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• I’m shy at first, but very responsive once I feel safe. I value depth, emotional intelligence, and genuine connection. Kink is important to me, but it lives within a relationship - not a replacement for one.
• I’m sub-leaning and happiest staying in that lane. I don't Dom or switch - not even a little. I enjoy being guided with intention, measured control and self-assured energy that is always collaborative and attuned.
• I tend to fantasise more about the emotional side of kink than ticking off specific acts. I’m always open to new experiences when there’s trust, communication, and care behind them.
At this point I’m looking to build something with one person rather than navigating group dynamics. Depth over novelty.
Hi, I'm wild
I like to be pushed by them. I have found in my recent experiences that i liked things even when at the time ,i hated them.
This was because the person inflicting them on me was enjoying it.
I have an need urge deep within to be someone's toy be it *** or sex toy.
I have been playing for quite a while, the things I really love are mental play, impact play so whips ,caning flogging
I'm looking for a single experienced dominant within the uk .
I'm not looking for online nor casual or ONS.
I'm looking for real time and for the person to date me as well as the kink.
im into impact play all kinds of,bondage, sexual use, mental games , humilation,pet play etc
i love to please ....
It’s been far too long since I’ve had genuinely satisfying sex(sience my last trip to Italy in 2025), so I’m here to change that. 😉
I’m looking for a confident, masculine man who knows how to take the lead and genuinely enjoys pleasing a woman. No relationship needed, no drama, no mixed signals. I’m not interested in women or threesomes.
Sometimes I want slow, sensual sex. Sometimes I want it hard and intense.
I love latex and I have a lot of kindy costumes… 😈
Spanking, toys, especially when you’re the one using them on me 🥵, amateur video, experimenting…
I’m open-minded and curious about plenty.
Good chemistry, confidence, communication and knowing what you’re doing will get my attention. 😉
would love to be a woman between two men or a unicorn for a straight couple, looking to chat and make friends with similar interests. have good conversations and hopefully learn some stuff about myself
PLEASE NOTE I DO NOT SEE ANYONE UNDER 35 NO EXCEPTIONS
I am a confident 55 year old self reliant woman, I do not need a man to validate me, I am happy and comfortable in my own skin. I am very dominant and I enjoy taking men & women on a journey of self discovery, if its, control, punishment, or just some good old fashioned seduction I deliver on all.
If you are looking to escape from the trappings of your ordinary life for a while, discover a side of you that sits just below the surface that is begging to be released then you are right where you need to be.
All you need to be is brave enough to drop me a message then we can get better.
Services I offer.
GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE - CONTROL - FOOT WORSHIP - NYLONS - JOI - CHASTITY - SPH - SEDUCTION - TRAMPLING - SHOE/BOOT WORSHIP - *** - ORGASM DENIAL - TOYS - BALLOON - TIE & TEASE - CROSS DRESSING - BALL BUSTING/CRUSHING - VERBAL *** - EDGING - PHOTOGRAPHY - DOMESTIC DUTIES - SENSORY DEPRIVATION - ROLEPLAY - CANING- BEING FILMED - TOYS - PLAYMATE - BI SESSIONS ( FEMALE/MALE) - FETISH - FEMALE TO FEMALE SENSUAL MASSAGE -TABOO FETISHES CATERED FOR
Lily
Hey there
Thank you for stopping by my profile. My name is Cherry. i am 36 year old Domme from southampton.
Face photos kept private only due to professional boundaries
i am happily married.
i am not seeking any play partners or play. as my husband/ sub are my only play partner.
i am here for events, networking, and getting to know the wider kink community.
little FYI, leave the honorifics for your well negotiated, consented, and established dynamics. i am NOT your Mistress, Mommy, Domme,Goddess, or whatever D type honorific you use. your dm will go unread, deleted, and possibly blocked.
Just a nerdy kinky girl! In my spare time i like to be outdoors and when indoors i like playing.
Not really much more to say. Im a shy girl. I have a thing for men with beards, tattoos and loves ***s
Looking for a long-term emotional, mental, and physical connection with a local male (less than 40 miles from Hampshire). Gen x and 420 friendly desireable, for regular kinky and vanilla adventures.
