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I am getting TONS of messages. Subs - DO BETTER. Stand Out! I'm inked, BBW, poly and looking to combine romance and BDSM. My existing poly partner will not be involved in our relationship, sex life or dynamic. I'm a switch but only intrested in service subs, slaves and cucks. A regular pleasure sub or FLR with someone who I can use for my pleasure and nothing else. They will be used, pleasure me, worship me, and have nothing in return. I will not touch you. Chastity encouraged but not essential. Zero intrested in brats, newbies and people who are unsure about this lifestyle. Just because you're a sub/slave doesn't mean you just wait for instructions. I want someone with initative, who predicts my needs before I know I have them. A submissive partner who will cook, clean, do my admin, drive me around and be my cuck. Bi men preffered to fluff us both. If you're not intrested in the cuckold lifestyle that's also fine, but be upfront about wether you are or aren't. I'm not just looking for casual sex. Connection, dates and getting to know someone is what I'm looking for. OR someone I can bootycall when I'm horny, but you must be local. I love mmf and adore being the centre of attention in any situation. I'm a sapiophile so value intelligence and good conversation. Honesty and good communication is a must, as is emotional maturity. I love romantic gestures, gifts, phone calls, voice notes, spontaneity, restaurants, adventures, holidays and hotel rooms. Sexually I love to be tied up (yes, subs can tie their Doms up), oral and rimming, toys, my wand and fisting.
Female (31) Borehamwood, Hertfordshire
bored house wife. missing my wilder days. I have a thing for badboys and black men. I'm a curvy mummy so if u dont like sexy curves then I'm not for you.
Female (40) Berkhamsted, Hertfordshire
New to the scene. Looking for someone to help guide me through the gentle dom/sub world. Interested in finding a Daddy and being his princess. Very interested in Softcore rope bondage, verbal ***, spanking, collars, slapping, age play, fantasy ***, hair pulling, pegging. Not something that I want to be full time. I have other interests (Gym, playing football, reading, cinema, theatre and most importantly: Lord of the Rings).
Female (29) St Albans, Hertfordshire
Looking for a gorgeous adventure lady to join me in taking care of my very large man! We’re really looking for somebody to come and join us in a FFM session
Female (47) St Albans, Hertfordshire
I'm a mother to 1 and i work, so not always avalible. I like to explore my bdsm side, find my limits and try something new. I consider myself bisexual, I have been intimate with a women a couple of times in a 3 way, I do find them attractive but never had a relationship with a women only men, but I don't know if that would change somepoint in the future if I meet the right lady, otherwise happy being in relationships with men and women to join and play. I want to explore some sexual fantasy's but not yet comfortable about talking about them without knowing if a sexual fantasy of yours as well.
Female (31) St Albans, Hertfordshire
I'm looking for a healthy respectful master to explore our needs ! Need to find my Fetish soul mate ! Maybe you have your own play space or flat? I can’t accommodate. Lover of corsets n stockings n rope and gags.. love to be your little toy.... come chat ?
Female (57) Hertford, Hertfordshire
Hey im happy to show you what i look like just ask x Im into most things quite literally and dont have any limits that im aware of rn Id say the main thing im into is CNC i kinda just want to be ***d and to not have a choice (unfortunately this applies to most aspects of my life tho i would never admit it) but any form of being dominated and im into it Im pretty new and inexperienced in everything but i still know what i want so pls don’t hate
Female (18) St Albans, Hertfordshire
If you are amused by easy women, pass on my profile. Im feral. If i can eat you, I will. Think carefully before coming forward Generally well behaved and friendly
Female (41) Broxbourne, Hertfordshire
I live well, love selectively, and thrive in quiet intensity more than loud declarations. I'm a ride-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of girl, with a positive attitude, Worldly, Arty, Quirky, inquisitive, well spoken, & quintessentially British, with just a smattering of Indian heritage thrown in for good measure. I have a penchant for eccentricity, drawn to the deep, dark & brooding, like a moth to a flame, a real sucker for a Darcy-esque sort of man, the kind with manners and a discerning heart. I find integrity & depth incredibly sexy, & honestly speaking, go weak at the knees for a sharp brain & wit. If your strength is found in quiet service… if surrender feels like a kind of worship… if the smallest touch, the softest word, carries meaning for you, then you’ve already begun to feel me. I don’t ask for your obedience. I inspire it. And I never forget the weight, the beauty, the worth of a man who kneels not from weakness, but from longing, who offers himself fully, reverently, his body like a vow, with open hands and gaze lowered… because he knows where he belongs, with me.
