• I’m shy at first, but very responsive once I feel safe. I value depth, emotional intelligence, and genuine connection. Kink is important to me, but it lives within a relationship - not a replacement for one.
• I’m sub-leaning and happiest staying in that lane. I don't Dom or switch - not even a little. I enjoy being guided with intention, measured control and self-assured energy that is always collaborative and attuned.
• I tend to fantasise more about the emotional side of kink than ticking off specific acts. I’m always open to new experiences when there’s trust, communication, and care behind them.
At this point I’m looking to build something with one person rather than navigating group dynamics. Depth over novelty.
I’m here for a good time, not to take things too seriously... but I definitely know what I like 😏
I’ve got a man at home who keeps me very well taken care of but that doesn’t stop me enjoying a bit of attention, teasing, and fun along the way. Think playful energy, a little bit cheeky, and just enough mischief to keep things interesting.
Just to be clearI don’t meet without my man present. He’s straight, very much part of my world, and everything we do is on our terms. If anything ever goes further, it’s something we experience together.
I’m into connection, banter, and building a bit of tension... not just jumping straight to the obvious. If you can hold a conversation and make me laugh, you’re already doing better than most.
Yes, I create content over on *** and anything we do is filmed, so as long as everyone’s comfortable and happy, it may be used for content. Transparency is important to me, and I like people to know exactly what they’re stepping into.
I’m on here because I genuinely enjoy the vibe, the people, and the freedom to explore and flirt a little without pressure.
If you’re respectful, a bit bold, and know how to tease without being over the top... we’ll get along just fine.
Come say hi......don’t be boring about it 😉
check out my socials *** (Instagram) @lealeavip (OF)
PLEASE NOTE I DO NOT SEE ANYONE UNDER 35 NO EXCEPTIONS
I am a confident 55 year old self reliant woman, I do not need a man to validate me, I am happy and comfortable in my own skin. I am very dominant and I enjoy taking men & women on a journey of self discovery, if its, control, punishment, or just some good old fashioned seduction I deliver on all.
If you are looking to escape from the trappings of your ordinary life for a while, discover a side of you that sits just below the surface that is begging to be released then you are right where you need to be.
All you need to be is brave enough to drop me a message then we can get better.
Services I offer.
GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE - CONTROL - FOOT WORSHIP - NYLONS - JOI - CHASTITY - SPH - SEDUCTION - TRAMPLING - SHOE/BOOT WORSHIP - *** - ORGASM DENIAL - TOYS - BALLOON - TIE & TEASE - CROSS DRESSING - BALL BUSTING/CRUSHING - VERBAL *** - EDGING - PHOTOGRAPHY - DOMESTIC DUTIES - SENSORY DEPRIVATION - ROLEPLAY - CANING- BEING FILMED - TOYS - PLAYMATE - BI SESSIONS ( FEMALE/MALE) - FETISH - FEMALE TO FEMALE SENSUAL MASSAGE -TABOO FETISHES CATERED FOR
Lily
In a vanilla relationship, I need the excitement from somewhere else in my life. I am open to meeting - NSA.
I enjoy you taking over my body, teasing, eating, biting, whipping, choking, CNC, clamping, paddles. I will usually try anything once!!
Hi, I'm wild
I like to be pushed by them. I have found in my recent experiences that i liked things even when at the time ,i hated them.
This was because the person inflicting them on me was enjoying it.
I have an need urge deep within to be someone's toy be it *** or sex toy.
I have been playing for quite a while, the things I really love are mental play, impact play so whips ,caning flogging
I'm not looking for online nor casual or ONS.
I'm looking for real time and for the person to date me as well as the kink.
im into impact play all kinds of,bondage, sexual use, mental games , humilation,pet play etc
i love to please ....
I’m open-minded, genuine, and know exactly what I enjoy. One of my biggest turn-ons is the anticipation of desperately needing to ***, and I occasionally enjoy wearing nappies to bed or sometimes during the day. I’m looking for someone who is understanding, non-judgemental, and interested in exploring shared interests with honesty, trust, and mutual respect.
Desires & Fantasies
* The anticipation of being bursting to ***.
* ***ing on a man’s lap as part of a consensual fantasy.
* Finding someone who shares or understands this interest.
* Exploring my interests together in a safe, respectful, and consensual way.
Just a nerdy kinky girl! In my spare time i like to be outdoors and when indoors i like playing.
