Three times recently I 've been mailed by a Domme, yet after a few weeks of average chat, sometimes sexual in nature, she asks me for *** to' register me' with the BDSM Council (which doesn't exist by the way), & this, alegedly, costs £50. Then I get asked for another £100 to £200, for toys to use in our 'session' which I've not agreed to do, yet. Is this a normal process ?? As I believe it's not