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Subs - DO BETTER. Stand Out! Never call a Domme Misstress without permission. I'm getting so many messages calling me this and it's SO disrespectful. You are not my sub, and you are not collared by me. People aren't even bothering to ask my preference let alone EARNING the right to call me my preferred name. I'm inked, BBW, poly and looking to combine romance and BDSM. My existing poly partner will not be involved in our relationship, sex life or dynamic. I'm a switch but only intrested in service subs, slaves and cucks. A regular pleasure sub or FLR with someone who I can use for my pleasure and nothing else. They will be used, pleasure me, worship me, and have nothing in return. I will not touch you. Chastity encouraged but not essential. Zero intrested in brats, newbies and people who are unsure about this lifestyle. Just because you're a sub/slave doesn't mean you just wait for instructions. I want someone with initative, who predicts my needs before I know I have them. A submissive partner who will cook, clean, do my admin, drive me around and be my cuck. Bi men preffered to fluff us both. If you're not intrested in the cuckold lifestyle that's also fine, but be upfront about wether you are or aren't. I'm not just looking for casual sex. Connection, dates and getting to know someone is what I'm looking for. OR someone I can bootycall when I'm horny, but you must be local. I love mmf and adore being the centre of attention in any situation. I'm a sapiophile so value intelligence and good conversation. Honesty and good communication is a must, as is emotional maturity. I love romantic gestures, gifts, phone calls, voice notes, spontaneity, restaurants, adventures, holidays and hotel rooms. Sexually I love to be tied up (yes, subs can tie their Doms up), oral and rimming, toys, my wand and fisting.
Female (31) Borehamwood, Hertfordshire
bored house wife. missing my wilder days. I have a thing for badboys and black men. I'm a curvy mummy so if u dont like sexy curves then I'm not for you.
Female (40) Berkhamsted, Hertfordshire
New to the scene. Looking for someone to help guide me through the gentle dom/sub world. Interested in finding a Daddy and being his princess. Very interested in Softcore rope bondage, verbal ***, spanking, collars, slapping, age play, fantasy ***, hair pulling, pegging. Not something that I want to be full time. I have other interests (Gym, playing football, reading, cinema, theatre and most importantly: Lord of the Rings).
Female (29) St Albans, Hertfordshire
I'm looking for a healthy respectful master to explore our needs ! Need to find my Fetish soul mate ! Maybe you have your own play space or flat? I can’t accommodate. Lover of corsets n stockings n rope and gags.. love to be your little toy.... come chat ?
Female (57) Hertford, Hertfordshire
Proffessional soft/hard Domme. I love submissive men/women who understand my worth and are respectful of the Dom/Sub dynamic. Explore your kinks in a safe space with me.
Female (45) Stevenage, Hertfordshire
DMs working now and then. Apologies if I don't respond, I'll try to chat in the forums. Slightly off-topic, but I am also a mum to two ***age boys. This does mean that I can't be available at the drop of a hat, unfortunately. I appreciate those who respect that I am a mum first and a sub second. My priority will always go to my kids. (I should have added this before but better late than never!) Here to chat and see where things go. I am not holding my breath that I'll meet Mr or Mrs Perfect here. I don't think they exist, at least not for me anyway. When you get to your 40s and still haven't met the right one, I think it's highly unlikely you ever will. I’m very sorry to say that I am not Dominant or enjoy switching at all. I’m sub to the core. (I appreciate this will excite some and upset others - I’m very sorry but I just don’t get excited about being anything other than sub). Also ideally looking for people at least 41- 56 years old. I have lots of lovely messages from younger people and I’m honestly flattered but I don't feel comfortable talking to younger people. This lifestyle is something I feel comes with age and experience. I don’t really want to teach someone how to excite a submissive (sorry!). Firstly and most importantly- Trust is massively important to me - if we can’t build up some trust on here then I’m very sorry but I will not consider giving you my number and taking it further!!! I’ve had a lot of messages asking what I like or dislike - this is hugely varied and changes depending upon a lot of factors. I don’t have any kinks set in stone that do it for me. I do however tend to enjoy dressing up - be it leather, rubber, PVC, lace and everything in between. Stockings and suspenders or hold ups at the bare minimum. Completely naked is only enjoyable if there are feelings involved (I guess it’s more intimate to me for some reason?). I have a huge list of kinks that I would need more time than I have at present to write (will have to come back and revise this). Nine out of ten people who message me haven’t bothered to check my bio so they are on a completely different wavelength and unfortunately, I get so many messages that I would need to waste a lot of time explaining that to each individual. I think this app would benefit from having a series of quick replies to choose from so you don’t feel rude for not responding at all. It’s not them, it’s me and I am quite specific in what I’m looking for. PLEASE NOTE: I do not want random d pics! If I ask while we get chatting then all good, otherwise I won’t be opening your message!!!