Not really much more to say. Im a shy girl. I have a thing for men with beards, tattoos and loves ***s
Hey,
My Domme side is currently looking for Content Subs/Slaves to serve for a range of kinks including pet play, impact play, facesitting, farting, foot worship ect. the more humiliating the hotter. I'm a strict but sensual Domme.
Thanks, Soph x
I am a girl who has ADHD and loves to read. I have a little pet rat who is so cute but getting old. I love ***s and would have many, if I had the space. I would love to meet a strong and confident person who is my age or a little older.
I am looking for someone who is interested in building something. Who will treat me with respect and talk to me like I'm a person and not just a set of boobs or holes to play with.
It is important for me to build trust and have common interests.
I am a sub and I absolutely cannot switch. I have a lot of kinks I would like to explore but I am still very new. I know I want to please, and I am not a brat.
Sent me a message but remember, I'm a person.
Looking for a long-term emotional, mental, and physical connection with a local male (less than 40 miles from Hampshire). Gen x and 420 friendly desireable, for regular kinky and vanilla adventures.
Drop me a message, introducing yourself.
Note that any first responses that are sexually, lack thought, or just 'how are you?' will be blocked. As I won't trust you and will not be wasting my time.
Hey all, I'm Phoenix,
I have been active in the community for about 5 years at this point and am very confident in my position in where I fit in to the kink space, I am privileged in the fact that I am the submissive/property/fiancée of my Dominant and I could not be happier with this arrangement.
Our non kink life will always come first and neither of us have any intention of changing that ❤️❤️
If you would like to get to know me just message. I'm looking for kinky like minded friend to talk with about the community and life etc
My Dom and I are also open to the idea of playing with others as well however there needs to be a level of friendship first. If we don't get along out side the bedroom we wont get along inside it. Sir and I only play with other people if we are together we don't meet up solo.
In the interest of full transparency my dom/ fiancee will have full access to any messages if he wishes, it's not a control thing it is a mutal respect thing as I have access to his messages too.
All respectful comments are appreciated.
Unwanted comments about what you would do to me will result in you getting blocked!
I am owned and collared by my Sir.
I DON'T SEND NUDES PICS OR VIDEOS SO DON'T BOTHER ASKING!!
I have taken down my face pics just to protect myself a little more! Feel free to ask me and I’m happy to send privately and will not be offended if you don’t like the look of me ?
Chunky Monkey ? 5’3 and wear a size 18 so if you’re into BBW … great stuff ??
I would class myself as very diverse. I’m intrigued by all types of submission whether it be sub , pet, little/middle ... I’m very open minded and always looking to explore more.
My top kinks I would say are impact play, ddlg, ***, tears, ***, orgasm denial!
I’m not overly keen on casual meet ups or hook ups as I need a level of trust with someone to allow myself to fully submit and feel comfortable. I am forever learning and still have areas I would love to explore more of - cnc, kidnap/***, wax play, *** and probably lots lots more
The dream is to live DS as close to 24/7 as I can with someone I trust and adore ?
single mama ♥️
Hey there.
In a relationship, and really into swinging. Also looking for a solo female to join me and my partner to play with.
Message if you are interested
Hey there
Thank you for stopping by my profile. My name is Cherry. i am 36 year old Domme from southampton.
Face photos kept private only due to professional boundaries
i am happily married.
i am not seeking any play partners or play. as my husband/ sub are my only play partner.
i am here for events, networking, and getting to know the wider kink community.
little FYI, leave the honorifics for your well negotiated, consented, and established dynamics. i am NOT your Mistress, Mommy, Domme,Goddess, or whatever D type honorific you use. your dm will go unread, deleted, and possibly blocked.
Tattooed, red headed, nerdy, curvy rock chick.
Looking for a dynamic within a LTR.
Interested in men who are also nerdy and listen to rock/metal. Beards are very much appreciated!
I will come back to this as I’m conscious I need to up date it. Essentially though, I’m looking for a cuckold/stag, one who loves ABF would be my ideal.
looking for fun with multiple. straight or bi is ideal, I’m very much the sub and love it. Occasionally a brat but I get very much put back into line. I like to fight back, I do not want to win. Looking for someone to… please other more than please me.
I may seem serious at first glance, my eyes reveal a depth of emotion that hints at the layers waiting to be discovered, all wrapped in a style that feels like an extension of myself, and I thrive on spontaneity, seeking adventure and humor in the oddest situations, inviting curiosity about what lies beneath the surface.