DMs worked once in over a year. I think I need to find a new app. 😕 Single experienced sub seeks her new Master. Slightly off-topic, but I am also a mum to two ***age boys. This does mean that I can't be available at the drop of a hat, unfortunately. I appreciate those who respect that I am a mum first and a sub second. My priority will always go to my kids. (I should have added this before but better late than never!) My last thing was five years in a NSA FWB situation which I ended about 2 years ago. I had grown to realise that I need more than that. I am (unfortunately) someone who struggles not to form feelings with long term sexual partners. So now I’m looking for a Master who also wants our play to be hopefully more than just that eventually. I say eventually because it will always take time to find someone with whom you click on all levels. But if we’re both happy to go into it with the same intent and see how things progress then we both know where we’re headed and there are no surprises. I know it’s a bit of a long shot to find someone like that on here, but it’s even harder to find someone with BDSM(+) kinks on other apps. I’m very sorry to say that I am not Dominant or enjoy switching at all. I’m sub to the core. (I appreciate this will excite some and upset others - I’m very sorry but I just don’t get excited about being anything other than sub). Also ideally looking for someone at least 41- 56 years old. I have lots of lovely messages from younger people and I’m honestly flattered but I need someone who can handle me. This I feel comes with age and experience. I don’t really want to teach someone how to excite a submissive (sorry!). Firstly and most importantly- Trust is massively important to me - if we can’t build up some trust on here then I’m very sorry but I will not consider giving you my number and taking it further!!! I’ve had a lot of messages asking what I like or dislike - this is hugely varied and changes depending upon a lot of factors. I don’t have any kinks set in stone that do it for me. I do however tend to enjoy dressing up - be it leather, rubber, PVC, lace and everything in between. Stockings and suspenders or hold ups at the bare minimum. Completely naked is only enjoyable if there are feelings involved (I guess it’s more intimate to me for some reason?). I have a huge list of kinks that I would need more time than I have at present to write (will have to come back and revise this). Nine out of ten people who message me haven’t bothered to check my bio so they are on a completely different wavelength and unfortunately, I get so many messages that I would need to waste a lot of time explaining that to each individual. I think this app would benefit from having a series of quick replies to choose from so you don’t feel rude for not responding at all. It’s not them, it’s me and I am quite specific in what I’m looking for. PLEASE NOTE: I do not want random d pics! If I ask while we get chatting then all good, otherwise I won’t be opening your message!!!
Female (41) Graveley, Hertfordshire
Bisexual Mischievous Always craving bruises Current mood: mischievous, somewhat bratty with a desire to get lost in subspace. Particularly craving a D/s long term dynamic, so if you're an experienced Dominant male or female please get in touch. I am very much able to tell the difference between a true Dominant and someone that claims to be, so don't waste your time or mine. Worth noting- love cock, I just don't care for it in my mouth much. My submission. Only given truly to a small number of people over the years. .... 100% Degradee 100% Masochist 100% Non-monogamist 100% Rope *** 100% Voyeur 100% Exhibitionist 100% Experimentalist 3% Brat (February 2024) 100% Degradee 100% Masochist 100% Non-monogamist 100% Rope *** 100% Submissive 100% Voyeur 100% Exhibitionist 94% Brat 91% Experimentalist (August 2023) My Submission I crave submission, I don't feel myself without it. I enjoy many elements of submission: Sexual submission Service submission ***d submission Bondage, Restraint, Rope, Predicaments Masochism, Impact play, Spanking Obedience, Permission Objectification, Display, *** Orgasms, Controlled/Denial/***d Rewards, Incentives I seek to be, Pushed, Tested, Challenged. Cherished, Respected, Adored, Guided, and Protected.
Female (38) Hitchin, Hertfordshire
Hey! I’m chelle & I’m an Aussie abroad, living in the uk for the past 9 years. I’m a sweet, kind & kinda shy girlie but I have a silly, playful, bratty side when you get to know me… I am definitely switchy by nature but tend to feel more at home within a submissive position… I’d love to make friends or lovers with bright, lively, open minded people!
Female (37) St Albans, Hertfordshire
INFJ personality type. Bibliophile, Demi/Sapio/Noetisexual. Alpha with a strong mind and will, working towards and equally strong body and self discipline. Learning how to love and celebrate life again. Have a strong steak of Liddle in me, some smart ass, some bad ass and then some crazy wild and adventurous pieces too. Not into age play at all just have strong liddle tendencies and behaviours (tons of teddies and a tendency to love anything fluffy, fairy lights, blanket forts and pets~especially kitties!!) Give me outdoors/nature anytime, or a roaring fire and a good book to curl up into and get lost in. Never been in a dynamic although I have a strong masochistic streak since early on, have no experience with BDSM although I have been researching things as I go.
