. I’m always open to new experiences when there’s trust, communication, and care behind them.
At this point I’m looking to build something with one person rather than navigating group dynamics. Depth over novelty.
28, married, confident, and a little bit mischievous. I’m here with full honesty and consent, exploring the kink world one tempting conversation at a time. I love teasing energy, playful banter, and people who know how to flirt with respect and confidence.
No drama, just fun and chemistry
I am a girl who has ADHD and loves to read. I have a little pet rat who is so cute but getting old. I love ***s and would have many, if I had the space. I would love to meet a strong and confident person who is my age or a little older.
I am looking for someone who is interested in building something. Who will treat me with respect and talk to me like I'm a person and not just a set of boobs or holes to play with.
It is important for me to build trust and have common interests.
I am a sub and I absolutely cannot switch. I have a lot of kinks I would like to explore but I am still very new. I know I want to please, and I am not a brat.
Sent me a message but remember, I'm a person.
Fully monogamous I won't do non-monogamy in any shape or form. I have nothing against it but it's not for me.
Not my first time on this site, so I know most people don't even look at descriptions anyways.
I'm young but have known about the amazing world of bdsm for years, so know more about it then some of you realise, am not interested in a quick fuck with some spanking nor am I interested in some abusive relationship that you wanna pretend is a 24/7 master slave dynamic, I'm up for 24/7 but I still want freedom and to not be treated like crap.
Favourite movies are harry potter and avatar and I can't ever say no to an old barbie movie._emphasized text_
My favourite TV shows are game of thrones, family guy things like that.
Any other questions just ask away I get quite anxious so sorry if you don't get a reply straight away (or ever)
Just here for the chat, see what happens. Happy to talk with any onein the main chat room. Not seeking men. I am Bisexual by nature, not curious this has long left my vocabulary.
Hey there.
In a relationship, and really into swinging. Also looking for a solo female to join me and my partner to play with.
Message if you are interested
Hey all, I'm Phoenix,
I have been active in the community for about 5 years at this point and am very confident in my position in where I fit in to the kink space, I am privileged in the fact that I am the submissive/property/fiancée of my Dominant and I could not be happier with this arrangement.
Our non kink life will always come first and neither of us have any intention of changing that ❤️❤️
If you would like to get to know me just message. I'm looking for kinky like minded friend to talk with about the community and life etc
My Dom and I are also open to the idea of playing with others as well however there needs to be a level of friendship first. If we don't get along out side the bedroom we wont get along inside it. Sir and I only play with other people if we are together we don't meet up solo.
In the interest of full transparency my dom/ fiancee will have full access to any messages if he wishes, it's not a control thing it is a mutal respect thing as I have access to his messages too.
All respectful comments are appreciated.
Unwanted comments about what you would do to me will result in you getting blocked!
I am owned and collared by my Sir.
I DON'T SEND NUDES PICS OR VIDEOS SO DON'T BOTHER ASKING!!
Looking for a Bull to join me and my cuck, these are to be one offs and not long term arrangements. Messages are welcome and will be shared with him as I want him to be turned on by them, we will not exchange numbers or last names.
Hey,
My Domme side is currently looking for Content Subs/Slaves to serve for a range of kinks including pet play, impact play, facesitting, farting, foot worship ect. the more humiliating the hotter. I'm a strict but sensual Domme
I would like to build an ongoing D/S relationship with the right submissive on a personal level as well
I'm happy to join a couple as a Domme to dominate one of the partners together
My submissive side would like to meet a guy for regular NSA rimming & deep throat fun initially, maybe more
Thanks, Soph x
In a vanilla relationship, I need the excitement from somewhere else in my life. I am open to meeting - NSA.
I enjoy you taking over my body, teasing, eating, biting, whipping, choking, CNC, clamping, paddles. I will usually try anything once!!
Looking for a long-term emotional, mental, and physical connection with a local male (less than 40 miles from Hampshire). Gen x and 420 friendly desireable, for regular kinky and vanilla adventures.
Drop me a message, introducing yourself.
Note that any first responses that are sexually, lack thought, or just 'how are you?' will be blocked. As I won't trust you and will not be wasting my time.
Hey there
Thank you for stopping by my profile. My name is Cherry. i am 36 year old Domme from southampton.
Face photos kept private only due to professional boundaries
i am happily married.
i am not seeking any play partners or play. as my husband/ sub are my only play partner.
i am here for events, networking, and getting to know the wider kink community.
little FYI, leave the honorifics for your well negotiated, consented, and established dynamics. i am NOT your Mistress, Mommy, Domme,Goddess, or whatever D type honorific you use. your dm will go unread, deleted, and possibly blocked.
I have taken down my face pics just to protect myself a little more! Feel free to ask me and I’m happy to send privately and will not be offended if you don’t like the look of me ?