02.08 Disclaimer: In a mental funk at the moment
heyo!
ahhh what to put here
i’m looking for a relationship with a strong dynamic. i like being a pet, a brat, a princess. no mean names and imma happy girl. got a tiny bit of experience with vanilla things but aside from a hand around the throat nothing in person kinky. i have come to realise i like sweet romantic things but vanilla stuff is so boring. i don’t like being bored, i like being useful and instructed.
i tend to keep kink stuff in private, so no face but i can share later ((:
I’ve dipped in and out over the last 10 years dependant on relationships and partners at the time but wanting to explore more. I’ve realised in this last few months I’m completely submissive although a bit of a brat at times and have yet to find something that doesn’t turn me on
I am a non-binary being attracted to energies and personalities not genders, a pretty face is alright but you need the energy to match and if your energy is bad it doesn't matter how aesthetically pleasing your features are you will look ugly to me, also works in reverse if you're not conventionally attractive but you're energy is on fire your face will become irresistible to me.
Here for smut level dirty talk (I only read the fantasy ones none of this ***ing masked men shit 😅)
I'm not here for a relationship or anything possessive or just one time things, I'm looking for regular partners to explore my kinks and give me a good ol' dopamine infusion. 😏
I have ADHD and Autism so this for me means I need to be kept in the moment by little constant touches and sensory play and I need clear honest communication which if you can't manage then bye bye 😅
Also please none of this dry begging shit, it's lame, pathetic and you won't get anywhere with me. 🙄
I have a bratty side so I will need to be kept in my place and so you need to be able to handle me, pls no fake doms.
Aftercare is very important to me.
I am a switch but 80/20 sub so looking for doms with a bit of a subby side, no subs pls.
I am a pretty open book so anything else just ask ☺️✌️
Hello ;)
can someone please lick my pussyyyy for hours ?
My name is Lola and I’m looking for a new Daddy/Dom. I love to dress up in school skirts and dance around the house in anything kawaii and tight. I love cuddles, kisses and ORAAALLL
Super into age play, age gaps and being spanked like the bad little girl I am.. hehehe xxxx
Mature sub who loves dressing up/role play, restraints, shibari amongst other things. Open to trying most things but I do have limits. I would really like to explore DD/lg more with the right DD.
Looks, age etc are not as important as honesty, humour and good communication, although I do love a man with a beard! Tattoos as well gets you bonus points!
I only want to hear from genuine Doms/DDs so no time wasters please! And please don’t message me asking for nude selfies straight away. I may be slutty but I do have some class! Let’s get to know each other a bit first! I would love a Dom who has the same amount of self respect. Desperation is not sexy!
• I’m shy at first, but very responsive once I feel safe. I value depth, emotional intelligence, and genuine connection. Kink is important to me, but it lives within a relationship - not a replacement for one.
• I’m sub-leaning and happiest staying in that lane. I don't Dom or switch - not even a little. I enjoy being guided with intention, measured control and self-assured energy that is always collaborative and attuned.
• I tend to fantasise more about the emotional side of kink than ticking off specific acts. I’m always open to new experiences when there’s trust, communication, and care behind them.
At this point I’m looking to build something with one person rather than navigating group dynamics. Depth over novelty.
Just a nerdy kinky girl! In my spare time i like to be outdoors and when indoors i like playing.
Not really much more to say. Im a shy girl. I have a thing for men with beards, tattoos and loves ***s
I am a girl who has ADHD and loves to read. I have a little pet rat who is so cute but getting old. I love ***s and would have many, if I had the space. I would love to meet a strong and confident person who is my age or a little older.
I am looking for someone who is interested in building something. Who will treat me with respect and talk to me like I'm a person and not just a set of boobs or holes to play with.
It is important for me to build trust and have common interests.
I am a sub and I absolutely cannot switch. I have a lot of kinks I would like to explore but I am still very new. I know I want to please, and I am not a brat.
Sent me a message but remember, I'm a person.
I’m here for a good time, not to take things too seriously... but I definitely know what I like 😏
I’ve got a man at home who keeps me very well taken care of but that doesn’t stop me enjoying a bit of attention, teasing, and fun along the way. Think playful energy, a little bit cheeky, and just enough mischief to keep things interesting.
Just to be clearI don’t meet without my man present. He’s straight, very much part of my world, and everything we do is on our terms. If anything ever goes further, it’s something we experience together.