Drop me a message, introducing yourself.
Note that any first responses that are sexually, lack thought, or just 'how are you?' will be blocked. As I won't trust you and will not be wasting my time.
Single mum who is loving and caring.
I have a good sense of humour and like to bring cheer to others.
In a vanilla relationship, I need the excitement from somewhere else in my life. I am open to meeting - NSA.
I enjoy you taking over my body, teasing, eating, biting, whipping, choking, CNC, clamping, paddles. I will usually try anything once!!
I have taken down my face pics just to protect myself a little more! Feel free to ask me and I’m happy to send privately and will not be offended if you don’t like the look of me ?
Chunky Monkey ? 5’3 and wear a size 18 so if you’re into BBW … great stuff ??
I would class myself as very diverse. I’m intrigued by all types of submission whether it be sub , pet, little/middle ... I’m very open minded and always looking to explore more.
My top kinks I would say are impact play, ddlg, ***, tears, ***, orgasm denial!
I’m not overly keen on casual meet ups or hook ups as I need a level of trust with someone to allow myself to fully submit and feel comfortable. I am forever learning and still have areas I would love to explore more of - cnc, kidnap/***, wax play, *** and probably lots lots more
The dream is to live DS as close to 24/7 as I can with someone I trust and adore ?
single mama ♥️
I’m open-minded, genuine, and know exactly what I enjoy. One of my biggest turn-ons is the anticipation of desperately needing to ***, and I occasionally enjoy wearing nappies to bed or sometimes during the day. I’m looking for someone who is understanding, non-judgemental, and interested in exploring shared interests with honesty, trust, and mutual respect.
Desires & Fantasies
* The anticipation of being bursting to ***.
* ***ing on a man’s lap as part of a consensual fantasy.
* Finding someone who shares or understands this interest.
* Exploring my interests together in a safe, respectful, and consensual way.
Hey all, I'm Phoenix,
I have been active in the community for about 5 years at this point and am very confident in my position in where I fit in to the kink space, I am privileged in the fact that I am the submissive/property/fiancée of my Dominant and I could not be happier with this arrangement.
Our non kink life will always come first and neither of us have any intention of changing that ❤️❤️
If you would like to get to know me just message. I'm looking for kinky like minded friend to talk with about the community and life etc
My Dom and I are also open to the idea of playing with others as well however there needs to be a level of friendship first. If we don't get along out side the bedroom we wont get along inside it. Sir and I only play with other people if we are together we don't meet up solo.
In the interest of full transparency my dom/ fiancee will have full access to any messages if he wishes, it's not a control thing it is a mutal respect thing as I have access to his messages too.
All respectful comments are appreciated.
Unwanted comments about what you would do to me will result in you getting blocked!
I am owned and collared by my Sir.
I DON'T SEND NUDES PICS OR VIDEOS SO DON'T BOTHER ASKING!!
Hey there.
In a relationship, and really into swinging. Also looking for a solo female to join me and my partner to play with.
Message if you are interested
About me
29
Female
Neurodivergent
Work as a training apprentice
Busy lifestyle between seeing family, friends, regular zoo visits, life in general.
Curious about most things within kink but very much a novice
Likes
Reading (romance and fantasy predominantly)
Disney
DreamWorks
Halloween (spooky not scary)
Stuffies
Gummy sweeties
Lego
Going to the zoo
D&D
LARP
Dislikes
Time wasters
Dick pics as an introduction
Needles
Wants
Online only
Friendship
Patience
A partner willing to teach and grow with me
Don't care if I'm not your only partner but I don't want to feel like a afterthought
Ideally DDlg dynamic to start but willing to expand from there
fun, submissive- not new to this I’ve had a few dynamics in the past and just can never see myself going back to vanilla. open to casual/nsa but would be nice to find something a bit more serious (im aware this isn’t the place for that but im way too kinky for tinder) x
Daddy kink is my personality, I love looking like an innocent girl while being naughty inside
Especially for anyone men that want someone younger to have a bit of fun with 🤭
mostly looking for hookups whilst I’m at university- university of Reading
and if you want to make me time even better with some *** k would be so grateful xx
I’m a submissive, not a switch. However, I am a bratty submissive so given the chance, I will definitely try my luck!