Chunky Monkey ? 5’3 and wear a size 18 so if you’re into BBW … great stuff ??
I would class myself as very diverse. I’m intrigued by all types of submission whether it be sub , pet, little/middle ... I’m very open minded and always looking to explore more.
My top kinks I would say are impact play, ddlg, ***, tears, ***, orgasm denial!
I’m not overly keen on casual meet ups or hook ups as I need a level of trust with someone to allow myself to fully submit and feel comfortable. I am forever learning and still have areas I would love to explore more of - cnc, kidnap/***, wax play, *** and probably lots lots more
The dream is to live DS as close to 24/7 as I can with someone I trust and adore ?
single mama ♥️
Brat, interested in finding those who enjoy taming brats or more brats specifically.
Fair warning: I don’t give away submission for free; it’s earned.
Note: I’m only interested in real-world connections. If you’re looking for "online fun," I’m not the one.
I’m naturally dominant in presence and energy. The dynamic that fits me is a devotional LTR, with submission gifted by the sub rather than demanded by me. The closest archetype that fits how I am, would be a Goddess Domme. I don’t instruct someone into submission; the right person is naturally submissive and enjoys discovering, through trial and error, what pleases me. I’ll allow what pleases me and gently decline what doesn’t.
My dominance is feminine in nature, so I don’t pursue or lead the dating ritual. I enjoy being romanced. I appreciate submissives who take initiative, plan dates, and enjoy learning what delights me. I particularly enjoy being presented with options and giving feedback.
I value emotional intelligence, steadiness, and authenticity. Character and behaviour matter more to me than claims or labels.
I’m not interested in kink discussions with strangers, and I don’t enjoy long online messaging. The intimate side of a dynamic only reveals itself once trust, romantic connection, and compatibility exist in person.
When intimacy exists, my pleasure comes first. The right kind of submissive finds fulfillment in that.
I take D/s seriously and I am not abusive. I see submission as a gift, and allowing a submissive to please me as a gift from me to them
Looking for friendship… with a bit of chaos. I can be the best influence or the worst—depends on the mood. Switch energy. open to a third. more looking for some naughty FF.
also do have daddy issues, so if you a fit old man who loves to be called daddy shout me.
Still new to the scene, but I know what draws me in the idea of being guided, challenged, and completely letting go in the right hands. I’ve never properly explored my submissive side before, but it’s something I think about often and would love to experience with someone confident, patient, and who understands the importance of trust.
There are a number of kinks that I am currently exploring; ANR/ABF but not for adult babies, I’d love to try this with another woman. A cuckold/stag dynamic is also of interest, but you can’t be a sissy and I don’t want to humiliate you. Cuckqueans, I might be interested in being a cuckcake if I’m attracted to your man.
I have a weakness for married men, if you consider yourself to be a pleasure dom, need an escape on a regular basis, then drop me a message.
Whatever the situation, there needs to be a strong connection, an attraction and a feeling of safety. I’m attracted to curvy, feminine ladies and masculine men.
UPDATE:
My standards are high, so I’m very selective with who I engage with, and I expect you to be the same. If you send a 100 messages in a day, that’s an act of desperation and a sign of low self esteem, none of which are appealing.
To me attraction and integrity are paramount. I will ask for a face pic early on and will say if you’re not for me. Please don’t fit or change your narrative to align with my wants and desires,again it’s a sign of desperation. I’m under no obligation to chat with you if you send me a message, nor continue a conversation if we have chatted before. Sometimes I might need a nudge to respond, but keep it light. If you bombard me with messages, I’m going to assume you lack the emotional intelligence to handle any form of friendship. Every interaction made is a glimpse into your personality, sometimes it’s the things that aren’t said that show off your true authentic self.
Newish wife to everything, looking for respectful men that would like to have some fun while by husband watches and possibly takes some pics/vids.
Prefer black guys or do have a preference for older gents 60+
Open to meeting women to (Would be on my own as it’s very new to me still)
Please either have a profile picture or send one because I won’t reply without it
i like anything to do with nature.love a good camp out in my car or photography. Love having a good time festivals raves anywhere the music is so if u like dnb,techno,hardstyle,trance we willget along great. abit weird and like making new friends although not very good at it sometimes lol. 😍🤣 i love tattoos, piercings,***s and gaming😘😘can’t see likes so message me
Back again 🥺
I'm a submissive (with a bratty and/or little side*), looking for a dominant to build a deep connection and relationship with. I've been interested in this world for several years, but my experience is relatively small. I'm a tall girl with long legs who wants to feel small and cared for as well as controlled and tamed. I can be pretty sassy... that's my bratty side but also very gentle and sensitive (my little side needs lots of comfort) My biggest desire is to serve and earn praise.
*I'm not a very extreme little in that I don't use baby things nor do I want to be treated as such, I just love a good cuddle and lots of plushies
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