I’m into connection, banter, and building a bit of tension... not just jumping straight to the obvious. If you can hold a conversation and make me laugh, you’re already doing better than most.
Yes, I create content over on *** and anything we do is filmed, so as long as everyone’s comfortable and happy, it may be used for content. Transparency is important to me, and I like people to know exactly what they’re stepping into.
I’m on here because I genuinely enjoy the vibe, the people, and the freedom to explore and flirt a little without pressure.
If you’re respectful, a bit bold, and know how to tease without being over the top... we’ll get along just fine.
Come say hi......don’t be boring about it 😉
check out my socials *** (Instagram) @lealeavip (OF)
Hey there.
In a relationship, and really into swinging. Also looking for a solo female to join me and my partner to play with.
Message if you are interested
Hey all, I'm Phoenix,
I have been active in the community for about 5 years at this point and am very confident in my position in where I fit in to the kink space, I am privileged in the fact that I am the submissive/property/fiancée of my Dominant and I could not be happier with this arrangement.
Our non kink life will always come first and neither of us have any intention of changing that ❤️❤️
If you would like to get to know me just message. I'm looking for kinky like minded friend to talk with about the community and life etc
My Dom and I are also open to the idea of playing with others as well however there needs to be a level of friendship first. If we don't get along out side the bedroom we wont get along inside it. Sir and I only play with other people if we are together we don't meet up solo.
In the interest of full transparency my dom/ fiancee will have full access to any messages if he wishes, it's not a control thing it is a mutal respect thing as I have access to his messages too.
All respectful comments are appreciated.
Unwanted comments about what you would do to me will result in you getting blocked!
I am owned and collared by my Sir.
I DON'T SEND NUDES PICS OR VIDEOS SO DON'T BOTHER ASKING!!
Hi, I'm wild
I like to be pushed by them. I have found in my recent experiences that i liked things even when at the time ,i hated them.
This was because the person inflicting them on me was enjoying it.
I have an need urge deep within to be someone's toy be it *** or sex toy.
I have been playing for quite a while, the things I really love are mental play, impact play so whips ,caning flogging
I'm not looking for online nor casual or ONS.
I'm looking for real time and for the person to date me as well as the kink.
im into impact play all kinds of,bondage, sexual use, mental games , humilation,pet play etc
i love to please ....
Hey,
My Domme side is currently looking for Content Subs/Slaves to serve for a range of kinks including pet play, impact play, facesitting, farting, foot worship ect. the more humiliating the hotter. I'm a strict but sensual Domme.
Thanks, Soph x
In a vanilla relationship, I need the excitement from somewhere else in my life. I am open to meeting - NSA.
I enjoy you taking over my body, teasing, eating, biting, whipping, choking, CNC, clamping, paddles. I will usually try anything once!!
Looking for a long-term emotional, mental, and physical connection with a local male (less than 40 miles from Hampshire). Gen x and 420 friendly desireable, for regular kinky and vanilla adventures.
Drop me a message, introducing yourself.
Note that any first responses that are sexually, lack thought, or just 'how are you?' will be blocked. As I won't trust you and will not be wasting my time.
Hey there
Thank you for stopping by my profile. My name is Cherry. i am 36 year old Domme from southampton.
Face photos kept private only due to professional boundaries
i am happily married.
i am not seeking any play partners or play. as my husband/ sub are my only play partner.
i am here for events, networking, and getting to know the wider kink community.
little FYI, leave the honorifics for your well negotiated, consented, and established dynamics. i am NOT your Mistress, Mommy, Domme,Goddess, or whatever D type honorific you use. your dm will go unread, deleted, and possibly blocked.
I have taken down my face pics just to protect myself a little more! Feel free to ask me and I’m happy to send privately and will not be offended if you don’t like the look of me ?
Chunky Monkey ? 5’3 and wear a size 18 so if you’re into BBW … great stuff ??
I would class myself as very diverse. I’m intrigued by all types of submission whether it be sub , pet, little/middle ... I’m very open minded and always looking to explore more.
My top kinks I would say are impact play, ddlg, ***, tears, ***, orgasm denial!
