BDSM Dating in Sawbridgeworth

Heya, I am a tgirl and looking for a Dom to grow a dynamic with :3

I am bi but mainly in to woman but I like more femme guys too. I wanna do stuff a bit slower at first and really get to know the person and brew a friendship with it

Bonus points if you play Valorant or The Finals OR live near by! I'm not too fussed by these things but would be cool :3