BDSM Dating in Stanmore

I am currently in an ENM/POLY relationship I’m looking for a beta sub let’s be clear I’m looking for myself for someone to add some extra fun I’M A SADIST be under no illusion I enjoy many varieties of kink including and , bondage mental bondage to name but a few if you’re interested and contact me if you’re looking for something short-term I’m not the person for you and I will NOT LEAVE MY LIFE PARTNER FOR YOU so let’s make that clear if you’re happy to be beta to my ALPHA who is my life partner then contact me

Looking for someone cool who’s also ideally into feet aha

Im a submissive guy looking for a dominatrix to make me their bitch and to become their slave. I love the idea of being a slave and worshipping a mistress and i am into feet , *** and chastity. Please contact meif your looking for a sub or slave especially if you want a foot slave.

Looking to have a fun time with a dom who can worship my body and make me cum.
London based. Either at yours or you get a hotel. Let's meet for a drink first to see if there's sexual chemistry

Online or in person up for anything, just for some evening fun or during the day if your up for meet ups, NSA want someone to play with I can dom or sub like a bit of both

Hey

23F looking for another female to absolutely submit to.

Very depraved and desperate, please let me worship your pussy. Based in North London. Drop me a message

Looking for a naturally submissive woman to explore and experience the D/s energy dynamic with

Hello, we're a master, a mistress, a non-binary couple and two slaves here, and willing to get rid of the last vanilla house sharers so this can become a fully sex & kink positive house.
The house is a stunning 1900s detached on three floors of amazing luxury, featuring back patio, balconies, private gym and private dungeon. Virgin broadband 1000Gb in case you're camming. 2 min walk from Camden tube and overground, parking options.
The two rooms that are still under vanilla domain are beautiful, furnished (can be given empty) and go from 900 to 1200pcm incl. Bills, 1 month deposit and no fees. Just the people that's living there now won't be around for long (see screenshot picture 😉) and we're already taking pre-bookings.
The plan is to establish free nudity, free sex and free kink in any of the communal spaces of the house, to share for first every housemates' boundaries between each other and so achieve a totally non-judgeamental, body positive, queer and kink positive environment.
If interested in joining us, get back to me with info about yourself so we can get to know each other a little bit better.

I'm inexperienced but very curious and eager, and would like to explore and experience submission and slavery.

Very much would like to become a slave to a like minded Mistress, who would enjoy introducing me to her kinks and fetishes, and would keep me in long term total slavery for her enjoyment and pleasure to serve her and make her happy in every way she like.

Ideally I'm looking for a longer term slavery arrangement and would be very open to a full female led tpe M/s relationship if you'd like that too...

Male sub looking to serve a goddess, particularly in the realm of skat…happy to discuss further for anyone interested

any straight construction guys, blue collars, with smelly feet in london? Compensation offered to have your feet on my face.

Looking to use or be used and even better if it's both around north London. Up for most things and curious to try a bit of everything.

Is there a group chat on here

I'm mature guy
In reality if I'm going to play its with wicked pr - Doms wanting to punish Slaves
Been in Fet for only a year or so
Really like being caned and would love to feel a single tail whip take my A*** off
After NSA and in a Vanilla relationship so need to discuss things like Marks

Only the best men are ready to submit. Strong, mature, and masculine men can admit their inner softness and surrender under the power of a confident woman.

Are you a submissive man who needs structure, comfort, and discipline?
Do you want a woman who sees your weakness, your guilt, your craving to be corrected — and takes control of it?
Can you be and still be in deep contact with your woman?
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I value depth, presence, trust and intentional connection. Not interested in surface-level play or fantasy-only dynamics.
For me, D/s is an emotional practice: clarity, honesty, and willingness to grow.
You'll feel my control in your body, in your mind, in the way you start structuring your day around pleasing me. That's not discipline — that's devotion.

I'm not looking for a boy to play with — I'm looking for a man who knows the joy of serving a woman, not because he is weak, but because he is strong and aware.
I love order, attention to detail, a taste for rituals, and the ability to anticipate without words.
If the word “service” sounds like art to you — maybe we should talk.
Daily rituals, rules, and obedience tasks
Loving correction when you fall short
A safe space to be … and owned.

I'm a Counsellor. I understand power dynamics deeply, both professionally and personally. In my private life, I'm looking for one man for a long-term D/s relationship.

Message me if you’re ready to give up control and be moulded into the good boy I know you want to be.

If this resonates, write to me. I'd like to know:
– Who you are (not just what you do)
– Where you live and what your life looks like
– What pulls you toward submission
– What you're looking for in a D/s relationship
– How you imagine serving, and what you hope to receive in return

If you're that man, don't wait. Thoughtful answers matter more than fast ones.
I choose carefully — but when I choose, I commit deeply.

Love to be edged and teased for hours..
Who enjoys being in control..

So who’s into watching and being watched..

Want someone to take my virginity? i am 19

Hey I’m looking for a M for a MFF at 3 or 4 pm this afternoon in north London. Please don’t apply if you haven’t had any recent tests last 2 weeks. Thanks

I'm new to the scene but there's alot of things I'm willing to do especially womens pleasure (be local tho within 5 miles

Looking for someone who is compatible with me and my profile who is also into belly inflation!

I’m looking for genuine connections with sub female for nsa/regular fun. Good vibes only, 420 friendly🍃

I want r*pe role play x