I’m not overly keen on casual meet ups or hook ups as I need a level of trust with someone to allow myself to fully submit and feel comfortable. I am forever learning and still have areas I would love to explore more of - cnc, kidnap/***, wax play, *** and probably lots lots more
The dream is to live DS as close to 24/7 as I can with someone I trust and adore ?
single mama ♥️
PLEASE NOTE I DO NOT SEE ANYONE UNDER 35 NO EXCEPTIONS
I am a confident 55 year old self reliant woman, I do not need a man to validate me, I am happy and comfortable in my own skin. I am very dominant and I enjoy taking men & women on a journey of self discovery, if its, control, punishment, or just some good old fashioned seduction I deliver on all.
If you are looking to escape from the trappings of your ordinary life for a while, discover a side of you that sits just below the surface that is begging to be released then you are right where you need to be.
All you need to be is brave enough to drop me a message then we can get better.
Services I offer.
GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE - CONTROL - FOOT WORSHIP - NYLONS - JOI - CHASTITY - SPH - SEDUCTION - TRAMPLING - SHOE/BOOT WORSHIP - *** - ORGASM DENIAL - TOYS - BALLOON - TIE & TEASE - CROSS DRESSING - BALL BUSTING/CRUSHING - VERBAL *** - EDGING - PHOTOGRAPHY - DOMESTIC DUTIES - SENSORY DEPRIVATION - ROLEPLAY - CANING- BEING FILMED - TOYS - PLAYMATE - BI SESSIONS ( FEMALE/MALE) - FETISH - FEMALE TO FEMALE SENSUAL MASSAGE -TABOO FETISHES CATERED FOR
Lily
I’m open-minded, genuine, and know exactly what I enjoy. One of my biggest turn-ons is the anticipation of desperately needing to ***, and I occasionally enjoy wearing nappies to bed or sometimes during the day. I’m looking for someone who is understanding, non-judgemental, and interested in exploring shared interests with honesty, trust, and mutual respect.
Desires & Fantasies
* The anticipation of being bursting to ***.
* ***ing on a man’s lap as part of a consensual fantasy.
* Finding someone who shares or understands this interest.
* Exploring my interests together in a safe, respectful, and consensual way.
Tattooed, red headed, nerdy, curvy rock chick.
Looking for a dynamic within a LTR.
Interested in men who are also nerdy and listen to rock/metal. Beards are very much appreciated!
Hi
I’m a submissive that wants to explore. I’m fairly new to this lifestyle. Looking for a Dominant to help me with this. I’m looking for a Dominant that isn’t attached and that wants a submissive for long term, one on one and possibly a relationship. I have tried to fill in as much detail in my profile as possible while maintaining privacy. I’m happy to chat and answer more questions as we get to know each other.
looking for fun with multiple. straight or bi is ideal, I’m very much the sub and love it. Occasionally a brat but I get very much put back into line. I like to fight back, I do not want to win. Looking for someone to… please other more than please me.
I enjoy being fully submissive to another partner and letting them do whatever they want to me.
I enjoy receiving *** a lot
I am just looking for some good fun and good times
I may seem serious at first glance, my eyes reveal a depth of emotion that hints at the layers waiting to be discovered, all wrapped in a style that feels like an extension of myself, and I thrive on spontaneity, seeking adventure and humor in the oddest situations, inviting curiosity about what lies beneath the surface.
I'm freshly out of a relationship, so not looking for anything serious right now. Just looking for distractions.
I'm 100% a sub and completely unable to dom. I don't have many limits that I'm aware of and I'm open to basically anything. I'll try most things once.
Not posting a Profile Pic so please message me if you'd like to see what I look like :)
I am a switch though I've always lent more towards submissive, would love to be able to explore my dominant side though I have a big breeding kink too
I am looking for that certain someone who can make me feel excited again! one who with just a touch can give you goosebumps, his breath in you ear as he stands so close behind you catches your breath and his presence that will have you doing anything he asks of you and say thank you for it.
Im not looking for a quick hookup or casual fling, im looking just 1 and maybe just maybe he is here.
That little bit of escapism we all need from time to time...
So, cards on the table — I’m not single, and he’s blissfully unaware. Maybe ironic, but I’d still rather be honest about it from the start.
I know what I enjoy, what I don’t, and I’m not looking to complicate anyone’s life. Ideally, we’d click effortlessly, laugh a lot, flirt shamelessly, and enjoy each other’s company both in and out of the bedroom.
Confidence is incredibly attractive to me — someone who can take the lead naturally, make me feel looked after, and keep me on my toes a little too.
I love the social side just as much as the physical. Good conversation, chemistry, anticipation… it all matters.
Safe sex is a must, and aftercare is genuinely important to me.
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