Recently single, mum of two. Very much into dom/sub relationships, though never experienced one in my physical life unfortunately. I have done some online stuff, but looking for an ‘in person’ relationship, rather than online.
Tall… 6ft basically 😭 so looking for a taller dom or at least the same height as me. This is a major boundary for me, due to being insecure about my own height so if you are shorter than 6’, I am sorry but we won’t work out.
My major interests are bondage, BDSM, edging, ***d orgasms and impact play.
I have a MASSIVE praise kink, and would rather be called a good girl than a whore.
My neck is my weak spot and I like being marked.
And CNC is my biggest fantasy I wanna try.
I’m here out of curiosity, just seeing who and what is out there. If I’m interested I’ll message you first or respond to yours. If there is silence on my part, please take it that I wish you well, but I’m not interested.
Feel free to like the pics, consider them a gift… you’re welcome x
Married, happily exploring and seeing what’s out there. Open-minded, playful and always up for meeting new people and seeing where the chemistry takes us. Not looking to meet alone — my husband is part of the fun. Here for good vibes, mutual respect and a little bit of mischief. 😉
lealeacage on socials x
Im autistic but have a kinky side. Behind closed doors I love being taken care of in more ways than one. I am strictly monogamous and not interested in men or Penis at all.
hello! tell me what you want to do to me and we’ll see if we fit (I’m still quite new to the lifestyle)
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• I’m shy at first, but very responsive once I feel safe. I value depth, emotional intelligence, and genuine connection. Kink is important to me, but it lives within a relationship - not a replacement for one.
• I’m sub-leaning and happiest staying in that lane. I don't Dom or switch - not even a little. I enjoy being guided with intention, measured control and self-assured energy that is always collaborative and attuned.
• I tend to fantasise more about the emotional side of kink than ticking off specific acts. I’m always open to new experiences when there’s trust, communication, and care behind them.
At this point I’m looking to build something with one person rather than navigating group dynamics. Depth over novelty.
About me
29
Female
Neurodivergent
Work as a training apprentice
Busy lifestyle between seeing family, friends, regular zoo visits, life in general.
Curious about most things within kink but very much a novice
Likes
Reading (romance and fantasy predominantly)
Disney
DreamWorks
Halloween (spooky not scary)
Stuffies
Gummy sweeties
Lego
Going to the zoo
D&D
LARP
Dislikes
Time wasters
Dick pics as an introduction
Needles
Wants
Online only
Friendship
Patience
A partner willing to teach and grow with me
Don't care if I'm not your only partner but I don't want to feel like a afterthought
Ideally DDlg dynamic to start but willing to expand from there
It’s been far too long since I’ve had genuinely satisfying sex(sience my last trip to Italy in 2025), so I’m here to change that. 😉
I’m looking for a confident, masculine man who knows how to take the lead and genuinely enjoys pleasing a woman. No relationship needed, no drama, no mixed signals. I’m not interested in women or threesomes.
Sometimes I want slow, sensual sex. Sometimes I want it hard and intense.
I love latex and I have a lot of kindy costumes… 😈
Spanking, toys, especially when you’re the one using them on me 🥵, amateur video, experimenting…
I’m open-minded and curious about plenty.
Good chemistry, confidence, communication and knowing what you’re doing will get my attention. 😉
Just a nerdy kinky girl! In my spare time i like to be outdoors and when indoors i like playing.
Not really much more to say. Im a shy girl. I have a thing for men with beards, tattoos and loves ***s
would love to be a woman between two men or a unicorn for a straight couple, looking to chat and make friends with similar interests. have good conversations and hopefully learn some stuff about myself
Hey there.
In a relationship, and really into swinging. Also looking for a solo female to join me and my partner to play with.
Message if you are interested
Single mum who is loving and caring.
I have a good sense of humour and like to bring cheer to others.
Hey all, I'm Phoenix,
I have been active in the community for about 5 years at this point and am very confident in my position in where I fit in to the kink space, I am privileged in the fact that I am the submissive/property/fiancée of my Dominant and I could not be happier with this arrangement.