Mildly masochist sub, looking for mildly Sadistic Dom. Looking for a mental connection before a physical one. Am on here not just to have sex but because I have sexual preferences. No smokers please
Female (46) Barnet, Hertfordshire
Arty, weird, nature-embracing, fun, fat, loving, spiritual, neurodivergent sort of a person. One foot always in the forest. The other on your neck. Happy to connect for low-pressure, casual and respectful relationships, and distractions from late stage capitalism. Tell me your dreams, what inside of you is seeking expression? Men - if you feel to contact me - do so with respect, and with reverence for my power. I have zero interest in submitting in any way to you. You have been warned.
Female (33) Watford, Hertfordshire
I'm completely new to bdsm and I'm looking for someone to help me try things out :3
no losers thanks. sick of the pathetic messages. I am dominating and ambitious looking for a slave pig
Female (28) Borehamwood, Hertfordshire
Hiya, I’m know I’m young but I’ve been into kink for quite awhile. definitely not vanilla by any means. I love to talk about kink, past experiences and future fantasies but I will not respond to people that aren’t respectful. we’re all on here because we love sex and potentially want to meet people that feel the same, but we’re all human at the end of the day so let’s keep things friendly when first saying hello. I’m super into people that know what they want and how to communicate that. if you’re majorly into kink media, kinky literature, the history of it, ethics or psychology pleaseeee message me, I’ll talk to you until the cows come home😂 I’m a very chatty person, if you can’t tell! but I can be an amazing listener. I am not looking for exclusivity/monogamy. please don’t message me if you’re cheating on your partner, Ethical Non Monogamy only over here😘
I'm not the best at these things, I don't believe a person can be summed up in a few lines. I enjoy talking to people and getting to know someone through chat. I'm currently only here for friendship connections and continuing to learn about the fun world of kink.
Female (37) Puttenham, Hertfordshire
I’m a naturally submissive soul with a spark of mischief and a love for playful power exchange. I lean into dynamics built on trust, safety, and chemistry—and yes, I can be a bit of a brat sometimes, but only for the right person who knows how to handle it. I crave a connection where I can fully surrender, mentally and physically, and feel seen, guided, and occasionally put in my place (with affection, of course). I respond best to confident energy with a calm, firm edge—and a good sense of humor never hurts. Kink for me is about mutual exploration, clear boundaries, and delicious tension. I’m not looking for perfection—just someone who gets the dance between obedience and challenge, softness and discipline, laughter and intensity.
Female (42) Stevenage, Hertfordshire
Bi Switch Brat looking to explore kinks I’m a Brat who wants to try a lot of new things including impact play, bondage. Praise/worship with a little *** and to try out free use. Would ideally look for a Daddy/Mummy who is a brat tamer who would be willing to let me Dominate them every now and then.
I am submissive . looking for attraction , dates , chemistry, trust, and clear communication. keeping it casual and fun . open to friendships also I haven’t committed to this app yet so can’t see who likes me if u want to chat send me a message
Female (41) Aspenden, Hertfordshire
61🔄ONLY TEXT IF NEAR AND WILL MEET I AM NOT A WOMAN i don’t have a name you give me one. I really just want to give someone evil,strict/cruel total control over me to sissify and use me however they please. i’m into getting spat on humiliated, ***ed on MAYBR?! etc just ur normal degrading things i like to be hit aswell and treated like a worthless slave. i want to be made to cry and ***d to do unthinkable things as i know i was born to be a sissy slave. i wanna be physically ***d and ***d to the point i cry ill do whatever you want except ***,rim and vomit. daddies message me to spoil me with clothes makeup and more
Female (18) Aldenham, Hertfordshire
I’m look for discrete hook ups. I haven’t posted a pic because my partner doesn’t know I’m on here. happy to verify. I’m a little kinky and open to almost anything, message me to find out more x

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Looking for a gorgeous adventure lady to join me in taking care of my very large man! We’re really looking for somebody to come and join us in a FFM session
Female (47) St Albans, Hertfordshire
I'm a mother to 1 and i work, so not always avalible. I like to explore my bdsm side, find my limits and try something new. I consider myself bisexual, I have been intimate with a women a couple of times in a 3 way, I do find them attractive but never had a relationship with a women only men, but I don't know if that would change somepoint in the future if I meet the right lady, otherwise happy being in relationships with men and women to join and play. I want to explore some sexual fantasy's but not yet comfortable about talking about them without knowing if a sexual fantasy of yours as well.
