Only the best men are ready to submit. Strong, mature, and masculine men can admit their inner softness and surrender under the power of a confident woman.

Are you a submissive man who needs structure, comfort, and discipline?
Do you want a woman who sees your weakness, your guilt, your craving to be corrected — and takes control of it?
Can you be and still be in deep contact with your woman?
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I value depth, presence, trust and intentional connection. Not interested in surface-level play or fantasy-only dynamics.
For me, D/s is an emotional practice: clarity, honesty, and willingness to grow.
You'll feel my control in your body, in your mind, in the way you start structuring your day around pleasing me. That's not discipline — that's devotion.

I'm not looking for a boy to play with — I'm looking for a man who knows the joy of serving a woman, not because he is weak, but because he is strong and aware.
I love order, attention to detail, a taste for rituals, and the ability to anticipate without words.
If the word “service” sounds like art to you — maybe we should talk.
Daily rituals, rules, and obedience tasks
Loving correction when you fall short
A safe space to be
… and owned.

I'm a Counsellor. I understand power dynamics deeply, both professionally and personally. In my private life, I'm looking for one man for a long-term D/s relationship.

Message me if you’re ready to give up control and be moulded into the good boy I know you want to be.

If this resonates, write to me. I'd like to know:
– Who you are (not just what you do)
– Where you live and what your life looks like
– What pulls you toward submission
– What you're looking for in a D/s relationship
– How you imagine serving, and what you hope to receive in return

If you're that man, don't wait. Thoughtful answers matter more than fast ones.
I choose carefully — but when I choose, I commit deeply.

BDSM Play Partner31 to 47 years ● 50km around UK London

Conversations are the juice of life, a masterful oratory, if you want to get to know me, come and talk with me.

You won’t find Me shouting from rooftops. I prefer to whisper into minds. Quietly. Deeply. Until you wonder whether that thought was yours… or Mine.

I seek one, not many. I admire those who value presence more than performance. I'm not in a rush, I like to discover people in layers, not all at once.

Someone with the courage to p e e l back the layers of self, to travel both the world and the unlit corners of the psyche. Our intimacy will be built on raw curiosity, unfiltered presence, and the exquisite discomfort of truth.

If your idea of connection is casual, fragmented, or shared with others, keep walking and don't look back.
Married men? Pass.
Hookups, flings, and borrowed time? No.
Poly, ENM, “ethical” chaos? Not My kink.

Non-Negotiables I will not entertain:
Fecal matter, vomit, and adult baby play!
Madness disguised as edge or
Men who mistake ego for Domination

Kinks That Own You
(Whether You Know It Yet or Not)
Mind games so subtle you’ll thank Me for the confusion.
The scent of sex, the lingering ruin of you.
Edging until obedience replaces pride.
Chastity, because craving is power,
Bondage, mental and physical,
Pushing you past yourself, slowly, beautifully, without mercy.

If You Feel This is You... Step Closer Boy.
If you have a discerning heart, a sharp mind, and you communicate with intent.
You respect depth, abhor shallowness, and crave meaning, I'd like to get to know more about you.
Intelligence has always had a pornographic influence on me, so if you are intelligent enough to know when you’re being dismantled, and devoted enough not to resist, message me.

Warnings & Final Words
Ensure you're a verified member.
If you’re a dominant male browsing where you shouldn’t be, keep your fantasies to yourself.
I do not entertain power struggles.

My intention, know this:
I’m not here to entertain boys.
I’m here to find the one man willing to be unmade. slowly, exquisitely.
I come with purpose, embodied and unwavering,
to enter your realm, to command it, to claim what lies within.
This is not a game.
This is a rewriting of your reality, I want to be immersed in you.

If I’m not your cup of char. perfect.
Every cup has a saucer.
But I’m the heat that cracks porcelain.
Lj x
Miss Masters.

Kinky Date30 to 55 years ● 50km around UK Hertford Heath

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