Our non kink life will always come first and neither of us have any intention of changing that ❤️❤️
If you would like to get to know me just message. I'm looking for kinky like minded friend to talk with about the community and life etc
My Dom and I are also open to the idea of playing with others as well however there needs to be a level of friendship first. If we don't get along out side the bedroom we wont get along inside it. Sir and I only play with other people if we are together we don't meet up solo.
In the interest of full transparency my dom/ fiancee will have full access to any messages if he wishes, it's not a control thing it is a mutal respect thing as I have access to his messages too.
All respectful comments are appreciated.
Unwanted comments about what you would do to me will result in you getting blocked!
I am owned and collared by my Sir.
I DON'T SEND NUDES PICS OR VIDEOS SO DON'T BOTHER ASKING!!
Hi, I'm wild
I like to be pushed by them. I have found in my recent experiences that i liked things even when at the time ,i hated them.
This was because the person inflicting them on me was enjoying it.
I have an need urge deep within to be someone's toy be it *** or sex toy.
I have been playing for quite a while, the things I really love are mental play, impact play so whips ,caning flogging
I'm looking for a single experienced dominant within the uk .
I'm not looking for online nor casual or ONS.
I'm looking for real time and for the person to date me as well as the kink.
im into impact play all kinds of,bondage, sexual use, mental games , humilation,pet play etc
i love to please ....
In a vanilla relationship, I need the excitement from somewhere else in my life. I am open to meeting - NSA.
I enjoy you taking over my body, teasing, eating, biting, whipping, choking, CNC, clamping, paddles. I will usually try anything once!!
Looking for a long-term emotional, mental, and physical connection with a local male (less than 40 miles from Hampshire). Gen x and 420 friendly desireable, for regular kinky and vanilla adventures.
Drop me a message, introducing yourself.
Note that any first responses that are sexually, lack thought, or just 'how are you?' will be blocked. As I won't trust you and will not be wasting my time.
Hey there
Thank you for stopping by my profile. My name is Cherry. i am 36 year old Domme from southampton.
Face photos kept private only due to professional boundaries
i am happily married.
i am not seeking any play partners or play. as my husband/ sub are my only play partner.
i am here for events, networking, and getting to know the wider kink community.
little FYI, leave the honorifics for your well negotiated, consented, and established dynamics. i am NOT your Mistress, Mommy, Domme,Goddess, or whatever D type honorific you use. your dm will go unread, deleted, and possibly blocked.
I have taken down my face pics just to protect myself a little more! Feel free to ask me and I’m happy to send privately and will not be offended if you don’t like the look of me ?
Chunky Monkey ? 5’3 and wear a size 18 so if you’re into BBW … great stuff ??
I would class myself as very diverse. I’m intrigued by all types of submission whether it be sub , pet, little/middle ... I’m very open minded and always looking to explore more.
My top kinks I would say are impact play, ddlg, ***, tears, ***, orgasm denial!
I’m not overly keen on casual meet ups or hook ups as I need a level of trust with someone to allow myself to fully submit and feel comfortable. I am forever learning and still have areas I would love to explore more of - cnc, kidnap/***, wax play, *** and probably lots lots more
The dream is to live DS as close to 24/7 as I can with someone I trust and adore ?
single mama ♥️
PLEASE NOTE I DO NOT SEE ANYONE UNDER 35 NO EXCEPTIONS
I am a confident 55 year old self reliant woman, I do not need a man to validate me, I am happy and comfortable in my own skin. I am very dominant and I enjoy taking men & women on a journey of self discovery, if its, control, punishment, or just some good old fashioned seduction I deliver on all.
If you are looking to escape from the trappings of your ordinary life for a while, discover a side of you that sits just below the surface that is begging to be released then you are right where you need to be.
All you need to be is brave enough to drop me a message then we can get better.
Services I offer.
GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE - CONTROL - FOOT WORSHIP - NYLONS - JOI - CHASTITY - SPH - SEDUCTION - TRAMPLING - SHOE/BOOT WORSHIP - *** - ORGASM DENIAL - TOYS - BALLOON - TIE & TEASE - CROSS DRESSING - BALL BUSTING/CRUSHING - VERBAL *** - EDGING - PHOTOGRAPHY - DOMESTIC DUTIES - SENSORY DEPRIVATION - ROLEPLAY - CANING- BEING FILMED - TOYS - PLAYMATE - BI SESSIONS ( FEMALE/MALE) - FETISH - FEMALE TO FEMALE SENSUAL MASSAGE -TABOO FETISHES CATERED FOR
Lily
I’m open-minded, genuine, and know exactly what I enjoy. One of my biggest turn-ons is the anticipation of desperately needing to ***, and I occasionally enjoy wearing nappies to bed or sometimes during the day. I’m looking for someone who is understanding, non-judgemental, and interested in exploring shared interests with honesty, trust, and mutual respect.
Desires & Fantasies
* The anticipation of being bursting to ***.
* ***ing on a man’s lap as part of a consensual fantasy.
* Finding someone who shares or understands this interest.
* Exploring my interests together in a safe, respectful, and consensual way.
Im autistic but have a kinky side. Behind closed doors I love being taken care of in more ways than one. I am strictly monogamous and not interested in men or Penis at all.
fun, submissive- not new to this I’ve had a few dynamics in the past and just can never see myself going back to vanilla. open to casual/nsa but would be nice to find something a bit more serious (im aware this isn’t the place for that but im way too kinky for tinder) x
Married, happily exploring and seeing what’s out there. Open-minded, playful and always up for meeting new people and seeing where the chemistry takes us. Not looking to meet alone — my husband is part of the fun. Here for good vibes, mutual respect and a little bit of mischief. 😉
lealeacage on socials x
Recently got out of a three year relationship, and now looking for more experience with someone close by instead of anything long distance. Looking for someone ASAP who can handle brat behaviour,who is willing to meet up on weekends, and will do everything they stated over texts. I won’t show my face on my profile for work reasons but if you communicate with me well I will have no problem sending you pictures of my face. All my description on here for what I look like is accurate, and I would also in return appreciate honesty from you! Just want to meet good people who will be upfront and kinky😌Just a warning I have no filter and I will ask a lot of questions to make sure we are on the same page and I won’t be wasting my time!
I’m a submissive, not a switch. However, I am a bratty submissive so given the chance, I will definitely try my luck!
Recently single, mum of two. Very much into dom/sub relationships, though never experienced one in my physical life unfortunately. I have done some online stuff, but looking for an ‘in person’ relationship, rather than online.
Tall… 6ft basically 😭 so looking for a taller dom or at least the same height as me. This is a major boundary for me, due to being insecure about my own height so if you are shorter than 6’, I am sorry but we won’t work out.
My major interests are bondage, BDSM, edging, ***d orgasms and impact play.
I have a MASSIVE praise kink, and would rather be called a good girl than a whore.
My neck is my weak spot and I like being marked.
And CNC is my biggest fantasy I wanna try.
I’m a submissive at heart, with a bratty streak…. well very bratty at times ahh as well as bit of slave-leaning obedience, and a soft spot for DD/lg energy. Im a mixture and fluctuate between them.
I need a Dom I can trust so the dynamic can really flourish and I’m really interested in the psychological side of kink as-well so let me know if you are to.
I know my hard limits but also still learning if I have others. I have some experience but needing to be guided and taught the rest.
I’m definitely feeling a little deprived… maybe more than a little, haha.
Please don’t take my slow replies personally and I’m very much real ☺️
Outside of all this I love BJJ, Mauy Thai, Reading and Writing books and Little Woody adventures to haha
Tattooed, red headed, nerdy, curvy rock chick.
Only looking for friendship and events atm.
I'm currently just trying out this new lifestyle (new and curious!) - I'm open to meeting new people and new experiences!
Hi
I’m a submissive that wants to explore. I’m fairly new to this lifestyle. Looking for a Dominant to help me with this. I’m looking for a Dominant that isn’t attached and that wants a submissive for long term, one on one and possibly a relationship. I have tried to fill in as much detail in my profile as possible while maintaining privacy. I’m happy to chat and answer more questions as we get to know each other.
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