Female (31) St Albans, Hertfordshire
New to the scene. Looking for someone to help guide me through the gentle dom/sub world. Interested in finding a Daddy and being his princess. Very interested in Softcore rope bondage, verbal ***, spanking, collars, slapping, age play, fantasy ***, hair pulling, pegging. Not something that I want to be full time. I have other interests (Gym, playing football, reading, cinema, theatre and most importantly: Lord of the Rings).
Female (29) St Albans, Hertfordshire
bored house wife. missing my wilder days. I have a thing for badboys and black men. I'm a curvy mummy so if u dont like sexy curves then I'm not for you.
Female (40) Berkhamsted, Hertfordshire
I am getting TONS of messages. Subs - DO BETTER. Stand Out! I'm inked, BBW, poly and looking to combine romance and BDSM. My existing poly partner will not be involved in our relationship, sex life or dynamic. I'm a switch but only intrested in service subs, slaves and cucks. A regular pleasure sub or FLR with someone who I can use for my pleasure and nothing else. They will be used, pleasure me, worship me, and have nothing in return. I will not touch you. Chastity encouraged but not essential. Zero intrested in brats, newbies and people who are unsure about this lifestyle. Just because you're a sub/slave doesn't mean you just wait for instructions. I want someone with initative, who predicts my needs before I know I have them. A submissive partner who will cook, clean, do my admin, drive me around and be my cuck. Bi men preffered to fluff us both. If you're not intrested in the cuckold lifestyle that's also fine, but be upfront about wether you are or aren't. I'm not just looking for casual sex. Connection, dates and getting to know someone is what I'm looking for. OR someone I can bootycall when I'm horny, but you must be local. I love mmf and adore being the centre of attention in any situation. I'm a sapiophile so value intelligence and good conversation. Honesty and good communication is a must, as is emotional maturity. I love romantic gestures, gifts, phone calls, voice notes, spontaneity, restaurants, adventures, holidays and hotel rooms. Sexually I love to be tied up (yes, subs can tie their Doms up), oral and rimming, toys, my wand and fisting.
Female (31) Borehamwood, Hertfordshire
I'm looking for a healthy respectful master to explore our needs ! Need to find my Fetish soul mate ! Maybe you have your own play space or flat? I can’t accommodate. Lover of corsets n stockings n rope and gags.. love to be your little toy.... come chat ?
Female (57) Hertford, Hertfordshire
61🔄ONLY TEXT IF NEAR AND WILL MEET I AM NOT A WOMAN i don’t have a name you give me one. I really just want to give someone evil,strict/cruel total control over me to sissify and use me however they please. i’m into getting spat on humiliated, ***ed on MAYBR?! etc just ur normal degrading things i like to be hit aswell and treated like a worthless slave. i want to be made to cry and ***d to do unthinkable things as i know i was born to be a sissy slave. i wanna be physically ***d and ***d to the point i cry ill do whatever you want except ***,rim and vomit. daddies message me to spoil me with clothes makeup and more
Female (18) Aldenham, Hertfordshire
Hey im happy to show you what i look like just ask x Im into most things quite literally and dont have any limits that im aware of rn Id say the main thing im into is CNC i kinda just want to be ***d and to not have a choice (unfortunately this applies to most aspects of my life tho i would never admit it) but any form of being dominated and im into it Im pretty new and inexperienced in everything but i still know what i want so pls don’t hate
Female (18) St Albans, Hertfordshire
I'm completely new to bdsm and I'm looking for someone to help me try things out :3
Mildly masochist sub, looking for mildly Sadistic Dom. Looking for a mental connection before a physical one. Am on here not just to have sex but because I have sexual preferences. No smokers please
Female (46) Barnet, Hertfordshire
Hi, I'm a sub, nearly married to a vanilla man. I have his approval to explore an online only D/s, and I'm excited to see what might happen here 😘
Female (28) St Albans, Hertfordshire
Arty, weird, nature-embracing, fun, fat, loving, spiritual, neurodivergent sort of a person. One foot always in the forest. The other on your neck. Happy to connect for low-pressure, casual and respectful relationships, and distractions from late stage capitalism. Tell me your dreams, what inside of you is seeking expression? Men - if you feel to contact me - do so with respect, and with reverence for my power. I have zero interest in submitting in any way to you. You have been warned.