Female (41) Graveley, Hertfordshire
ideally im looking for a long term relationship where kink is a main feature with a daddy type dom or 2 daddy doms or 3
Mildly masochist sub, looking for mildly Sadistic Dom. Looking for a mental connection before a physical one. Am on here not just to have sex but because I have sexual preferences. No smokers please
Female (46) Barnet, Hertfordshire
I live well, love selectively, and thrive in quiet intensity more than loud declarations. I'm a ride-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of girl, with a positive attitude, Worldly, Arty, Quirky, inquisitive, well spoken, & quintessentially British, with just a smattering of Indian heritage thrown in for good measure. I have a penchant for eccentricity, drawn to the deep, dark & brooding, like a moth to a flame, a real sucker for a Darcy-esque sort of man, the kind with manners and a discerning heart. I find integrity & depth incredibly sexy, & honestly speaking, go weak at the knees for a sharp brain & wit. If your strength is found in quiet service… if surrender feels like a kind of worship… if the smallest touch, the softest word, carries meaning for you, then you’ve already begun to feel me. I don’t ask for your obedience. I inspire it. And I never forget the weight, the beauty, the worth of a man who kneels not from weakness, but from longing, who offers himself fully, reverently, his body like a vow, with open hands and gaze lowered… because he knows where he belongs, with me.
Hey im happy to show you what i look like just ask x Im into most things quite literally and dont have any limits that im aware of rn Id say the main thing im into is CNC i kinda just want to be ***d and to not have a choice (unfortunately this applies to most aspects of my life tho i would never admit it) but any form of being dominated and im into it Im pretty new and inexperienced in everything but i still know what i want so pls don’t hate
Female (18) St Albans, Hertfordshire
Hiya, I’m know I’m young but I’ve been into kink for quite awhile. definitely not vanilla by any means. I love to talk about kink, past experiences and future fantasies but I will not respond to people that aren’t respectful. we’re all on here because we love sex and potentially want to meet people that feel the same, but we’re all human at the end of the day so let’s keep things friendly when first saying hello. I’m super into people that know what they want and how to communicate that. if you’re majorly into kink media, kinky literature, the history of it, ethics or psychology pleaseeee message me, I’ll talk to you until the cows come home😂 I’m a very chatty person, if you can’t tell! but I can be an amazing listener. I am not looking for exclusivity/monogamy. please don’t message me if you’re cheating on your partner, Ethical Non Monogamy only over here😘
Hey! I’m chelle & I’m an Aussie abroad, living in the uk for the past 9 years. I’m a sweet, kind & kinda shy girlie but I have a silly, playful, bratty side when you get to know me… I am definitely switchy by nature but tend to feel more at home within a submissive position… I’d love to make friends or lovers with bright, lively, open minded people!
Female (37) St Albans, Hertfordshire
If you are amused by easy women, pass on my profile. Im feral. If i can eat you, I will. Think carefully before coming forward Generally well behaved and friendly . Oh. I forgot something important 🤭 I am not here to collect likes, im hungry for real connections 💋 I know fet community have more real people when any other dating site. As we not lying about our urges. We promote them😉🥰
Female (41) Broxbourne, Hertfordshire
INFJ personality type. Bibliophile, Demi/Sapio/Noetisexual. Alpha with a strong mind and will, working towards and equally strong body and self discipline. Learning how to love and celebrate life again. Have a strong steak of Liddle in me, some smart ass, some bad ass and then some crazy wild and adventurous pieces too. Not into age play at all just have strong liddle tendencies and behaviours (tons of teddies and a tendency to love anything fluffy, fairy lights, blanket forts and pets~especially kitties!!) Give me outdoors/nature anytime, or a roaring fire and a good book to curl up into and get lost in. Never been in a dynamic although I have a strong masochistic streak since early on, have no experience with BDSM although I have been researching things as I go.
