BDSM Dating in Harefield

Only the best men are ready to submit. Strong, mature, and masculine men can admit their inner softness and surrender under the power of a confident woman.

Are you a submissive man who needs structure, comfort, and discipline?
Do you want a woman who sees your weakness, your guilt, your craving to be corrected — and takes control of it?
Can you be and still be in deep contact with your woman?
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I value depth, presence, trust and intentional connection. Not interested in surface-level play or fantasy-only dynamics.
For me, D/s is an emotional practice: clarity, honesty, and willingness to grow.
You'll feel my control in your body, in your mind, in the way you start structuring your day around pleasing me. That's not discipline — that's devotion.

I'm not looking for a boy to play with — I'm looking for a man who knows the joy of serving a woman, not because he is weak, but because he is strong and aware.
I love order, attention to detail, a taste for rituals, and the ability to anticipate without words.
If the word “service” sounds like art to you — maybe we should talk.
Daily rituals, rules, and obedience tasks
Loving correction when you fall short
A safe space to be … and owned.

I'm a Counsellor. I understand power dynamics deeply, both professionally and personally. In my private life, I'm looking for one man for a long-term D/s relationship.

Message me if you’re ready to give up control and be moulded into the good boy I know you want to be.

If this resonates, write to me. I'd like to know:
– Who you are (not just what you do)
– Where you live and what your life looks like
– What pulls you toward submission
– What you're looking for in a D/s relationship
– How you imagine serving, and what you hope to receive in return

If you're that man, don't wait. Thoughtful answers matter more than fast ones.
I choose carefully — but when I choose, I commit deeply.

Who’s free around London tonight someone who smokes aswell 😉

I am new to this community and don’t know anyone else. I would love to meet people I could go to events with.

Looking for a dominant woman who wants more than just kink but also a vanilla relationship.

Would love to go into more details with anyone who is interested.

I want a sub for my life and my toy u will be reward for obey x

Sub slave to be my woman

Message me for any chat. New here and trying to meet people

Anyone in London? Down to meet

If this interests drop me a message. Very new to this app so still working it out

I'm looking to have someone come meet. I can host.
I want to please someone so much that they are not allowed to climax while giving oral and pleasure to you.

You will be able to climax soon, aftercare is given aswell.

Hi mistress
I am a sissy looking for a mistress/dom in long term relationship on face to face please reply me thanks.

Would pay and even give the best rubs and massages

Can host!

Happens to be my birthday today! Could use a birthday present

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A nice kind hearted pup that likes other pups that are protective loving and works private security 😉😉 so I got handcuffs and a uniform 😉😉

I am looking for a lady local to High Wycombe interested in a spanking relationship. Ideally I am seeking someone for more than a one-off as I am looking to make friends. A switch would be perfect but I am happy to be give or receive. Looks not important but a open minded fun and adventurous attitude is.Send me a message and let's see if we connect?
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Hey i am looking to meet an easy going, fun, happy and dominant lady who enjoys not only the bedroom but my company and going out together. It would be great to find someone that i can form a really strong bond with as well as enjoy being around.

I’m looking for genuine connections with sub female for nsa/regular fun. Good vibes only, 420 friendly🍃

I want r*pe role play x

Finished a long boring relationship. Miss being used d and humiliated. makes me wet.

What’s going on tonight

Anything funn

tell me what to do. I will happily let you tell me what to do, I will video it and send it to you.