Female (33) Watford, Hertfordshire
Hiya, I’m know I’m young but I’ve been into kink for quite awhile. definitely not vanilla by any means. I love to talk about kink, past experiences and future fantasies but I will not respond to people that aren’t respectful. we’re all on here because we love sex and potentially want to meet people that feel the same, but we’re all human at the end of the day so let’s keep things friendly when first saying hello. I’m super into people that know what they want and how to communicate that. if you’re majorly into kink media, kinky literature, the history of it, ethics or psychology pleaseeee message me, I’ll talk to you until the cows come home😂 I’m a very chatty person, if you can’t tell! but I can be an amazing listener. I am not looking for exclusivity/monogamy. please don’t message me if you’re cheating on your partner, Ethical Non Monogamy only over here😘
Hey! I’m chelle & I’m an Aussie abroad, living in the uk for the past 9 years. I’m a sweet, kind & kinda shy girlie but I have a silly, playful, bratty side when you get to know me… I am definitely switchy by nature but tend to feel more at home within a submissive position… I’d love to make friends or lovers with bright, lively, open minded people!
Female (37) St Albans, Hertfordshire
I’m a naturally submissive soul with a spark of mischief and a love for playful power exchange. I lean into dynamics built on trust, safety, and chemistry—and yes, I can be a bit of a brat sometimes, but only for the right person who knows how to handle it. I crave a connection where I can fully surrender, mentally and physically, and feel seen, guided, and occasionally put in my place (with affection, of course). I respond best to confident energy with a calm, firm edge—and a good sense of humor never hurts. Kink for me is about mutual exploration, clear boundaries, and delicious tension. I’m not looking for perfection—just someone who gets the dance between obedience and challenge, softness and discipline, laughter and intensity.
Female (42) Stevenage, Hertfordshire
I’m look for discrete hook ups. I haven’t posted a pic because my partner doesn’t know I’m on here. happy to verify. I’m a little kinky and open to almost anything, message me to find out more x
It’s been a while since I’ve actively tried meeting anyone on here but I’m back and looking to be persuaded. Happy to be a submissive to someone who can show they’ll take care of me and give me treats/surprises. open to couples
Female (28) St Albans, Hertfordshire
I live well, love selectively, and thrive in quiet intensity more than loud declarations. I'm a ride-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of girl, with a positive attitude, Worldly, Arty, Quirky, inquisitive, well spoken, & quintessentially British, with just a smattering of Indian heritage thrown in for good measure. I have a penchant for eccentricity, drawn to the deep, dark & brooding, like a moth to a flame, a real sucker for a Darcy-esque sort of man, the kind with manners and a discerning heart. I find integrity & depth incredibly sexy, & honestly speaking, go weak at the knees for a sharp brain & wit. If your strength is found in quiet service… if surrender feels like a kind of worship… if the smallest touch, the softest word, carries meaning for you, then you’ve already begun to feel me. I don’t ask for your obedience. I inspire it. And I never forget the weight, the beauty, the worth of a man who kneels not from weakness, but from longing, who offers himself fully, reverently, his body like a vow, with open hands and gaze lowered… because he knows where he belongs, with me.
I am submissive . looking for attraction , dates , chemistry, trust, and clear communication. keeping it casual and fun . open to friendships also I haven’t committed to this app yet so can’t see who likes me if u want to chat send me a message
Female (41) Aspenden, Hertfordshire
If you are amused by easy women, pass on my profile. Im feral. If i can eat you, I will. Think carefully before coming forward Generally well behaved and friendly
Female (41) Broxbourne, Hertfordshire
Bi Switch Brat looking to explore kinks I’m a Brat who wants to try a lot of new things including impact play, bondage. Praise/worship with a little *** and to try out free use. Would ideally look for a Daddy/Mummy who is a brat tamer who would be willing to let me Dominate them every now and then.
INFJ personality type. Bibliophile, Demi/Sapio/Noetisexual. Alpha with a strong mind and will, working towards and equally strong body and self discipline. Learning how to love and celebrate life again. Have a strong steak of Liddle in me, some smart ass, some bad ass and then some crazy wild and adventurous pieces too. Not into age play at all just have strong liddle tendencies and behaviours (tons of teddies and a tendency to love anything fluffy, fairy lights, blanket forts and pets~especially kitties!!) Give me outdoors/nature anytime, or a roaring fire and a good book to curl up into and get lost in. Never been in a dynamic although I have a strong masochistic streak since early on, have no experience with BDSM although I have been researching things as I go.
funny ditsy I have hella attitude if you can’t deal with it then that’s yur problem ? random depresso expresso like a crackhead sometimes no not a ligit one ?
Female (21) Watford, Hertfordshire
no losers thanks. sick of the pathetic messages. I am dominating and ambitious looking for a slave pig
Female (28) Borehamwood, Hertfordshire

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