Bisexual Mischievous Always craving bruises Current mood: mischievous, somewhat bratty with a desire to get lost in subspace. Particularly craving a D/s long term dynamic, so if you're an experienced Dominant male or female please get in touch. I am very much able to tell the difference between a true Dominant and someone that claims to be, so don't waste your time or mine. Worth noting- love cock, I just don't care for it in my mouth much. My submission. Only given truly to a small number of people over the years. .... 100% Degradee 100% Masochist 100% Non-monogamist 100% Rope bunny 100% Voyeur 100% Exhibitionist 100% Experimentalist 3% Brat (February 2024) 100% Degradee 100% Masochist 100% Non-monogamist 100% Rope bunny 100% Submissive 100% Voyeur 100% Exhibitionist 94% Brat 91% Experimentalist (August 2023) My Submission I crave submission, I don't feel myself without it. I enjoy many elements of submission: Sexual submission Service submission ***d submission Bondage, Restraint, Rope, Predicaments Masochism, Impact play, Spanking Obedience, Permission Objectification, Display, *** Orgasms, Controlled/Denial/***d Rewards, Incentives I seek to be, Pushed, Tested, Challenged. Cherished, Respected, Adored, Guided, and Protected.
Female (38) Hitchin, Hertfordshire
I’m look for discrete hook ups. I haven’t posted a pic because my partner doesn’t know I’m on here. happy to verify. I’m a little kinky and open to almost anything, message me to find out more x
🇨🇦New to the UK need a tour guide 😘 I am im into I'm into bdsm, control, ownership, praise, punishment, breeding, orgasm control, CNC, roleplay, authority, Also Nipple play, dirty talk, voices, sir/daddy, bondage I'm a brat/sub/princess, ddlg, trust. Getting into ageplay Hard limits is anal, bathroom stuff, and honestly video chats without trust due to my job
Female (32) Watford, Hertfordshire
funny ditsy I have hella attitude if you can’t deal with it then that’s yur problem ? random depresso expresso like a crackhead sometimes no not a ligit one ?
Female (21) Watford, Hertfordshire

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New to the scene. Looking for someone to help guide me through the gentle dom/sub world. Interested in finding a Daddy and being his princess. Very interested in Softcore rope bondage, verbal ***, spanking, collars, slapping, age play, fantasy ***, hair pulling, pegging. Not something that I want to be full time. I have other interests (Gym, playing football, reading, cinema, theatre and most importantly: Lord of the Rings).
Female (29) St Albans, Hertfordshire
bored house wife. missing my wilder days. I have a thing for badboys and black men. I'm a curvy mummy so if u dont like sexy curves then I'm not for you.
Female (40) Berkhamsted, Hertfordshire
Subs - DO BETTER. Stand Out! Never call a Domme Misstress without permission. I'm getting so many messages calling me this and it's SO disrespectful. You are not my sub, and you are not collared by me. People aren't even bothering to ask my preference let alone EARNING the right to call me my preferred name. I'm inked, BBW, poly and looking to combine romance and BDSM. My existing poly partner will not be involved in our relationship, sex life or dynamic. I'm a switch but only intrested in service subs, slaves and cucks. A regular pleasure sub or FLR with someone who I can use for my pleasure and nothing else. They will be used, pleasure me, worship me, and have nothing in return. I will not touch you. Chastity encouraged but not essential. Zero intrested in brats, newbies and people who are unsure about this lifestyle. Just because you're a sub/slave doesn't mean you just wait for instructions. I want someone with initative, who predicts my needs before I know I have them. A submissive partner who will cook, clean, do my admin, drive me around and be my cuck. Bi men preffered to fluff us both. If you're not intrested in the cuckold lifestyle that's also fine, but be upfront about wether you are or aren't. I'm not just looking for casual sex. Connection, dates and getting to know someone is what I'm looking for. OR someone I can bootycall when I'm horny, but you must be local. I love mmf and adore being the centre of attention in any situation. I'm a sapiophile so value intelligence and good conversation. Honesty and good communication is a must, as is emotional maturity. I love romantic gestures, gifts, phone calls, voice notes, spontaneity, restaurants, adventures, holidays and hotel rooms. Sexually I love to be tied up (yes, subs can tie their Doms up), oral and rimming, toys, my wand and fisting.
Female (31) Borehamwood, Hertfordshire
I'm looking for a healthy respectful master to explore our needs ! Need to find my Fetish soul mate ! Maybe you have your own play space or flat? I can’t accommodate. Lover of corsets n stockings n rope and gags.. love to be your little toy.... come chat ?
Female (57) Hertford, Hertfordshire
🇨🇦New to the UK need a tour guide 😘 I am im into I'm into bdsm, control, ownership, praise, punishment, breeding, orgasm control, CNC, roleplay, authority, Also Nipple play, dirty talk, voices, sir/daddy, bondage I'm a brat/sub/princess, ddlg, trust. Getting into ageplay Hard limits is anal, bathroom stuff, and honestly video chats without trust due to my job
Female (32) Watford, Hertfordshire
Hey im happy to show you what i look like just ask x Im into most things quite literally and dont have any limits that im aware of rn Id say the main thing im into is CNC i kinda just want to be ***d and to not have a choice (unfortunately this applies to most aspects of my life tho i would never admit it) but any form of being dominated and im into it Im pretty new and inexperienced in everything but i still know what i want so pls don’t hate
Female (18) St Albans, Hertfordshire
Mildly masochist sub, looking for mildly Sadistic Dom. Looking for a mental connection before a physical one. Am on here not just to have sex but because I have sexual preferences. No smokers please
Female (46) Barnet, Hertfordshire
Proffessional soft/hard Domme. I love submissive men/women who understand my worth and are respectful of the Dom/Sub dynamic. Explore your kinks in a safe space with me.
Female (45) Stevenage, Hertfordshire
Hiya, I’m know I’m young but I’ve been into kink for quite awhile. definitely not vanilla by any means. I love to talk about kink, past experiences and future fantasies but I will not respond to people that aren’t respectful. we’re all on here because we love sex and potentially want to meet people that feel the same, but we’re all human at the end of the day so let’s keep things friendly when first saying hello. I’m super into people that know what they want and how to communicate that. if you’re majorly into kink media, kinky literature, the history of it, ethics or psychology pleaseeee message me, I’ll talk to you until the cows come home😂 I’m a very chatty person, if you can’t tell! but I can be an amazing listener. I am not looking for exclusivity/monogamy. please don’t message me if you’re cheating on your partner, Ethical Non Monogamy only over here😘
Hey! I’m chelle & I’m an Aussie abroad, living in the uk for the past 9 years. I’m a sweet, kind & kinda shy girlie but I have a silly, playful, bratty side when you get to know me… I am definitely switchy by nature but tend to feel more at home within a submissive position… I’d love to make friends or lovers with bright, lively, open minded people!
Female (37) St Albans, Hertfordshire
I’m look for discrete hook ups. I haven’t posted a pic because my partner doesn’t know I’m on here. happy to verify. I’m a little kinky and open to almost anything, message me to find out more x
I live well, love selectively, and thrive in quiet intensity more than loud declarations. I'm a ride-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of girl, with a positive attitude, Worldly, Arty, Quirky, inquisitive, well spoken, & quintessentially British, with just a smattering of Indian heritage thrown in for good measure. I have a penchant for eccentricity, drawn to the deep, dark & brooding, like a moth to a flame, a real sucker for a Darcy-esque sort of man, the kind with manners and a discerning heart. I find integrity & depth incredibly sexy, & honestly speaking, go weak at the knees for a sharp brain & wit. If your strength is found in quiet service… if surrender feels like a kind of worship… if the smallest touch, the softest word, carries meaning for you, then you’ve already begun to feel me. I don’t ask for your obedience. I inspire it. And I never forget the weight, the beauty, the worth of a man who kneels not from weakness, but from longing, who offers himself fully, reverently, his body like a vow, with open hands and gaze lowered… because he knows where he belongs, with me.
If you are amused by easy women, pass on my profile. Im feral. If i can eat you, I will. Think carefully before coming forward Generally well behaved and friendly . Oh. I forgot something important 🤭 I am not here to collect likes, im hungry for real connections 💋 I know fet community have more real people when any other dating site. As we not lying about our urges. We promote them😉🥰
Female (41) Broxbourne, Hertfordshire
INFJ personality type. Bibliophile, Demi/Sapio/Noetisexual. Alpha with a strong mind and will, working towards and equally strong body and self discipline. Learning how to love and celebrate life again. Have a strong steak of Liddle in me, some smart ass, some bad ass and then some crazy wild and adventurous pieces too. Not into age play at all just have strong liddle tendencies and behaviours (tons of teddies and a tendency to love anything fluffy, fairy lights, blanket forts and pets~especially kitties!!) Give me outdoors/nature anytime, or a roaring fire and a good book to curl up into and get lost in. Never been in a dynamic although I have a strong masochistic streak since early on, have no experience with BDSM although I have been researching things as I go.
funny ditsy I have hella attitude if you can’t deal with it then that’s yur problem ? random depresso expresso like a crackhead sometimes no not a ligit one ?
Female (21) Watford, Hertfordshire
Bisexual Mischievous Always craving bruises Current mood: mischievous, somewhat bratty with a desire to get lost in subspace. Particularly craving a D/s long term dynamic, so if you're an experienced Dominant male or female please get in touch. I am very much able to tell the difference between a true Dominant and someone that claims to be, so don't waste your time or mine. Worth noting- love cock, I just don't care for it in my mouth much. My submission. Only given truly to a small number of people over the years. .... 100% Degradee 100% Masochist 100% Non-monogamist 100% Rope bunny 100% Voyeur 100% Exhibitionist 100% Experimentalist 3% Brat (February 2024) 100% Degradee 100% Masochist 100% Non-monogamist 100% Rope bunny 100% Submissive 100% Voyeur 100% Exhibitionist 94% Brat 91% Experimentalist (August 2023) My Submission I crave submission, I don't feel myself without it. I enjoy many elements of submission: Sexual submission Service submission ***d submission Bondage, Restraint, Rope, Predicaments Masochism, Impact play, Spanking Obedience, Permission Objectification, Display, *** Orgasms, Controlled/Denial/***d Rewards, Incentives I seek to be, Pushed, Tested, Challenged. Cherished, Respected, Adored, Guided, and Protected.
Female (38) Hitchin, Hertfordshire
ideally im looking for a long term relationship where kink is a main feature with a daddy type dom or 2 daddy doms or 3
DMs working now and then. Apologies if I don't respond, I'll try to chat in the forums. Slightly off-topic, but I am also a mum to two ***age boys. This does mean that I can't be available at the drop of a hat, unfortunately. I appreciate those who respect that I am a mum first and a sub second. My priority will always go to my kids. (I should have added this before but better late than never!) Here to chat and see where things go. I am not holding my breath that I'll meet Mr or Mrs Perfect here. I don't think they exist, at least not for me anyway. When you get to your 40s and still haven't met the right one, I think it's highly unlikely you ever will. I’m very sorry to say that I am not Dominant or enjoy switching at all. I’m sub to the core. (I appreciate this will excite some and upset others - I’m very sorry but I just don’t get excited about being anything other than sub). Also ideally looking for people at least 41- 56 years old. I have lots of lovely messages from younger people and I’m honestly flattered but I don't feel comfortable talking to younger people. This lifestyle is something I feel comes with age and experience. I don’t really want to teach someone how to excite a submissive (sorry!). Firstly and most importantly- Trust is massively important to me - if we can’t build up some trust on here then I’m very sorry but I will not consider giving you my number and taking it further!!! I’ve had a lot of messages asking what I like or dislike - this is hugely varied and changes depending upon a lot of factors. I don’t have any kinks set in stone that do it for me. I do however tend to enjoy dressing up - be it leather, rubber, PVC, lace and everything in between. Stockings and suspenders or hold ups at the bare minimum. Completely naked is only enjoyable if there are feelings involved (I guess it’s more intimate to me for some reason?). I have a huge list of kinks that I would need more time than I have at present to write (will have to come back and revise this). Nine out of ten people who message me haven’t bothered to check my bio so they are on a completely different wavelength and unfortunately, I get so many messages that I would need to waste a lot of time explaining that to each individual. I think this app would benefit from having a series of quick replies to choose from so you don’t feel rude for not responding at all. It’s not them, it’s me and I am quite specific in what I’m looking for. PLEASE NOTE: I do not want random d pics! If I ask while we get chatting then all good, otherwise I won’t be opening your message!!!
Female (41) Graveley, Hertfordshire

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